FabSwingers.com forum: One thing you'd tell ur younger self

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Id tell myself that growing up wasn't all I thought it would be and to enjoy my life while I had no responsibilities. To travel and see the world. In general just be young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop being a dick and listen to me when I give you advice...,

The conversation to my younger self would probably start with that advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't drink the beer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your gut and don't be afraid to take a chance.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Stop being so fucking stubborn and accept the help when it's offered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stop being so fucking stubborn and accept the help when it's offered."

This.....i still don't now and my daughter is going the same way..m

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

"Id tell myself that growing up wasn't all I thought it would be and to enjoy my life while I had no responsibilities. To travel and see the world. In general just be young

I actually told myself this when I was younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get married!! I want to go back and slap my 24 year old self!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop worrying. Some things you can't control but you will survive.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Don't be so fucking nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't cut more than an inch off your hair.

Ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 'stay the fuck away from paintball'. Been injured at every session.

Broken collarbone, broken fingers, cracked ribs, cracked skull, ripped intercostals, sprained ankle, dislocated kneecap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't cut more than an inch off your hair.

Ever. "

The wait for it to grow back is a bitch eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be in hurry to grow up, enjoy, have fun and don't be afraid to try new things - however you don't have to try everything all at once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't buy betamax!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah fuckit,be grand is not a mantra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't buy betamax!

Or HD DVD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing what I know now. I'd tell my younger self not to get tied down at such an early age, have more sex and have it with cougars.

There's more but I don't want to bore yus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't buy betamax!

Or HD DVD

What was this thing called 8 track? Apparently that never caught on.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Run!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In 20 years he will be desperate to fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In 20 years he will be desperate to fuck you.

20 years more like 20 secs with boots like that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't accept crap sex, and definitely don't get married x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't accept crap sex, and definitely don't get married x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't accept crap sex, and definitely don't get married x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't accept crap sex, and definitely don't get married x

^ thid

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By *ephirothMan
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh

Do not give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let people walk all over you.

You're beautiful and you will never look better than this!

Relax

There's never enough money.

Spend more time getting to know your family - life is short.

It's not all about you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hold on to the shares for five more years.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

Don't waste time grieving over people who didn't want to be with you. Put it down to experience and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't fix everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accept and love who you are and don't let anyone treat you badly

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Duck !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lottery numbers are 12,28,6,33,40,9 and its for 33million by a ticket on that day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say don't ever stop talking to the people you care about, talk honestly every day because one day they won't be there

Peach x

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Wear sunscreen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say don't ever stop talking to the people you care about, talk honestly every day because one day they won't be there

Peach x"

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

In life you will realize that there is a purpose for everyone you meet.

Some will test you and some will use you, some will teach you and some will amuse you.

But most important are the ones who bring out the best in you.

Those are the ones worth keeping around

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

"Don't get married!! I want to go back and slap my 24 year old self!!"

Same, and my 34 year old self

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

I would slap myself stupid. I would tell myself that adulting is over rated lol. Seriously though the only thing I would say is never smoke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy Bitcoins!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont be a prick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'd been able to show my younger self, proof of wife's repeated cheating, I could've walked away from the altar and saved myself years of grief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't bother joining fab. It'll just depress you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not a thing. I wouldn't have listened.

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By *ve 66Woman
over a year ago

Blackwood

Don't give up friends when you marry a jealous man you'll need them when u divorce and learn to drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell myself to be patient, the internet is only a few years away.

And save half, spend half. Austerity will be an absolute nightmare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't tie yourself down to early. Live in the moment live life like an open book and take each page as it comes. Most importantly don't rush and always have fun

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Not a thing. I wouldn't have listened."

Probably true for me.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I'd say to myself...carry on as you are,your in for one hell of a life

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

The only thing I'd tell myself is not to believe a word my old teacher told me daily. Your really not thick as time will tell you have a disability they can not yet understand. That teacher that just won't leave you alone you'll end up earning triple his wage. oh yes well done catching that board rubber and even better throwing it back at the cunt. Yes you'll be in a shit load of truble but that egg on his head makes it so worth it

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By *leedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Have all the sex that you didn't have because you thought you were being a nice guy....

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Don't light that cigarette.

And go to America and become best mates with a kid called Bill Gates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not as stupid ane ugly as you believe you where , your quite a splendid chap and just enjoy life

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

That we should have started swinging at a much younger age

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Study harder at school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't be so fucking nice!"

This

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London&Dublin

Don't wait until you're 42 to start crossdressing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexuality isn't dirty or to be hidden, it's to be explored, enjoyed and shared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter if Charlene in Neighbours has one, you will live to regret that perm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join fabswingers earlier,when you were younger and better looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much all of the above.....except the perm!

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By *alibra57Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I shouldn't have married that bitch in the 80s.

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By *alibra57Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I shouldn't have married that bitch in the 80s.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Don't marry her ... Join fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't matter if Charlene in Neighbours has one, you will live to regret that perm. "

He he he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

put myself first sometimes

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Don't leave the Navy - that one decision has had a profound effect on my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't be so fucking nice!

This"

Ouch. I'd probably tell myself to go and apologies to the poor bastards i wasn't nice to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't matter if Charlene in Neighbours has one, you will live to regret that perm.

He he he "

That made me laugh.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I shouldn't have married that bitch in the 80s."

Did you marry two of them?

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Don't buy that air pistol.

Don't waste money on so called friends

Get a motorbike sooner

Keep at the time trailing, it kept you fit.

You have perfect legs for hold ups and heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id tell myself that growing up wasn't all I thought it would be and to enjoy my life while I had no responsibilities. To travel and see the world. In general just be young

I'd tell myself to avoid men like the plague even though I love cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invest in Google

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

"Don't get married!! I want to go back and slap my 24 year old self!!"

This. I was 16. It was awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Join fabswingers earlier,when you were younger and better looking

Haha this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy property. This would have been the late 80's. I would have retired by now....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, surprisingly you do at least make it to 50!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell my self to get a pen and write down the winning numbers of every lottery draw. So I could win whenever I wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn to save your money earlier. Oh and the lottery numbers on *insert day* will be *insert numbers*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax a little. Don't be as hard on myself.

Have fun.

Join Fabs as soon as it gets created.

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By *ookingforlustMan
over a year ago

northants

Nothing. The shit I’ve been through has made me the person I am today. And I quite like the person I’ve become

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Take cover when someone shouts "take cover"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Don't get married!! I want to go back and slap my 24 year old self!!

This. I was 16. It was awful

You got married at 16?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go anywhere near the West Country in October 2002.

Well, it'd save being hit by a car. I think I'm justified.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing. The shit I’ve been through has made me the person I am today. And I quite like the person I’ve become

It's great to like yourself as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To enjoy life, travel, have fun, and get own place early, be it rent with mates, have laugh and party hard, learn to drive, patience get better of you when older

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

It wouldn't matter as I wouldn't listed to any adult

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It wouldn't matter as I wouldn't listed to any adult

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Mum is the best friend you'll ever have.

Stop being an arse

Get a vasectomy at 18.

Put that cigarette out

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow

Buy that antique lamp in the market in 2007.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

your not the only guy that like to dress up and wants to be a girl..and you make a good girl

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By *he WickedsCouple
over a year ago

Swingtown (Swinton)

You really are not fat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To start swinging much earlier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe in yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That when your ex likes the attention of other men, enjoy, because you'll eventually get turned on by it, not be a jealous wreck.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

A list of winning lotto numbers or a web site name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About the banks during the financial crisis in 08. Maybe I'd get a little bonus unlike them fat fucking cats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop hating yourself and your body, someone will love it one day and erase all doubt in your mind. Oh and keep studying, it will be worth it!

A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get married!! I want to go back and slap my 24 year old self!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone pulls out in front of you don't swerve to avoid them and don't clip the post on the side of the road. Make sure you make contact with their car otherwise you'll be claiming off your own insurance.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Not a thing. I wouldn't have listened."

THIS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't marry him he's too easy going .words my dad said on my wedding day .wish I took his word as he was correct .well done dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're going to be a complete idiot, extremely hard on yourself and then laugh about it.

Just start laughing now it will be more fun.

Also, don't shoot the firework out your arse you'll burn your ball sack and miss out on banging your dream girl.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

You are right and will look back at how wonderfully you did everything and continue to know how supreme you are.

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