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By *antheman90 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I don't seem to be getting and luck at all on here, any suggestions on how to get better luck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Change your profile write up maybe?

That huge rant about no one using your blah blah blah means nothing at all.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Write a decent profile!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Your opening post here is longer than your profile if you exclude the worthless legal stuff OP - that might tell you something.

Green arrow doesn't paint a great picture either

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Change ur profile n bio!

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By *antheman90 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Write a decent profile!"

I'm not sure what to write to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having not seen much of your posting, bar what the green arrow has shown. Can I offer a couple of nuggets?

Your profile is terrible, the legal warning guff is meaningless and would you really take someone to court if they stole one of your photo's.

The other thing I've noticed is you seem to latch onto the first woman who replies to you, thinking she's showing you interest. The forum doesn't generally work like that.

Be yourself, but not look desperate. It takes patience and a well thought out profile.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Write a decent profile!

I'm not sure what to write to be honest"

Take a look at other single guy profiles for ideas - you need to sell yourself, tell the reader what you are looking for and can offer get some of your personality across.

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By *antheman90 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Thanks for all the help guys much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the help guys much appreciated "

You're welcome, the main thing is that you now take the advice and make changes. Many guys before you have done the whole 'what can I do' or 'help me' type threads and then ignore all the advice given.

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By *antheman90 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Thanks for all the help guys much appreciated

You're welcome, the main thing is that you now take the advice and make changes. Many guys before you have done the whole 'what can I do' or 'help me' type threads and then ignore all the advice given."

I changed it up abit, any better? Or should I make it longer still

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Thanks for all the help guys much appreciated

You're welcome, the main thing is that you now take the advice and make changes. Many guys before you have done the whole 'what can I do' or 'help me' type threads and then ignore all the advice given.

I changed it up abit, any better? Or should I make it longer still"

To be brutally honest...it's no better at all. Reads like you just tacked a bit on to what you already had and you've left the pointless legal blurb in too.

Think of your profile as your CV - if you submitted a CV like yours reads do you think you'd get the job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the daft legal nonsense

Lose the desperateness

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

A decent profile cannot be cobbled together in five minutes. Nor is there any magic formula.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Write a decent profile!

I'm not sure what to write to be honest"

If you got rid of the last 3 paragraphs that would be an improvement. People dont tell you to get rid of the sydney copyright bollox without good reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far to much legal nonsense. 3 paragraphs on that and only a few insipid lines about yourself

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Four paragraphs in your profile and three of them are legal warnings. If you're that frightened why have a face pic ?

Also when I first saw your pic, the way you are stood makes you look like you only have one leg. Forgive me, for asking this, but people make snap judgements on lots of things And not everyone will meet non able bodied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen, be patient and don’t expect 500 women who are into swinging on a swingers site to come and knock your door down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a pen and paper (yes they do still exist), and right down things about your personality, the type of woman that is attractive to you, your best features, what a woman can expect from a liaison with you, what you hope to experience with the woman you meet.

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By *antheman90 OP   Man
over a year ago

london

How about the new look one ??

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"How about the new look one ??"

Yeah look's ok to me

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"How about the new look one ??"

It's an improvement but I wouldn't mention the lack of meets....it's not a great selling point

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Just check your spelling and grammar a bit.

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By *antheman90 OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Just check your spelling and grammar a bit."

Not my strong point but will do thanks x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"How about the new look one ??"

Major improvement OP - like some of the humour you've now injected into it. As a previous poster said it does need a spelling/grammar check, appreciate that's not everyones strong point but getting it right will make a lot of difference.

I'd also consider some pics of you smiling - the ones you have are OK, but they're a bit serious looking. Maybe add some that show off your body too.

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