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By *ophieslut OP   TV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

Would you meet when you are not at your best - have you done so successfully?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I had been paint balling on the Thursday and had a meet on Saturday let's say I turned up with bruises that made me look like a drug attic

Let's say the photo shoot never happened

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Would you meet when you are not at your best - have you done so successfully?"

Depends on the context of "Not your best

I don't see the point if I'm full of a cold/aching stiff and in pain or more importantly if I'm not in the right mental place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you meet when you are not at your best - have you done so successfully?

Depends on the context of "Not your best

I don't see the point if I'm full of a cold/aching stiff and in pain or more importantly if I'm not in the right mental place "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

Cancelled a meet with a single lady from here in the summer due to myself resembling a puffer fish, hay fever hit me pretty bad.

Not exactly an attractive sight

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

No it would be miserable and not the way to give a good first impression. I held off meeting Sir for a good week because I wasn't feeling my usual chipper self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only arrange to meet if I'm 100% feeling at my best, even the hint of a spot or anything that could spoil things, then no meet will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've had a meet when I had a broken ankle it was different but such a laugh

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

A first time meet, no.

A repeat meet where you're already familiar with each other and have the right rapport then probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A definite no as why would anyone want a meet when not up to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends I suppose on the person and situation.

One lassie I meet regularly met me one night and I had a stye in my eye it wasn't too bad at first but seemed to get worse by the time the meet came round.

She didn't mind, I did though a bit, it went away a day later. So wasn't a big deal.

But I probably would have waited if it wasnt a regular buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't as if poorly i wouldn't be good company .

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

first meet- no. did that once and it was a complete disaster for various reasons.

repeat meets- depends. managed once after a shut day to have a very satisfying 10 min meet without preparation (very hairy squirrel) and bad mood- fast and furious sorted that

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Not my best is my default

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"first meet- no. did that once and it was a complete disaster for various reasons.

repeat meets- depends. managed once after a shut day to have a very satisfying 10 min meet without preparation (very hairy squirrel) and bad mood- fast and furious sorted that "

Is that a lamppost next to where your squatting

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"first meet- no. did that once and it was a complete disaster for various reasons.

repeat meets- depends. managed once after a shut day to have a very satisfying 10 min meet without preparation (very hairy squirrel) and bad mood- fast and furious sorted that "

Like really fucked it out of you

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I wouldn't have a first meet if i wasn't feeling on top form but I may do a repeat meet depending who it is and what/why I'm not feeling my best.

I have cancelled a meet with a regular fb because I was feeling ill and he wasn't feeling too great that night either and was considering cancelling.

I've also had a very short notice (10 minutes) meet with the same guy. He was driving past my town so text to see if I was free. I didn't have time to do more than brush my teeth and hair so felt a bit less than perfect but we had a lovely time.

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but sainsburys is closer..

Definitely not..

First impressions last a lifetime so I would only meet if I was in peak condition..

And I'm hoping soon I will be back to my Peak..

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"first meet- no. did that once and it was a complete disaster for various reasons.

repeat meets- depends. managed once after a shut day to have a very satisfying 10 min meet without preparation (very hairy squirrel) and bad mood- fast and furious sorted that

Like really fucked it out of you "

fuck yeah

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

At a club I went to be hot and ready.

It out in the real world I always meet first time vanilla.. And that's realy not my best. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends - chat to the person involved and see what they think -

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

If it's someone new probably not. If it's someone I've met previously, ten yeah they've already had me at my best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I will not meet if I don't feel good.. mentally, emotionally and physically.

Otherwise, I would probably regret the meet as I would associate it with negative feelings. I only want good memories.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Simply because it would mean I have to put up another 12 lbs of muscle before I can even meet somebody.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

First impressions are what count! I wouldn't meet unless I was at my best precisely for this reason. Bad, or less than stellar first impressions rarely, if ever, get a second chance.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I have no idea any more what our best is !

We meet three times a week , every week and have done for years now . Pretty much every meet is multiple partners , and if I'm honest we are always way below what might be considered our ' best ' .

However , if what our meets say is true , we are still worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had sex with my long term partner where I've had half an hour notice. It's either bath and shave my legs, or bath and tidy up the flat. The flat won, so he gets hairy legs and fuzzy hair tied up in a ponytail. He doesn't mind

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