FabSwingers.com forum: BBW and BHM

By *arnsleycouple7683 OP Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Ok I made up the term BHM. Big handsome men? (Is there another term?)

But that isn't really the point of the thread.

It seems to me that a lot of guys these days like fuller figured women. But is the same true of women liking fuller figured men? I don't think it seems that way.

I'm struggling to get my head around the whole BBW thing really because I remember when I (female) was size 12 in high school and I used to get called fat.

As an adult I've been both size 8/10 and size 16 (which I am currently), and honestly I've gotten more attention from men since gaining weight than I did when I was slim, despite the fact I don't like what I see in the mirror.

Has there been a paradigm shift towards fuller figured women in recent years?

Hubby on the other hand has the opposite. He is a big guy, but got more attention from the opposite sex when he was a few stone lighter.

What's the views on big guys these days?

Tell me, women, what do you think of overweight or obese men?

Tell me, men, what do you think of overweight or obese women?