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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im new on this site and ive messaged a few women but i dont get a response im not one of these guys thats pushy, i just dont know if its my looks or what to put in my messages someone please help

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Your profile is lacking as are your pictures. Your profile is no different the thousands upon thousands of others. You need to catch people's attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing many swingers do on receiving a message is check out the senders profile....

You've only written 10 words .....

So I think it's unrealistic to think that will make you stand out from the crowd....

I would address this most basic of mistakes before you ask for advice......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The men to women ratio is completely one sided on here women get loads of messages off men make sure your first message stands out and is a good read make sure you read their profile usually that's a good conversation starter and don't let it get you down if you don't get any replies stay positive and keep trying I hope this helps pal

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Use the search box to find the numerous threads on this subject, there's some good advice in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The men to women ratio is completely one sided on here women get loads of messages off men make sure your first message stands out and is a good read make sure you read their profile usually that's a good conversation starter and don't let it get you down if you don't get any replies stay positive and keep trying I hope this helps pal "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys time to review my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem isn't you it's the overwhelming mass of men on here.

Here's a example and insight of what your competing against.So far today I've had 120 messages.110 of those are off men.99% of those men are basically offering themselfs on a plate for instant sex.So your battling against the numbers and they all say there different and a nice guy and every other desperate excuse in the book.

My only advise for you in this meat market is good luck and keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the advice guys time to review my profile "

think you need to review it again

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Im new on this site and ive messaged a few women but i dont get a response im not one of these guys thats pushy, i just dont know if its my looks or what to put in my messages someone please help "

I'm afraid you have your face pic up and those you have messaged have not found you attractive enough to reply

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