FabSwingers.com forum: For guys that don't get responses from the women on here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fellas..how many women a day do see and fancy? If you asked them out for a drink, what percentage do you think would say yes? And how many of those do you think would say yes to a fuck? Now think about the amount of other guys that would be your competition, so to speak. The numbers are way more even in non fab land right? Of course you do better out there! If it is really that bad on here why stay?! Thing is...you whine on your statuses etc... women see it...nobody wants to meet a whinger... I have blocked quite a few because of shitty statuses... Oh...and if you are moaning about getting no response from women you actually wouldn't ask out for a drink and wouldn't really want to fuck for whatever reason, too fat, munter, too many meets for your liking...I have seen plenty from women saying they have had insulting messages from guys they have turned down...wtf are you playing at? Grow up! This is advice and observation, rather than a bitch about men on here...I have met alot of guys on here, the majority of whom have been really great guys...I find they make better lovers. So stop the pointless whining, search the forums for advice and a bit of friendly banter and remember...even us munters might not fancy you, regardless of what a nice, genuine guy you are! Just because we might be looking for sex doesn't mean we fuck people we are not attracted to! Oh...and don't forget...the number of women is less than ya think, due to the men that are pretending to be one

sorry but felt it needed to be said (probably for the 100th time) and it wouldn't fit on my status

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh...and yes sorry...I know not all of you whine about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh...and yes sorry...I know not all of you whine about it

Apology accepted!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

For men here just looking for single women, I do wonder how well they do in the real world, where similar no strings fun is available. If they do that well, hoe come difficulties here are an issue? If it's dire for them in the wider world, why would they expect a magical difference here? Garbage in, garbage out, wherever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i don't go looking at guy's profiles but calling men whingers is a bit strong.

Maybe like me you don't read the profiles of the same sex but don't you at least read the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sooo are you saying I stand a chance lol

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"Oh...and yes sorry...I know not all of you whine about it

Apology accepted!"

Seconded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Ariel

I for one understand what you are saying, and to a point agree

I've seen guys using the "woe with me" act just to get attention. But ladies do that as well, flashing tits or something similar.

And you are very correct when it comes to the statistics.. Like salmon swimming upstream, it's a very tough and ultimately exceedingly difficult trick to get lucky strictly on here. Social meets, word of mouth, forum involvement all can boost your chances of getting laid (that's the goal for most guys, after all)

But while the women (and posing guys) are getting loads of msg's... Feedback from the guys, us legit guys are left in a vacuum of rarely getting replies or simple "fuck off" messages. I accept the difficulty of replying to all the messages, but unless you have communication there will always be this imbalance.

By the way, I would not consider you to be a "munter" and would be very happy to give you a right good rodgering

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well i don't go looking at guy's profiles but calling men whingers is a bit strong.

Maybe like me you don't read the profiles of the same sex but don't you at least read the forums?

Some of them are whingers! And the forums is more often than not where I find those men, there are a ton of threads from single guys asking for advice about profiles n stuff because nobody replies to them, wondering why they never get a response even tho they are genuine, not a timewaster etc...I am just saying, look at the bigger picture, not every womean they fancy is going to fancy them back, they just find out on here as they ask more if they are interested, it is not that difficult to work out if you think logically, not really!

and yes...also a crappy profile and pics won't help their cause either, but most that ask for advice on this don't take it anyway as they just think they are entitled to some kinda fuck because it is a sex site...unfortunately

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

It hasn't been a complete waste of time being here. I would say a 90% rejection rate maybe a bit higher and you need to get used to rejection on here especially if you're a single man. My advice to anyone is to not give up straight away and have some patience and expect a lot of rejection. I have done a lot better elsewhere in the past on sites like faceparty and dating sites.

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By *ondon wide guyMan
over a year ago

chiswick

hello

been on here a few years had fair share of fun not always the other days out meals etc and not fair percentage of complete blanks or no reply

I personally think you have to treat it like gambling today I might win or even hit jackpot or hegde my bets do some research and come back tomorrow try my luck then

but some gambler's they dont know when to stop and keep chasing losing it all tjen getting angery when the "dead cert" tells them no as well

im looking for a long term reg thing so dont mind waiting also all these resean why they dont wont and cant are really tips to us if we looking at what they want so formala is this give them what they want fellas and inreturn we get get what we want simple really

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Fellas..how many women a day do see and fancy? If you asked them out for a drink, what percentage do you think would say yes? And how many of those do you think would say yes to a fuck? Now think about the amount of other guys that would be your competition, so to speak. The numbers are way more even in non fab land right? Of course you do better out there! If it is really that bad on here why stay?! "

Actually, now you come to mention it, aside from the obviously lovely men on the forum

I think a lot of the guys that come here are the ones who are such arseholes they can't pull in the real world, and they they hear about this swingers site where everyone is madly fucking everyone else and think 'At last, free sex without all the work!' and then they become extremely disillusioned in a very short space of time when even the munters say no!!

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

huh?

what?

excuse me?

Pardon?

What you talking about Willis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"huh?

what?

excuse me?

Pardon?

What you talking about Willis?

You know. The men. The whingey ones.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Fellas..how many women a day do see and fancy? If you asked them out for a drink, what percentage do you think would say yes? And how many of those do you think would say yes to a fuck? "

About 99% in an average week. Although sometimes I do much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like intelligent messages and want my brain to be engaged as well as my intreague. "Hi" or "want a fk" get deleted. I get lots of messages and I'm choosey. Have to fancy someone so bad or no photos is a turn off. Good profile and not a veri hider. Total put off want to read what others think, it all helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you're basically saying that women will pick the men they fancy, either based on their pics, profile or message.

No shit??!! Really??

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Oh...and yes sorry...I know not all of you whine about it

No whining here. I'm always positive and upbeat in my messages and usually receive feedback

It's the approach that makes the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time I see a whiny status I'm gonna scream... let down twice this week. I give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget the empty compliments fellas, "you're beautiful" etc. They've heard them all before...

Tell her you want to motorboat her butt cheeks to Barry White, that'll get them responding

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

No women have joined fab expecting to get sex without putting too much effort in.

True story.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Next time I see a whiny status I'm gonna scream... let down twice this week. I give up

That's a shame

I certainly wouldn't disappoint a lady like you if given a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Next time I see a whiny status I'm gonna scream... let down twice this week. I give up

That's a shame

I certainly wouldn't disappoint a lady like you if given a chance

That's what they said

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By *WarmFirmHandsMan
over a year ago

London / East Mids / South of France

What you're talking about isn't unique to the site.

Remember the site is just a microcosm of the off line (real) world. There are no guarantees there either.

The only guarantee you have any control over is how you behave on the site. Focus on this rather than worrying or getting hot under the collar about others.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Next time I see a whiny status I'm gonna scream... let down twice this week. I give up

That's a shame

I certainly wouldn't disappoint a lady like you if given a chance

That's what they said

Ive arranged meets with people who have let me down before too, then seen them whinging on here about being let down themselves............

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So you're basically saying that women will pick the men they fancy, either based on their pics, profile or message.

No shit??!! Really??

Yes...unfortunately...some fellas don't get that..you are obviously one of the ones that doesn't whine then eh?;-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No women have joined fab expecting to get sex without putting too much effort in.

True story."

I didn't expect to get ANY sex when I joined, hence the daft username...well I got that a but wrong and my username has become very fitting too

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"No women have joined fab expecting to get sex without putting too much effort in.

True story.

I didn't expect to get ANY sex when I joined, hence the daft username...well I got that a but wrong and my username has become very fitting too

I think you know what point I was trying to make lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No women have joined fab expecting to get sex without putting too much effort in.

True story.

I didn't expect to get ANY sex when I joined, hence the daft username...well I got that a but wrong and my username has become very fitting too

I think you know what point I was trying to make lol"

I do;-)

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