FabSwingers.com forum: You're gorgeous

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?"

No lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?

No lol

No to which question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?

No lol

Don't tell lies

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?

No lol

Don't tell lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?"

No I haven't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?"

No.

Lies make baby Jesus cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They all do it.Its quite see through actually as they will say or do anything to get a shag.if it was a minger wearing a bin liner they would still say your fit to just get a shag.

Never believe the suck ups on here as it's all just there attempt at trying to cure there desperation x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?"

No - if you don't find somebody attractive just don't contact them. If they're hot ....tell them. Simple right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?

No - if you don't find somebody attractive just don't contact them. If they're hot ....tell them. Simple right?"

But some will say anything to butter a lady up and get on her knickers!

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Yes but she's my wife and I find no need to explain or justify my actions.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They all do it.Its quite see through actually as they will say or do anything to get a shag.if it was a minger wearing a bin liner they would still say your fit to just get a shag.

Never believe the suck ups on here as it's all just there attempt at trying to cure there desperation x "

No they "all" don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They all do it.Its quite see through actually as they will say or do anything to get a shag.if it was a minger wearing a bin liner they would still say your fit to just get a shag.

Never believe the suck ups on here as it's all just there attempt at trying to cure there desperation x "

It's when they say it when you have no pics on at all that makes me laugh.

Don't they realise just how sad and desperate they appear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?

No.

Lies make baby Jesus cry"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but she's my wife and I find no need to explain or justify my actions.

Lol"

Hahahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They all do it.Its quite see through actually as they will say or do anything to get a shag.if it was a minger wearing a bin liner they would still say your fit to just get a shag.

Never believe the suck ups on here as it's all just there attempt at trying to cure there desperation x

It's when they say it when you have no pics on at all that makes me laugh.

Don't they realise just how sad and desperate they appear?

To be fair some guys will say "you're stunning" to anyone with a fanny

You're not wrong it does appear desperate x

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

"They all do it.Its quite see through actually as they will say or do anything to get a shag.if it was a minger wearing a bin liner they would still say your fit to just get a shag.

Never believe the suck ups on here as it's all just there attempt at trying to cure there desperation x "

How very dare you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They all do it.Its quite see through actually as they will say or do anything to get a shag.if it was a minger wearing a bin liner they would still say your fit to just get a shag.

Never believe the suck ups on here as it's all just there attempt at trying to cure there desperation x

It's when they say it when you have no pics on at all that makes me laugh.

Don't they realise just how sad and desperate they appear?

Men used to say it to me when I had no pics and just a dot for profile text.

"Hey gorgeous, love your pics and profile".

I did once have a 'proper' pic but the damage was done. I just don't believe the shite they mail me any more.

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?"

No I always say what I mean and if I say you are gorgeous, lovely, etc it's because I genuinely think you are

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

If I send a message to someone then I honestly mean every word of what I send.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm making first contact something has already attracted me to them, but I only comment on what I can see..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?"

Why would you say it if you didn't mean it? Mind you, I would only message the gorgeous ones...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Don't see what the point would be.

All my compliments are genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They all do it.Its quite see through actually as they will say or do anything to get a shag.if it was a minger wearing a bin liner they would still say your fit to just get a shag.

Never believe the suck ups on here as it's all just there attempt at trying to cure there desperation x

It's when they say it when you have no pics on at all that makes me laugh.

Don't they realise just how sad and desperate they appear?

To be fair some guys will say "you're stunning" to anyone with a fanny

You're not wrong it does appear desperate x"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Can't see this filling up with honest posts from guys who have done this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if you have then you're a bit of a sad twat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can't see this filling up with honest posts from guys who have done this

No, I don't either but it does happen

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I think its amusing especially since they see so little of my face.

I used to have a photo of just a shoe and was still paid all sorts of false compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They all do it.Its quite see through actually as they will say or do anything to get a shag.if it was a minger wearing a bin liner they would still say your fit to just get a shag.

Never believe the suck ups on here as it's all just there attempt at trying to cure there desperation x "

To be fair ... Naked, other than a tightfisted bin liners, that's sexy as hell right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They all do it.Its quite see through actually as they will say or do anything to get a shag.if it was a minger wearing a bin liner they would still say your fit to just get a shag.

Never believe the suck ups on here as it's all just there attempt at trying to cure there desperation x

To be fair ... Naked, other than a tightfisted bin liners, that's sexy as hell right

Tight fitted... obviously!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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Ive complimented people on here. Ive meant what i said every single time. But you won't believe me so whats the fecking point. I'll stop it.

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

Why would they bother wasting their time saying it. If they aren't sexually attracted to someone why would they say that? Surely men say it because they're attracted and hope to meet.

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By *ancastermanMan
over a year ago

carnforth

Two things:

Seeing someone as beautiful and being sexually attracted to them aren't always the same thing.

Reassuring someone who is low on confidence may sometimes involve saying how nice they look but without any real attraction behind it.

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By *ire in your soulMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I have meant it every time. Why lie about it it defeats the object all together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive complimented people on here. Ive meant what i said every single time. But you won't believe me so whats the fecking point. I'll stop it."

We know the difference between bullshit and honest compliments. I believe you.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?"

I don't think I'd ever send such a statement to anyone. No matter what they looked like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?"

No not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would they bother wasting their time saying it. If they aren't sexually attracted to someone why would they say that? Surely men say it because they hope to meet. "

FTFY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some will say nice things if it helps get them sex .. Men do that not just on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only sent it once when I didn't mean it and that's because I was sending song lyrics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent them and i've meant it. The result? Deleted unread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've sent them and i've meant it. The result? Deleted unread.

Do you think they thought you weren't being serious?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"Ive complimented people on here. Ive meant what i said every single time. But you won't believe me so whats the fecking point. I'll stop it.

We know the difference between bullshit and honest compliments. I believe you.

Thank you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've sent them and i've meant it. The result? Deleted unread.

Do you think they thought you weren't being serious?"

Probably but i don't know how to make sincerity come across in a text message. Perhaps adding the postscript 'no, i really mean it, honest' might help. What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure it happens with some people, some will say anything for a shag. Personally I'd never tell someone they were attractive if I didn't find them as such.

However, there have been times were I've complimented a woman and she's been to insecure to accept the compliment. Sadly that happens all too often and it can usually be traced back to a partner who has made them feel unattractive, even worthless. Shame on them.

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

I tend not to compliment looks as they're either seen as fake or brushed away.

Once people get to know me they soon realise I mean what I say and never say something out of politeness or to achieve some end or other.

If I ask you about your day I honestly want to know, if I say you're attractive it is because I'm attracted to you, simples.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I think the kind of guys that do that are not the kind that frequent the forum. They can't be assed to read a profile so they're not going to read the stuff posted on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the kind of guys that do that are not the kind that frequent the forum. They can't be assed to read a profile so they're not going to read the stuff posted on here "

Guess that makes me the exception to the rule then.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"I think the kind of guys that do that are not the kind that frequent the forum. They can't be assed to read a profile so they're not going to read the stuff posted on here

Guess that makes me the exception to the rule then.

Does that mean you tell people their gorgeous when you don't mean it or you don't read profiles?

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Well there you have it guys. Most ladies think you'll say anything just to get a shag and don't believe almost all of what they read from you. Therefore you may wonder what's the point..

Interestingly, I've been lucky enough to have two meets since joining and both have contacted me first. Other messages sent because I like the profile or think we're looking for the same things get deleted.

Maybe there's a moral there ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when a person don't know you at all they are going to start mailing say stuff that's nice a lot of the time just to get you chatting back to them. Something silly even nasty just to get mail back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any men sent a message to a lady on here saying you think they're gorgeous or sexy and not meant it.

If you did, why did you and did it achieve what you wanted it to achieve?

Did you feel guilty lying?"

Told someone they are gorgeous and ment it. why lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take all messages that say that with a pinch of salt. Even when I had a shadow for a profile, I'd get messages like that. Complete tosh. It's said with the hopes of stroking a woman's ego and getting laid

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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"I take all messages that say that with a pinch of salt. Even when I had a shadow for a profile, I'd get messages like that. Complete tosh. It's said with the hopes of stroking a woman's ego and getting laid

To a shadow profile yes.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Some people just cant accept a compliment , without over analysing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman should earn compliments,did I just say that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point in lying?! It achieves absolutely nothing!

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