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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not having much luck with send messages so thought i would come say hay in forums see if does any better. Im sure im no only person as there must be 1000 men to 1 women lol. Feel free to give advice as all new to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What sort of message are you sending out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your status made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What sort of message are you sending out? "

I have tried a few now basics little bit cheeky descriptive etc only ones i wont send are the fancey a fuck types lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your status made me laugh "

Well even those dont work lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I actually got my first outright 'fancy a fuck' message last night, of course it was from a profile that was 3 hours old, he was told in no uncertainty that is not how I operate on here.

He had the bloody cheek to respond to take me, 'there was no need for that'

Some men just don't have a clue how to communicate.....so social skills all the way for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your status made me laugh "

Me too, I just had to look XXX

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford


"Not having much luck with send messages so thought i would come say hay in forums see if does any better. Im sure im no only person as there must be 1000 men to 1 women lol. Feel free to give advice as all new to me. "

Join the club mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your status made me laugh

Me too, I just had to look XXX"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao, I think I and OP have something going together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha lads its crackers here got more chance of gettin attention from god than on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies i have sent stuff out like that as an ice breaker just gets deleted lol so not every one has a sense of humour.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"Ladies i have sent stuff out like that as an ice breaker just gets deleted lol so not every one has a sense of humour."

Think you messaged me but you're too far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm like a Rubik's Cube, the more you play with me the harder I get! Heres another u can have this one lads lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Haha lads its crackers here got more chance of gettin attention from god than on here."

That's all you send? Not exactly an open question is it? Or are you after a pity shag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ladies i have sent stuff out like that as an ice breaker just gets deleted lol so not every one has a sense of humour.

Think you messaged me but you're too far "

Lol you dnt remember me from my last account then god ineed to work on leaving a better impression

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha lads its crackers here got more chance of gettin attention from god than on here.

That's all you send? Not exactly an open question is it? Or are you after a pity shag?"

No far from it thanks i dont need pitty if you read i asked for advice not a shag. and no it ent just what i send if you read other messages

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"Ladies i have sent stuff out like that as an ice breaker just gets deleted lol so not every one has a sense of humour.

Think you messaged me but you're too far

Lol you dnt remember me from my last account then god ineed to work on leaving a better impression"

I recognised the name yeh but I haven't been on here in ages. You're cute though

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Haha lads its crackers here got more chance of gettin attention from god than on here.

That's all you send? Not exactly an open question is it? Or are you after a pity shag?

No far from it thanks i dont need pitty if you read i asked for advice not a shag. and no it ent just what i send if you read other messages"

Yeah, if you're going to depend on messages like that I recommend you work on the other things you can change, like profile and photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi All

I'm new to this site but have had many fun filled night's at a few swing clubs.

I hope I get lucky soon, I suppose you need to be patient then something should pan out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pics help. I've only been on the site a few weeks and already get annoyed every time I see a dark shadow in my mailbox.

Saying something witty in the first message that induces smiles is also a plus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha lads its crackers here got more chance of gettin attention from god than on here.

That's all you send? Not exactly an open question is it? Or are you after a pity shag?

No far from it thanks i dont need pitty if you read i asked for advice not a shag. and no it ent just what i send if you read other messages

Yeah, if you're going to depend on messages like that I recommend you work on the other things you can change, like profile and photos."
see now thats constructive not insulting i have no objection to people doing that and my profile is how it is and i have more pics but why should they be open for anyone to see im more than happy to send them on request nothing to hide but i a few of who i am should be enough not 100s showing my every move some things are best left to imagination dont you think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile pics help. I've only been on the site a few weeks and already get annoyed every time I see a dark shadow in my mailbox.

Saying something witty in the first message that induces smiles is also a plus."

You can view mine through my profile olus i always attach recent ones to any message i send and i can be quimite witty but you can just drum witty responses from the air it need stimulation lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile pics help. I've only been on the site a few weeks and already get annoyed every time I see a dark shadow in my mailbox.

Saying something witty in the first message that induces smiles is also a plus."

Not to many clubs etc in my area and cant always travel with work. But i am hopeing like you did and attend one soon

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Haha lads its crackers here got more chance of gettin attention from god than on here.

That's all you send? Not exactly an open question is it? Or are you after a pity shag?

No far from it thanks i dont need pitty if you read i asked for advice not a shag. and no it ent just what i send if you read other messages

Yeah, if you're going to depend on messages like that I recommend you work on the other things you can change, like profile and photos. see now thats constructive not insulting i have no objection to people doing that and my profile is how it is and i have more pics but why should they be open for anyone to see im more than happy to send them on request nothing to hide but i a few of who i am should be enough not 100s showing my every move some things are best left to imagination dont you think?"

You asked for advice, I gave it.

You can show some more titillating pics than you are already. You look a tad grumpy in the ones you have up. Only my opinion though - its not like you're the first guy in the seven years I've been on here to ignore the advice given on posts asking for profile help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haha lads its crackers here got more chance of gettin attention from god than on here.

That's all you send? Not exactly an open question is it? Or are you after a pity shag?

No far from it thanks i dont need pitty if you read i asked for advice not a shag. and no it ent just what i send if you read other messages

Yeah, if you're going to depend on messages like that I recommend you work on the other things you can change, like profile and photos. see now thats constructive not insulting i have no objection to people doing that and my profile is how it is and i have more pics but why should they be open for anyone to see im more than happy to send them on request nothing to hide but i a few of who i am should be enough not 100s showing my every move some things are best left to imagination dont you think?

You asked for advice, I gave it.

You can show some more titillating pics than you are already. You look a tad grumpy in the ones you have up. Only my opinion though - its not like you're the first guy in the seven years I've been on here to ignore the advice given on posts asking for profile help. "
oh please dont get me wrong i was not ignoring you. I never ignore advice im currently thinking of ways to improve my write up and thats fair enough bout the pics i will look to change them an add 1 or 2 more thank you.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd recommend searching the forum and looking at current ones upon message and fab success.

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