FabSwingers.com forum: Honesty isn't the best pilicy

By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

Yes it very obvious that your autocorrect isn't working.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

Yes it very obvious that your autocorrect isn't working.

We'll I can reed it ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

Yes it very obvious that your autocorrect isn't working.

I think it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

it's coz women are objectified all the fucking time, not just on fuck sites but everywhere they go and men are there too, (not all men but all disrespectful men).

we wanna know we'll get enjoyable sex too, anyone can talk shit about doing this and that sexually but it does nothing for me. knowing a guy cares in other ways is usually a good sign they also care i have good sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

I think it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you. "

Hear here! Well said

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand."

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

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By *r on the EdgeMan
over a year ago

accrington

"No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

The thing that really makes me smile, is that I CAN get straight to the point

I am extremely blunt. And can be very sexually graphic. There isnt much that would shock me

Some men cant deal with that

Oh, they SAY they can. But when confronted with a sexually experienced woman, they run crying to mummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

Yeah women are so selfish wanting attraction with the people they fuck. You'd think being swingers they'd open theor legs to anyone and everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

God almighty you do need a degree in people skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your straight in there with the crude comments then it's likely you'll be a wam bam thank you mam type of man n whilst quickies are good sometimes we want some foreplay too.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

No it's a male recognition that gay men give you offers of sucking your cock or given you the option of taking or receiving virtually straight away.

However women give you the offer of coffee or a strong drink initially if you're lucky and you have to go through a whole process you might as well indulge in offline.

Sorry to burst your bubble my friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

No it's a male recognition that gay men give you offers of sucking your cock or given you the option of taking or receiving virtually straight away.

However women give you the offer of coffee or a strong drink initially if you're lucky and you have to go through a whole process you might as well indulge in offline.

Sorry to burst your bubble my friend."

You'll not bust my bubble bonny lad ....

I have to fight them off with a shitty stick ....

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand."

Then please dispel our ignorance as we wish to be treated as plugs for your wet holes.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

If by getting straight to the point, you mean reply "yes please" to messages like " I want to smash your arse in right now" or " I want to be balls deep inside your pussy" ( funny how they always start with "I want") well you're probably right. Thank god there are some guys on here who are capable of learning Venusian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

No it's a male recognition that gay men give you offers of sucking your cock or given you the option of taking or receiving virtually straight away.

However women give you the offer of coffee or a strong drink initially if you're lucky and you have to go through a whole process you might as well indulge in offline.

Sorry to burst your bubble my friend."

However you dress it up you ate complaining that women don't offer the instant gratification you seek. Have you considered an escort? They seem more likely to offer what you seek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were here for just a fuck I would only respond to the physically hot men, and tell them not to talk while they fucked me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand."

I keep getting messages from men locally who think cos I have tits and a fanny and I live close to them i am obligated to fuck them......

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"it's coz women are objectified all the fucking time, not just on fuck sites but everywhere they go and men are there too, (not all men but all disrespectful men).

Most grateful for the first intelligent response to my observation.

But does good conversation actually equate to good sex in your experience?

Please don't take this as a dismissal. It's a genuine question.

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

"...Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

I don't believe so, but trannies are certainly from Uranus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

The thing that really makes me smile, is that I CAN get straight to the point

I am extremely blunt. And can be very sexually graphic. There isnt much that would shock me

Some men cant deal with that

Oh, they SAY they can. But when confronted with a sexually experienced woman, they run crying to mummy

And watch their poor little faces when I tell them I've fucked their Mam!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And, if at any time they tried to do something I didn't want, they would get a slap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

We are here to fuck, yes, but that doesn't mean we will fuck anyone who asks. I like to know a little about the Man I am meeting to see what their sexual preferences are. I don't do instant fucks, I have to do a risk assessment for diseased members and for my personal safety. The thing I hate most is being told they will wine and dine me XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's coz women are objectified all the fucking time, not just on fuck sites but everywhere they go and men are there too, (not all men but all disrespectful men).

Most grateful for the first intelligent response to my observation.

But does good conversation actually equate to good sex in your experience?

Please don't take this as a dismissal. It's a genuine question."

It does for me. I can get a good idea of a person by talking to them. If I'm attracted to them the sex will not be just a fuck. If I'm not I won't want to drop my drawers, or even kiss them.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

Yes"

I'm afraid not. It's a genuine observation. But if it makes you feel better I'll take it on the chin.

Just don't get ant if it in my eyes please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"
BANG ON THE BACK DOOR ...I MEAN MONEY....

I'm in your camp lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

No it's a male recognition that gay men give you offers of sucking your cock or given you the option of taking or receiving virtually straight away.

However women give you the offer of coffee or a strong drink initially if you're lucky and you have to go through a whole process you might as well indulge in offline.

Sorry to burst your bubble my friend."

And what is wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to say it's because men only need an orifice to please their dicks.

Women need mental stimuli to want the dick in their orifices.

Not all men/women.

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

Because we don't do sympathy fucks. We need to be attracted to them. If they cant understand that then we are just a hole. I'd rather use a vibrator than fuck some of the men on here. The vibro has less issues and only w_ines when the batteries run out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your messaging me yes it will come round to sex and a conversation about it etc etc but before that I'd like the person messaging me to get to know me a bit before asking for a meet.

That's not to hard to ask is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

Yes

I'm afraid not. It's a genuine observation. But if it makes you feel better I'll take it on the chin.

Just don't get ant if it in my eyes please."

If you're only in it for the orgasm, go to a glory hole..

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you. "

I prefer to service my dear. There's no more of a turn on than a woman turned on and spasming. If there is such a word.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I think most women are not after fuck and goes. I want to enjoy a good time- and if I can't communicate with someone outside of the bedroom I doubt I will inside.

once I know someone I am more than happy to respond to faf messages without all the fluffy bits lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are men on here who like a chat and get to know you before getting to the sex part.

Thankfully.

If this was s hook up site I wouldn't be here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

I'm a bi female who mainly fucks bi females. We are 'after' the same ladies, so no need. Maybe best if some brushed up on thier social skills instead.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

May I just say Brrrrrap!!

That means here here or we'll said for those that don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

May I just say Brrrrrap!!

That means here here or we'll said for those that don't know."

Oh I thought you'd just farted.

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

I'm a bi female who mainly fucks bi females. We are 'after' the same ladies, so no need. Maybe best if some brushed up on thier social skills instead."

Yes it wouldn't be interesting to all members obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

Yes were from venus. Where everything is fluffy and pink and nice. You are obviously from pluto where its mostly ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

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hahaha funny

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I get straight to the point.... after Ive had a coffee with them to make sure they are who they say they are and I like them.....the initial attraction has been established already at that point after exchanging face pics

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

I would think most of us would still go about our business the same way as we do now, the smell of desperation is never attractive no matter who it's on

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

hahaha funny

Another 600 messages type thread won't be necessary, for today at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

hahaha funny

Apparently it's a bubble buster ,,,,

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

I am here to fuck when I have the free time and the inclination. And when that happens I will get straight to the point, but I will ask those people I've chatted to during a fallow time and have struck up a rapport with. Call it chemistry or whatever you want, but if we have it through chatting then I'm going to ask them to hook up when I am free. And I simply won't bother if not.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

i know what it's like on here for men already. i blocked all men so nobody messages me, if i wanna chat to someone i have to message them.

i'm just not desperate so won't be making a topic whinging about that, that's the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

Ahhhhhhh

Love it

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

Yeah women are so selfish wanting attraction with the people they fuck. You'd think being swingers they'd open theor legs to anyone and everyone

On you're bike Bikey! Lol

I hope you're retort gets you the satisfaction you're looking for. Lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

Are you trying to say you wont fuck for a bag of chips and a sticky toffee pudding ?

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

i know what it's like on here for men already. i blocked all men so nobody messages me, if i wanna chat to someone i have to message them.

i'm just not desperate so won't be making a topic whinging about that, that's the difference."

That's true you do not what it is like as I have read some of your advice comments on other threads. Not all single guys on here are desperate though they would just like a few of their messages read and maybe some answered as they put some effort in when sending them seems fair to me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you.

I prefer to service my dear. There's no more of a turn on than a woman turned on and spasming. If there is such a word."

" my dear" how bloody condescending are you?? Jeez!!

Tell me OP. How have you reached the ripe old age of 46, having no clue how to relate to women? Not seeming to understand that " get ya knickers off love" just wont cut it?

Where have you been?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My point is. I love sex; I mean really love it, and I don't want to spend 20 minutes naked with someone who wants his cocked sucked, then stick it in my cunt, then stick it in my arse, then come over my face. I'm not here for boring, shit, selfish fucks.

If you don't want to talk to me before we fuck you're not the man for me, and thank you for filtering yourself out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

i know what it's like on here for men already. i blocked all men so nobody messages me, if i wanna chat to someone i have to message them.

i'm just not desperate so won't be making a topic whinging about that, that's the difference.

I answer all messages. It doesn't mean they will get a fuck from it.

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

i know what it's like on here for men already. i blocked all men so nobody messages me, if i wanna chat to someone i have to message them.

i'm just not desperate so won't be making a topic whinging about that, that's the difference.

Typo! I meant to say - you do 'know' what it is like for men...

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

i know what it's like on here for men already. i blocked all men so nobody messages me, if i wanna chat to someone i have to message them.

i'm just not desperate so won't be making a topic whinging about that, that's the difference.

I answer all messages. It doesn't mean they will get a fuck from it. "

and of course that's 100% ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"
.... Yeah take away a women's choice to say noooooo.!. Let's go back to the days were you could bash us over the head with a club and drag us to your cave... Mr Neanderthal

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

i know what it's like on here for men already. i blocked all men so nobody messages me, if i wanna chat to someone i have to message them.

i'm just not desperate so won't be making a topic whinging about that, that's the difference.

yes i didn't say they all are desperate, just implying the ones who make topics whinging about not getting what they want are, that's what they look like to me anyway.

i blocked them all so at least anyone wanting messages read or replied to clearly knows they won't get that from me.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"My point is. I love sex; I mean really love it, and I don't want to spend 20 minutes naked with someone who wants his cocked sucked, then stick it in my cunt, then stick it in my arse, then come over my face. I'm not here for boring, shit, selfish fucks.

If you don't want to talk to me before we fuck you're not the man for me, and thank you for filtering yourself out.

I dunno, you ladies eh! So demanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

i know what it's like on here for men already. i blocked all men so nobody messages me, if i wanna chat to someone i have to message them.

i'm just not desperate so won't be making a topic whinging about that, that's the difference.

I answer all messages. It doesn't mean they will get a fuck from it.

and of course that's 100% ok"

Do you get excited when a woman answers your message with no thank you?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Women who go to meet strangers run the risk of being :- mugged, battered, rraped , murdered.

Women are incredibly vulnerable during sex. Even gentle sex can hurt if someone isnt acquainted with your body. ( no our bodies are not all the same )

If women want to talk to check you out as a human being let alone to see if they fancy you - tough shit.

Or as someone said above. Pay a hooker they take the risk for money and they are not stupid enough to not be checking you out from the word go.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

God almighty you do need a degree in people skills."

Lol.

I've got that degree. But I like to talk frankly and honestly.

It's not only women that can be fussy. I don't like my little pony and fairy lovers.

I like intelligent down to earth women.

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

i know what it's like on here for men already. i blocked all men so nobody messages me, if i wanna chat to someone i have to message them.

i'm just not desperate so won't be making a topic whinging about that, that's the difference.

I answer all messages. It doesn't mean they will get a fuck from it.

and of course that's 100% ok

Do you get excited when a woman answers your message with no thank you?"

No not excited but I appreciate it in all honesty because she took the time and effort to read the message and reply and was polite about it. Sorry if i seem to sound like I am disagreeing with you I have read your comments here and actually agree with all you have said.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

The thing that really makes me smile, is that I CAN get straight to the point

I am extremely blunt. And can be very sexually graphic. There isnt much that would shock me

Some men cant deal with that

Oh, they SAY they can. But when confronted with a sexually experienced woman, they run crying to mummy

You must be about as blunt as a club hammer!! Lol

Hit me!!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

So a lot of ladies complain about messages from guys that Onley want 1 thing and say that thay want mor than a 3 word message and do mor than just meet up for a fuk. Then wen the nice guys do show up that wood be happy to just have a social.. thay get the same treatment as all the others.....

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

No it's a male recognition that gay men give you offers of sucking your cock or given you the option of taking or receiving virtually straight away.

However women give you the offer of coffee or a strong drink initially if you're lucky and you have to go through a whole process you might as well indulge in offline.

Sorry to burst your bubble my friend.

However you dress it up you ate complaining that women don't offer the instant gratification you seek. Have you considered an escort? They seem more likely to offer what you seek"

You took a genuine question as a complaint.

That's your choice. I can't do anything about your perception. But I say what I mean and mean what I say. If you want to read something else into it then go ahead.

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

i know what it's like on here for men already. i blocked all men so nobody messages me, if i wanna chat to someone i have to message them.

i'm just not desperate so won't be making a topic whinging about that, that's the difference.

yes i didn't say they all are desperate, just implying the ones who make topics whinging about not getting what they want are, that's what they look like to me anyway.

i blocked them all so at least anyone wanting messages read or replied to clearly knows they won't get that from me."

I understand and think I might have crossed wires here? I agree with what you have said and appreciate your other comments so I apologise if I have come across like I am moaning about being a single guy on here, truce offered.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

i know what it's like on here for men already. i blocked all men so nobody messages me, if i wanna chat to someone i have to message them.

i'm just not desperate so won't be making a topic whinging about that, that's the difference.

yes i didn't say they all are desperate, just implying the ones who make topics whinging about not getting what they want are, that's what they look like to me anyway.

i blocked them all so at least anyone wanting messages read or replied to clearly knows they won't get that from me.

no i was talking about the OP and people like him who whinge about not get easy sex.

i totally understand your point about men wanting to know where they stand message wise too, it is rude (even though the site rules say it isn't) but when men want access to your vagina the rules of etiquette become so very different to something a lot less threatening where manners would not put you in a vulnerable position of being manipulated or being called names.

your posts did not offend me at all, no truce needed.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I never understand the complaints from *some* men regarding the women who want 'fluff' and 'chemistry' before committing to an intimate encounter. Don't they realise that if mutual physical attraction *and* a certain amount of chemistry is established beforehand, the chances of mutually enjoyable sex increases hugely? Would they actually rather a woman turned up on the off chance, without any prior discussion, and more or less just lay there, demonstrating little or no enthusiasm, rushing things to get it over and done with? .... because that's what I'd do if I started to have sex with someone I didn't feel any chemistry with. Not that I would - because I'm not running a charity for the sexually frustrated, and I wouldn't make the effort I go to getting ready prior to a meet unless I felt pretty confident I was going to have a good time with someone who cared enough about the occasion to make that happen.

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

i know what it's like on here for men already. i blocked all men so nobody messages me, if i wanna chat to someone i have to message them.

i'm just not desperate so won't be making a topic whinging about that, that's the difference.

yes i didn't say they all are desperate, just implying the ones who make topics whinging about not getting what they want are, that's what they look like to me anyway.

i blocked them all so at least anyone wanting messages read or replied to clearly knows they won't get that from me.

no i was talking about the OP and people like him who whinge about not get easy sex.

your posts did not offend me at all, no truce needed."

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message....."

A fuck with someone I am attracted to. Just because someone is 'nice' to me on a sex site does not entitle them to sex. I don't get the 'aww but I'm a nice guy, why can't I get a fuck' mentality. If I don't find you attractive you will never ever get a fuck from me.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

We don't do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

The thing that really makes me smile, is that I CAN get straight to the point

I am extremely blunt. And can be very sexually graphic. There isnt much that would shock me

Some men cant deal with that

Oh, they SAY they can. But when confronted with a sexually experienced woman, they run crying to mummy

You must be about as blunt as a club hammer!! Lol

Hit me!!"

I would eat you alive.

I like my men with intelligence, charm and wit

The very fact that you posted your OP tells me all I need to know

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

and see, women have to come across very abruptly and rude on sites like this coz if you don't plenty of people will take that as some kind of weakness and try to take advantage.

this type of environment attracts strong women and it confuses men coz thy expect us to be submissive and here for what they want, most of us really are not like that.

so OP (and people like him) can go make some effort to ensure us we will be ok to meet him and get what we want too or he can carry on not getting sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and see, women have to come across very abruptly and rude on sites like this coz if you don't plenty of people will take that as some kind of weakness and try to take advantage.

this type of environment attracts strong women and it confuses men coz thy expect us to be submissive and here for what they want, most of us really are not like that.

so OP (and people like him) can go make some effort to ensure us we will be ok to meet him and get what we want too or he can carry on not getting sex."

Yep! What 3sum just said

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"I'm going to say it's because men only need an orifice to please their dicks.

Women need mental stimuli to want the dick in their orifices.

Not all men/women."

You nailed it

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

"and see, women have to come across very abruptly and rude on sites like this coz if you don't plenty of people will take that as some kind of weakness and try to take advantage.

this type of environment attracts strong women and it confuses men coz thy expect us to be submissive and here for what they want, most of us really are not like that.

so OP (and people like him) can go make some effort to ensure us we will be ok to meet him and get what we want too or he can carry on not getting sex."

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"If your straight in there with the crude comments then it's likely you'll be a wam bam thank you mam type of man n whilst quickies are good sometimes we want some foreplay too."

I would've thought that in this day and age foreplay and an acute knowledge of the female anatomy were a standard set in stone.

I am jealous of the magnitude of errogenous zones of our fairer sex. I could spend hours exploring and mapping out each individual region and contour as although they may look similar. The stimulation and tantalisation of them rarely are the same. Although some may just have subtle nuances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and see, women have to come across very abruptly and rude on sites like this coz if you don't plenty of people will take that as some kind of weakness and try to take advantage.

this type of environment attracts strong women and it confuses men coz thy expect us to be submissive and here for what they want, most of us really are not like that.

so OP (and people like him) can go make some effort to ensure us we will be ok to meet him and get what we want too or he can carry on not getting sex.

Yep! What 3sum just said

Yup. Pretty much spot on

Many of the women on here are extremely intelligent, worldly, strong minded and hugely sexually experienced.

It sure does confuse the buggers

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not here for sex - I can get that walking into any bar on a Saturday night. I'm here for friends, dalliances, attractions, seductions and breathless, mindbending fun.

If you think you can get any of the above without getting to know someone first, you're sorely mistaken.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"...Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

I don't believe so, but trannies are certainly from Uranus.

I like that one. Although it's like the N word. You have to be of a certain type to be able to use such vernacular.

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By *idalgo13Man
over a year ago

Near York

"No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you. "

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

No it's a male recognition that gay men give you offers of sucking your cock or given you the option of taking or receiving virtually straight away.

However women give you the offer of coffee or a strong drink initially if you're lucky and you have to go through a whole process you might as well indulge in offline.

Sorry to burst your bubble my friend.

You'll not bust my bubble bonny lad ....

I have to fight them off with a shitty stick ....

Why's the stick gotta be shitty?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"If you think you can get any of the above without getting to know someone first, you're sorely mistaken. "

I was thinking similarly. I know the OP is complaining about Fab women, but does he get shags in the real world without some sort of connection being made first? I doubt it.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch...."

most people are here for sex so wouldn't want a social with a guy they don't want sex with.

some would though, it's just finding those people as they will be less than the ones wanting sex i think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

No it's a male recognition that gay men give you offers of sucking your cock or given you the option of taking or receiving virtually straight away.

However women give you the offer of coffee or a strong drink initially if you're lucky and you have to go through a whole process you might as well indulge in offline.

Sorry to burst your bubble my friend.

You'll not bust my bubble bonny lad ....

I have to fight them off with a shitty stick ....

Why's the stick gotta be shitty?"

Well it gives me something more useful to wield than clutching at straws like some folk do .......

If you catch my drift .,,,,,

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I'm not here for sex - I can get that walking into any bar on a Saturday night. I'm here for friends, dalliances, attractions, seductions and breathless, mindbending fun.

If you think you can get any of the above without getting to know someone first, you're sorely mistaken. "

Strange as this may seem , coming from us , but we have had and still have all of the above from our swinging experiences .

We've made some amazing friends .

Have frequent dalliances .

Establish attraction on a physical and mental level with playmates .

We love the seductive nature of meeting newbies .

And all our meets are breathless , mind bending fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I must be a bit of a woman as I also need the "fluff, powder and chemistry". I also wouldn't fuck most of the women on here tbh as they don't tick enough boxes. I'm here to get to know the ones that do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your straight in there with the crude comments then it's likely you'll be a wam bam thank you mam type of man n whilst quickies are good sometimes we want some foreplay too.

I would've thought that in this day and age foreplay and an acute knowledge of the female anatomy were a standard set in stone.

Is this you attempting to display a caring side?

Fail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch...."

Why would I want a social with someone I had no intention of having sex with. The whole point of a social is to confirm attraction and chemistry. If not wtf are you on a sex/swingers site?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

most people are here for sex so wouldn't want a social with a guy they don't want sex with.

some would though, it's just finding those people as they will be less than the ones wanting sex i think."

May explain y I've not met anyone for over a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

No it's a male recognition that gay men give you offers of sucking your cock or given you the option of taking or receiving virtually straight away.

However women give you the offer of coffee or a strong drink initially if you're lucky and you have to go through a whole process you might as well indulge in offline.

Sorry to burst your bubble my friend.

You'll not bust my bubble bonny lad ....

I have to fight them off with a shitty stick ....

This made me snort with laughter

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

most people are here for sex so wouldn't want a social with a guy they don't want sex with.

some would though, it's just finding those people as they will be less than the ones wanting sex i think.

May explain y I've not met anyone for over a year

yeah pretty much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

No it's a male recognition that gay men give you offers of sucking your cock or given you the option of taking or receiving virtually straight away.

However women give you the offer of coffee or a strong drink initially if you're lucky and you have to go through a whole process you might as well indulge in offline.

Sorry to burst your bubble my friend.

You'll not bust my bubble bonny lad ....

I have to fight them off with a shitty stick ....

This made me snort with laughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

No it's a male recognition that gay men give you offers of sucking your cock or given you the option of taking or receiving virtually straight away.

However women give you the offer of coffee or a strong drink initially if you're lucky and you have to go through a whole process you might as well indulge in offline.

Sorry to burst your bubble my friend."

This is because alot of men will stick their cock anywhere it us wet n warm, regardless of whether they find the other party attractive or not. Women rarely work that way, I love to fuck but I still have to have some kind of attraction, I find even if I fancy someone physically, if I don't like their personality or attitude then that is a massive turn off. Also, even if I fancy the arse off of someone and know I want to play with them, them telling me what they are going to do to me still often puts me off

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you. "

Amen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

Definitely this

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"If I were here for just a fuck I would only respond to the physically hot men, and tell them not to talk while they fucked me. "

That would make sense. But as you're not what are you here for? Conversations and connection? Is the sex a reward for someone connecting with you?

I know it sounds crude and blunt but it would take too long to make it sound pleasant in writing. So I'm sticking to the gist.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Ok OP look at it this way, if you were on the pull in a bar would you drop your pants thrust your cock in her face and say" suck this" in the spirit of getting straight to the point? or would you think better of it for fear of a slap?

Well guess what us deleting your crude just to the point messages is your metaphorical public bitch slap across the face

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message....."

Just because you are not one of the FAF men and send nice messages, it still doesn't mean they want to meet you.

The twats that do send those types are usually dismissed with one click but the upshot is, you can be as respectful and chatty as you like but if nobody fancies you, you wont get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

Well said Seeside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I were here for just a fuck I would only respond to the physically hot men, and tell them not to talk while they fucked me.

That would make sense. But as you're not what are you here for? Conversations and connection? Is the sex a reward for someone connecting with you?

I know it sounds crude and blunt but it would take too long to make it sound pleasant in writing. So I'm sticking to the gist."

"Is the sex a reward for someone connecting with you?"

To quote Ms Twain " you must be joking, right?"

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Getting sex is easy, for those that live in a major town they can just pick up the phone and within an hour have whatever they desire.

Of course getting free sex is another thing entirely.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

Why would I want a social with someone I had no intention of having sex with. The whole point of a social is to confirm attraction and chemistry. If not wtf are you on a sex/swingers site?"

Cos i wos hopeing i may find sumone i carnect with throw a social then after that carnectshoun hope the fun follows at sum point as its less datey on hear and a bit mor relaxed.

We'll its ment to be anyway..

And if thar is no carnectshoun both sides still have a good time from the social.

Is a social to see if people clik really to mutch to arsk for ?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Just because you are not one of the FAF men and send nice messages, it still doesn't mean they want to meet you.

The twats that do send those types are usually dismissed with one click but the upshot is, you can be as respectful and chatty as you like but if nobody fancies you, you wont get a meet."

True ......

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

No that's not quite what I mean. But I fully understand that those messages aren't acceptable espescially as an opening line!! Lol

But it's the weeks and sometimes months of back and forth messaging without talking about sex that confuses me.

Realistically men aren't interested in your lives and woes or hobbies. We would be on dating sites if we were looking to date and looking for a long term partner. So o can understand beating around the bush. But going around the houses and sometimes the galaxy is a few steps too far!! Don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

No that's not quite what I mean. But I fully understand that those messages aren't acceptable espescially as an opening line!! Lol

But it's the weeks and sometimes months of back and forth messaging without talking about sex that confuses me.

Sounds fair enough. If they are just chatting and not wanting to sort a meet why do you carry on chatting?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch...."

But why would anyone who didn't want to fuck you want a random social with you? Sure that happens in clubs and organised socials but you are still expecting something on the back of being 'nice'.

if the person doesn't fancy you, you don't get anything.

If this were a dating site, you still wouldn't get anything if the woman doesn't fancy you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not that complicated, a lot of women... and men, want sex with people they're attracted to. Pics can look hot, but then there's no connection when you have a social or they turn out to not be so nice or respectful. You only have to read some of the bad meet forum posts to see why people like to get to know someone a bit first. I and I'm sure many, aren't just going to be jumping into bed with someone who sent a nice message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

Why would I want a social with someone I had no intention of having sex with. The whole point of a social is to confirm attraction and chemistry. If not wtf are you on a sex/swingers site?

Cos i wos hopeing i may find sumone i carnect with throw a social then after that carnectshoun hope the fun follows at sum point as its less datey on hear and a bit mor relaxed.

We'll its ment to be anyway..

And if thar is no carnectshoun both sides still have a good time from the social.

Is a social to see if people clik really to mutch to arsk for ? "

I have socials with people just as a social. Some people do.

But most will only meet if they are likely to fuck. Just means you aren't compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

No that's not quite what I mean. But I fully understand that those messages aren't acceptable espescially as an opening line!! Lol

But it's the weeks and sometimes months of back and forth messaging without talking about sex that confuses me.

You talk to ladies for weeks, sometimes months, without the merest mention of sex?

Hmmmm.

Strangely, I dont believe you

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

This makes complete sense. But you are one of the few that seem to acknowledge that you are here for sex and therefore willing to participate in a conversation about sexual likes and preferences.

You are not in the majority.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

Why would I want a social with someone I had no intention of having sex with. The whole point of a social is to confirm attraction and chemistry. If not wtf are you on a sex/swingers site?

Cos i wos hopeing i may find sumone i carnect with throw a social then after that carnectshoun hope the fun follows at sum point as its less datey on hear and a bit mor relaxed.

We'll its ment to be anyway..

And if thar is no carnectshoun both sides still have a good time from the social.

Is a social to see if people clik really to mutch to arsk for ? "

if i was nearer or you was i would meet you for a social just to see what you're like off the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

Why would I want a social with someone I had no intention of having sex with. The whole point of a social is to confirm attraction and chemistry. If not wtf are you on a sex/swingers site?

Cos i wos hopeing i may find sumone i carnect with throw a social then after that carnectshoun hope the fun follows at sum point as its less datey on hear and a bit mor relaxed.

We'll its ment to be anyway..

And if thar is no carnectshoun both sides still have a good time from the social.

Is a social to see if people clik really to mutch to arsk for ? "

Yes it is if I don't find them attractive from their pictures.

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

"No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you.

I prefer to service my dear. There's no more of a turn on than a woman turned on and spasming. If there is such a word.

" my dear" how bloody condescending are you?? Jeez!!

Tell me OP. How have you reached the ripe old age of 46, having no clue how to relate to women? Not seeming to understand that " get ya knickers off love" just wont cut it?

Where have you been?"

It won't?

Heartbroken

Must develop a new strategy

I was told this place is instashag

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

Why would I want a social with someone I had no intention of having sex with. The whole point of a social is to confirm attraction and chemistry. If not wtf are you on a sex/swingers site?

Cos i wos hopeing i may find sumone i carnect with throw a social then after that carnectshoun hope the fun follows at sum point as its less datey on hear and a bit mor relaxed.

We'll its ment to be anyway..

And if thar is no carnectshoun both sides still have a good time from the social.

Is a social to see if people clik really to mutch to arsk for ?

Yes it is if I don't find them attractive from their pictures."

fair comment......

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

Why would I want a social with someone I had no intention of having sex with. The whole point of a social is to confirm attraction and chemistry. If not wtf are you on a sex/swingers site?

Cos i wos hopeing i may find sumone i carnect with throw a social then after that carnectshoun hope the fun follows at sum point as its less datey on hear and a bit mor relaxed.

We'll its ment to be anyway..

And if thar is no carnectshoun both sides still have a good time from the social.

Is a social to see if people clik really to mutch to arsk for ?

if i was nearer or you was i would meet you for a social just to see what you're like off the forums.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand."

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

Why would I want a social with someone I had no intention of having sex with. The whole point of a social is to confirm attraction and chemistry. If not wtf are you on a sex/swingers site?

Cos i wos hopeing i may find sumone i carnect with throw a social then after that carnectshoun hope the fun follows at sum point as its less datey on hear and a bit mor relaxed.

We'll its ment to be anyway..

And if thar is no carnectshoun both sides still have a good time from the social.

Is a social to see if people clik really to mutch to arsk for ?

I have socials with people just as a social. Some people do.

But most will only meet if they are likely to fuck. Just means you aren't compatible. "

Story of my life that ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

hahaha funny

Another 600 messages type thread won't be necessary, for today at least

"
... haha arrrr

What about I can't get a shag even when they are giving them away thread

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

Why would I want a social with someone I had no intention of having sex with. The whole point of a social is to confirm attraction and chemistry. If not wtf are you on a sex/swingers site?

Cos i wos hopeing i may find sumone i carnect with throw a social then after that carnectshoun hope the fun follows at sum point as its less datey on hear and a bit mor relaxed.

We'll its ment to be anyway..

And if thar is no carnectshoun both sides still have a good time from the social.

Is a social to see if people clik really to mutch to arsk for ?

if i was nearer or you was i would meet you for a social just to see what you're like off the forums.

Thanks

you're welcome, i've met a few people off here just as friends and it's been nice to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for sex, however not with just anyone. There HAS to be an attraction both ways otherwise no point, I'm my opinion.

I meet for a social drink first...

I can talk dirty with the best of them..

What I cannot abide though is a guy telling me how good he thinks he is. Instant turn off!

Today I was told I was going to be destroyed by his tongue...

Is that seriously meant to turn me on??

Sorry but some guys have no idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you.

I prefer to service my dear. There's no more of a turn on than a woman turned on and spasming. If there is such a word.

" my dear" how bloody condescending are you?? Jeez!!

Tell me OP. How have you reached the ripe old age of 46, having no clue how to relate to women? Not seeming to understand that " get ya knickers off love" just wont cut it?

Where have you been?

It won't?

Heartbroken

Must develop a new strategy

I was told this place is instashag

Fuck, darling. Instafuck

Shagging is SO working class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm here for sex, however not with just anyone. There HAS to be an attraction both ways otherwise no point, I'm my opinion.

I meet for a social drink first...

I can talk dirty with the best of them..

What I cannot abide though is a guy telling me how good he thinks he is. Instant turn off!

Today I was told I was going to be destroyed by his tongue...

Is that seriously meant to turn me on??

Sorry but some guys have no idea!

I've destroyed a few men with my tongue.

Evil, facetious bitch that I am

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm here for sex, however not with just anyone. There HAS to be an attraction both ways otherwise no point, I'm my opinion.

I meet for a social drink first...

I can talk dirty with the best of them..

What I cannot abide though is a guy telling me how good he thinks he is. Instant turn off!

Today I was told I was going to be destroyed by his tongue...

Is that seriously meant to turn me on??

Sorry but some guys have no idea!

I've destroyed a few men with my tongue.

Evil, facetious bitch that I am

Lol"

They probably deserved it lol

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

But why would anyone who didn't want to fuck you want a random social with you? Sure that happens in clubs and organised socials but you are still expecting something on the back of being 'nice'.

if the person doesn't fancy you, you don't get anything.

If this were a dating site, you still wouldn't get anything if the woman doesn't fancy you."

Gess this is the problem i have with this site.....

To meney people judging on looks alown....

I myself never judge on looks alown.

Allways go on pursnalttey.

Shame so meney don't........

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

Why would I want a social with someone I had no intention of having sex with. The whole point of a social is to confirm attraction and chemistry. If not wtf are you on a sex/swingers site?

Cos i wos hopeing i may find sumone i carnect with throw a social then after that carnectshoun hope the fun follows at sum point as its less datey on hear and a bit mor relaxed.

We'll its ment to be anyway..

And if thar is no carnectshoun both sides still have a good time from the social.

Is a social to see if people clik really to mutch to arsk for ?

if i was nearer or you was i would meet you for a social just to see what you're like off the forums.

Thanks

you're welcome, i've met a few people off here just as friends and it's been nice to meet them."

Wish others had this vue to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

No it's a male recognition that gay men give you offers of sucking your cock or given you the option of taking or receiving virtually straight away.

However women give you the offer of coffee or a strong drink initially if you're lucky and you have to go through a whole process you might as well indulge in offline.

Sorry to burst your bubble my friend.

You'll not bust my bubble bonny lad ....

I have to fight them off with a shitty stick ....

Ha ha ha, shitty stick love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

But why would anyone who didn't want to fuck you want a random social with you? Sure that happens in clubs and organised socials but you are still expecting something on the back of being 'nice'.

if the person doesn't fancy you, you don't get anything.

If this were a dating site, you still wouldn't get anything if the woman doesn't fancy you.

Gess this is the problem i have with this site.....

To meney people judging on looks alown....

I myself never judge on looks alown.

Allways go on pursnalttey.

Shame so meney don't........

Seeside my lovely...

I get messages from some good looking guys that have a personality of a toad... So I still wouldn't be interested.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

But why would anyone who didn't want to fuck you want a random social with you? Sure that happens in clubs and organised socials but you are still expecting something on the back of being 'nice'.

if the person doesn't fancy you, you don't get anything.

If this were a dating site, you still wouldn't get anything if the woman doesn't fancy you.

Gess this is the problem i have with this site.....

To meney people judging on looks alown....

I myself never judge on looks alown.

Allways go on pursnalttey.

Shame so meney don't........

Please, stop it. In order to get to know someone, you have to find them attractive in some way and that is a basic human need.

What you are saying is that we should all meet everyone on the off chance we may like their personality.

This is not a dating site See. If you want a date then chat to the women 'out there' and get to know each other.

If you want to get laid, then go to socials and clubs and get known.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

I think you have misd my point.

That's wot i don't understand. People say thay want Sumthing other than a fuk then wen that Sumthing is offered it gets turnd down as if its a faf message.....

Agen you have misd my point.

Hoo sed i wanted a fuck.....

I wood be happy with just a social and a very. And a fue other guys wood be to.

but for sum even that seems to be mutch....

Why would I want a social with someone I had no intention of having sex with. The whole point of a social is to confirm attraction and chemistry. If not wtf are you on a sex/swingers site?

Cos i wos hopeing i may find sumone i carnect with throw a social then after that carnectshoun hope the fun follows at sum point as its less datey on hear and a bit mor relaxed.

We'll its ment to be anyway..

And if thar is no carnectshoun both sides still have a good time from the social.

Is a social to see if people clik really to mutch to arsk for ?

if i was nearer or you was i would meet you for a social just to see what you're like off the forums.

Thanks

you're welcome, i've met a few people off here just as friends and it's been nice to meet them.

Wish others had this vue to...

i'm not a swinger. i wouldn't expect swingers to meet/socialise unless they were interested in sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

I don't want fluff and powder but I do want chemistry. I'm never going to get sexual with a man I'm not attracted to..

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm not here for sex - I can get that walking into any bar on a Saturday night. I'm here for friends, dalliances, attractions, seductions and breathless, mindbending fun.

If you think you can get any of the above without getting to know someone first, you're sorely mistaken.

Strange as this may seem , coming from us , but we have had and still have all of the above from our swinging experiences .

We've made some amazing friends .

Have frequent dalliances .

Establish attraction on a physical and mental level with playmates .

We love the seductive nature of meeting newbies .

And all our meets are breathless , mind bending fun

Oooohhh yes! I missed the 'just' out of my first sentence - I'm not here 'just' for sex! I have had rather a lot of awesome sex out of this site. I'm here for all the rest of it at the same time too

To me, it's what separates swinging from dial-a-shag

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

We aren't all looking for just sex, I know I wasn't. What I've found has far exceeded my expectations and not what I anticipated from the site. The meets I had previously were probably more "Fab" but even then it wasn't just sex we were friends

I think ppl not just females on the site are all looking for different things

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

Some people (obviously not you) have to have a level of comfort "chemistry" with the person they're fucking in order to enjoy said fucking. If the fucking isn't pleasurable, why do it?

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

hahaha funny

Another 600 messages type thread won't be necessary, for today at least

... haha arrrr

What about I can't get a shag even when they are giving them away thread

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Is this yet another male explanation for the frustration of repeated rejection......

No it's a male recognition that gay men give you offers of sucking your cock or given you the option of taking or receiving virtually straight away.

However women give you the offer of coffee or a strong drink initially if you're lucky and you have to go through a whole process you might as well indulge in offline.

Sorry to burst your bubble my friend."

In that case, I think you should stick to men, as it obviously works for you

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand."

What????

Come on we can't multi task.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

I always wanted to be an astronaut..

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

"No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you.

I prefer to service my dear. There's no more of a turn on than a woman turned on and spasming. If there is such a word.

" my dear" how bloody condescending are you?? Jeez!!

Tell me OP. How have you reached the ripe old age of 46, having no clue how to relate to women? Not seeming to understand that " get ya knickers off love" just wont cut it?

Where have you been?

It won't?

Heartbroken

Must develop a new strategy

I was told this place is instashag

Fuck, darling. Instafuck

Shagging is SO working class"

Scuse me while I throw t'whippet in t'yard and get me a pint of porter...

And don't just stand there lass... bend do on and pull me boots off

No not that way round

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

"I'm here for sex, however not with just anyone. There HAS to be an attraction both ways otherwise no point, I'm my opinion.

I meet for a social drink first...

I can talk dirty with the best of them..

What I cannot abide though is a guy telling me how good he thinks he is. Instant turn off!

Today I was told I was going to be destroyed by his tongue...

Is that seriously meant to turn me on??

Sorry but some guys have no idea!

I've destroyed a few men with my tongue.

Evil, facetious bitch that I am

Lol"

Destroyed by a tongue...

Wanders back into man cave smiling...

Not me you haven't

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's coz women are objectified all the fucking time, not just on fuck sites but everywhere they go and men are there too, (not all men but all disrespectful men).

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

You haven't Been turned down a few times on here by any chance have you op ?

If you think it's just about sex because it's a swingers site you're going to be mighty disappointed.

These fab girls aren't just holes to use you've got to work at it.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I never understand the complaints from *some* men regarding the women who want 'fluff' and 'chemistry' before committing to an intimate encounter. Don't they realise that if mutual physical attraction *and* a certain amount of chemistry is established beforehand, the chances of mutually enjoyable sex increases hugely? Would they actually rather a woman turned up on the off chance, without any prior discussion, and more or less just lay there, demonstrating little or no enthusiasm, rushing things to get it over and done with? .... because that's what I'd do if I started to have sex with someone I didn't feel any chemistry with. Not that I would - because I'm not running a charity for the sexually frustrated, and I wouldn't make the effort I go to getting ready prior to a meet unless I felt pretty confident I was going to have a good time with someone who cared enough about the occasion to make that happen. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread was an interesting read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you. "

It's amazing how many men on here just don't understand that.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?"

Yes, it's not rocket science, you're not dumb - why can't you simply accept it??

Men are very physical animals, women are far more social animals.

Men can easily be visually stimulated, women are far more complexly emotionally/mentally stimulated.

Men's desire is fuelled by testosterone which is an aggressive 'go get now' hormone. Women get super-horny too but I suspect their hormonal imperative is more complex and includes oxytocin and other fluffy 'social' hormones.

You are right in that MM sex is much more 'instant' because of that, and I am pretty sure that some high androgen women can be more sexually urgent than the norm.

So basically - suck it up and get over it, catch the ghey, or pay for it!!

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

If only we could.

It would be very interesting.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"I think most women are not after fuck and goes. I want to enjoy a good time- and if I can't communicate with someone outside of the bedroom I doubt I will inside.

once I know someone I am more than happy to respond to faf messages without all the fluffy bits lol"

Ahhhh I see!!!

Thank you. It seems so obvious now you've explained it so simply with no sarcasm, prejudice or assumption. I thank you kindly.

Most of us men are on here hoping and actually believing that the women here are as non fussy as us and just want to fuck. So that we don't have to go through that dating / pulling process we have to in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think most women are not after fuck and goes. I want to enjoy a good time- and if I can't communicate with someone outside of the bedroom I doubt I will inside.

once I know someone I am more than happy to respond to faf messages without all the fluffy bits lol

Ahhhh I see!!!

Thank you. It seems so obvious now you've explained it so simply with no sarcasm, prejudice or assumption. I thank you kindly.

So you want a fuck without making any effort?

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"Many men treat women like wet holes for their use then complain when some women object to this.

Some men will never understand.

Wot i don't understand is y the nice guys that don't treat women like wet holes for their use are treeted the same as the 1s that do

May I just say Brrrrrap!!

That means here here or we'll said for those that don't know.

Oh I thought you'd just farted.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"No OP it's because the ladies on here aren't unpaid Escorts here to service you.

I prefer to service my dear. There's no more of a turn on than a woman turned on and spasming. If there is such a word.

" my dear" how bloody condescending are you?? Jeez!!

Tell me OP. How have you reached the ripe old age of 46, having no clue how to relate to women? Not seeming to understand that " get ya knickers off love" just wont cut it?

Where have you been?"

Well I don't know what you read. But it seems you found a lot between the lines. Have you tried reading the lines and not the imaginary unsaid?

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?.... Yeah take away a women's choice to say noooooo.!. Let's go back to the days were you could bash us over the head with a club and drag us to your cave... Mr Neanderthal

Now this wasn't a let's make up our own subtext competition!!

Where did that one come from!!?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

We are not "just here to fuck".

This is a swingers site, not a "fuck site".

There's a social aspect to swinging. And there's also a hell of a lot more to having sex than fucking. People generally to get to know each other a bit, find out what foreplay each other likes...whether they're kinky and in what way. Women generally to not take kindly to being treated like an unpaid escort.

Try to remember that the ladies you write to are human beings who are here to fulfil their own desires and needs....which may well not be to lie down and think of England....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Most of us men are on here hoping and actually believing that the women here are as non fussy as us and just want to fuck. So that we don't have to go through that dating / pulling process we have to in the real world."

I think its very sad that either men aren't fussy, or you believe that men aren't fussy. Men have preferences and tastes just as women do, and the thought that you've just denied that shows that it might not be just women you struggle to understand.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I think most women are not after fuck and goes. I want to enjoy a good time- and if I can't communicate with someone outside of the bedroom I doubt I will inside.

once I know someone I am more than happy to respond to faf messages without all the fluffy bits lol

Ahhhh I see!!!

Thank you. It seems so obvious now you've explained it so simply with no sarcasm, prejudice or assumption. I thank you kindly.

Yeap I get you now, men don't give a shit who they fuck as long as it is a willing hole, myself for example? I haven't have sex in six months, because if you come across as a cock then I have no interest in your cock, that a novel thing isn't it?

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

i know what it's like on here for men already. i blocked all men so nobody messages me, if i wanna chat to someone i have to message them.

i'm just not desperate so won't be making a topic whinging about that, that's the difference.

yes i didn't say they all are desperate, just implying the ones who make topics whinging about not getting what they want are, that's what they look like to me anyway.

i blocked them all so at least anyone wanting messages read or replied to clearly knows they won't get that from me.

no i was talking about the OP and people like him who whinge about not get easy sex.

your posts did not offend me at all, no truce needed."

I wasn't whinging at all. I did not once complain of rejection or anything like that. I have a pretty decent sex life and the rest of my life is quite lovely too.

So if you take what I asked and observed without prejudice, malice or assumption it would be much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why single women join this site and within a few weeks leave.

Just a fuck is boring!

If that's what I wanted then I might as well have a wank ..

In fact a wank might be better at least I would cum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why single women join this site and within a few weeks leave.

Just a fuck is boring!

If that's what I wanted then I might as well have a wank ..

In fact a wank might be better at least I would cum!

I had a wank earlier

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

"This is why single women join this site and within a few weeks leave.

Just a fuck is boring!

If that's what I wanted then I might as well have a wank ..

In fact a wank might be better at least I would cum!

I had a wank earlier

What was his name ?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"This is why single women join this site and within a few weeks leave.

Just a fuck is boring!

If that's what I wanted then I might as well have a wank ..

In fact a wank might be better at least I would cum!

I have a Fab friend, and when we meet we ensure we have several hours together. But she told me of a meet where with 15 minutes of entering the guy's house he was asking her "do you want a coffee before you go".

Why do some guys think that treating a lady as if she's simply a hole for your brief pleasure is in any way reasonable?

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"I think it would be interesting if the men and women swapped places on this site for a month to see how it is for the opposite sex on here.

i know what it's like on here for men already. i blocked all men so nobody messages me, if i wanna chat to someone i have to message them.

i'm just not desperate so won't be making a topic whinging about that, that's the difference.

yes i didn't say they all are desperate, just implying the ones who make topics whinging about not getting what they want are, that's what they look like to me anyway.

i blocked them all so at least anyone wanting messages read or replied to clearly knows they won't get that from me.

no i was talking about the OP and people like him who whinge about not get easy sex.

your posts did not offend me at all, no truce needed.

I wasn't whinging at all. I did not once complain of rejection or anything like that. I have a pretty decent sex life and the rest of my life is quite lovely too.

So if you take what I asked and observed without prejudice, malice or assumption it would be much appreciated."

you're expecting easy sex and said it yourself after i posted that, i'm like a mind reader or something me.

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By *unnoisseur OP Man
over a year ago

Stratford

"It seems obvious. We are in here to fuck. But very few women like men to get straight to the point. They seem to want to disguise it with fluff, powder and "chemistry".

It's like you need to apply quantum physics in order to get to the biology.

Is this because men are from Mars and women are from Venus?

The thing that really makes me smile, is that I CAN get straight to the point

I am extremely blunt. And can be very sexually graphic. There isnt much that would shock me

Some men cant deal with that

Oh, they SAY they can. But when confronted with a sexually experienced woman, they run crying to mummy

You must be about as blunt as a club hammer!! Lol

Hit me!!

I would eat you alive.

I like my men with intelligence, charm and wit

The very fact that you posted your OP tells me all I need to know"

Well if eating someone alive is what turns you on I'm glad I'm intelligent enough to present myself as dim you cannibal!!

Now try to read my posts without the flesh eating presumptions and read the words and not your predisposed subtext.

Lol

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