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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?

I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?

I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it? "

1 hour at a club...then played about 15 mins later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of months. I like to chat first..

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

4 hours. And it was the one and only 1to1 meet I've had on here, an awkward social.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

A few hours between messages and then pinned to the door of my hotel room and kissed... it was a very thrilling and brave night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"4 hours. And it was the one and only 1to1 meet I've had on here, an awkward social."

Ok you maybe just put me off

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

In a club a couple of hours from meeting at the bar to playing in the couples rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few hours, messaged and then met her at her hotel, pinned her against her door and kissed her.

Ohhhhh

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?

I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it? "

Perfect. Seriously. As long as it's a social go for it ! You both get out. See each other animated. No more than two drinks tho or you will wake up being sorry that you shagged the hunchback of notre fab through beer goggles !

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

45 mins from initial message to shag.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"45 mins from initial message to shag. "

Would have been quicker but he got lost on the way.

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By *eadonistCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne


"A few hours between messages and then pinned to the door of my hotel room and kissed... it was a very thrilling and brave night. "

Delicious ??

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?

I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it? "
you can jump straight on me

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

When I had my single profile I used the 'Who's on nearby feature' and found someone already in the same pub. After a brief chat we had sex in the pub toilets. Classy.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?

I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it?

Perfect. Seriously. As long as it's a social go for it ! You both get out. See each other animated. No more than two drinks tho or you will wake up being sorry that you shagged the hunchback of notre fab through beer goggles !"

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull


"4 hours. And it was the one and only 1to1 meet I've had on here, an awkward social.

Ok you maybe just put me off "

Put you off what?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Next day fastest for me. Not off here. The fishy site

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

An hour of lively conversation at a club before going upstairs and screwing our brains out

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?

I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it? "

No harm at all .

Too much messaging often goes nowhere .

We always meet up after initial pic and message take our fancy on the same night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"4 hours. And it was the one and only 1to1 meet I've had on here, an awkward social.

Ok you maybe just put me off

Put you off what? "

Jumping straight in, in case its awkward

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"4 hours. And it was the one and only 1to1 meet I've had on here, an awkward social.

Ok you maybe just put me off

Put you off what?

Jumping straight in, in case its awkward "

Only one post which says this was the case .....

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Less than 24 hours, started messaging about midnight one Thursday night and met him early Friday evening. I usually chat much longer but honestly it was one of my best ever meets so I say go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 minutes

Lived 3 streets away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was 5hrs and about 8 messages, she came to my place

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull


"4 hours. And it was the one and only 1to1 meet I've had on here, an awkward social.

Ok you maybe just put me off

Put you off what?

Jumping straight in, in case its awkward

Only one post which says this was the case ....."

Exactly, 1 post from 1 person who had 1 meet, more likely that it was me that made it awkward? Not the fact that it was rushed into.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's the fastest you've gone from initial contact to meeting someone?

I generally like to get to know someone a bit first but Im now getting bored of messaging and starting to think I should jump straight in to a social? Really it can't do any harm can it? "

No need to talk for ages before a social, just arrange that ASAP. I don't wally around with messages.

Those that want to meet will make the effort, it s out those that just want wank fodder and you get to meet new folks for a coffee and then decide if you want to get naked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"4 hours. And it was the one and only 1to1 meet I've had on here, an awkward social.

Ok you maybe just put me off

Put you off what?

Jumping straight in, in case its awkward

Only one post which says this was the case .....

Exactly, 1 post from 1 person who had 1 meet, more likely that it was me that made it awkward? Not the fact that it was rushed into."

Sorry I was just being silly. I did put a laughing face to show I wasn't being serious

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull


"4 hours. And it was the one and only 1to1 meet I've had on here, an awkward social.

Ok you maybe just put me off

Put you off what?

Jumping straight in, in case its awkward

Only one post which says this was the case .....

Exactly, 1 post from 1 person who had 1 meet, more likely that it was me that made it awkward? Not the fact that it was rushed into.

Sorry I was just being silly. I did put a laughing face to show I wasn't being serious "
no need to apologise, I was just saying just because I didn't have a good experience it doesn't mean nobody else will

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

10 mins, he was working across the road from my house and saw my status looking for a meet now, it was an amazing fuck as well.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

2 days from first message to a social, which lasted all night!

And now a regular fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to meet for a social within about a week of first starting chatting. We don't know if we will like each other before we've met in person. I don't want to waste our time chatting for ages if we don't get on.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

same day but what I've learnt is the best ones take longer

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No, I don't think it can.

One of my best meets involved an exchange of about five quick messages and a social within the hour. She's still one of my closest friends.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"same day but what I've learnt is the best ones take longer "

Not from our experience they don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About an hour from him tagging me on a Facebook app and him walking through my front door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a couple of hours with a smashing, if slightly bonkers lady on here who messaged my couple profile when we were trotting to a club. I assumed she was after Number One Chap which caused a touch of initial confusion as it was more of a girl thing. She's since left the funny old world of Planet Fab, which is a shame as she was a riot.

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By *a72Man
over a year ago

london

Few hours not on here though a site called face party many years ago. Went perfectly well that time but I guess generally it makes sense to chat a bit first a few times to see if you both want the same things etc

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