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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and the other half have zero interest in holidaying without each other. We enjoy each others company and the thought of being separated for long periods doesn't appeal to us in the slightest.

Out of curiosity, do you have separate holidays away from your spouse/life partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep it's been 20 mths now and I'm enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,

Yes

Yes

Yes

No

Yes.

The final yes being an arrangement that I have to vacation without the voices in my head..;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt want to go on holiday without my hubby, i like his company. But if i really wanted to go somewhere and he didnt, then i would go on my own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep it's been 20 mths now and I'm enjoying it "

20 months is an awfully long time to be strolling around in a mankini

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

ooh no... why would I want to do that? I do enjoy his company (some of the time, anyway!)

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By *issbehaveCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

No way would we go on holiday without each other! We work together, live together and pretty much do everything together! He's my best mate and we love being together all the time, and have been for 22 years, we've known each other for 36! Maybe that's why we like to play sep room? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe that's why we like to play sep room? Lol"

You enjoy short breaks apart then

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By *issbehaveCouple
over a year ago

wrexham


"Maybe that's why we like to play sep room? Lol

You enjoy short breaks apart then "

Lol yeah!!

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

Because my other half works almost solidly between August and May it often means I have holidays and breaks without him.

Late next week we are off to Spain together for Five days as there is a short break in his work schedule, but then I am on to Ibiza on the ferry.....alone, staying with friends.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

we havent holidayed together since 2001. he merrily tootles off to florida once or twice a year . I stay home and look after animals.. I last had a holiday 2008. was toying with idea of a week in cyprus in two weeks time I expect i will stay home .. such is my apathy to holiday alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't do sea and sand holidays so it's best for us to have seperate holidays

beaches, swimming pools, sitting round reading do nothing to relax me for more than a couple of hours, yet my other half would quite happily take two books and sit round a pool for a fortnight.

therefore seperate holidays are almost a 'must'

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Sometimes i go over to relatives for a long w/end and other half doesnt always want to go, so have went on my own, but we on fone everyday to each other. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we usually holiday together as are happy spending as much time as possible. however he has had a couple of trips on the bike with a mate when i have been too busy to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IMHO, and please bear in mind I have been there, done that, go the T-shirt etc., looking back, my ex-hubby and I started to drift apart big time when we decided to take separate holidays.

We were chalk and cheese to start with, and have very different holiday styles that are not compatible with each other.

The last straw came when I nearly drove off and left him in Italy on the return leg of a road trip.

From then onwards, I decided never to go on holiday with him again except for "duty calls" like family events.

A year or so down the line, my path crossed my late partner's, resulted in two broken marriages.

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

I think it depends on how strong a relationship is to start with....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kate's been abroad on holiday with her friends while I've stayed home, on a few occaisions.

I've had short breaks away too while she stayed home.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

OH and I have had separate holidays in the past, not often mind... but found them not to be anywhere near as much fun as we thought... so decided to spend those precious weeks together

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

I wouldn't rule out a separate holiday but only if I wanted to go and see the folks and he didn't want to come.

Was away from him at Christmas and missed him so much, but made the home coming worthwhile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done it in the past but not sure I would again xx

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

To be honest I wouldn't if the other half didn't work such a ridiculous schedule....still this is his last season so soon we will be back to normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done seperate ones this year but are booked to go away together in January. I would expect that J will be away after Christamas as her plce closes down and for me it is a very busy week. I like the fact we have seperate things planned this year and didn't cancel as it effectively sets a precedent that is the norm. While there are things we want to share, conversely there are things oin our lives that the other isn't interested in.

I don't see as seperate holidays would be anything weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to do both methinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep it's been 20 mths now and I'm enjoying it "

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In nearly 25 years of marriage my ex-husband and I had one holiday together with the kids as he didn't like to fly, stay in hotels etc but the year before I left we had a week in Yorkshire. The kids loved it I hated every second.

I left on 25 April, the next day he went to visit his mum...in Jamaica!

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