FabSwingers.com forum: Fisting. OMG..!

By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Taking the pervy aspect away any one who participates in this activity has my full respect.

Never witnessed in person only via porn .

Though would like to know reason ? Is it the challenge, the joy of discomfort? Find it hard to believe that an orgasm can be obtained...

Also surely the true test of trust with partner.

Once begun down this type of fun can that person still enjoy conventional sex afterwards or at a later date ?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Would never happen with me, but considering women have babies which are much larger than a fist lol of course they can!

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

I have tiny hands. I give. It's a huge trust issue but hugely pleasurable for the receiver I believe when done well. I live in hope of finding someone with very tiny hands so I can feel for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never tried it before I met my current mr, it took a while and a lot of trust to allow him to do it. It's not about discomfort, because if it was I wouldn't do it. It's feeling full and letting go completely. And yes I enjoy normal sex as well, it's not something we do all the time x

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

An ex GF of mine used to live been fisted. She most definitely used to orgasm from it. Plus she would squirt like crazy too.Which was so hot. It was never a pain thing for her. Even though she loved pain. As for your last question. In what way do you mean. As I'm is enough for them or does it touch it the sides after?

Well I can answer yes and yes to both.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"An ex GF of mine used to live been fisted. She most definitely used to orgasm from it. Plus she would squirt like crazy too.Which was so hot. It was never a pain thing for her. Even though she loved pain. As for your last question. In what way do you mean. As I'm is enough for them or does it touch it the sides after?

Well I can answer yes and yes to both.

well no easy way of saying it, surely if been stretched out that far , and (if) climax obtained ...how can they possibly replicate similar from conventional sex ? Hhmm hope I make sense there..

XX"

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I've only done it with one partner and at her insistence. Drove her wild it did. Aside from that it's not a personal kink of mine but happy to oblige if asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think watching too much porn doesnt help anyone..

a woman that likes a massive dildo, wand,fuck machine...in most cases would prefer the touch of a man(or woman) over a sex toy.

and the same would apply to being fisted..

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Thanks for swift answers...

Need to know leading up to sex session perhaps feeling horny..

Are those who receive fisting ,thinking to themselfs ..

" oh I fancy a good fisting"

Or is it a more organic thing heat of the moment.?

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I've done this with one person. I trust him completely. Its not something I want to do often. Not because it hurts etc but because its a very intense and emotional climax for me.

Its not uncomfortable if relaxed and really horny. I'm not stretched permanently after either. In fact I'm still fairly tight I believe.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

"I think watching too much porn doesnt help anyone..

a woman that likes a massive dildo, wand,fuck machine...in most cases would prefer the touch of a man(or woman) over a sex toy.

and the same would apply to being fisted.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The times I've done it the ladies seemed to enjoy,unless I misunderstood the thrashing n moaning????? Still spoke to me afterwards so cant have been that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its anal fisting that makes my eyes water. It's no wonder Norman Lamont went grey

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

i used to be able to fist myself, haven't been able to for years though. my ex would give it to me too.

yeah you can still have sex after, and it shouldn't cause any problems really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it a few times with my former FWB, I did cum from it. He wasn't so keen though xxx

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

I've had the pleasure to fist some ladies. Mostly it is unplanned and just happens.

The ladies enjoy it and can take a lot out of them, makes we extremely hard too and great to fuck them from behind afterwards.

The next day, they are back to normal.

Trust is very important as well as communication.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"Its anal fisting that makes my eyes water. It's no wonder Norman Lamont went grey

I think the official terminology for anal fisting is a Tax Return ??

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Its anal fisting that makes my eyes water. It's no wonder Norman Lamont went grey

Ha ha that's is funny ..

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"i used to be able to fist myself, haven't been able to for years though. my ex would give it to me too.

yeah you can still have sex after, and it shouldn't cause any problems really."
fist yourself ..!!! How on earth did you manage that !! You got extra long arms ??

Extra respect for that.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I did it a few times with my former FWB, I did cum from it. He wasn't so keen though xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its anal fisting that makes my eyes water. It's no wonder Norman Lamont went grey

I think the official terminology for anal fisting is a Tax Return ??"

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I've had the pleasure to fist some ladies. Mostly it is unplanned and just happens.

The ladies enjoy it and can take a lot out of them, makes we extremely hard too and great to fuck them from behind afterwards.

The next day, they are back to normal.

Trust is very important as well as communication."

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

"i used to be able to fist myself, haven't been able to for years though. my ex would give it to me too.

yeah you can still have sex after, and it shouldn't cause any problems really. fist yourself ..!!! How on earth did you manage that !! You got extra long arms ??

Extra respect for that."

i've always been really flexible.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

That it .!!!

Its official...after reading your replies....

I,m officially well behind in the kink stakes....

You filthy lot ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it for a couple of ladies. They definitely enjoy it and did cum. I don't get that much from it myself, would much prefer having my tongue in there than my fist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't and I won't, men have tired and I'm so tight it would really hurt me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate men who insist on trying it. Ive told them time and time again i am too tight. The last time I torn slightly so since then it has been a no no.

I have fisted several males who have asked for it. One playmate always ended up looking like an episode of all creatures great and small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it once before, a few years ago with someone I trusted completely.

All I can say is that my experience was the polar opposite of what I always thought fisting would be. It sounds awful, I hate the word. But the act itself, certainly when I did it, was simply the single most intimate thing I have ever done. The feeling was on another level, but for me it was so emotional too. I actually cried a little. Not through pain or anything, but just from a rush of emotion.

It was a beautiful thing.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Never had a guy manage it yet. Tried it with a Lady in a threesome in the heat of the moment, she asked me I said yes. She had small hands, was enjoyable but not something I'd ask for really again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I have always wanted to do but my huge hands are a no go lol

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I hate men who insist on trying it. Ive told them time and time again i am too tight. The last time I torn slightly so since then it has been a no no.

I have fisted several males who have asked for it. One playmate always ended up looking like an episode of all creatures great and small

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criiipes now that's not a good image...ha ha..

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I've done it once before, a few years ago with someone I trusted completely.

It was a beautiful thing. "
. Wow....isn,t that odd. If that is the on the whole the experience ..begs the question why is that common knowledge ? and higher up the things to do sexually experience? Maybe cos term " Fisting" is thought of a dirty or extreme ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not possible with me physically so it's not something I crave personally but each to their own very enjoyable I believe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've done it once before, a few years ago with someone I trusted completely.

It was a beautiful thing. . Wow....isn,t that odd. If that is the on the whole the experience ..begs the question why is that common knowledge ? and higher up the things to do sexually experience? Maybe cos term " Fisting" is thought of a dirty or extreme ?"

I think the act itself is quite extreme, and therefore not something I would want to do regularly.

But yes the term doesn't really make it sound intimate and emotional

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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

Not something we do regularly and takes some work! But when i get there it is intense. Curiosity and hunger for more on a particularly long session was where it first started.

People have babies and can have convential sex afterwards so of course fisting wouldn't stop that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have tried and almost succeded a few times.

For us it takes a lot of lube and time bit the feeling is intense.

Partly from the physical act, partly from the violation of your partner.

If anyone has any tips feel free to send them our way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have big hands so will probably never be able to enjoy getting in there fully

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By *edsNewCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

Mr loves Mrs' fist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Taking the pervy aspect away any one who participates in this activity has my full respect.

Never witnessed in person only via porn .

Though would like to know reason ? Is it the challenge, the joy of discomfort? Find it hard to believe that an orgasm

can be obtained...

Also surely the true test of trust with partner.

Once begun down this type of fun can that person still enjoy conventional sex afterwards or at a later date ?"

Have to have a "wide on" for starters and usually after lengthy kinky sex very wet preferably oiled, it's not just a fist like a punch it's works up and it's a multi orgasm achiever for me squirts ahoy!! And yes conventional sex is ok afterwards maybe not that day depending on partners endowment !! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have tried and almost succeded a few times.

For us it takes a lot of lube and time bit the feeling is intense.

Partly from the physical act, partly from the violation of your partner.

If anyone has any tips feel free to send

them our way "

Oil, usually works great after an oily massage relaxed and erotic play I shall inbox xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've received many times but have never orgasmed from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been fisted but only by my hubby or Dom. I love it. It feels amazing and the orgasms are amazing. I personally like pain but its not for the pain in fact for me there's not really any pain . they start off slowly never really need lube because I get so wet.

Everything is normal after they "touch the sides" haha

If I'm really horny I literally beg to be fisted feeling the fist inside you them feeling you getting wetter and wetter and feeling me orgasm.

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By *ust Us TogetherCouple
over a year ago

Newport

I have hands like shovels so never managed to do it........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have hands like shovels so never managed to do it........

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I have this problem

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By *icoleAndLisaTransCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

I can only speak for anal fisting, as someone who is anatomically male.

Yes, there's a sense of achievement. I worked up with bigger and bigger toys over several years before a female friend could get her hand all of the way in there. More time and larger toys before a male friend was able to do the same.

Sensation-wise, it puts some pretty intense pressure on your prostate gland. Guys: you know that feeling the split second you hit orgasm? Well it's that, but for as long as you can handle it (which isn't long in my case.)

And yes, it feels good just being that full. And once they've managed to get it in and out once, it slides in so much more easily, leading to the possibility of being fist fucked.

It definitely isn't without its risks and it definitely isn't for everyone. It's generally something that I reserve for people I know well and trust.

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