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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Finding the site a bit daunting any advice?

Are winks a waste of time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chill and be yourself.

sometimes they are, sometimes they aren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"chill and be yourself.

sometimes they are, sometimes they aren't "

Excellent advice.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Just go to clubs and socials, far easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks work sometimes, but a wank never fails.

Mongolian proverb.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Lots of people use winks - dome state on profiles if they do or don't.

Tips - expect months of effort invested to pay off. Good photo ranges help people determine attraction clearly. Your partial face pic came up a little small on my phone, due to the border etc.

Select those who seem to suggest that they may want someone like you, to increase your efficiency. Go to socials.

Your profile is all here - the better it is, the higher your success may be. If it focuses on minority, specialist tastes, it may make it harder.

Good luck!

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I wink all the time but never get responses

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Winks are a good way to see if the feeling is mutual before sending the first message. Always good to state that you use it for that purpose on your profile though.

Best advice is definitely to get around the forums and chat and get to know people.

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

Send 8 million messages and get 4 back from TVs ....about right!

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath


"I wink all the time but never get responses "

I know the feeling

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath


"Finding the site a bit daunting any advice?

Are winks a waste of time?"

Get to know the forums, there's some very funny and very sexy people on here. There's also plenty of different opinions on what a good profile looks like but ultimately it's down to personal preference.

Show your personality as guys are hugely outnumbered on here, you need to be more than just another available penis

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

We have spoken before but so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Winks work sometimes, but a wank never fails.

Mongolian proverb. "

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By *ornyuniladMan
over a year ago

Richmond, North Yorkshire


"I wink all the time but never get responses "

Wink to me and you won't be disappointed Hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are not the be all and end of making a good first impression but they can be an ice breaker ....

As in all walks of life backing up any approach to a stranger is greatly enhanced when conducted with a confident and pleasant attitude ....

So endeth this lesson from Sox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding the site a bit daunting any advice?

Are winks a waste of time?"

Keep asking questions on the forum. That's the best way to get good solid practical advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding the site a bit daunting any advice?

Are winks a waste of time?

Keep asking questions on the forum. That's the best way to get good solid practical advice. "

Tuh like you take notice of advice....

How many times have I told you about shaving your legs and buying a frock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding the site a bit daunting any advice?

Are winks a waste of time?

Keep asking questions on the forum. That's the best way to get good solid practical advice.

Tuh like you take notice of advice....

How many times have I told you about shaving your legs and buying a frock "

Ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding the site a bit daunting any advice?

Are winks a waste of time?

Keep asking questions on the forum. That's the best way to get good solid practical advice.

Tuh like you take notice of advice....

How many times have I told you about shaving your legs and buying a frock "

Is wintertime the best time to start this? It's cold you know.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Winks often get my profile looked but I very rarely get any response beyond that; I think they are still worth while though.

Top tip on messages: Send and forget - once you've sent a message, delete it from your sent box then you won't be checking to see if it's been read or, if it's been read, then waiting for a response.

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