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By *irkin OP   Man
over a year ago

Atherstone

what is the point of putting "safe sex only",on your profile if you are also going to perform oral sex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was a fetish for lockable metal boxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true, only true safe sex is going solo, everything else has a risk... fact!

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By *rishlad2787Man
over a year ago

scun

Well let's not be thick ,, safe sex is using protection, , and you carnt get from oral what you can sex

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire


"Well let's not be thick ,, safe sex is using protection, , and you carnt get from oral what you can sex "

ummm yeah you can! Some std's can be transmitted via oral sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Prophylactic removed by poster at 14/09/17 02:39:56]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[std removed by anti-biotic at 14/09/17 02:39:56]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose anything on a profile that fails to capture the interest of other members to a point they wouldn't meet you is safe sex ...

Do you catch my drift,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abstinence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[std removed by anti-biotic at 14/09/17 02:39:56]"

I always think safe sex on here = no bb sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[std removed by anti-biotic at 14/09/17 02:39:56]

I always think safe sex on here = no bb sex"

I think what the op is suggesting is if that is actually enough to say you play safe. If Durex is tonne quoted. Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only true safe sex, is to not have sex.

Even wanking comes with injury risk, making it unsafe.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I like bareback.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

The only safe way is no sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like bareback. "

I doubt many here would disagree with that.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

It's not safe at the top of a ladder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not safe at the top of a ladder "

Try having sex at the top of a ladder. That's gotta be suicidal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a snorkel or learn to breathe out your ears

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"It's not safe at the top of a ladder

Try having sex at the top of a ladder. That's gotta be suicidal."

Think I'd only do it once

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


" If Durex is tonne quoted. Yes. "

?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In reality life is inherently unsafe, being alive carries the risk of not living through the day.

If I decide to put my todger inside a groin area orifice of a person I have just met, while riding a unicycle on a tightrope over shark infested custard. I choose to wear a condom and call it safe sex.

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By *4gnumprMan
over a year ago

telford

i thought it meant the door locked with the key in the lock,and the curtains closed ?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Well let's not be thick ,, safe sex is using protection, , and you carnt get from oral what you can sex "

Really hoping this is tongue in cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have safe sex. I have a mind full of false names and addresses I give to playmates.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"what is the point of putting "safe sex only",on your profile if you are also going to perform oral sex ? "
because it means they only want sex with a condom on but I'm sure you already know that .that's like me saying it's safe to cross the road but some numpty says "ah but what if a plane falls on top of you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" If Durex is tonne quoted. Yes.

?

Sally"

Sorry...' If Dure is quoted'. Yes...condoms is safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well let's not be thick ,, safe sex is using protection, , and you carnt get from oral what you can sex "

Gonnorea, chlamydia and h.i.v can be transmitted via unprotected oral sex (told by the gum clinic)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well let's not be thick ,, safe sex is using protection, , and you carnt get from oral what you can sex

Gonnorea, chlamydia and h.i.v can be transmitted via unprotected oral sex (told by the gum clinic) "

I just cannot get this bloody condom to stay on my tongue. ..

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham


"Well let's not be thick ,, safe sex is using protection, , and you carnt get from oral what you can sex

Gonnorea, chlamydia and h.i.v can be transmitted via unprotected oral sex (told by the gum clinic)

I just cannot get this bloody condom to stay on my tongue. .."

Silly, you stretch the condom over your entire head!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only true safe sex, is to not have sex.

Even wanking comes with injury risk, making it unsafe. "

Yes that's true, my former FWB has wanked so much watching porn, that he can no longer cum inside a woman or during real sex. This worries him a great deal .So for him wanking wasn't safe sex.XXX

(He's not on Fab)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well let's not be thick ,, safe sex is using protection, , and you carnt get from oral what you can sex

Gonnorea, chlamydia and h.i.v can be transmitted via unprotected oral sex (told by the gum clinic) "

H. I. V Can be transmitted from kissing if you both have bleeding gums or cracked lips. XXX

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

Not all safe sex requires a condom. I've come across quite a few women who practise a form of safe sex by arranging a meet and then not showing up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I strongly suspect that the term safe sex had a lot more to do with the contraceptive properties of wearing condoms, the reduction of STI risk is a side benefit that we enjoy.

Interaction of an intimate nature especially where bodily fluids are mixed carries a risk. Oral sex as long as there are no open wounds means that any germs have a fairly large chance of being dissolved in acid long before they have a chance to penetrate membranes and cause infection, though anyone who has ever caught a cold will know there are risks.

Choices have to be made, what risk level do you accept?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well let's not be thick ,, safe sex is using protection, , and you carnt get from oral what you can sex

Gonnorea, chlamydia and h.i.v can be transmitted via unprotected oral sex (told by the gum clinic)

H. I. V Can be transmitted from kissing if you both have bleeding gums or cracked lips. XXX"

That is nonsense, HIV is transmitted via unprotected anal/vaginal sex, sharing needles.... Oral sex is a negligible risk, saliva is hostile to the virus... that theory belongs in the 1980's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex is no sex at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all safe sex requires a condom. I've come across quite a few women who practise a form of safe sex by arranging a meet and then not showing up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it involved a lot of bubble wrap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well let's not be thick ,, safe sex is using protection, , and you carnt get from oral what you can sex

Gonnorea, chlamydia and h.i.v can be transmitted via unprotected oral sex (told by the gum clinic)

H. I. V Can be transmitted from kissing if you both have bleeding gums or cracked lips. XXX

That is nonsense, HIV is transmitted via unprotected anal/vaginal sex, sharing needles.... Oral sex is a negligible risk, saliva is hostile to the virus... that theory belongs in the 1980's"

You need to go back to school I'm afraid.

HIV can be transmitted by sex, needle sharing, kissing and oral!

It all comes down to if you both have open wounds that somehow have contact.

It actually only takes microscoping amounts of blood to transmit the virus.

Believe me I work in a+e and constantly treat people who are at potential risk by giving vaccinations and starting them on the 6month programme that it takes to find out if you have it or not.

Even if we treat an assault victim and a condom was used we still do prophylactic treatment for HIV and other STIs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well let's not be thick ,, safe sex is using protection, , and you carnt get from oral what you can sex

Gonnorea, chlamydia and h.i.v can be transmitted via unprotected oral sex (told by the gum clinic)

H. I. V Can be transmitted from kissing if you both have bleeding gums or cracked lips. XXX

That is nonsense, HIV is transmitted via unprotected anal/vaginal sex, sharing needles.... Oral sex is a negligible risk, saliva is hostile to the virus... that theory belongs in the 1980's

You need to go back to school I'm afraid.

HIV can be transmitted by sex, needle sharing, kissing and oral!

It all comes down to if you both have open wounds that somehow have contact.

It actually only takes microscoping amounts of blood to transmit the virus.

Believe me I work in a+e and constantly treat people who are at potential risk by giving vaccinations and starting them on the 6month programme that it takes to find out if you have it or not.

Even if we treat an assault victim and a condom was used we still do prophylactic treatment for HIV and other STIs"
Well we will have to agree to disagree I am afraid..... Anecdotal stories of being infected by kissing are just that.... as are the outdated ideas of catching it from using the same toilet seat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well let's not be thick ,, safe sex is using protection, , and you carnt get from oral what you can sex

Gonnorea, chlamydia and h.i.v can be transmitted via unprotected oral sex (told by the gum clinic)

H. I. V Can be transmitted from kissing if you both have bleeding gums or cracked lips. XXX

That is nonsense, HIV is transmitted via unprotected anal/vaginal sex, sharing needles.... Oral sex is a negligible risk, saliva is hostile to the virus... that theory belongs in the 1980's

You need to go back to school I'm afraid.

HIV can be transmitted by sex, needle sharing, kissing and oral!

It all comes down to if you both have open wounds that somehow have contact.

It actually only takes microscoping amounts of blood to transmit the virus.

Believe me I work in a+e and constantly treat people who are at potential risk by giving vaccinations and starting them on the 6month programme that it takes to find out if you have it or not.

Even if we treat an assault victim and a condom was used we still do prophylactic treatment for HIV and other STIs Well we will have to agree to disagree I am afraid..... Anecdotal stories of being infected by kissing are just that.... as are the outdated ideas of catching it from using the same toilet seat"

We will though I suspect I have read far more reputable research papers and evidence based practice.

But your health your risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only true safe sex, is to not have sex.

Even wanking comes with injury risk, making it unsafe. "

Damn those health and safety muppets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the practice of safe sex only is to help protect some rules, or no cumming in her, or doesn't want to get pregnant etc... Not always about STDs. Although should be one of the key thoughts with any new proposed partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about levels of risk, isn't it?

Full unprotected sex with an infected person is pretty much a guarantee you'll be infected also.

Transmission of STD's via oral is not impossible, but it's a fairly rare occurrence by comparison.

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By *irkin OP   Man
over a year ago

Atherstone

transferring any bodily fluids can be dangerous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex is safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the point of putting "safe sex only",on your profile if you are also going to perform oral sex ? "
because safer sex isnt an option to tick. We use condoms for full sex but not for oral as the risks are significantly less and one we are prepared to take.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Because penetration is the most risky and of the 'worse' infections and condoms protect against the worst of that.

Oral has much lower risks, and as others have said, that's the only tick option.

The 'what's the point' thing tends to be used by people who play bareback and say that there's no such thing as safe sex anyway. Seems to be a bit of a diversionary argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the point of putting "safe sex only",on your profile if you are also going to perform oral sex ? "

Use a condom for oral...and don't let a guy go down...makes it safer!

But by god doesn't that sounds meh

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Because penetration is the most risky and of the 'worse' infections and condoms protect against the worst of that.

Oral has much lower risks, and as others have said, that's the only tick option.

The 'what's the point' thing tends to be used by people who play bareback and say that there's no such thing as safe sex anyway. Seems to be a bit of a diversionary argument."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Safe sex is no sex at all

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Well I'm bloody golden then....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only true safe sex, is to not have sex.

Even wanking comes with injury risk, making it unsafe.

Damn those health and safety muppets. "

RSI maybe but a friend once posted that his son broke his wrist when he slipped off during a power wank! Poor lad was ribbed for ages..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only true safe sex, is to not have sex.

Even wanking comes with injury risk, making it unsafe.

Damn those health and safety muppets.

RSI maybe but a friend once posted that his son broke his wrist when he slipped off during a power wank! Poor lad was ribbed for ages.."

Haha oh the shame for the boy.

Also being an a+e nurse I can garuntee you the nurses and doctors all got a fantastic laugh from that..

I've looked after some crackers of people who have been injured while fucking or solo playing

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By *4gnumprMan
over a year ago

telford


"I thought it involved a lot of bubble wrap? "

how strange

i was asked to clingfilm my cock the other day ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it involved a lot of bubble wrap?

how strange

i was asked to clingfilm my cock the other day ?"

Keeps it fresh for upto 3 days. It might help if a few women did this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the point of putting "safe sex only",on your profile if you are also going to perform oral sex ?

Use a condom for oral...and don't let a guy go down...makes it safer!

But by god doesn't that sounds meh "

How do I put a condom in my tongue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well let's not be thick ,, safe sex is using protection, , and you carnt get from oral what you can sex

ummm yeah you can! Some std's can be transmitted via oral sex!"

Some yes, all NO

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"I thought it was a fetish for lockable metal boxes "

Or at least having sex insde one of these said boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what is the point of putting "safe sex only",on your profile if you are also going to perform oral sex ?

Use a condom for oral...and don't let a guy go down...makes it safer!

But by god doesn't that sounds meh

How do I put a condom in my tongue? "

Hesnse saying don't let the guy go down...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it comes to sex or anal it's always with protection. I don't use it for oral sex, I couldn't suck a Cock with one on.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The correct term is safer sex but many people have reported it as safe sex.

Many things can be used to decrease risk levels, including the choice of hole that's penetrated, how you shag, people's testing and treatment regime, medication etc.

Condoms are just one element of risk management.oral sex is likely less risky for HIV transmission - on average - than vaginal or anal sex. There have been many forum discussions about oral sex safety, sp it's worth a search if this really interests you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only safe sex is no sex at all!!

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By *BWarksCouple
over a year ago

warwick


"I like bareback. "

We all like bareback lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well let's not be thick ,, safe sex is using protection, , and you carnt get from oral what you can sex "

Who is thick...

Nice to label the op

I mean you can swallow an sti by licking a cunt.

Oh and anal sex causes cancer... Now what

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