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By *hinypants77 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I think I am definitely becoming one.

What lengths do you go to for good sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you be a sex addict if you don't actually get any?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you be a sex addict if you don't actually get any? "

You're in recovery, Doc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you be a sex addict if you don't actually get any?

You're in recovery, Doc "

I'm sailing through the 12 steps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I am definitely becoming one.

What lengths do you go to for good sex?

"

Wouldn't say I'm addicted....but I do love it!

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

i'm actually in recovery. got a nice support group and feel better already.

things i would do to get sex was fuck anybody, didn't necessarily make it good but i was filled with cock as much as i wanted. now i want good sex and true intimacy.

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Sex addict or Fab addict?

And does the addiction include masturbation?

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

I think I could easily become one! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I am definitely becoming one.

What lengths do you go to for good sex?

"

I wait, and wait, and wait until I'm magnetically and undeniably drawn to offer myself to some sexy beast that conveniently falls into my lap lol... So I'm a patient sex addict lol, defo a nymph I when I get my hands on someone tho (due to all the pent up sexual angst from waiting so bloody long) lol x

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By *ancastermanMan
over a year ago

carnforth


"i'm actually in recovery. got a nice support group and feel better already.

things i would do to get sex was fuck anybody, didn't necessarily make it good but i was filled with cock as much as i wanted. now i want good sex and true intimacy."

Intimacy is very different from sex in many ways, and hard to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm, it's definitely on my mind a bit too much.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"i'm actually in recovery. got a nice support group and feel better already.

things i would do to get sex was fuck anybody, didn't necessarily make it good but i was filled with cock as much as i wanted. now i want good sex and true intimacy.

Intimacy is very different from sex in many ways, and hard to find."

because it's built on trust, and so many people are shady as fuck these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm, it's definitely on my mind a bit too much. "

And yet....

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By *ancastermanMan
over a year ago

carnforth


"i'm actually in recovery. got a nice support group and feel better already.

things i would do to get sex was fuck anybody, didn't necessarily make it good but i was filled with cock as much as i wanted. now i want good sex and true intimacy.

Intimacy is very different from sex in many ways, and hard to find.

because it's built on trust, and so many people are shady as fuck these days. "

Yeah. I make no claims for myself other than I try to be a good person. But some don't try

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"i'm actually in recovery. got a nice support group and feel better already.

things i would do to get sex was fuck anybody, didn't necessarily make it good but i was filled with cock as much as i wanted. now i want good sex and true intimacy.

Intimacy is very different from sex in many ways, and hard to find.

because it's built on trust, and so many people are shady as fuck these days.

Yeah. I make no claims for myself other than I try to be a good person. But some don't try"

i don't believe anyone is inherently good, just be honest so people know what they're dealing with is good enough for me.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I think I am definitely becoming one.

What lengths do you go to for good sex?

Wouldn't say I'm addicted....but I do love it! "

Nailed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol how can you be in recovery and be on fab.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"Lol how can you be in recovery and be on fab."

i'm not meeting anyone for sex. this is probably like the ultimate test of my will power.

i'm also in the sexual anorexia stage and have been for a while, next i will be focusing on becoming intimate with people, and not in the sexual sense. although eventually i will be working towards having a healthy sex life also.

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By *unshine the WerewolfMan
over a year ago

Seaton Delaval

I genuinely think that I should have my driving license revoked I'm so distracted by thinking about it all the time!

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By *ancastermanMan
over a year ago

carnforth


"i'm actually in recovery. got a nice support group and feel better already.

things i would do to get sex was fuck anybody, didn't necessarily make it good but i was filled with cock as much as i wanted. now i want good sex and true intimacy.

Intimacy is very different from sex in many ways, and hard to find.

because it's built on trust, and so many people are shady as fuck these days.

Yeah. I make no claims for myself other than I try to be a good person. But some don't try

i don't believe anyone is inherently good, just be honest so people know what they're dealing with is good enough for me."

Honesty? I try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol how can you be in recovery and be on fab.

i'm not meeting anyone for sex. this is probably like the ultimate test of my will power.

i'm also in the sexual anorexia stage and have been for a while, next i will be focusing on becoming intimate with people, and not in the sexual sense. although eventually i will be working towards having a healthy sex life also."

I'm not officially in rehab but I am re-educating myself and am on here for the same reasons... Fab's helped me stop my porn addiction, not watched any since April now. Fab's also connecting me with potential lovers I am having intimate getting to know you socials with, daily convos and it's highlighting the "jump in too soon" issues I have... I could've retired from human interaction but I thought why not do the contrary, put myself right in the middle of a shitstorm and see how I fare lol... It's working a treat imo.

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By *ild PhoenixMan
over a year ago

London


"i'm actually in recovery. got a nice support group and feel better already.

things i would do to get sex was fuck anybody, didn't necessarily make it good but i was filled with cock as much as i wanted. now i want good sex and true intimacy."

Would you like to.have sex together?

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Can you be a sex addict if you don't actually get any?

You're in recovery, Doc

I'm sailing through the 12 steps? "

I came to believe in a power greater than myself. But it was SEX.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"Lol how can you be in recovery and be on fab.

i'm not meeting anyone for sex. this is probably like the ultimate test of my will power.

i'm also in the sexual anorexia stage and have been for a while, next i will be focusing on becoming intimate with people, and not in the sexual sense. although eventually i will be working towards having a healthy sex life also.

I'm not officially in rehab but I am re-educating myself and am on here for the same reasons... Fab's helped me stop my porn addiction, not watched any since April now. Fab's also connecting me with potential lovers I am having intimate getting to know you socials with, daily convos and it's highlighting the "jump in too soon" issues I have... I could've retired from human interaction but I thought why not do the contrary, put myself right in the middle of a shitstorm and see how I fare lol... It's working a treat imo. "

that's good that it's working for you. yeah i need to start trusting people more now, which i do sometimes trust people but they usually end up having lied to me. fuck knows why but the liar every time gets my trust.

but coz of my friends on here who have been consistent with their freindship i am not in bits over the last liar i met with and fell for. i;ve learned not everybody is a lying shit and some people genuinely care about you.

plus the way many guys in here approach you for sex can show you just how nasty being a sex addict is and how much of an inconsiderate user of people you've become.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Lol how can you be in recovery and be on fab.

i'm not meeting anyone for sex. this is probably like the ultimate test of my will power.

i'm also in the sexual anorexia stage and have been for a while, next i will be focusing on becoming intimate with people, and not in the sexual sense. although eventually i will be working towards having a healthy sex life also.

I'm not officially in rehab but I am re-educating myself and am on here for the same reasons... Fab's helped me stop my porn addiction, not watched any since April now. Fab's also connecting me with potential lovers I am having intimate getting to know you socials with, daily convos and it's highlighting the "jump in too soon" issues I have... I could've retired from human interaction but I thought why not do the contrary, put myself right in the middle of a shitstorm and see how I fare lol... It's working a treat imo.

that's good that it's working for you. yeah i need to start trusting people more now, which i do sometimes trust people but they usually end up having lied to me. fuck knows why but the liar every time gets my trust.

but coz of my friends on here who have been consistent with their freindship i am not in bits over the last liar i met with and fell for. i;ve learned not everybody is a lying shit and some people genuinely care about you.

plus the way many guys in here approach you for sex can show you just how nasty being a sex addict is and how much of an inconsiderate user of people you've become."

Well done. Sad fact of life is that the turds float to the surface. Flush the fkers away. You deserve much better.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"i'm actually in recovery. got a nice support group and feel better already.

things i would do to get sex was fuck anybody, didn't necessarily make it good but i was filled with cock as much as i wanted. now i want good sex and true intimacy.

Would you like to.have sex together?"

if i'm honest i'd love a fucking gangbang or to go mad and fuck the whole site as i've been through some really hurtful shit lately.

will having one help me? no, it might do initially but after i will be left feeling worse.

i have other things to focus on and i do get distracted and tempted but i'm gonna sort myself out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, I don't like having sex with the same woman more then a few times.... it's all about the chase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol how can you be in recovery and be on fab.

i'm not meeting anyone for sex. this is probably like the ultimate test of my will power.

i'm also in the sexual anorexia stage and have been for a while, next i will be focusing on becoming intimate with people, and not in the sexual sense. although eventually i will be working towards having a healthy sex life also.

I'm not officially in rehab but I am re-educating myself and am on here for the same reasons... Fab's helped me stop my porn addiction, not watched any since April now. Fab's also connecting me with potential lovers I am having intimate getting to know you socials with, daily convos and it's highlighting the "jump in too soon" issues I have... I could've retired from human interaction but I thought why not do the contrary, put myself right in the middle of a shitstorm and see how I fare lol... It's working a treat imo.

that's good that it's working for you. yeah i need to start trusting people more now, which i do sometimes trust people but they usually end up having lied to me. fuck knows why but the liar every time gets my trust.

but coz of my friends on here who have been consistent with their freindship i am not in bits over the last liar i met with and fell for. i;ve learned not everybody is a lying shit and some people genuinely care about you.

plus the way many guys in here approach you for sex can show you just how nasty being a sex addict is and how much of an inconsiderate user of people you've become."

I trust me... The more I do the more I listen to my intuition and the more signals/stronger it gets... At the sign of any funny feels I put the breaks on and only do what feels right... I've had to block a few new friends because some people don't really get where you're coming from even if they say they do... And they may also not realise they're manipulation you... It's a learning process I guess, baby steps and lots of tlc and socialising with great platonic friends... Many of which I've recently found on here!... So yeah Fab's a great resource for socialising without feeling pressured to have sex, whilst still being able to express your sexuality imo.

There's nothing wrong with having a sex drive, I'm really happy mine's staying the course. It's just a bit nuts to realise how much it's changing just because I've made a few crucial changes... Feeling a heck of a lot happier about everything in general tbh xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. And like a true addict I tell myself that its not a problem and that I it under control and I can stop any time I want to.....

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"Lol how can you be in recovery and be on fab.

i'm not meeting anyone for sex. this is probably like the ultimate test of my will power.

i'm also in the sexual anorexia stage and have been for a while, next i will be focusing on becoming intimate with people, and not in the sexual sense. although eventually i will be working towards having a healthy sex life also.

I'm not officially in rehab but I am re-educating myself and am on here for the same reasons... Fab's helped me stop my porn addiction, not watched any since April now. Fab's also connecting me with potential lovers I am having intimate getting to know you socials with, daily convos and it's highlighting the "jump in too soon" issues I have... I could've retired from human interaction but I thought why not do the contrary, put myself right in the middle of a shitstorm and see how I fare lol... It's working a treat imo.

that's good that it's working for you. yeah i need to start trusting people more now, which i do sometimes trust people but they usually end up having lied to me. fuck knows why but the liar every time gets my trust.

but coz of my friends on here who have been consistent with their freindship i am not in bits over the last liar i met with and fell for. i;ve learned not everybody is a lying shit and some people genuinely care about you.

plus the way many guys in here approach you for sex can show you just how nasty being a sex addict is and how much of an inconsiderate user of people you've become.

I trust me... The more I do the more I listen to my intuition and the more signals/stronger it gets... At the sign of any funny feels I put the breaks on and only do what feels right... I've had to block a few new friends because some people don't really get where you're coming from even if they say they do... And they may also not realise they're manipulation you... It's a learning process I guess, baby steps and lots of tlc and socialising with great platonic friends... Many of which I've recently found on here!... So yeah Fab's a great resource for socialising without feeling pressured to have sex, whilst still being able to express your sexuality imo.

There's nothing wrong with having a sex drive, I'm really happy mine's staying the course. It's just a bit nuts to realise how much it's changing just because I've made a few crucial changes... Feeling a heck of a lot happier about everything in general tbh xxx"

yeah SAA said that, that it was ok to have a high sex and normal to enjoy sex.

i'm feeling better too, but no idea who i can trust really. i do get some flags but only the obvious ones really. i think it will take me a long time to trust anyone, consistency is the key though for me so that's why. plus deep down i know you can't really trust anyone.

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By *hinypants77 OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Was chatting to a girl tonight from bumble. On the phone for over an hour. She was lovely and we're going on a date next week. She was complaining that guys are only usually after one thing. What could I say? I'm definitely a little bit of a sex addict.

Waiting for another girl to text me now. If she texts I'll be in the car straight away, 30 min drive away, round to hers, fuck her silly, cum on her face. Take a pic and leave. Come home and have a wank over the pic! Kind of out of control but kind of love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every single impossible thing that ever happened to human beings started off as an idea in someone's head...

Nothing's impossible but if you believe something isn't possible then you won't be the one to make it a reality... someone else will sooner or later though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a high sex drive. But definitely not a sex addict. It's very debilitating. I feel sorry for people who truly have a sex addiction .

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Nooooooooooooo. I'm not a sex addict. Sex addicts love sex, enjoy multiple partners, can only guestimate the number of people they've fucked, look at every person as a possible sex partner, get cranky if they don't get some at least every other day ...

Wait a minute. Never mind.

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