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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Do you remember the nerves before your first meet, the anticipation.... and the excitement...

How have you changed since that first meet, what has got better....?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I still get it and the day i stop is the day i will stop swinging.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I agree with you, I find it exciting to meet new people... and I love seeing new people with my partner...its new and fun everytime

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I still get nerves now, but not as bad on on my first meet, was way before I knew about Fab, but was my first experince of a party and I was petrified, so much so the guy was offering to take me away.

A couple of hours later I was so different, amazing what getting undressed does.

Even now I get butterflies and if I don't there is something wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call it PMT ..

Pre Meeting Tension Lol .....and agtree the day it stops so do the meets.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I still get nerves now, but not as bad on on my first meet, was way before I knew about Fab, but was my first experince of a party and I was petrified, so much so the guy was offering to take me away.

A couple of hours later I was so different, amazing what getting undressed does.

Even now I get butterflies and if I don't there is something wrong."
It is ok, you can relax with me now

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I call it PMT ..

Pre Meeting Tension Lol .....and agtree the day it stops so do the meets."

Love it PMT with a new exciting connotation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its alright for you women!!

hits when the nerves hit us men the problems arise, or dont rise!!

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By *alisburycplCouple
over a year ago

Salisbury

We're meeting a guy in 30 mins,for mmf fun,and the nerves have started

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Happens everytime, still after over twenty years. I think its that buzz keeps me going.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're meeting a guy in 30 mins,for mmf fun,and the nerves have started"
be sure to give us a update!!!

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Always get nerves when meeting a guy for the first time. But they are exciting nerves.

When they stop, it will be time for me to stop.

Love all the "firsts" of a first meet, first kiss, touch etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm missing out- have never had the nerves

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"We're meeting a guy in 30 mins,for mmf fun,and the nerves have started"
I better tell you now, I am a woman...

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

To be honest we still get a few butterflies even after quite a few years of meeting others.

I (Mrs) still tend to get really nervous if we are going or doing something different.Like when we went to a small gangbang party for my birthday. I felt sick all day and very nearly said I wasn't going...but once I go there I had a great time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our first social meet we arranged to meet at a pub.

I was so nervous I didn't want to get out of the car. I was bricking it.

Our first play meet was with the same couple, and I had a few too many "looseners".

I was unable to get up for it, so it was a bit of a disaster for me.

Kate was ok, the other guy shagged her and his own wife for 3 hours, all by himself, while I sat on the settee and slowly got pissed.

Needless to say, I haven't touched a drop on a play meet since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm missing out- have never had the nerves "

phew was begining to think i was alone on this

on our first ever meet my stomach did do a little flip as he pulled up but that was the one and only time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a fairly confident woman and not shy but I get nervous each and every time. We stop in the carpark of the pub and I always say 'let me have some time to compose myself'. Chris never gets nervous as he knows that the other guy will be far more nervous than he is.

As soon as I get out of the car I'm in full swing mode, head up, tits out, striding steadily (or as steady as 4 inch heels allow) into the bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never ever suffered from nerves prior to a meet. Excited, yes, nerves no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still get it and the day i stop is the day i will stop swinging. "

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+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get butterflies before a new meet I get gert big huge elephants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be nerves days before a meet,, then down to hours before a meet, now, wallop, they hit me just at the point of meeting, but people are great generally, cant beat that, woosh their gone within 5 mins feeling when you realise folks are just as nervous as you yet just as nice and friendly as you hoped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still get it and the day i stop is the day i will stop swinging.

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+1 "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still get it and the day i stop is the day i will stop swinging.

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+1

+2 "

+3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves ? Never !

Unless , of course, you mean the moment when we should have set off 10 minutes ago & Janet still has 5 dresses & 6 pairs of heels to try on & I'm standing there, grinning, saying " Gorgeous/beautiful/stunning/wow"....

Him :0).

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