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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

have you seen it all, done it all... and just how do you know you are there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im giving up swinging after chams at the weekend....COUGHSPLUTTERWANK, sorry dunno what came over me...or who!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I've been asking myself the same question

Not giving up yet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've kind of reached that plateau now, I'm pleased that I've fulfilled the fantasies I wanted to and happy to remain there. Unless someone spectacular comes along to change my mind.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"im giving up swinging after chams at the weekend....COUGHSPLUTTERWANK, sorry dunno what came over me...or who!"
You cant do that... we have only just been acquainted...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've kind of reached that plateau now, I'm pleased that I've fulfilled the fantasies I wanted to and happy to remain there. Unless someone spectacular comes along to change my mind. "

same here.

done what i wanted to do and now quite content to do my own thing

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I've been asking myself the same question

Not giving up yet though "
I am relieved to hear that

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I've kind of reached that plateau now, I'm pleased that I've fulfilled the fantasies I wanted to and happy to remain there. Unless someone spectacular comes along to change my mind. "
Well one never knows

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I've kind of reached that plateau now, I'm pleased that I've fulfilled the fantasies I wanted to and happy to remain there. Unless someone spectacular comes along to change my mind.

same here.

done what i wanted to do and now quite content to do my own thing "
And what might that be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've kind of reached that plateau now, I'm pleased that I've fulfilled the fantasies I wanted to and happy to remain there. Unless someone spectacular comes along to change my mind.

same here.

done what i wanted to do and now quite content to do my own thing And what might that be "

More one on one action than group situations

cant be doing with dicks flying around the room and being winked at by all the jack and dannies

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I've kind of reached that plateau now, I'm pleased that I've fulfilled the fantasies I wanted to and happy to remain there. Unless someone spectacular comes along to change my mind.

same here.

done what i wanted to do and now quite content to do my own thing And what might that be

More one on one action than group situations

cant be doing with dicks flying around the room and being winked at by all the jack and dannies "

Can get a bit confusing I agree, especially when I cant make out who is doing what to whom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've kind of reached that plateau now, I'm pleased that I've fulfilled the fantasies I wanted to and happy to remain there. Unless someone spectacular comes along to change my mind.

same here.

done what i wanted to do and now quite content to do my own thing And what might that be

More one on one action than group situations

cant be doing with dicks flying around the room and being winked at by all the jack and dannies

Can get a bit confusing I agree, especially when I cant make out who is doing what to whom"

Like twister gone wrong

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Can get a bit confusing I agree, especially when I cant make out who is doing what to whom"

And with what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now prefer quality rather than quantity

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I've kind of reached that plateau now, I'm pleased that I've fulfilled the fantasies I wanted to and happy to remain there. Unless someone spectacular comes along to change my mind.

same here.

done what i wanted to do and now quite content to do my own thing And what might that be

More one on one action than group situations

cant be doing with dicks flying around the room and being winked at by all the jack and dannies

Can get a bit confusing I agree, especially when I cant make out who is doing what to whom

Like twister gone wrong "

yeah, many a times I had to see a chiropractor after a party and it was not for what I had been doing but for trying to see who was doing what...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AM happy to say that I'm still on an upward trajectory and have yet to reach my peak (following the previous analogy).

I have plenty of ideas that I have yet to experience, and all the time in the world!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Can get a bit confusing I agree, especially when I cant make out who is doing what to whom

And with what "
absolutely... one needs to keep up to date with latest developments... it is really a kind of essential professional development necessary for having credibility in the scene

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"AM happy to say that I'm still on an upward trajectory and have yet to reach my peak (following the previous analogy).

I have plenty of ideas that I have yet to experience, and all the time in the world!"
Would you be prepared to share that trajectory... sounds very sexy!

Serious note : I think there is always something new to be tried and tested

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Dont think you can possibly say you have seen everything and done everything. But im happy with my lot and now just concentrate on what i know i want with those that know how to give it me.

Its nice to see people enthusiastic on here when there just kind of starting out and still at the experimental stage and when they first try something new. Makes me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im giving up swinging after chams at the weekend....COUGHSPLUTTERWANK, sorry dunno what came over me...or who!You cant do that... we have only just been acquainted..."

mission staement 2011-2012 taste and plunder as much pie as possible

re_iew in 2012

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've packed the meeting side in now anyway

After nearly thirty years on the scene

I've been on about it fa years and feel the times right fa me now (and no Madchick it not cause I can't get it up anymore lol)

However i won't be leaving the social side because I have no vanilla mates and wouldn't have a clue how to talk to one lol xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

oooh is swinging a career - finlly i am a career girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"AM happy to say that I'm still on an upward trajectory and have yet to reach my peak (following the previous analogy).

I have plenty of ideas that I have yet to experience, and all the time in the world!Would you be prepared to share that trajectory... sounds very sexy!

Serious note : I think there is always something new to be tried and tested "

Always happy to share!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

nearing the end but been a blast.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I like to think it is only the beginning of something new... each encounter is different, each meet unique and well, there is really a hell of a lot more to be explored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been too musy babymaking these past couple of years to do much swinging so we've still got loads of fantasies to act out. Lots of time to do it in too, so there's no rush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being new to swinging 1meet 1social looking forward to lots of fun,just wish we done it years ago.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Ticked most things off on my wish list but still open to new ideas...within reason. Like to remain open minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought of it as a career. More a hobby.

But am happy doing who i please, when i please at this moment. xx

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"have you seen it all, done it all... and just how do you know you are there? "

When i'm dead

It's not about a check list to me but about having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've kind of reached that plateau now, I'm pleased that I've fulfilled the fantasies I wanted to and happy to remain there. Unless someone spectacular comes along to change my mind.

same here.

done what i wanted to do and now quite content to do my own thing "

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am still a swinging virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're at the point just now, where we have done the things that we set out to do.

This started out as a fantasy, and we each had a set of scenarios that we said we'd like to experience.

Quite simply these were, to experience sex with other partners, to try multiple partners, both together and seperately, ie, I've played with two other ladies and Kate's played with two other guys. We've done the usual threesomes together, we've done same and seperate room, we've experienced clubs and house parties.

Along the way we've met some absolutely lovely peeple, as well as a few tossers, but then that would have happened whatever path we followed.

For a few reasons, mainly family stuff, we haven't played this year yet. We've attended a couple of parties, but only interacted socially.

We had a chat only last week and we both agreed that we might not play again, as we've experienced the things we set out to do. Do get me wrong, it would be nice to do some of the things again, but the excitment doesn't seem to be there anymore.

We're still going to be on here though, mainly because I love the forums, we'll still attend socials and parties and we'll be at Chams on Sunday for the Beach Party.

Not sure about anything else though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep jack there deffinatley comes a time

Enjoy xx

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By *ornyHorwichCpl aka HHCCouple
over a year ago

horwich

With Testarossa on this, still on an upward ride.

Only dabbled a bit before I met Rhett so we have sooooo much we want to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have asked myself the very same question lately.

However after being on this site a few years its only been the past few months I have experienced life as a single swinger and I am enjoying it. But then in saying that I do see myself burning out soon

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

still have alot of things i want to experience, but i guess its finding the right person/people to do it with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

finding the right person or persons is paramount in any situation, the trouble is reading the soul and desire in others to equal a good match!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

very much at a "comfy" level where i am happy within myself and happy with where it is going...... still happy to broaden my horizons if the right oppotunites come along, but I know I'll get to where I am going in my own sweet time!!!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"finding the right person or persons is paramount in any situation, the trouble is reading the soul and desire in others to equal a good match! "
that is so true, could nt have put it better myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im at the "not even bloody started" level... waiting for the right woman that will want to introduce me into the wicked and wonderful life of swinging x (still waiting...)

Maybe i need to team up with a lovely women... what do u advise?

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral


"finding the right person or persons is paramount in any situation, the trouble is reading the soul and desire in others to equal a good match! "

very true indeed, though i seem to attract men into one offs or married men..grrrr

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

The more I learn, the less I know!

So I still think I'm at the beginning. I treat every meet as if it is my first one ever, with the promise of new experiences. That mindset keeps me fresh, attentive and open-minded.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Im at the "not even bloody started" level... waiting for the right woman that will want to introduce me into the wicked and wonderful life of swinging x (still waiting...)

Maybe i need to team up with a lovely women... what do u advise?"
it can be tough to be begin with, until you find a circle of like minded mates. My advice is to remain patient and non pushy above all. Hope you find a nice playmate really soon xx

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"The more I learn, the less I know!

So I still think I'm at the beginning. I treat every meet as if it is my first one ever, with the promise of new experiences. That mindset keeps me fresh, attentive and open-minded.

"
that is again such a totally cool statement and it really does resonate with me, perhaps that is why we still enjoy the scene and don't tire of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many of us have enthusiastically started a new hobby, only for our interest to fizzle out over time?

I think that's where we are

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"finding the right person or persons is paramount in any situation, the trouble is reading the soul and desire in others to equal a good match!

very true indeed, though i seem to attract men into one offs or married men..grrrr"
hi, and I don't think you are alone in this; the nature of the scene CAN be flighty and a bit shallow and encourage one off meets. But there are also those who seek the more medium to long term friendship..I don't believe it s your 'fault' in want of a better word x

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

oh no...i know its not my fault it cant be im perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up on the team sports, mixed doubles and relay races of swinging and want to concentrate on singles matches now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've given up on the team sports, mixed doubles and relay races of swinging and want to concentrate on singles matches now. "

No more mixed doubles?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"oh no...i know its not my fault it cant be im perfect "
that s it ... That's the right attitude - welcome to the club of perfect people x

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral


"oh no...i know its not my fault it cant be im perfect that s it ... That's the right attitude - welcome to the club of perfect people x"

thank you x...i think i will fit in here quite well

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I've given up on the team sports, mixed doubles and relay races of swinging and want to concentrate on singles matches now. "
surely there is a need for a referee???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only been swinging as a single for about 18 months.

Packed a lot into that time.

But still have a few things on my to do list.

I cant see me ever giving it up compleatly. Would miss the 3sums to much.

Though I may feel differently should I ever find myself in a relastionship again.

You just dont know whats going to happen.

Im just enjoying the new and different experiences. The wonderful people I meet. The great nights out I have. And the fabby sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've given up on the team sports, mixed doubles and relay races of swinging and want to concentrate on singles matches now.

surely there is a need for a referee???"

Maybe..... after all I thought love-40 was an instruction.

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