FabSwingers.com forum: Where am I going wrong ?

By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Morning all... been in this site a couple of months now... single guy so no restrictions on when I can meet anyone etc but literally I get no offers or messages etc?

I wouldn't class mysejf as the ugliest guy in the world and I do like the banter etc.... so the question is where am I going wrong?

Answers in a postcard please lol

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

You are not "going wrong" you are just one grain of sand on a very big beach.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Profile write up could do with a bit of work but I doubt it will help you as there are thousands of single guys on here. The best thing to do is go to clubs and organised socials and get your face out there. Be friendly and don't expect anything when you are there and just be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have face pics, you can accommodate and you don't smoke - all plus points for a lot of people

Your profile name hurts my eyes and the profile length is shorter than your op. Add a bit more that lets women get a feel for your personality.

As a bloke you need to make an effort and women will not come to you as they don't need to.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above, you not going wrong as such, although a well written detailed informative profile will help a great deal. Effort in, results out (hopefully)

Poppy

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. Your a guy. This is generalising but, women don't have to offer or message you. You might have to chase them.

That's the vibe that's in the forums

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Elaborate

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Can you elaborate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps a better write up.

Photos are good.

Some people put off by bi guys, but at least you are honest.

I've not been on here that long.. but in the last 3 days have been messaged by two women and a couple.

So keep trying, it can happen.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Perhaps a better write up.

Photos are good.

Some people put off by bi guys, but at least you are honest.

I've not been on here that long.. but in the last 3 days have been messaged by two women and a couple.

So keep trying, it can happen."

I'm bi curious to be honest. (I think that's different) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile tells potential meets nothing. Pics look ok but as people have said you are one of many.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Your profile tells potential meets nothing. Pics look ok but as people have said you are one of many."

Ok cool... I'm new to this so I'm not sure what I should be putting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you elaborate "

If that's to me. Your not the only one to mention not getting any messages. There's at least on thread a day about 'what I'm doing wrong'.

Good luck and take the advice you get as good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's true, this is just a dock to set off from and report back too, just the face book side of the swingers scene. Head to clubs even if you don't get some, your meeting people face to face and showing the side they want to fuck. In reality I am charming as fuck, in here just letters bro. If you want a wing man, holla, I want to try mingles in colchester.

Chin up bro

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

For me, the spelling of Wolverhampton being wrong. Shows me you either didn't read your own profile before to check for mistakes, or you couldn't be arsed to correct it. Both options make me think you're either lazy or don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without sounding like Cpt Obvious, bear in mind it's a swinging site. Not a dating site.

Therefore unless you meet some bodies swinging preferences your not going to get a meet.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"For me, the spelling of Wolverhampton being wrong. Shows me you either didn't read your own profile before to check for mistakes, or you couldn't be arsed to correct it. Both options make me think you're either lazy or don't care."

Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP

Nice looking profile

Nice pics

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Hi OP

Nice looking profile

Nice pics

Thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

Oh no. You'll be surprised! I agree with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

Oh no. You'll be surprised! I agree with her. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ample? You're not that ( dare I say) big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write a better profile text x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

So, let me get this straight

You ask for advice?

And then slate the advice given?

And you think thats gonna help you?

In real life?

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

So, let me get this straight

You ask for advice?

And then slate the advice given?

And you think thats gonna help you?

In real life?"

Hardly slating just replying.

I've updated the spelling now but surely that's very minor in the big picture of "where am I going wrong"

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Ample? You're not that ( dare I say) big "
chubby lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi OP

Nice looking profile

Nice pics

Thankyou x"

Very nice bum

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Hi OP

Nice looking profile

Nice pics

Thankyou x

Very nice bum

Back at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi OP

Nice looking profile

Nice pics

Thankyou x

Very nice bum

Back at you "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Bigger picture OP of where you're going wrong OP is that you have no profile to speak of - nothing that tells people about you or what you're looking for/can offer and in a world dominated by single male profiles you're not going to stand out from all the other grains of sand on the beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

So, let me get this straight

You ask for advice?

And then slate the advice given?

And you think thats gonna help you?

In real life?

Hardly slating just replying.

I've updated the spelling now but surely that's very minor in the big picture of "where am I going wrong"

Well, if you have all the answers, you didnt need to ask for advice in the first place

Did you?

And these lovely people didnt need to waste their time giving it to you

Did they?

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

your not going wrong mate you have done nothing wrong

unfortunately on this site

single males are scum of the earth

we are not wanted

and simply hated .the only reason why single males are not banned from this site is because 67% of us pay a site supporter fee

I don't have a badge but do pay the fee for others

sorry fella just printing the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your not going wrong mate you have done nothing wrong

unfortunately on this site

single males are scum of the earth

we are not wanted

and simply hated .the only reason why single males are not banned from this site is because 67% of us pay a site supporter fee

I don't have a badge but do pay the fee for others

sorry fella just printing the truth "

WOW!!! Such a bull crap statement.

OP this is utter rubbish. Seriously

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

So, let me get this straight

You ask for advice?

And then slate the advice given?

And you think thats gonna help you?

In real life?

Hardly slating just replying.

I've updated the spelling now but surely that's very minor in the big picture of "where am I going wrong"

Well, if you have all the answers, you didnt need to ask for advice in the first place

Did you?

And these lovely people didnt need to waste their time giving it to you

Did they?"

oh god bad spelling mistake what is that the crime of the century omg

call the police

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

So, let me get this straight

You ask for advice?

And then slate the advice given?

And you think thats gonna help you?

In real life?

Hardly slating just replying.

I've updated the spelling now but surely that's very minor in the big picture of "where am I going wrong"

Well, if you have all the answers, you didnt need to ask for advice in the first place

Did you?

And these lovely people didnt need to waste their time giving it to you

Did they?"

Wow calm down love! Getting a bit excited it seems but all in the wrong way lol

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

"your not going wrong mate you have done nothing wrong

unfortunately on this site

single males are scum of the earth

we are not wanted

and simply hated .the only reason why single males are not banned from this site is because 67% of us pay a site supporter fee

I don't have a badge but do pay the fee for others

sorry fella just printing the truth

WOW!!! Such a bull crap statement.

OP this is utter rubbish. Seriously "

are you a single male - baby ?

create a profile and try living like one here for a week and you will see what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your body size isn't 'ample'

You say you're straight but then it also says you meet men.

If I read your profile I wouldn't message you as it tells me nothing.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"your not going wrong mate you have done nothing wrong

unfortunately on this site

single males are scum of the earth

we are not wanted

and simply hated .the only reason why single males are not banned from this site is because 67% of us pay a site supporter fee

I don't have a badge but do pay the fee for others

sorry fella just printing the truth

WOW!!! Such a bull crap statement.

OP this is utter rubbish. Seriously "

I agree what a load of codswallop lol

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

So, let me get this straight

You ask for advice?

And then slate the advice given?

And you think thats gonna help you?

In real life?

Hardly slating just replying.

I've updated the spelling now but surely that's very minor in the big picture of "where am I going wrong"

Well, if you have all the answers, you didnt need to ask for advice in the first place

Did you?

And these lovely people didnt need to waste their time giving it to you

Did they?

Wow calm down love! Getting a bit excited it seems but all in the wrong way lol "

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

"your not going wrong mate you have done nothing wrong

unfortunately on this site

single males are scum of the earth

we are not wanted

and simply hated .the only reason why single males are not banned from this site is because 67% of us pay a site supporter fee

I don't have a badge but do pay the fee for others

sorry fella just printing the truth

WOW!!! Such a bull crap statement.

OP this is utter rubbish. Seriously

I agree what a load of codswallop lol "

what you really mean is you sit inn the fence - grow a pair fella

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Your body size isn't 'ample'

You say you're straight but then it also says you meet men.

If I read your profile I wouldn't message you as it tells me nothing. "

I'm new to all this so perhaps some of the settings are wrong and I need to polish the ole profile up lol.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"your not going wrong mate you have done nothing wrong

unfortunately on this site

single males are scum of the earth

we are not wanted

and simply hated .the only reason why single males are not banned from this site is because 67% of us pay a site supporter fee

I don't have a badge but do pay the fee for others

sorry fella just printing the truth "

And most ridiculous post of the day award goes to....

In the 10 months or so I've had this profile I've never felt like scum of the earth, nor have I felt unwanted or hated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello OP

I'd say you have a good collection of pics. That's definitely a bonus

Your profile text is rather short. Perhaps inject some personality into it, so the one who reads it gets a feel for you a little more. Humour is always good

. Check out the more successful males profiles on here for inspiration . It will give you a better idea of what to write.

This is not foolproof, but it may give you a better chance in standing out. Good luck OP

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Hello OP

I'd say you have a good collection of pics. That's definitely a bonus

Your profile text is rather short. Perhaps inject some personality into it, so the one who reads it gets a feel for you a little more. Humour is always good

. Check out the more successful males profiles on here for inspiration . It will give you a better idea of what to write.

This is not foolproof, but it may give you a better chance in standing out. Good luck OP

Thankyou I will take what you said on board x

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Hello OP

I'd say you have a good collection of pics. That's definitely a bonus

Your profile text is rather short. Perhaps inject some personality into it, so the one who reads it gets a feel for you a little more. Humour is always good

. Check out the more successful males profiles on here for inspiration . It will give you a better idea of what to write.

This is not foolproof, but it may give you a better chance in standing out. Good luck OP

And blooming heck how yummy are you

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

"your not going wrong mate you have done nothing wrong

unfortunately on this site

single males are scum of the earth

we are not wanted

and simply hated .the only reason why single males are not banned from this site is because 67% of us pay a site supporter fee

I don't have a badge but do pay the fee for others

sorry fella just printing the truth

And most ridiculous post of the day award goes to....

In the 10 months or so I've had this profile I've never felt like scum of the earth, nor have I felt unwanted or hated "

well then it must be your charm

your gifted

if you don't mind me asking

what are you moaning about then ?

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

"Hello OP

I'd say you have a good collection of pics. That's definitely a bonus

Your profile text is rather short. Perhaps inject some personality into it, so the one who reads it gets a feel for you a little more. Humour is always good

. Check out the more successful males profiles on here for inspiration . It will give you a better idea of what to write.

This is not foolproof, but it may give you a better chance in standing out. Good luck OP

And blooming heck how yummy are you

she is gorgeous isn't she

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning all... been in this site a couple of months now... single guy so no restrictions on when I can meet anyone etc but literally I get no offers or messages etc?

I wouldn't class mysejf as the ugliest guy in the world and I do like the banter etc.... so the question is where am I going wrong?

Answers in a postcard please lol "

No one is going to offer you sex on here because ladies and couples on here don't need to message and offer anyone sex. It's comes to us ten fold.

Send out winks, nice messages with face pictures. Don't wait for it to come to you, you have to get it yourself.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Hello OP

I'd say you have a good collection of pics. That's definitely a bonus

Your profile text is rather short. Perhaps inject some personality into it, so the one who reads it gets a feel for you a little more. Humour is always good

. Check out the more successful males profiles on here for inspiration . It will give you a better idea of what to write.

This is not foolproof, but it may give you a better chance in standing out. Good luck OP

And blooming heck how yummy are you

she is gorgeous isn't she

She's a beauty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your not going wrong mate you have done nothing wrong

unfortunately on this site

single males are scum of the earth

we are not wanted

and simply hated .the only reason why single males are not banned from this site is because 67% of us pay a site supporter fee

I don't have a badge but do pay the fee for others

sorry fella just printing the truth

And most ridiculous post of the day award goes to....

In the 10 months or so I've had this profile I've never felt like scum of the earth, nor have I felt unwanted or hated

well then it must be your charm

your gifted

if you don't mind me asking

what are you moaning about then ?"

He wasnt moaning. If you read the thread properly, you will note that he was trying to help OP

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

See now you're just coming across as a cocky bollocks. You're telling me I'm being way over the top and fussy. You are the one that asked a question, now you're turning it on me. Just giving you an honest answer. If I want to be "over the top and fussy" that's up to me that's your opinion not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely discard the comment about single guys been scum on here there not. That just sounds like sour grapes from someone that's struggling on here and teddy has been thrown out of the cot. Definitely be a good idea getting yourself to some organised social events near you. Just do a search on forum sure they will be some. There a great way of meeting people and like been mentioned before it puts your face out there. Think worth pointing out single guys on fab vastly outnumber the females/couples so do need to put effort in. Least you have a face picture and not a cock as your profile picture that's a big plus point for lots of people. Be lucky keep trying and will come good

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Lots of good advice on here already, not much I can add except I like to see at least one dick pic on a man's profile. That's probably a minority view mind you

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

In itself wrongly spelling Wolverhampton wouldn't be the issue. However this is your shop window so why not put a bit of effort into getting it right.

Not correcting it imply's that you are (rightly or wrongly) too lazy to care, and that is what will put a lot of people off you.

As we said earlier, you are just one grain of sand on a very big beach and to have any chance on here your little grain has to be polished to perfection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"your not going wrong mate you have done nothing wrong

unfortunately on this site

single males are scum of the earth

we are not wanted

and simply hated .the only reason why single males are not banned from this site is because 67% of us pay a site supporter fee

I don't have a badge but do pay the fee for others

sorry fella just printing the truth

WOW!!! Such a bull crap statement.

OP this is utter rubbish. Seriously

are you a single male - baby ?

create a profile and try living like one here for a week and you will see what I mean"

Erm. There are thousands of men here, get over it Mr Sourpuss. That's the end of the conversation

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

In itself wrongly spelling Wolverhampton wouldn't be the issue. However this is your shop window so why not put a bit of effort into getting it right.

Not correcting it imply's that you are (rightly or wrongly) too lazy to care, and that is what will put a lot of people off you.

As we said earlier, you are just one grain of sand on a very big beach and to have any chance on here your little grain has to be polished to perfection. "

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

You do have some nice pics but there wasn't really much of a profile there to say what you could offer a lady

I'd advise getting to a social or a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

Someone who can't spell their home town screams fake at me... just saying...

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"your not going wrong mate you have done nothing wrong

unfortunately on this site

single males are scum of the earth

we are not wanted

and simply hated .the only reason why single males are not banned from this site is because 67% of us pay a site supporter fee

I don't have a badge but do pay the fee for others

sorry fella just printing the truth

And most ridiculous post of the day award goes to....

In the 10 months or so I've had this profile I've never felt like scum of the earth, nor have I felt unwanted or hated

well then it must be your charm

your gifted

if you don't mind me asking

what are you moaning about then ?"

He just has a very good profile and pics, that is why he has lots of verifications, so is popular with others.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Definitely discard the comment about single guys been scum on here there not. That just sounds like sour grapes from someone that's struggling on here and teddy has been thrown out of the cot. Definitely be a good idea getting yourself to some organised social events near you. Just do a search on forum sure they will be some. There a great way of meeting people and like been mentioned before it puts your face out there. Think worth pointing out single guys on fab vastly outnumber the females/couples so do need to put effort in. Least you have a face picture and not a cock as your profile picture that's a big plus point for lots of people. Be lucky keep trying and will come good "

Thanks for this advice... I'll give those a go.

And nope no cock pic as I don't think that's appropriate as a prof pic unlsss of corse I had a monster cock then I'd be literally walking down the street with it hanging out.. I joke I joke

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

"your not going wrong mate you have done nothing wrong

unfortunately on this site

single males are scum of the earth

we are not wanted

and simply hated .the only reason why single males are not banned from this site is because 67% of us pay a site supporter fee

I don't have a badge but do pay the fee for others

sorry fella just printing the truth

And most ridiculous post of the day award goes to....

In the 10 months or so I've had this profile I've never felt like scum of the earth, nor have I felt unwanted or hated

well then it must be your charm

your gifted

if you don't mind me asking

what are you moaning about then ?

He wasnt moaning. If you read the thread properly, you will note that he was trying to help OP

oh right I shall go back and read it thankyou for that

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

Someone who can't spell their home town screams fake at me... just saying..."

My home town is Northampton .

Happy now?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"your not going wrong mate you have done nothing wrong

unfortunately on this site

single males are scum of the earth

we are not wanted

and simply hated .the only reason why single males are not banned from this site is because 67% of us pay a site supporter fee

I don't have a badge but do pay the fee for others

sorry fella just printing the truth

And most ridiculous post of the day award goes to....

In the 10 months or so I've had this profile I've never felt like scum of the earth, nor have I felt unwanted or hated

well then it must be your charm

your gifted

if you don't mind me asking

what are you moaning about then ?

He wasnt moaning. If you read the thread properly, you will note that he was trying to help OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like chubby guys! Good pics, but I agree with the others, all the text really says is that you haven't swung before and are curious to try.

Everyone will have a different opinion of what makes a "good" profile (I'm another one who does like to see one cock pic, but you could always put it in your friends pics) but definitely need to let your personality shine through more. Also, what are you actually looking for on here? "Sex" isn't specific enough when men are so outnumbered. Are you dom/sub/rough/sensual? Are you happy to do a social first? Are you hoping for a regular friend or to experiment with more people? Etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last pic did make me wonder if you were sat on the loo too....

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

You score 2 out of 3 for the Fab 'Holy Trinity' (Under 45, over 6ft tall, can accommodate), so that's not bad. You are in the Midlands which will also work well for you, based on density of population, and to be fair, you are verified so that's good too. Possibly change your profile name as it's not exactly inviting is it?

Good luck fella

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"You score 2 out of 3 for the Fab 'Holy Trinity' (Under 45, over 6ft tall, can accommodate), so that's not bad. You are in the Midlands which will also work well for you, based on density of population, and to be fair, you are verified so that's good too. Possibly change your profile name as it's not exactly inviting is it?

Good luck fella

I'm 5ft 8 lol.

And thanks bud

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"The last pic did make me wonder if you were sat on the loo too...."

I need to go double check lol

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I like your pics too, but yes, more of what you like and what you would expect from a meet, in your text, would be more informative to others. You sound like a cheeky chappy and I wish you good luck!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Also meant to say; do you really want to meet an 18 year old? As a man about to become 40, perhaps rethink your preferred age range?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a nice smile OP

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Good luck fella

I'm 5ft 8 lol.

And thanks bud

That's why you score 2 out of 3 lol........

I score 0

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"The last pic did make me wonder if you were sat on the loo too....

I need to go double check lol "

Haha, yes it does look like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now you see that's being way over the top and fussy.

The fact I spelt where I'm living wrong shouldn't put people off surely... (only you)

Oh no. You'll be surprised! I agree with her. "

Me too. Very off-putting

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By *ancastermanMan
over a year ago

carnforth

As a guy in a similar position I am sorry but it's not a minor detail, it's potentially a sign of not putting the effort in. Dismissing the advice you were offered politely is another possible sign. All you had to do was say "oops missed that, I'll fix it" and suddenly you switch from Possible bad attitude to definite good attitude in people's eyes.

Now where am I going wrong lol..

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYo OP Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Hi

Now where am I going wrong lol.."

People read text wrong I guess lol

And I agree more effort needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I'm in the same situation been hear before as part of a couple and now gone solo,its a lot harder as a single male I've had banter with people but not managed even a social

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Hi OP.

Firstly, I have to confess that someone who didn't even spell their home town right would probably put me off too. So good to see you have corrected that.

I agree that your photos are fine and ample may not accurately reflect for size.

Sadly, the text part lets you down. It's a commination of cliché and I have no idea why I'm here. Neither is going to have the ladies flocking.

Someone on another thread made a good suggestion that I'm going to poach... Check the verifications of ladies you are interested in, and look at the profiles of those they've met for ideas.

Also socials and clubs for verification and on here as personality sells.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for this advice... I'll give those a go.

And nope no cock pic as I don't think that's appropriate as a prof pic unlsss of corse I had a monster cock then I'd be literally walking down the street with it hanging out.. I joke I joke

Post on the forums more.

Socials can be good for meeting people.

I think you're hot as fuck. Just a statement, not flirting don't panic. I'm too old for you and not your type.

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By *ancastermanMan
over a year ago

carnforth

Thanks for this advice... I'll give those a go.

And nope no cock pic as I don't think that's appropriate as a prof pic unlsss of corse I had a monster cock then I'd be literally walking down the street with it hanging out.. I joke I joke

Post on the forums more.

Socials can be good for meeting people.

I think you're hot as fuck. Just a statement, not flirting don't panic. I'm too old for you and not your type. "

I got the same advice from a very sexy lady in No3 club on Friday. Get talking in forums. Get recognised as an interesting potential.

So I've started here today.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In addition to the three P's (Profile/Pictures/Patience) using the forums and getting along to socials are the best things you can do.

Whilst none of the above are guarantees of success they will improve your chances and help you stand out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for this advice... I'll give those a go.

And nope no cock pic as I don't think that's appropriate as a prof pic unlsss of corse I had a monster cock then I'd be literally walking down the street with it hanging out.. I joke I joke

Post on the forums more.

Socials can be good for meeting people.

I think you're hot as fuck. Just a statement, not flirting don't panic. I'm too old for you and not your type.

I got the same advice from a very sexy lady in No3 club on Friday. Get talking in forums. Get recognised as an interesting potential.

So I've started here today. "

Welcome to the forums.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Be more positive, posts asking why you're not doing very well don't reflect well on an individual. Be confident and fun, act like everything is going great... then you may find that you ARE doing fine.

Cal

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Good pics op,Write a bit more about what you like and are looking for. If your into clubs try Xtasia or Chameleons for a social event they are near to you, its a good way to meet people. Also you said you are bi-curious and now changed it to straight. If you are bi-curious just be truthful and keep it like that. Don't change it to please others!

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By *hristiWoman
over a year ago

Farnham

Maybe it's the spelling mistakes on your profile?

'surprise' 'fuckbuddy' and 'course' all misspelled.

Sorry, just my personal pet peeve. But first impressions eh?

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