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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, I do like a dominatrix :p

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that is the only exception lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can be easily avoided though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always stay well away, no time for stuck up b#####s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bigggest egos tend to be the most fragile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ego has landed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift"

The same goes for men x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift"

.............and sporting a full beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They can be easily avoided though. "

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Huge egos? Is that the pinkish bit around the nipple?

I'm alright with that to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm egotistic and full of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift"

Thats 99% of the women on here then..

I'll tell you who really are full of themselves. Russian dolls.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift"

I would have thought on a site like this that's a good thing.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I like ones that are good at sex

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than men who can't cope with a confident woman"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

Thats 99% of the women on here then..

I'll tell you who really are full of themselves. Russian dolls."

That's a bit of a low estimate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift"

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?"

They turn the OP down...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

What's better .. a normal woman with a huge ego or a huge woman with a normal ego

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?"

I think we know the answer to that,any woman who won't meet him!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

They turn the OP down... "

So egotistical means they have good taste?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?"

Erm, maybe little things like your "location statement!"

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Nothing more of a huge turnoff than"
people
" who are egotistic and full of themselves/gods gift"

FTFY

And whilst a huge ego isn't my favourite thing in the world I could probably think of lots of things that are a bigger turnoff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

Erm, maybe little things like your "location statement!" "

Yeh cos me avoiding stalkers asking where exactly am I is so up my own arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooow I'm keeping my eye on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

They turn the OP down... "

I doubt I will get an answer off OP but I suspect you are right. I know this cos I am god's gift to knowing everying up my own arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

Erm, maybe little things like your "location statement!"

Yeh cos me avoiding stalkers asking where exactly am I is so up my own arse. "

Okay, fair point, although don't see how that stops them asking though.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

Thats 99% of the women on here then..

I'll tell you who really are full of themselves. Russian dolls."

I don't know who've you've met, but most women we've encountered haven't been like that. Sure there are some, same as men and couples, and some get delusional due to ratios, but most are decent people.

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
over a year ago

Sussex


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

They turn the OP down...

I doubt I will get an answer off OP but I suspect you are right. I know this cos I am god's gift to knowing everying up my own arse."

Well you are pretty fucking hot so yes you are Darwins gift

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

They turn the OP down...

I doubt I will get an answer off OP but I suspect you are right. I know this cos I am god's gift to knowing everying up my own arse."

What makes you entitled to an answer from the op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thank god that's not me -

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If there are egotistical women on here (and I'm going to have to rely on the men on here for evidence as I don't meet women) then they became that way because some men will do anything, anything, for a shag. Then when the women behave in a way so the men subsequently don't get a shag, suddenly the women are bitches, stuck up, egotistical etc etc.

Guys, you know what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there are egotistical women on here (and I'm going to have to rely on the men on here for evidence as I don't meet women) then they became that way because some men will do anything, anything, for a shag. Then when the women behave in a way so the men subsequently don't get a shag, suddenly the women are bitches, stuck up, egotistical etc etc.

Guys, you know what to do."

So its all our fault? All Women are blameless? Interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not like that, but I have noticed that when I get naked in the bathroom, the shower gets turned on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

They turn the OP down...

I doubt I will get an answer off OP but I suspect you are right. I know this cos I am god's gift to knowing everying up my own arse.

What makes you entitled to an answer from the op?"

I'm not entitled but a fuller explanation would be nice. Surely if he believes that he can back up his statement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not like that, but I have noticed that when I get naked in the bathroom, the shower gets turned on "

And the toilet gets all flushed

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If there are egotistical women on here (and I'm going to have to rely on the men on here for evidence as I don't meet women) then they became that way because some men will do anything, anything, for a shag. Then when the women behave in a way so the men subsequently don't get a shag, suddenly the women are bitches, stuck up, egotistical etc etc.

Guys, you know what to do.

So its all our fault? All Women are blameless? Interesting. "

Yes, that's exactly what I wrote, verbatim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not like that, but I have noticed that when I get naked in the bathroom, the shower gets turned on

And the toilet gets all flushed "

Are you boosting my ego??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not like that, but I have noticed that when I get naked in the bathroom, the shower gets turned on

And the toilet gets all flushed

Are you boosting my ego?? "

Not at all. I bet even the mirrors get all steamy too. And I hear you make the floor wet

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i need more coffee.....i thought it said huge eggs!!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

They turn the OP down...

I doubt I will get an answer off OP but I suspect you are right. I know this cos I am god's gift to knowing everying up my own arse.

What makes you entitled to an answer from the op?

I'm not entitled but a fuller explanation would be nice. Surely if he believes that he can back up his statement. "

Yup. Fair point.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Sorry, no ego here.

Laughs, giggles & squishy hugs, but no ego

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"If there are egotistical women on here (and I'm going to have to rely on the men on here for evidence as I don't meet women) then they became that way because some men will do anything, anything, for a shag. Then when the women behave in a way so the men subsequently don't get a shag, suddenly the women are bitches, stuck up, egotistical etc etc.

Guys, you know what to do.

So its all our fault? All Women are blameless? Interesting. "

She didn't mention blame. If you don't like someone's personality, don't meet them. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?"

Probably ones that turn guys down lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?"

statements like 'if you want me, earn me'

Also, one woman went from my hotlist straight to block list for status update something along the lines 'what guys who are 3s and 4s expect from contacting 9s and 10s?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The unbalance of the male/female ratio does mean there is a tendency for some women on here to grow inflated egos who maybe normally wouldn't and I would agree with the OP it's not very attractive. So just avoid them. It doesn't seem to happen so much with women who post on the forum as much as on wider fab.

The unbalance also means there is a tendency for some men who are normally level headed reasonable people to turn into whingey whiney little bitches, there's plenty of those on the forums but they can be ignored too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

statements like 'if you want me, earn me'

Also, one woman went from my hotlist straight to block list for status update something along the lines 'what guys who are 3s and 4s expect from contacting 9s and 10s?' "

yeah i make notes about special people like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen up 5's a 10 is speaking.

What's this about ego's, I don't have a big ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huge egos aren't attractive on anyone but with a ratio of at least 99-1, single women can afford to be picky. It's just one of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women on here are absolute dicks. Egotistical and rude for no reason.

Just shows what a bit of attention they lack in other areas of their life can do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Huge egos aren't attractive on anyone but with a ratio of at least 99-1, single women can afford to be picky. It's just one of things."

it's perfectly fine to be picky, but don't have to be dick about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ego here

I just know that I'm the best lover on fab

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

People have to manage their own expectations and not be surprised when a keyboard warrior has a dig.

Simple as really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ego here

I just know that I'm the best lover on fab "

Only on Fab?

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

I must get my eyes tested, I initially saw 'women with huge eggs?'

Caught my attention though

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I think the equation is

More turn down guys gets the more "up themselves " and egotistical the women are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ego here

I just know that I'm the best lover on fab

Only on Fab? "

Grrrrrr smart ass

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Listen up 5's a 10 is speaking.

What's this about ego's, I don't have a big ego "
tbf you have knocked your score down by five ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get any messages so I don't turn guys down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen up 5's a 10 is speaking.

What's this about ego's, I don't have a big ego tbf you have knocked your score down by five ..."

How'd do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there are egotistical women on here (and I'm going to have to rely on the men on here for evidence as I don't meet women) then they became that way because some men will do anything, anything, for a shag. Then when the women behave in a way so the men subsequently don't get a shag, suddenly the women are bitches, stuck up, egotistical etc etc.

Guys, you know what to do.

So its all our fault? All Women are blameless? Interesting.

She didn't mention blame. If you don't like someone's personality, don't meet them. Simple."

She did say its the fault of men. Thats blame too me, but i agree with your last point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there are egotistical women on here (and I'm going to have to rely on the men on here for evidence as I don't meet women) then they became that way because some men will do anything, anything, for a shag. Then when the women behave in a way so the men subsequently don't get a shag, suddenly the women are bitches, stuck up, egotistical etc etc.

Guys, you know what to do.

So its all our fault? All Women are blameless? Interesting.

She didn't mention blame. If you don't like someone's personality, don't meet them. Simple.

She did say its the fault of men. Thats blame too me, but i agree with your last point "

You've got a nice looking set of balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there are egotistical women on here (and I'm going to have to rely on the men on here for evidence as I don't meet women) then they became that way because some men will do anything, anything, for a shag. Then when the women behave in a way so the men subsequently don't get a shag, suddenly the women are bitches, stuck up, egotistical etc etc.

Guys, you know what to do.

So its all our fault? All Women are blameless? Interesting.

She didn't mention blame. If you don't like someone's personality, don't meet them. Simple.

She did say its the fault of men. Thats blame too me, but i agree with your last point

You've got a nice looking set of balls "

Thank you... pm me anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there are egotistical women on here (and I'm going to have to rely on the men on here for evidence as I don't meet women) then they became that way because some men will do anything, anything, for a shag. Then when the women behave in a way so the men subsequently don't get a shag, suddenly the women are bitches, stuck up, egotistical etc etc.

Guys, you know what to do.

So its all our fault? All Women are blameless? Interesting.

She didn't mention blame. If you don't like someone's personality, don't meet them. Simple.

She did say its the fault of men. Thats blame too me, but i agree with your last point

You've got a nice looking set of balls "

It's always the balls with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what you mean. Im fucking amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what you mean. Im fucking amazing "

You just proved the OPs point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what you mean. Im fucking amazing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what you mean. Im fucking amazing

You just proved the OPs point "

Youre not turned off. I have proof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what you mean. Im fucking amazing

You just proved the OPs point

Youre not turned off. I have proof "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The unbalance of the male/female ratio does mean there is a tendency for some women on here to grow inflated egos who maybe normally wouldn't and I would agree with the OP it's not very attractive. So just avoid them. It doesn't seem to happen so much with women who post on the forum as much as on wider fab.

The unbalance also means there is a tendency for some men who are normally level headed reasonable people to turn into whingey whiney little bitches, there's plenty of those on the forums but they can be ignored too."

100% this!

It's not that hard to just not be a dick...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The unbalance of the male/female ratio does mean there is a tendency for some women on here to grow inflated egos who maybe normally wouldn't and I would agree with the OP it's not very attractive. So just avoid them. It doesn't seem to happen so much with women who post on the forum as much as on wider fab.

The unbalance also means there is a tendency for some men who are normally level headed reasonable people to turn into whingey whiney little bitches, there's plenty of those on the forums but they can be ignored too.

100% this!

It's not that hard to just not be a dick..."

For some it appears to be. It's much easier to not be affected by said dicks. That bit you can control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The unbalance of the male/female ratio does mean there is a tendency for some women on here to grow inflated egos who maybe normally wouldn't and I would agree with the OP it's not very attractive. So just avoid them. It doesn't seem to happen so much with women who post on the forum as much as on wider fab.

The unbalance also means there is a tendency for some men who are normally level headed reasonable people to turn into whingey whiney little bitches, there's plenty of those on the forums but they can be ignored too.

100% this!

It's not that hard to just not be a dick...

For some it appears to be. It's much easier to not be affected by said dicks. That bit you can control."

I like to be directly affected by a dick though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The unbalance of the male/female ratio does mean there is a tendency for some women on here to grow inflated egos who maybe normally wouldn't and I would agree with the OP it's not very attractive. So just avoid them. It doesn't seem to happen so much with women who post on the forum as much as on wider fab.

The unbalance also means there is a tendency for some men who are normally level headed reasonable people to turn into whingey whiney little bitches, there's plenty of those on the forums but they can be ignored too.

100% this!

It's not that hard to just not be a dick...

For some it appears to be. It's much easier to not be affected by said dicks. That bit you can control.

I like to be directly affected by a dick though "

A big old donger around the chops from what I've heard!

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I have enjoyed reading this on a rainy morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

They turn the OP down...

I doubt I will get an answer off OP but I suspect you are right. I know this cos I am god's gift to knowing everying up my own arse.

What makes you entitled to an answer from the op?

I'm not entitled but a fuller explanation would be nice. Surely if he believes that he can back up his statement. "

but his statement was

"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift"

you asked

"So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?"

this is called a straw man, it's where you make up a position and argue against that rather than what was actually said.

ie you are now claiming the op should back up his statement that women on here are entitled.

entitled despite him not making any such claim.

he said women woth large egos/full of themselves are bad that doesn't really need backing up.

after all arrogance is one of the most slated things on here.

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Listen up 5's a 10 is speaking.

What's this about ego's, I don't have a big ego tbf you have knocked your score down by five ...

How'd do you mean?"
i thought you'd say you were a 15

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps OP your view of others egos is more driven by your perception of how there should interact with you...

Which does beg the question who has the biggest ego ...or the most fragile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen up 5's a 10 is speaking.

What's this about ego's, I don't have a big ego tbf you have knocked your score down by five ...

How'd do you mean?i thought you'd say you were a 15 "

Ahh right, nah I'm an 8 if im being honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Listen up 5's a 10 is speaking.

What's this about ego's, I don't have a big ego tbf you have knocked your score down by five ...

How'd do you mean?i thought you'd say you were a 15

Ahh right, nah I'm an 8 if im being honest! "

I'd say at least a 9

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Listen up 5's a 10 is speaking.

What's this about ego's, I don't have a big ego tbf you have knocked your score down by five ...

How'd do you mean?i thought you'd say you were a 15

Ahh right, nah I'm an 8 if im being honest! "
how do we get you to a ten? For a start I will give you one ...

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

If we are all up our own arses then does that mean we are all into anal

There is a fine line between confidence and egotistical but that same line sits between rejection and nasty...this line is gender neutral.

The virtual fab fame does go to some PEOPLE'S heads but reality tends to bite those asses

Madame Boo

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I think the OP has misinterpreted because of a male tendancy to see things through a filter of egotism - I think the bad behaviour of some women on here is simply indicative of their LACK of healthy self-esteem and good character, combined with the simple fact that they have the power to abuse because of the ratios on here. What's that quote - power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP has misinterpreted because of a male tendancy to see things through a filter of egotism - I think the bad behaviour of some women on here is simply indicative of their LACK of healthy self-esteem and good character, combined with the simple fact that they have the power to abuse because of the ratios on here. What's that quote - power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues."

remember folks!

men are arrogant, women simply have poor self esteem.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Perhaps OP your view of others egos is more driven by your perception of how there should interact with you...

Which does beg the question who has the biggest ego ...or the most fragile...

"

And this is precisely the other side of the coin - men are far more ego driven, and ego fragile. I fear dear OP you are projecting!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think the OP has misinterpreted because of a male tendancy to see things through a filter of egotism - I think the bad behaviour of some women on here is simply indicative of their LACK of healthy self-esteem and good character, combined with the simple fact that they have the power to abuse because of the ratios on here. What's that quote - power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

remember folks!

men are arrogant, women simply have poor self esteem."

Anyone who is arrogant has issues. But it is a very male trait to over-estimate 'worth' I have observed, whereas females tend to under-estimate.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

i don't get why women supposedly have to feel a need for men to validate them? why they have to be needy and look sadly desperate by putting themselves down so that men can prop them up?

is this a mens issue really OP, where you need insecure and pathetic women to fish for compliments so you can feel better about yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP has misinterpreted because of a male tendancy to see things through a filter of egotism - I think the bad behaviour of some women on here is simply indicative of their LACK of healthy self-esteem and good character, combined with the simple fact that they have the power to abuse because of the ratios on here. What's that quote - power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

remember folks!

men are arrogant, women simply have poor self esteem.

Anyone who is arrogant has issues. But it is a very male trait to over-estimate 'worth' I have observed, whereas females tend to under-estimate."

but you just said the arrogant people the op was complaining about are not infact arrogant but low self esteem who the op is incorrectly judging to be egotistical.

purely because the ops genitals happen to be on the outside too which is a pretty flimsy starting point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i don't get why women supposedly have to feel a need for men to validate them? why they have to be needy and look sadly desperate by putting themselves down so that men can prop them up?

is this a mens issue really OP, where you need insecure and pathetic women to fish for compliments so you can feel better about yourself?"

wtf how on earth did you read the op not liking people woth big egos as.

"you need insecure and pathetic women to fish for compliments so you can feel better about yourself?"

seriously wtf kind of random personally attack is that, not surprised the op hasnt come back

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"i don't get why women supposedly have to feel a need for men to validate them? why they have to be needy and look sadly desperate by putting themselves down so that men can prop them up?

is this a mens issue really OP, where you need insecure and pathetic women to fish for compliments so you can feel better about yourself?

wtf how on earth did you read the op not liking people woth big egos as.

"you need insecure and pathetic women to fish for compliments so you can feel better about yourself?"

seriously wtf kind of random personally attack is that, not surprised the op hasnt come back"

i don't see why people can't be full of themselves. i'd rather that than they were pathetically needy and looking for validation from people who wanna stick their dick in them.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think the OP has misinterpreted because of a male tendancy to see things through a filter of egotism - I think the bad behaviour of some women on here is simply indicative of their LACK of healthy self-esteem and good character, combined with the simple fact that they have the power to abuse because of the ratios on here. What's that quote - power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

remember folks!

men are arrogant, women simply have poor self esteem.

Anyone who is arrogant has issues. But it is a very male trait to over-estimate 'worth' I have observed, whereas females tend to under-estimate.

but you just said the arrogant people the op was complaining about are not infact arrogant but low self esteem who the op is incorrectly judging to be egotistical.

purely because the ops genitals happen to be on the outside too which is a pretty flimsy starting point."

It's an often complained about situation - and usually by a not-to-attractive guy who has approached a 'curvaceous lady' and been told to sling his hook. His ego is bruised, the curvaceous lady becomes a 'fat minger I wouldn't look twice at down the pub' is called an egotistical bitch. She may indeed have slammed him down in a rude and arrogant manner, but I'd bet good money that is NOT because she feels good about herself! She's been down the pub, she knows - she just has more power on fab than she has the self-esteem to handle gracefully.

Even the total narcissist has self-loathing at root. People of either gender who know their worth have no need to criticise others all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difference is big egos are justfied for women and tgirls. Men with big egos are just dumbasses with an overblown sense of worth, proven by their having the ego to write a thread whining about women. Bloody crybabies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some lovely people on here,and some idiots-males/females and couples.

As a single male you have to accept that quit a few of your approaches will be dismissed out of hand for whatever reason.

If you're patient and well mannered,you'll hopefully meet the non egostostical ones...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

I think we know the answer to that,any woman who won't meet him! "

This , my thought was been blown out then;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank God I'm not her! Oh wait, I am God

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind meeting gods gift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift"

I'm someone's gift but need to find him first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The bigggest egos tend to be the most fragile men "

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men also think they are gods gift and it's their given right on here to have all their messages answered!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't like men who are like this full of there own crap and gods gift to woman .. No matter how good looking its a turn off ... no matter how much money or the cars and stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

Thats 99% of the women on here then..

I'll tell you who really are full of themselves. Russian dolls."

Yeah the percentage of egotistical women here is so much smaller than the men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not like that, but I have noticed that when I get naked in the bathroom, the shower gets turned on

And the toilet gets all flushed "

And the sink guzzles all the available liquids!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?"

They don't spread their legs as soon as their inbox turns yellow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have literally just found a woman on here who insists she's "too good-looking for this site", I just hate it. I wish women, especially, on here were humble and down to earth x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have literally just found a woman on here who insists she's "too good-looking for this site", I just hate it. I wish women, especially, on here were humble and down to earth x"

Why especially on here?!... Why would being sexually liberated mean you'd necessarily have to be more humble?!... I don't get what you mean.

And re that woman, well she'll magnetise a particular kind of person to her who priorities style over substance... Which is great imo as they can entertain each other lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have literally just found a woman on here who insists she's "too good-looking for this site", I just hate it. I wish women, especially, on here were humble and down to earth x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have literally just found a woman on here who insists she's "too good-looking for this site", I just hate it. I wish women, especially, on here were humble and down to earth x"

my point exactly! I just want women to be nice when i am always nice to them, no need for bad manners and insults when you ask questions, you dont know what people are going through xx

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"I have literally just found a woman on here who insists she's "too good-looking for this site", I just hate it. I wish women, especially, on here were humble and down to earth x"

1 woman, yet there are literally tonnes of women on here who are humble and down to earth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have literally just found a woman on here who insists she's "too good-looking for this site", I just hate it. I wish women, especially, on here were humble and down to earth x"

Maybe she is. Maybe she isn't. Why would how someone else runs their profile effect you so much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have literally just found a woman on here who insists she's "too good-looking for this site", I just hate it. I wish women, especially, on here were humble and down to earth x"

I'm down to earth but only my job makes me humble, not a bloody swingers site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how big are the egos of those taking this personally though eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's too good looking for this site why the fuck is she on here?

Or is she too ugly for sugar daddy lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am proving my point on here without even having to say anything lol the egos are in full swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how big are the egos of those taking this personally though eh? "

It's nothing personal what I said. From my experience I found men are more humble on this site than many of the women. That is to do with the massive ratio of women to men, which obviously makes a woman feel superior. It's not personal but instead a general overview of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how big are the egos of those taking this personally though eh?

It's nothing personal what I said. From my experience I found men are more humble on this site than many of the women. That is to do with the massive ratio of women to men, which obviously makes a woman feel superior. It's not personal but instead a general overview of the site."

I didn't mean you.

I meant the others whos egos have lead them from the ops statement of

"I dont like women with big egos"

to

"op is insecure, and requires a "pathetic" woman who craves attention and he can't get laid"

all because they've taken his comment personally so have gone on a ludicrous defensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues."

I totally agree!... Hurt people hurt people it's a vicious cycle and only the individual has the power to break the chain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

I totally agree!... Hurt people hurt people it's a vicious cycle and only the individual has the power to break the chain."

ahhh so all those people attacking the op are simply insecure and issue ridden?

right that's helpful

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

I totally agree!... Hurt people hurt people it's a vicious cycle and only the individual has the power to break the chain.

ahhh so all those people attacking the op are simply insecure and issue ridden?

right that's helpful"

i'm issue ridden but not insecure.

just sick of men acting like they have the right to tell women what they should be and how they should behave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the OP has misinterpreted because of a male tendancy to see things through a filter of egotism - I think the bad behaviour of some women on here is simply indicative of their LACK of healthy self-esteem and good character, combined with the simple fact that they have the power to abuse because of the ratios on here. What's that quote - power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

remember folks!

men are arrogant, women simply have poor self esteem.

Anyone who is arrogant has issues. But it is a very male trait to over-estimate 'worth' I have observed, whereas females tend to under-estimate.

but you just said the arrogant people the op was complaining about are not infact arrogant but low self esteem who the op is incorrectly judging to be egotistical.

purely because the ops genitals happen to be on the outside too which is a pretty flimsy starting point.

It's an often complained about situation - and usually by a not-to-attractive guy who has approached a 'curvaceous lady' and been told to sling his hook. His ego is bruised, the curvaceous lady becomes a 'fat minger I wouldn't look twice at down the pub' is called an egotistical bitch. She may indeed have slammed him down in a rude and arrogant manner, but I'd bet good money that is NOT because she feels good about herself! She's been down the pub, she knows - she just has more power on fab than she has the self-esteem to handle gracefully.

Even the total narcissist has self-loathing at root. People of either gender who know their worth have no need to criticise others all the time."

yeah yeah and all homophobes are secretly gay right?

this is taking the playground "it takes on to know one" and slapping some pop-psych jargon on it and selling it as an epiphany.

it's just not true though.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

I totally agree!... Hurt people hurt people it's a vicious cycle and only the individual has the power to break the chain.

ahhh so all those people attacking the op are simply insecure and issue ridden?

right that's helpful

i'm issue ridden but not insecure.

just sick of men acting like they have the right to tell women what they should be and how they should behave."

dunno why i replied, so what if someone isn't attractive to the OP either. we're not here to be attractive to every guy that wants a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

I totally agree!... SOME Hurt people hurt people it's a vicious cycle and only the individual has the power to break the chain."

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

I totally agree!... Hurt people hurt people it's a vicious cycle and only the individual has the power to break the chain.

ahhh so all those people attacking the op are simply insecure and issue ridden?

right that's helpful

i'm issue ridden but not insecure.

just sick of men acting like they have the right to tell women what they should be and how they should behave."

Too true but it's not just the men who are telling ladies how to behave. It's women too. Well maybe they can come and fuck the munters I don't want to. Only seens fair.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•


"

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

I totally agree!... Hurt people hurt people it's a vicious cycle and only the individual has the power to break the chain.

ahhh so all those people attacking the op are simply insecure and issue ridden?

right that's helpful

i'm issue ridden but not insecure.

just sick of men acting like they have the right to tell women what they should be and how they should behave.

Too true but it's not just the men who are telling ladies how to behave. It's women too. Well maybe they can come and fuck the munters I don't want to. Only seens fair. "

i can imagine fucking munters to be very humbling.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I think the OP has misinterpreted because of a male tendancy to see things through a filter of egotism - I think the bad behaviour of some women on here is simply indicative of their LACK of healthy self-esteem and good character, combined with the simple fact that they have the power to abuse because of the ratios on here. What's that quote - power corrupts, and absolute power corrupts absolutely.

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

remember folks!

men are arrogant, women simply have poor self esteem.

Anyone who is arrogant has issues. But it is a very male trait to over-estimate 'worth' I have observed, whereas females tend to under-estimate.

but you just said the arrogant people the op was complaining about are not infact arrogant but low self esteem who the op is incorrectly judging to be egotistical.

purely because the ops genitals happen to be on the outside too which is a pretty flimsy starting point.

It's an often complained about situation - and usually by a not-to-attractive guy who has approached a 'curvaceous lady' and been told to sling his hook. His ego is bruised, the curvaceous lady becomes a 'fat minger I wouldn't look twice at down the pub' is called an egotistical bitch. She may indeed have slammed him down in a rude and arrogant manner, but I'd bet good money that is NOT because she feels good about herself! She's been down the pub, she knows - she just has more power on fab than she has the self-esteem to handle gracefully.

Even the total narcissist has self-loathing at root. People of either gender who know their worth have no need to criticise others all the time.

yeah yeah and all homophobes are secretly gay right?

this is taking the playground "it takes on to know one" and slapping some pop-psych jargon on it and selling it as an epiphany.

it's just not true though."

You are entitled to your opinion - I am only stating what I have observed.

Some of the ladies you have described as being egotistical are clearly nothing of the sort - brittle and defensive after they have been mistreated repeatedly maybe, but I do not see inflated ego.

Oh I am sure there are some, but as one poster said, it is far more prevalent amongst the entitled male population.

And no, I have not observed any so called homophobes as being secretly gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there are egotistical women on here (and I'm going to have to rely on the men on here for evidence as I don't meet women) then they became that way because some men will do anything, anything, for a shag. Then when the women behave in a way so the men subsequently don't get a shag, suddenly the women are bitches, stuck up, egotistical etc etc.

Guys, you know what to do.

So its all our fault? All Women are blameless? Interesting.

She didn't mention blame. If you don't like someone's personality, don't meet them. Simple.

She did say its the fault of men. Thats blame too me, but i agree with your last point

You've got a nice looking set of balls "

You made me look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how big are the egos of those taking this personally though eh?

It's nothing personal what I said. From my experience I found men are more humble on this site than many of the women. That is to do with the massive ratio of women to men, which obviously makes a woman feel superior. It's not personal but instead a general overview of the site.

I didn't mean you.

I meant the others whos egos have lead them from the ops statement of

"I dont like women with big egos"

to

"op is insecure, and requires a "pathetic" woman who craves attention and he can't get laid"

all because they've taken his comment personally so have gone on a ludicrous defensive "

I was just thinking how to put what you just wrote.

Whenever a man questions anything women do on here he's labelled a whining saddo who can't take rejection. All they are doing is pointing something out and giving their opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

I totally agree!... Hurt people hurt people it's a vicious cycle and only the individual has the power to break the chain.

ahhh so all those people attacking the op are simply insecure and issue ridden?

right that's helpful"

I can understand that you would re formulate what someone says to you so that you can understand it... But rewriting someone's words and stating that's what they've said isn't helpful at all imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Confident people at ease with themselves do not treat other people badly - those that are spiteful are simply projecting their own inner issues.

I totally agree!... "SOME" Hurt people hurt people it's a vicious cycle and only the individual has the power to break the chain.

You're welcome "

You've rewritten my quote and I'm gona copyright it next time as I'll charge you money for having changed it!! Lol.

Personally I think all people hurt people until they get wtf is going in, and they understand they have the power to change things if they want to... It's how most of us learn through pain and experiencing things the hard way lol

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"how big are the egos of those taking this personally though eh?

It's nothing personal what I said. From my experience I found men are more humble on this site than many of the women. That is to do with the massive ratio of women to men, which obviously makes a woman feel superior. It's not personal but instead a general overview of the site.

I didn't mean you.

I meant the others whos egos have lead them from the ops statement of

"I dont like women with big egos"

to

"op is insecure, and requires a "pathetic" woman who craves attention and he can't get laid"

all because they've taken his comment personally so have gone on a ludicrous defensive

I was just thinking how to put what you just wrote.

Whenever a man questions anything women do on here he's labelled a whining saddo who can't take rejection. All they are doing is pointing something out and giving their opinion. "

I disagree - open-minded questioning often results in an interesting discussion. I didn't condemn the OP, I merely stated my belief that he is mistaken most of the time. I can almost count on one hand the women I have seen on the forums who clearly had what I would describe as 'huge egos', total prima donas, and they were obviously deeply damaged individuals, as the men who met them often quickly found out.

And when those 'rate yourself' threads go up, many men overestimate their ranking whereas some real female hotties mark themselves really low.

Generalisations of course, but in general terms I would bet narcissism is more of a male trait, it is a societal thing - that programme on gender issues in primary school children showed exactly the same.

I have no personal axe to grind either way, and did not take the OP's criticism personally at all.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"how big are the egos of those taking this personally though eh?

It's nothing personal what I said. From my experience I found men are more humble on this site than many of the women. That is to do with the massive ratio of women to men, which obviously makes a woman feel superior. It's not personal but instead a general overview of the site.

I didn't mean you.

I meant the others whos egos have lead them from the ops statement of

"I dont like women with big egos"

to

"op is insecure, and requires a "pathetic" woman who craves attention and he can't get laid"

all because they've taken his comment personally so have gone on a ludicrous defensive

I was just thinking how to put what you just wrote.

Whenever a man questions anything women do on here he's labelled a whining saddo who can't take rejection. All they are doing is pointing something out and giving their opinion. "

In the OP's case he's been a member 4 months and he reckons he knows what 99% of the women here are. That may be an opinion but it's a particularly stupid one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For your info op has been on here for nearly 2 years this is my second account. But as i said before the egos from all the women are showing their true colours on here, i see how you all are saying that i must get rejected loads, this is true but its not why i posted this thread, i was just trying to get certain women to have respect towards good decent people on here, but as i have proved my point by people judging me without them even knowing me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"For your info op has been on here for nearly 2 years this is my second account. But as i said before the egos from all the women are showing their true colours on here, i see how you all are saying that i must get rejected loads, this is true but its not why i posted this thread, i was just trying to get certain women to have respect towards good decent people on here, but as i have proved my point by people judging me without them even knowing me"

But aren't you judging those women without even knowing them?

That aside, I don't find a lot of arrogance an attractive trait in either gender.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For your info op has been on here for nearly 2 years this is my second account. But as i said before the egos from all the women are showing their true colours on here, i see how you all are saying that i must get rejected loads, this is true but its not why i posted this thread, i was just trying to get certain women to have respect towards good decent people on here, but as i have proved my point by people judging me without them even knowing me

But aren't you judging those women without even knowing them?

That aside, I don't find a lot of arrogance an attractive trait in either gender. "

no am not! Am speaking from experience when ive been polite to women and all i get in response is abuse! Its such a horrible thing to have to put up with, be nice to all! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op there are all different types of women on here, some loud some shy, some big some small, some outspoken some not so....

The worlds your lobster...perhaps instead of fishing in the deep end try the shallow calmer end instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For your info op has been on here for nearly 2 years this is my second account. But as i said before the egos from all the women are showing their true colours on here, i see how you all are saying that i must get rejected loads, this is true but its not why i posted this thread, i was just trying to get certain women to have respect towards good decent people on here, but as i have proved my point by people judging me without them even knowing me

But aren't you judging those women without even knowing them?

That aside, I don't find a lot of arrogance an attractive trait in either gender.

no am not! Am speaking from experience when ive been polite to women and all i get in response is abuse! Its such a horrible thing to have to put up with, be nice to all! Xx"

Do you mean on here or in the real world that you get abuse from women?

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"For your info op has been on here for nearly 2 years this is my second account. But as i said before the egos from all the women are showing their true colours on here, i see how you all are saying that i must get rejected loads, this is true but its not why i posted this thread, i was just trying to get certain women to have respect towards good decent people on here, but as i have proved my point by people judging me without them even knowing me"

If you've been here for over 2 years and 99% of the women here are 'up their own arses' why are you still here? Did you rejoin the site 4 months ago just to remind us all or have all the women here changed for the worse in that short time? There are rude and arrogant people of both sexes here and everywhere else for that matter but if it's really so bad for you why hang around?

Let's face it you're hardly going to help your own case by making such sweeping and derogatory comments when in fact you have no idea what 99% of the women on this site are really like. If you've been treated badly by some of them that's not nice but there's no need to tar them all with the same brush any more than it'd be OK for us to say that 99% of guys here are sad wankers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For your info op has been on here for nearly 2 years this is my second account. But as i said before the egos from all the women are showing their true colours on here, i see how you all are saying that i must get rejected loads, this is true but its not why i posted this thread, i was just trying to get certain women to have respect towards good decent people on here, but as i have proved my point by people judging me without them even knowing me

But aren't you judging those women without even knowing them?

That aside, I don't find a lot of arrogance an attractive trait in either gender.

no am not! Am speaking from experience when ive been polite to women and all i get in response is abuse! Its such a horrible thing to have to put up with, be nice to all! Xx"

To be fair though OP that is someone being rude. Not nesseccarily having an over inflated ego or thinking they are God's gift.

I do agree with you though, in regards to the women who are being abusive. There is no need to be rude/abusive to someone who has sent a polite and enquiring 1st message. Even if they've had a bad day, there is no excuse for someone being combative to someone who's only being polite .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For your info op has been on here for nearly 2 years this is my second account. But as i said before the egos from all the women are showing their true colours on here, i see how you all are saying that i must get rejected loads, this is true but its not why i posted this thread, i was just trying to get certain women to hiave respect towards good decent people on here, but as i have proved my point by people judging me without them even knowing me

If you've been here for over 2 years and 99% of the women here are 'up their own arses' why are you still here? Did you rejoin the site 4 months ago just to remind us all or have all the women here changed for the worse in that short time? There are rude and arrogant people of both sexes here and everywhere else for that matter but if it's really so bad for you why hang around?

Let's face it you're hardly going to help your own case by making such sweeping and derogatory comments when in fact you have no idea what 99% of the women on this site are really like. If you've been treated badly by some of them that's not nice but there's no need to tar them all with the same brush any more than it'd be OK for us to say that 99% of guys here are sad wankers.

"

like ive said before you are just reinforcing my point on the topic, try not to be so nasty to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Huge egos? Is that the pinkish bit around the nipple?

I'm alright with that to be honest "

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"For your info op has been on here for nearly 2 years this is my second account. But as i said before the egos from all the women are showing their true colours on here, i see how you all are saying that i must get rejected loads, this is true but its not why i posted this thread, i was just trying to get certain women to hiave respect towards good decent people on here, but as i have proved my point by people judging me without them even knowing me

If you've been here for over 2 years and 99% of the women here are 'up their own arses' why are you still here? Did you rejoin the site 4 months ago just to remind us all or have all the women here changed for the worse in that short time? There are rude and arrogant people of both sexes here and everywhere else for that matter but if it's really so bad for you why hang around?

Let's face it you're hardly going to help your own case by making such sweeping and derogatory comments when in fact you have no idea what 99% of the women on this site are really like. If you've been treated badly by some of them that's not nice but there's no need to tar them all with the same brush any more than it'd be OK for us to say that 99% of guys here are sad wankers.

like ive said before you are just reinforcing my point on the topic, try not to be so nasty to people"

What's nasty about what I wrote and which people am I being nasty to? I asked you some very simple and obvious questions about your comments including why you're still here which you've failed to answer. That isn't being rude it's having a discussion. I also agreed that if you've been treated badly that's not fair but you clearly haven't been treated badly by 99% of the women here and that's at the root of the response you're getting. Disagreeing with you and challenging a ridiculous comment you made isn't of itself being rude or nasty you know. If you'd popped up here saying some women are rude, obnoxious, stuck up or whatever there'd be no argument from anyone because it's perfectly obvious.

I think you need to differentiate a bit better between people being nasty/rude and people just disagreeing with you and calling you out on silly comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how big are the egos of those taking this personally though eh?

It's nothing personal what I said. From my experience I found men are more humble on this site than many of the women. That is to do with the massive ratio of women to men, which obviously makes a woman feel superior. It's not personal but instead a general overview of the site.

I didn't mean you.

I meant the others whos egos have lead them from the ops statement of

"I dont like women with big egos"

to

"op is insecure, and requires a "pathetic" woman who craves attention and he can't get laid"

all because they've taken his comment personally so have gone on a ludicrous defensive

I was just thinking how to put what you just wrote.

Whenever a man questions anything women do on here he's labelled a whining saddo who can't take rejection. All they are doing is pointing something out and giving their opinion.

In the OP's case he's been a member 4 months and he reckons he knows what 99% of the women here are. That may be an opinion but it's a particularly stupid one. "

You have no idea how many profiles he's read or women he has spoken to.

It seems to be ok for women to throw around their opinions on men (rarely positive ones), but men can't for women, unless it's to compliment, flatter or swell egos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For your info op has been on here for nearly 2 years this is my second account. But as i said before the egos from all the women are showing their true colours on here, i see how you all are saying that i must get rejected loads, this is true but its not why i posted this thread, i was just trying to get certain women to hiave respect towards good decent people on here, but as i have proved my point by people judging me without them even knowing me

If you've been here for over 2 years and 99% of the women here are 'up their own arses' why are you still here? Did you rejoin the site 4 months ago just to remind us all or have all the women here changed for the worse in that short time? There are rude and arrogant people of both sexes here and everywhere else for that matter but if it's really so bad for you why hang around?

Let's face it you're hardly going to help your own case by making such sweeping and derogatory comments when in fact you have no idea what 99% of the women on this site are really like. If you've been treated badly by some of them that's not nice but there's no need to tar them all with the same brush any more than it'd be OK for us to say that 99% of guys here are sad wankers.

like ive said before you are just reinforcing my point on the topic, try not to be so nasty to people

What's nasty about what I wrote and which people am I being nasty to? I asked you some very simple and obvious questions about your comments including why you're still here which you've failed to answer. That isn't being rude it's having a discussion. I also agreed that if you've been treated badly that's not fair but you clearly haven't been treated badly by 99% of the women here and that's at the root of the response you're getting. Disagreeing with you and challenging a ridiculous comment you made isn't of itself being rude or nasty you know. If you'd popped up here saying some women are rude, obnoxious, stuck up or whatever there'd be no argument from anyone because it's perfectly obvious.

I think you need to differentiate a bit better between people being nasty/rude and people just disagreeing with you and calling you out on silly comments."

Nothing you said was nasty but I don't think it was the OP who said that 99% of women on here had big egos. It was someone else who said that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you've been here for over 2 years and 99% of the women here are 'up their own arses' why are you still here? "

The same reason the many women who complain about men are I would imagine. He's waiting for the right woman to stand out from the crowd.

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By *rCurious1Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For your info op has been on here for nearly 2 years this is my second account. But as i said before the egos from all the women are showing their true colours on here, i see how you all are saying that i must get rejected loads, this is true but its not why i posted this thread, i was just trying to get certain women to hiave respect towards good decent people on here, but as i have proved my point by people judging me without them even knowing me

If you've been here for over 2 years and 99% of the women here are 'up their own arses' why are you still here? Did you rejoin the site 4 months ago just to remind us all or have all the women here changed for the worse in that short time? There are rude and arrogant people of both sexes here and everywhere else for that matter but if it's really so bad for you why hang around?

Let's face it you're hardly going to help your own case by making such sweeping and derogatory comments when in fact you have no idea what 99% of the women on this site are really like. If you've been treated badly by some of them that's not nice but there's no need to tar them all with the same brush any more than it'd be OK for us to say that 99% of guys here are sad wankers.

like ive said before you are just reinforcing my point on the topic, try not to be so nasty to people"

What did you think was so nasty about what they said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was never going to end well this one

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

They turn the OP down... "

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

I think we know the answer to that,any woman who won't meet him! "

Lmao

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"I am proving my point on here without even having to say anything lol the egos are in full swing"

There is a debate going on...some are making valid points and holding their own, others are holding their ego and some are justifying their attitude by not looking at their own behaviour in why they feel ego is the reason behind how they are treated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift

So on here what makes a woman egotistical and full of themselves?

They turn the OP down... "

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not like that, but I have noticed that when I get naked in the bathroom, the shower gets turned on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how big are the egos of those taking this personally though eh?

It's nothing personal what I said. From my experience I found men are more humble on this site than many of the women. That is to do with the massive ratio of women to men, which obviously makes a woman feel superior. It's not personal but instead a general overview of the site.

I didn't mean you.

I meant the others whos egos have lead them from the ops statement of

"I dont like women with big egos"

to

"op is insecure, and requires a "pathetic" woman who craves attention and he can't get laid"

all because they've taken his comment personally so have gone on a ludicrous defensive

I was just thinking how to put what you just wrote.

Whenever a man questions anything women do on here he's labelled a whining saddo who can't take rejection. All they are doing is pointing something out and giving their opinion.

In the OP's case he's been a member 4 months and he reckons he knows what 99% of the women here are. That may be an opinion but it's a particularly stupid one.

You have no idea how many profiles he's read or women he has spoken to.

It seems to be ok for women to throw around their opinions on men (rarely positive ones), but men can't for women, unless it's to compliment, flatter or swell egos.

"

I know exactly how many profiles he has read; 99% at the very least and discovered that 99% of the women here have huge egos

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how big are the egos of those taking this personally though eh?

It's nothing personal what I said. From my experience I found men are more humble on this site than many of the women. That is to do with the massive ratio of women to men, which obviously makes a woman feel superior. It's not personal but instead a general overview of the site.

I didn't mean you.

I meant the others whos egos have lead them from the ops statement of

"I dont like women with big egos"

to

"op is insecure, and requires a "pathetic" woman who craves attention and he can't get laid"

all because they've taken his comment personally so have gone on a ludicrous defensive

I was just thinking how to put what you just wrote.

Whenever a man questions anything women do on here he's labelled a whining saddo who can't take rejection. All they are doing is pointing something out and giving their opinion.

In the OP's case he's been a member 4 months and he reckons he knows what 99% of the women here are. That may be an opinion but it's a particularly stupid one.

You have no idea how many profiles he's read or women he has spoken to.

It seems to be ok for women to throw around their opinions on men (rarely positive ones), but men can't for women, unless it's to compliment, flatter or swell egos.

I know exactly how many profiles he has read; 99% at the very least and discovered that 99% of the women here have huge egos

- Mrs. J -"

Oh no, it is another guy who has read 99% of the profiles. I wonder how long it takes to read 99% of the profiles

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing more than a huge turnoff than women who are egotistic and full of themselves/ gods gift"

I'm far from that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how big are the egos of those taking this personally though eh?

It's nothing personal what I said. From my experience I found men are more humble on this site than many of the women. That is to do with the massive ratio of women to men, which obviously makes a woman feel superior. It's not personal but instead a general overview of the site.

I didn't mean you.

I meant the others whos egos have lead them from the ops statement of

"I dont like women with big egos"

to

"op is insecure, and requires a "pathetic" woman who craves attention and he can't get laid"

all because they've taken his comment personally so have gone on a ludicrous defensive

I was just thinking how to put what you just wrote.

Whenever a man questions anything women do on here he's labelled a whining saddo who can't take rejection. All they are doing is pointing something out and giving their opinion.

In the OP's case he's been a member 4 months and he reckons he knows what 99% of the women here are. That may be an opinion but it's a particularly stupid one.

You have no idea how many profiles he's read or women he has spoken to.

It seems to be ok for women to throw around their opinions on men (rarely positive ones), but men can't for women, unless it's to compliment, flatter or swell egos.

"

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Or ego's of huge women?

You decide !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit comment. ^^^^ how long did that take to make up. Haters will love you

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Shit comment. ^^^^ how long did that take to make up. Haters will love you"

I know I have in my possession one large spoon and a pot of shit,I am currently stirring it.

You are new to the ways of the forum.

There are those who believe everything they say is gospel.

There are those who take offence to every comment that's not theirs.

And there are those who are incredibly sarcastic and love to wind people up and don't follow the sycophantic nature of the forum.

I will leave it up to you to decide which I am.

I will give you a clue.

It's the last one

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By *uteness69Woman
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"Shit comment. ^^^^ how long did that take to make up. Haters will love you

I know I have in my possession one large spoon and a pot of shit,I am currently stirring it.

You are new to the ways of the forum.

There are those who believe everything they say is gospel.

There are those who take offence to every comment that's not theirs.

And there are those who are incredibly sarcastic and love to wind people up and don't follow the sycophantic nature of the forum.

I will leave it up to you to decide which I am.

I will give you a clue.

It's the last one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't see what difference it makes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not good enough for that type, so we don't bother with them.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

It is my opinion that a significant number of women who use the fab forum have huge egos.

It is my opinion that a significent number of women say stuff purely to come across as having a huge ego for a laugh when in fact they are sound as a pound.

Replace all the above with men, couples, etc and you get my point.

Lastly it is my opinion that theres a number of members who think I am a dickhead.

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