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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury

When you send the ice breaker message to a guy you're considering meeting, what do you say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When can we meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When can we meet? "

Ice officially broken with that bad boy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say something like "You looking for pussy? I got pussy rrrarr"

Seriously though, it would depend on what's on their profile but nothing much better than would you like to have a chat and see if we get along?

Maybe say something about their profile, without being sexual.

I don't actually send first messages though. As I can never find anyone I like when I search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say something like "You looking for pussy? I got pussy rrrarr"

"

I can confirm that this worked

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

different things but it won't even be about meeting or sexual. it'll be something relevant to just being able to talk to them normally. initially i am just weighing him up as potential meet and not a definite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women send first message to guys? Is that a new feature on FAB?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll usually wink or say hello

If that doesn't elicit a favourable response, I'll block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When can we meet? "

Find um, fuck um, block um, forget um.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women send first message to guys? Is that a new feature on FAB? "

Haha, I know OP clearly rinsing out the troll lines.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I would say something like "You looking for pussy? I got pussy rrrarr"

Seriously though, it would depend on what's on their profile but nothing much better than would you like to have a chat and see if we get along?

Maybe say something about their profile, without being sexual.

I don't actually send first messages though. As I can never find anyone I like when I search.

"

Collective chorus of ouch amongst the fab males regarding the last paragraph

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

You could probably turn this into a forum game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi how ya hangin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women send first message to guys? Is that a new feature on FAB? "

I was just thinking that. Us females have it so easy on here

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"You could probably turn this into a forum game! "

NO! There's nothing worse than forum games! i wanna fuck!

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"Women send first message to guys? Is that a new feature on FAB?

I was just thinking that. Us females have it so easy on here"

I was surprised to see one real answer to be honest!

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Me message a guy

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By *inxy777Woman
over a year ago

essex

As it's been said, a hello and how are you? Normally starts the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say something like "You looking for pussy? I got pussy rrrarr"

Seriously though, it would depend on what's on their profile but nothing much better than would you like to have a chat and see if we get along?

Maybe say something about their profile, without being sexual.

I don't actually send first messages though. As I can never find anyone I like when I search.

Collective chorus of ouch amongst the fab males regarding the last paragraph "

I'm the same in Primark. Too much stuff in the way of the one thing I might want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say something like "You looking for pussy? I got pussy rrrarr"

I can confirm that this worked "

Men are too easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't send a first message purely for looking for someone to meet because the majority of men don't have face pics and I'd feel bad for having to say no if I didn't find them attractive.

That's of course assuming they'd be interested in me in the first place of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could probably turn this into a forum game! "

I'm in. Can I roll first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to wink and hope they'll message me. If im feeling brave I might flutter my eyelashes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When can we meet? "

In the 27 years I have been on Fab this has only happened once to me

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I find it funny about the way men moan about women not sending the first message.

The reason why I find it funny is that they do not get the correlation between having a decent profile in both blurb and pictures.

How can you expect women to initiate contact when they have nothing to go on apart from 'here for fun' and a cock pic?

I have never looked at a cock pic and thought I really want to meet the owner of that.

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