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Lezbophobia / Homophbia

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In all my years I have never encountered one man who was not turned on by the thought of two women together.not one was lezbophobia.

I am worldy wise and have worked in male dominated warehousing for the last 30 years. I know how blokes tick. I have studied psychology.

The 95 percent of couples on here with bi female/straight guy illustrate my point...

This is coupled with the fact that the majority of messages I receive on here are from Apparently "straight single" guys. Who are looking for women.

So what gives?

Is it a massive coincidence that all those "straight" guys fancy a bit of cock, but the guys in couples don't, but are happy to see their female partner with a woman? Some of them ain't being truthful for fear of their male barriers being broken down.

I feel it is down to the now generally unspoken fact that most guys don't like "queers".

This will always exist. No matter how society seems to accept them.. mainly due to media pressure and queer bashers not wanting to stand out from the crowd for fear of being branded a homophobe.

Sex isn't just about how big your cock is guys. A guy who likes both and is in touch with his feminine side can make a much better lover than a "straight" guy, who"s only concern is "sticking his big cock in a pussy and ramming it in"

Discuss?

This is only my opinion and is not meant to aggravate anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight males don't engage in same sex activity...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not totally sure what point you're trying to make or what question you are asking to be honest.

For my part as an openly bisexual man I've not witnessed a great deal of what I would call blatant homophobia since I've been on the site - in fact there have been two instances (both women) where it's been sufficient for me to reach for the block button.

Yeah there's the perennial question of why "straight" guys look for bi play and the answers are many and well documented within the forums - mostly comes down to a misguided belief that by labelling themselves bisexual they're limiting their chances with people that don't play with bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is very much homophobia directed to lesbians and women in a same sex relationship, and the times I've experienced that it was always from men, ironically enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not totally sure what point you're trying to make or what question you are asking to be honest.

For my part as an openly bisexual man I've not witnessed a great deal of what I would call blatant homophobia since I've been on the site - in fact there have been two instances (both women) where it's been sufficient for me to reach for the block button.

Yeah there's the perennial question of why "straight" guys look for bi play and the answers are many and well documented within the forums - mostly comes down to a misguided belief that by labelling themselves bisexual they're limiting their chances with people that don't play with bi guys.

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I agree but I have to add it can also work the other way...whereby a striaght guy might label himself bi to play with the female half of a couple.

Must be a bugger when found out though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Statistically it is not possible that out of all the couples on here, with bi female, straight male, that a percentile of the males are either secretly bi curious..

Or anti man on man. ( Which obviously remains unspoken )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know how blokes tick. I have studied psychology." Sorry this kinda made me laugh On a lot of levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out of curiosity, if a pre-op TS lady sees herself as a woman, wants to be treated as a woman, and for all intents and purposes lives as a woman, why do some men get really touchy about playing with a pre-op TS?

I appreciate that there are elements that still need operating on, but if the woman in question lives as a woman, they effectively are?

Excuse my naivety, the post is well intentioned. I have no interest in males or pre-op TS but show no animosity to either.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Your having a giggle surely. Believe me if I was gay or even bi curios I'd splash it all over my profile and be getting some right now instead of posting drivel on a forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to presume this is a joke although I'm struggling to find it funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many women pretend to be bi because men get off on it.

Many bi men pretend to be straight because some people won't meet bi men.

Sexuality stated on profiles proves absolutely nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all my years I have never encountered one man who was not turned on by the thought of two women together.not one was lezbophobia.

I am worldy wise and have worked in male dominated warehousing for the last 30 years. I know how blokes tick. I have studied psychology.

The 95 percent of couples on here with bi female/straight guy illustrate my point...

This is coupled with the fact that the majority of messages I receive on here are from Apparently "straight single" guys. Who are looking for women.

So what gives?

Is it a massive coincidence that all those "straight" guys fancy a bit of cock, but the guys in couples don't, but are happy to see their female partner with a woman? Some of them ain't being truthful for fear of their male barriers being broken down.

I feel it is down to the now generally unspoken fact that most guys don't like "queers".

This will always exist. No matter how society seems to accept them.. mainly due to media pressure and queer bashers not wanting to stand out from the crowd for fear of being branded a homophobe.

Sex isn't just about how big your cock is guys. A guy who likes both and is in touch with his feminine side can make a much better lover than a "straight" guy, who"s only concern is "sticking his big cock in a pussy and ramming it in"

Discuss?

This is only my opinion and is not meant to aggravate anyone.

"

You're completely delusional.

This is only my opinion and is not meant to aggravate anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lezbophobia? Are we all just making up words now

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We are neither of those things and my hubby must be one of the very few, that doesn't enjoy watching two women together!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are neither of those things and my hubby must be one of the very few, that doesn't enjoy watching two women together! "

Even though I'm straight, I much prefer my porn to involve a penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (male half of couple) will happily suck on a nice cock - but even if I just see 2 men kissing on telly, I genuinely feel repulsed. Please don't judge me or ask for an explanation - I don't have one - it's just innate

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"We are neither of those things and my hubby must be one of the very few, that doesn't enjoy watching two women together!

Even though I'm straight, I much prefer my porn to involve a penis "

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Op, lesbians are homosexual, so negative attitude to them would be homophobia the same.

Also, be careful. Not finding mm play sexually appealing doesn't make someone homophobic, it just means they aren't turned on by it.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Even though I'm straight, I much prefer my porn to involve a penis "

I'm bi, but I never watch gay porn. I can have man on man fun for maself, but occasionally watch lesbian stuff though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I (male half of couple) will happily suck on a nice cock - but even if I just see 2 men kissing on telly, I genuinely feel repulsed. Please don't judge me or ask for an explanation - I don't have one - it's just innate"

This... although I do have a little nuzzle into close friends that are also of the bi equation, but don't do full on tongues etc...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I'm glad my wife is straight. Two girls together leaves me cold.

Two guys together is really hot. She thinks so too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok call me cynical - but maybe a guy in a couple is getting more than the single guy - and it might just be any port in a storm for some - just thinking out loud btw

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Same sex male activity doesn't mean a guy is in touch with a feminine side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same sex male activity doesn't mean a guy is in touch with a feminine side.

"

Defo not. I know some seriously macho gay guys.

Swoon

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