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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Heyy, I've been on this site for over a year, I've been to a club twice but still not having much look, I'm really wanting to get involved with the life style not just one off hook ups, if I'm out in town I never struggle to pull or had trouble meeting new people. So why I'm I so unlucky here? Would love an experienced woman or couple to really help brake me in?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

If you manage ok in the outside world, you should have done well in a club.

You missed a trick not getting meet verified while at the clubs, a year unverified will put most people off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I went to the attic but the people I met Ive never come across on here, yeah I had fun in the club and I'm going to try different ones but as a single male it's not always comfortable turning up on your own, feels a bit weird, how I can get verified and move on from the position I'm in without getting a meet from here lol? Are there a lot of fake woman profiles here? If I was gay I'd have no issues as I get many messages from males,

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

When you meet someone at a club, just ask their fab user name. Then you can verify each other, even if you havnt played.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

All the staff at the attic are active members of fab. All you need to do is ask them to verify you and they will. You can do the same with anyone you chat to. It's easy providing you actually talk to people and don't become one of the wanking zombies .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now that's something I didn't know, thank you that's really helpful and I will plan another visit there, I take it they wouldn't mid being asked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*tiny violin playing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Listening really hard but can't hear it

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Now that's something I didn't know, thank you that's really helpful and I will plan another visit there, I take it they wouldn't mid being asked? "

I'm sure they won't mind. The staff at most clubs will verify if asked.

A little tip is to take a pen and paper with you to get fab user names for verifications. I can never remember who I've spoken to lol. I will always verify someone if they ask and often I will do it while I'm there. I just go outside the club into the smoking area and get my phone out (phones are banned inside).

I'm not likely to be at the attic for about a month because of work butif you see me there I will verify you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aw thank you again and yeah I will look forward to it, and the pen and paper trick is one to remember haha I ended up in the couples section with the big white pad things without realizing there was a window with people watching haha and got scared In the maze lol

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Excellent advise from Yorkie, above. There are people looking for respectful single guys and you appear to be one. Clubs are good because people can see you face to face and thus judge your character too. Just be friendly and chatty without being intrusive and I'm sure you'll do fine and get some verifications. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you kindly and all the best to you too

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Socials is a good place to start too. Get to know potential play mates and set up future meets. Without feeling a bit weird by going to a club on your own . Your personality will come through win-win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for that, where and how to I find socials? And how do I get invited?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be your Mr grumpy boxers

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Cheers for that, where and how to I find socials? And how do I get invited? "

Meets section mate (organised socials). And also when you find a person or group who do organised socials. Hotlist them so you can see when anyting is coming up that you may be interested in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha you might have a good point there,, they took place over my tiny smurf ones lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cheers for that, where and how to I find socials? And how do I get invited?

Meets section mate (organised socials). And also when you find a person or group who do organised socials. Hotlist them so you can see when anyting is coming up that you may be interested in. "
oh okay il do some searching later, honestly thanks for advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha you might have a good point there,, they took place over my tiny smurf ones lol"

What does the Smurf one look like ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hahaha you might have a good point there,, they took place over my tiny smurf ones lol

What does the Smurf one look like ? "
tight and blue haha I'm sure I have some with a hole and elephants face too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hahaha you might have a good point there,, they took place over my tiny smurf ones lol

What does the Smurf one look like ? tight and blue haha I'm sure I have some with a hole and elephants face too "

Go with the elephant ones

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Cheers for that, where and how to I find socials? And how do I get invited?

Meets section mate (organised socials). And also when you find a person or group who do organised socials. Hotlist them so you can see when anyting is coming up that you may be interested in. oh okay il do some searching later, honestly thanks for advice "

No worries mate. Anything else just pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you meet someone at a club, just ask their fab user name. Then you can verify each other, even if you havnt played."

What if they're not on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you meet someone at a club, just ask their fab user name. Then you can verify each other, even if you havnt played.

What if they're not on fab "
that's what I found, the two laddie so i played with were both un aware of this site,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heyy, I've been on this site for over a year, I've been to a club twice but still not having much look, I'm really wanting to get involved with the life style not just one off hook ups, if I'm out in town I never struggle to pull or had trouble meeting new people. So why I'm I so unlucky here? Would love an experienced woman or couple to really help brake me in? "

Quite simply - the site is not what it was a few years ago - now seems utterly infested with "chatters" who actually have no intention of ever meeting - that's our experience anyway OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Heyy, I've been on this site for over a year, I've been to a club twice but still not having much look, I'm really wanting to get involved with the life style not just one off hook ups, if I'm out in town I never struggle to pull or had trouble meeting new people. So why I'm I so unlucky here? Would love an experienced woman or couple to really help brake me in?

Quite simply - the site is not what it was a few years ago - now seems utterly infested with "chatters" who actually have no intention of ever meeting - that's our experience anyway OP "
which is just about my luck, always find these things to late, I've tried to find sites that could be similar but it seems every one just wants your money lol I think I will hold out a little bit longer then probably hang my boots up before I've even broken them in lol

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Heyy, I've been on this site for over a year, I've been to a club twice but still not having much look, I'm really wanting to get involved with the life style not just one off hook ups, if I'm out in town I never struggle to pull or had trouble meeting new people. So why I'm I so unlucky here? Would love an experienced woman or couple to really help brake me in?

Quite simply - the site is not what it was a few years ago - now seems utterly infested with "chatters" who actually have no intention of ever meeting - that's our experience anyway OP "

Do you not think they just want to make a certain type of connection before meeting who they just chatting for the sake of chatting?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"When you meet someone at a club, just ask their fab user name. Then you can verify each other, even if you havnt played.

What if they're not on fab that's what I found, the two laddie so i played with were both un aware of this site, "

Most people at clubs seem to have Fab profiles.

As mentioned the club bar staff will do a veri.

But anyway, if the clubs work for you, then just stick with them.

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