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"This is a question to anyone who thinks They need more action. . I'm trying to pursued Seeside (page 1 of Men's hot pics ) to add something different to his profile pics. All of them are the same, shirt and a smile. [mods - he's given me explicit permission to mention this] Who else thinks coming out of your comfort zone, could help them move forward on Fab? Are you too nervous to go to that club, or send that direct message that you'd like to fuck them? Are you holding yourself back from enjoying swinging? If anyone else thinks that, if a guy got his chest out to show his body on a profile he might get more attention, or it won't make a difference, let him know. I got permission for this discussion. " I'd probably do a lot better if I went to a club, but in all honesty, I'm not a fan of mingling with a bunch of a strangers | |||
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"I know I need to take more pictures but I struggle to look vaguely human let alone attractive. There are a few people I feel I ought to reach out to but I worry I've left things too long. I'm just terrible at being social." Do you think that being a bit more forward, or putting it differently, 'change what your doing' things would be different here? | |||
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"This is a question to anyone who thinks They need more action. . I'm trying to pursued Seeside (page 1 of Men's hot pics ) to add something different to his profile pics. All of them are the same, shirt and a smile. [mods - he's given me explicit permission to mention this] Who else thinks coming out of your comfort zone, could help them move forward on Fab? Are you too nervous to go to that club, or send that direct message that you'd like to fuck them? Are you holding yourself back from enjoying swinging? If anyone else thinks that, if a guy got his chest out to show his body on a profile he might get more attention, or it won't make a difference, let him know. I got permission for this discussion. I'd probably do a lot better if I went to a club, but in all honesty, I'm not a fan of mingling with a bunch of a strangers" They are only strangers for the first 10 minutes, after that hopefully they are friends you have not yet got to know well yet.... | |||
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"I know I need to take more pictures but I struggle to look vaguely human let alone attractive. There are a few people I feel I ought to reach out to but I worry I've left things too long. I'm just terrible at being social." O no the filling...... | |||
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"This is a question to anyone who thinks They need more action. . I'm trying to pursued Seeside (page 1 of Men's hot pics ) to add something different to his profile pics. All of them are the same, shirt and a smile. [mods - he's given me explicit permission to mention this] Who else thinks coming out of your comfort zone, could help them move forward on Fab? Are you too nervous to go to that club, or send that direct message that you'd like to fuck them? Are you holding yourself back from enjoying swinging? If anyone else thinks that, if a guy got his chest out to show his body on a profile he might get more attention, or it won't make a difference, let him know. I got permission for this discussion. " And to all mods yes this is ok with me | |||
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" I do experiment with my profile a little bit, more out of curiosity at what works and what doesn't than anything else." When you change your profile, does it make any noticeable difference? Just a yes or no? | |||
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" I do experiment with my profile a little bit, more out of curiosity at what works and what doesn't than anything else. When you change your profile, does it make any noticeable difference? Just a yes or no? " Yes | |||
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"Clubs are fun unfortunately my nearest is 3 1/2 hours drive in Torquay" Now emajoun doing that trip in a taxie. | |||
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"I know I need to take more pictures but I struggle to look vaguely human let alone attractive. There are a few people I feel I ought to reach out to but I worry I've left things too long. I'm just terrible at being social. Do you think that being a bit more forward, or putting it differently, 'change what your doing' things would be different here? " Probably. I do know that taking my top off won't help. There are some things better left unseen | |||
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"Clubs are fun unfortunately my nearest is 3 1/2 hours drive in Torquay" How are you getting there? Via Bristol? | |||
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"I know I know I'm just awesome but if you think you've an idea how to make this awesome even more awesomer then let's hear it. God that's a lot of awesome " Lol | |||
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"Clubs are fun unfortunately my nearest is 3 1/2 hours drive in Torquay Now emajoun doing that trip in a taxie. " Seeside - take a few days off, book a hotel and visit a club. You'll also be more near civilisation () for others to meet you! | |||
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"This is a question to anyone who thinks They need more action. . I'm trying to pursued Seeside (page 1 of Men's hot pics ) to add something different to his profile pics. All of them are the same, shirt and a smile. [mods - he's given me explicit permission to mention this] Who else thinks coming out of your comfort zone, could help them move forward on Fab? Are you too nervous to go to that club, or send that direct message that you'd like to fuck them? Are you holding yourself back from enjoying swinging? If anyone else thinks that, if a guy got his chest out to show his body on a profile he might get more attention, or it won't make a difference, let him know. I got permission for this discussion. I'd probably do a lot better if I went to a club, but in all honesty, I'm not a fan of mingling with a bunch of a strangers They are only strangers for the first 10 minutes, after that hopefully they are friends you have not yet got to know well yet...." Especially if we all there Glitter lol Personally I like a face and a bit of banter.. seduce the mind x | |||
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"Clubs are fun unfortunately my nearest is 3 1/2 hours drive in Torquay Now emajoun doing that trip in a taxie. " Just lose the Porno tash for a week or two mate....get some piccys up when it's gone Bob's your aunty | |||
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"Clubs are fun unfortunately my nearest is 3 1/2 hours drive in Torquay Now emajoun doing that trip in a taxie. Seeside - take a few days off, book a hotel and visit a club. You'll also be more near civilisation () for others to meet you! " The girl isn't just a pretty face this is what I'd do if I was you seaside and if it helps you can gladly tag alone with me to a club. Yes I know I'll be the ugly mate. Ffs the things I do | |||
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"Comfortable? Maybe. More accepting of the disappointment. I'm firmly in the "don't set yourself up for a fall" camp. Played with profile and photos. Never had good attention from it. So given up trying. Fab isn't what it was. " This is exactly where we have to take accountability isn't it? If we think positive and act positively, should you get the outcome you want? | |||
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"Clubs are fun unfortunately my nearest is 3 1/2 hours drive in Torquay Now emajoun doing that trip in a taxie. Seeside - take a few days off, book a hotel and visit a club. You'll also be more near civilisation () for others to meet you! The girl isn't just a pretty face this is what I'd do if I was you seaside and if it helps you can gladly tag alone with me to a club. Yes I know I'll be the ugly mate. Ffs the things I do " Thanks | |||
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"I know I need to take more pictures but I struggle to look vaguely human let alone attractive. There are a few people I feel I ought to reach out to but I worry I've left things too long. I'm just terrible at being social." So am I | |||
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"Suppose it could be something small like getting rid of any facial hair,it can make a huge difference to some men." NEVER......... | |||
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"Suppose it could be something small like getting rid of any facial hair,it can make a huge difference to some men. NEVER......... " I can just hear your tash now. You'll never take me alive | |||
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"I tell you what for a supposedly open minded liberated group you blokes are a bunch of pussys. Yes my 1st club I was nervous even possible scared but surely that's what life is about taking a few risks and pushing yourself. Probably just me but if I really want it fuck all dead or alive will stop me least of all myself..." Roaaaarrr go bladey! | |||
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"I tell you what for a supposedly open minded liberated group you blokes are a bunch of pussys. Yes my 1st club I was nervous even possible scared but surely that's what life is about taking a few risks and pushing yourself. Probably just me but if I really want it fuck all dead or alive will stop me least of all myself... Roaaaarrr go bladey!" Can you tell I've just got up for work. Yep grumpy old basterd | |||
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"I'm more comfortable on here and in clubs than I am in vanillasville. I can just be me " +1 | |||
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"Suppose it could be something small like getting rid of any facial hair,it can make a huge difference to some men. NEVER......... I can just hear your tash now. You'll never take me alive " It's a bit 70's though isn't it. I was wondering yesterday what he'd look like without it,trying to crop the tash out with my finger. | |||
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"Suppose it could be something small like getting rid of any facial hair,it can make a huge difference to some men. NEVER......... I can just hear your tash now. You'll never take me alive " | |||
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"I'm more comfortable on here and in clubs than I am in vanillasville. I can just be me " vanillasville ?????? | |||
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"Suppose it could be something small like getting rid of any facial hair,it can make a huge difference to some men. NEVER......... I can just hear your tash now. You'll never take me alive It's a bit 70's though isn't it. I was wondering yesterday what he'd look like without it,trying to crop the tash out with my finger." There you go mate drop the tash and your on a promise I'll never get | |||
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"I tell you what for a supposedly open minded liberated group you blokes are a bunch of pussys. " . That's fighting talk in my town....and your town actually. | |||
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"Suppose it could be something small like getting rid of any facial hair,it can make a huge difference to some men. NEVER......... I can just hear your tash now. You'll never take me alive It's a bit 70's though isn't it. I was wondering yesterday what he'd look like without it,trying to crop the tash out with my finger. There you go mate drop the tash and your on a promise I'll never get " Shushhh you! | |||
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"Suppose it could be something small like getting rid of any facial hair,it can make a huge difference to some men. NEVER......... I can just hear your tash now. You'll never take me alive It's a bit 70's though isn't it. I was wondering yesterday what he'd look like without it,trying to crop the tash out with my finger. There you go mate drop the tash and your on a promise I'll never get Shushhh you! " You mean I will get it wohooooooo result | |||
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"I tell you what for a supposedly open minded liberated group you blokes are a bunch of pussys. . That's fighting talk in my town....and your town actually. " Put em up put em up | |||
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"I'm more comfortable on here and in clubs than I am in vanillasville. I can just be me vanillasville ?????? " Haha it just means away from Fab | |||
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"I'm more comfortable on here and in clubs than I am in vanillasville. I can just be me vanillasville ?????? Haha it just means away from Fab " Oooo ... Normal life....... | |||
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"I think I have a variety to my current pictures and whilst some may be semi revealing I will never post complete nudes of myself " Can I have a private 1. Just for research purposes honest | |||
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"I think I have a variety to my current pictures and whilst some may be semi revealing I will never post complete nudes of myself Can I have a private 1. Just for research purposes honest " Bugger off | |||
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"I think I have a variety to my current pictures and whilst some may be semi revealing I will never post complete nudes of myself Can I have a private 1. Just for research purposes honest Bugger off " Meanie | |||
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"I don't see myself as a swinger but I'm sure I might get a bit more out of 'this' if I went to clubs more. I've promised myself recently that the next time I have a child free weekend that's what I'm going to do. Just got to find those big girl pants first! And Seeside I think you'd look better without the tash. If you don't like it you can just grow it back " I think you'll need a bodyguard and well being the gentle caring soul that I am bla bla bla. Let me know if this is working and I'll carry on the bullshit | |||
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"I don't see myself as a swinger but I'm sure I might get a bit more out of 'this' if I went to clubs more. I've promised myself recently that the next time I have a child free weekend that's what I'm going to do. Just got to find those big girl pants first! And Seeside I think you'd look better without the tash. If you don't like it you can just grow it back I think you'll need a bodyguard and well being the gentle caring soul that I am bla bla bla. Let me know if this is working and I'll carry on the bullshit " I'm good thanks... I'm to far away to need a bodyguard | |||
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"I don't see myself as a swinger but I'm sure I might get a bit more out of 'this' if I went to clubs more. I've promised myself recently that the next time I have a child free weekend that's what I'm going to do. Just got to find those big girl pants first! And Seeside I think you'd look better without the tash. If you don't like it you can just grow it back " It took me 2 years to grow my stile. | |||
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"I don't see myself as a swinger but I'm sure I might get a bit more out of 'this' if I went to clubs more. I've promised myself recently that the next time I have a child free weekend that's what I'm going to do. Just got to find those big girl pants first! And Seeside I think you'd look better without the tash. If you don't like it you can just grow it back I think you'll need a bodyguard and well being the gentle caring soul that I am bla bla bla. Let me know if this is working and I'll carry on the bullshit I'm good thanks... I'm to far away to need a bodyguard " that was for the delectable _ady lick | |||
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"I grew my beard inbetween my two morning coffees. . " Call yourself a man I've had 2 shaves by my 2nd brew | |||
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" I do experiment with my profile a little bit, more out of curiosity at what works and what doesn't than anything else. When you change your profile, does it make any noticeable difference? Just a yes or no? " No | |||
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"Chest legs arms arse they can all be done without getting totally naked, He has done what a huge amount of people don't that's show his face on his avatar/profile he gets bonus points for that" | |||
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"Chest legs arms arse they can all be done without getting totally naked, He has done what a huge amount of people don't that's show his face on his avatar/profile he gets bonus points for that " Very true, a lot of us are nervous about doing that. | |||
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"Chest legs arms arse they can all be done without getting totally naked, He has done what a huge amount of people don't that's show his face on his avatar/profile he gets bonus points for that" But what if our wives see! | |||
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"Chest legs arms arse they can all be done without getting totally naked, He has done what a huge amount of people don't that's show his face on his avatar/profile he gets bonus points for that But what if our wives see! " I'm not going to say wot i really want to say to that.......... All ill say is I'm 100% single | |||
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"Chest legs arms arse they can all be done without getting totally naked, He has done what a huge amount of people don't that's show his face on his avatar/profile he gets bonus points for that But what if our wives see! " How many do you have? | |||
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"Tell you wot.... I'll do a top lis pik next month... If Everyone els dus a face pik " Can I avoid the face pic and just take a photo of my penis? I think I might recreate the photo "Raising the Flag on Iwo Jima" but with my penis and lego men. | |||
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"Tell you wot.... I'll do a top lis pik next month... If Everyone els dus a face pik Can I avoid the face pic and just take a photo of my penis? I think I might recreate the photo "Raising the Flag on Iwo Jima" but with my penis and lego men. " It's 'in print' now. That's practically a contract | |||
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"I don't see myself as a swinger but I'm sure I might get a bit more out of 'this' if I went to clubs more. I've promised myself recently that the next time I have a child free weekend that's what I'm going to do. Just got to find those big girl pants first! And Seeside I think you'd look better without the tash. If you don't like it you can just grow it back I think you'll need a bodyguard and well being the gentle caring soul that I am bla bla bla. Let me know if this is working and I'll carry on the bullshit I'm good thanks... I'm to far away to need a bodyguard that was for the delectable _ady lick " So kind | |||
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"Tell you wot.... I'll do a top lis pik next month... If Everyone els dus a face pik " It doesn't have to be pubic, But its a good idea to have a few different types of pictures | |||
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"Chest legs arms arse they can all be done without getting totally naked, He has done what a huge amount of people don't that's show his face on his avatar/profile he gets bonus points for that But what if our wives see! How many do you have? " I think I'm grammatically correct, Dictionary corner? | |||
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"Tell you wot.... I'll do a top lis pik next month... If Everyone els dus a face pik Can I avoid the face pic and just take a photo of my penis? I think I might recreate the photo "Raising the Flag on Iwo Jima" but with my penis and lego men. " Please do this. | |||
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"Chest legs arms arse they can all be done without getting totally naked, He has done what a huge amount of people don't that's show his face on his avatar/profile he gets bonus points for that But what if our wives see! How many do you have? I think I'm grammatically correct, Dictionary corner? " I don't know. I struggle with an apostrophe and the letter N. i saw wives and it looked plural. | |||
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"Chest legs arms arse they can all be done without getting totally naked, He has done what a huge amount of people don't that's show his face on his avatar/profile he gets bonus points for that But what if our wives see! How many do you have? I think I'm grammatically correct, Dictionary corner? " You are correct | |||
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"Tell you wot.... I'll do a top lis pik next month... If Everyone els dus a face pik " I promised if you did a topless pic I'd get my cock out. Hopefully it's more attractive than my face. It doesn't have a beard which can put some women off. *spelling corrected. | |||
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"Chest legs arms arse they can all be done without getting totally naked, He has done what a huge amount of people don't that's show his face on his avatar/profile he gets bonus points for that But what if our wives see! How many do you have? I think I'm grammatically correct, Dictionary corner? I don't know. I struggle with an apostrophe and the letter N. i saw wives and it looked plural. " Yes, but it was preceded with "our". | |||
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"Chest legs arms arse they can all be done without getting totally naked, He has done what a huge amount of people don't that's show his face on his avatar/profile he gets bonus points for that But what if our wives see! How many do you have? I think I'm grammatically correct, Dictionary corner? " I think you're right because I read it like you're addressing most of the married men on here. Otherwise you would of put 'But what if my wife sees?' | |||
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"Chest legs arms arse they can all be done without getting totally naked, He has done what a huge amount of people don't that's show his face on his avatar/profile he gets bonus points for that But what if our wives see! How many do you have? I think I'm grammatically correct, Dictionary corner? You are correct " thanks DC. | |||
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"Chest legs arms arse they can all be done without getting totally naked, He has done what a huge amount of people don't that's show his face on his avatar/profile he gets bonus points for that But what if our wives see! How many do you have? I think I'm grammatically correct, Dictionary corner? I think you're right because I read it like you're addressing most of the married men on here. Otherwise you would of put 'But what if my wife sees?' " Indeedy. | |||
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"Tell you wot.... I'll do a top lis pik next month... If Everyone els dus a face pik It doesn't have to be pubic, But its a good idea to have a few different types of pictures" Yes,it dus.... Mine will be a Public pik so everyone else's dus to | |||
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"I don't see myself as a swinger but I'm sure I might get a bit more out of 'this' if I went to clubs more. I've promised myself recently that the next time I have a child free weekend that's what I'm going to do. Just got to find those big girl pants first! And Seeside I think you'd look better without the tash. If you don't like it you can just grow it back I think you'll need a bodyguard and well being the gentle caring soul that I am bla bla bla. Let me know if this is working and I'll carry on the bullshit I'm good thanks... I'm to far away to need a bodyguard that was for the delectable _ady lick So kind " Hey you know me always the gentleman | |||
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"Tell you wot.... I'll do a top lis pik next month... If Everyone els dus a face pik I promised if you did a topless pic I'd get my cock out. Hopefully it's more attractive than my face. It doesn't have a beard which can put some women off. *spelling corrected. " He (Seeside) did, and has put his new photo up. | |||
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"Tell you wot.... I'll do a top lis pik next month... If Everyone els dus a face pik I promised if you did a topless pic I'd get my cock out. Hopefully it's more attractive than my face. It doesn't have a beard which can put some women off. *spelling corrected. He (Seeside) did, and has put his new photo up. " And you need to get your cock out .... from reading through this thread misterbee | |||
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"Oh and I've come out of my comfort zone and I like it " Yes you did. | |||
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"I was ready to tell you all how I slept funny on my arm , but had a read through and thought better of it " If your hand has got pins and needles. You could use mine this morning. *please be the lady. | |||
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"Oh and I've come out of my comfort zone and I like it Yes you did. " | |||
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"I was ready to tell you all how I slept funny on my arm , but had a read through and thought better of it If your hand has got pins and needles. You could use mine this morning. *please be the lady. " It’s always the lady in the forums | |||
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"I was ready to tell you all how I slept funny on my arm , but had a read through and thought better of it If your hand has got pins and needles. You could use mine this morning. *please be the lady. It’s always the lady in the forums A ____ in the bedroom? " FIFY. | |||
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"I was ready to tell you all how I slept funny on my arm , but had a read through and thought better of it If your hand has got pins and needles. You could use mine this morning. *please be the lady. It’s always the lady in the forums A ____ in the bedroom? FIFY. " | |||
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