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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. " Refreshing post. They can make your day  . Can be something simple as "I like what you have to say" or "nice smile". | |||
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. " Fantastic idea for a thread good shout! Us men do have feelings and it's always nice to recieve a compliment to put a smile on your face and a spring in your step. To know you make somebody smile, or that they enjoy your company or chats or that you hit the spot in bed. It's all good and nice to be appreciated | |||
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"I think I'm happy I love a good verification just so you know you was respectful and it's a bit of an ego boost lol" I like to show my appreciation through an honest verification and yes, always hope my words make the guy feel good about himself. | |||
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. " Though my verifications speak volumes about my character I would like to think. I know there are women who have said to me it's boring to hear you are reliable, good conversation and get involved. When you read the number of posts about time wasters you want to be clear to interested parties you are the real deal. It's appreciated when people back that up. Maybe the man of few words ticks more boxes for some people?Thoughts? | |||
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"If a woman messages first with more than just a hey or hi then I feel appreciated. " Totally agree, talk to us please ladies. We do not bite | |||
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"I think I'm happy I love a good verification just so you know you was respectful and it's a bit of an ego boost lol I like to show my appreciation through an honest verification and yes, always hope my words make the guy feel good about himself. " Makes a big difference  | |||
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. " Great question x | |||
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. " Any attention is a bonus for me  | |||
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"Just the attention during the meet, that and the odd message. " Yes, giving attention is key to making you feel wanted and messages after a meet keep the memory alive and the smiley face for longer | |||
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"If my well thought out, witty and unique message gets read and then theres a minimum of 5 mins before its deleted and im blocked, then im golden for the rest of the day "I shouldn't be laughing, but that made me chuckle. Women are so brutal! | |||
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. Fantastic idea for a thread good shout! Us men do have feelings and it's always nice to recieve a compliment to put a smile on your face and a spring in your step. To know you make somebody smile, or that they enjoy your company or chats or that you hit the spot in bed. It's all good and nice to be appreciated "Duly noted | |||
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But it's the simple things that often mean the most... a thought a kind word a message that makes us smile even the fact that you remembet our name or the fact that guys like to be appreciated as much as girls...
And when it works on both directions it makes 2 people happy... and they both make more people happy simply because someone said it did something that changed the way we view ourselves or the people we interact with in whatever way do so..
Too many words... back to sit on my rock and rest my thumbs.... | |||
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? This has to be the sweetest, kindest post I've ever seen on here . Kindness , warmth and caring are very underrated qualities and you clearly have those qualities in abundance Guys, let us know your thoughts. " | |||
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. " Oh wow great thread! The ones who let me know they have a fancy integrated dishwasher before I splash everywhere ffs When they pop upstairs and say "I will be down in a minute" actually come down in a minute and not an hour later. How rude is that. Shows they don't value my time. Therefore I don't feel appreciated especially when I have travelled far 
The list is endless really...
No time to carry on as I need to take a look at all your pics before getting back to work.
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"If a woman messages first with more than just a hey or hi then I feel appreciated. " Or answers a message, rather than just deleting. A Fab on our photos now and then to show your appreciation, instead of "Mmmmmmm I love that, but I'd better not Fab it or he'll assume we're now engaged" I've lost my enthusiasm for taking pics now | |||
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"If my well thought out, witty and unique message gets read and then theres a minimum of 5 mins before its deleted and im blocked, then im golden for the rest of the day
I shouldn't be laughing, but that made me chuckle. Women are so brutal! "Its only an online thing , makes me chuckle also | |||
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"As a man, I'd like to be respected, I'm not just someone that's here until you need me to make you have an orgasm. As a lover/fwb or any other label. A message would be nice, i like the friend bit about swinging, I got to know you a little, that's what attracted me. Communication before, during and after, let me know what you like or liked. And yes, flattery goes a long way to keep someone's confidence up in here, of a guy doesn't feel confident, he might just go Unlos one day. " Yes, respect the person you have been intimate with or shared time with at all times. I'm guilty of having friends that I don't chat to and the comments on here will make me show my appreciation of that friendship more. Communication is definitely key and it shouldn't always be down to the man to instigate the chat. We do flatter guys don't we....I Fab pics and try my best to let guys know they are super hot/funny/fuckable | |||
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? This has to be the sweetest, kindest post I've ever seen on here . Kindness , warmth and caring are very underrated qualities and you clearly have those qualities in abundance Guys, let us know your thoughts. "  | |||
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. " A lady asking for a second play meet, that's always a nice boost. | |||
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"If a woman messages first with more than just a hey or hi then I feel appreciated. Totally agree, talk to us please ladies. We do not bite " But if a woman mails a man to compliment him on his pics or profile or forum posts, won't he assume she wants to fuck him? I appreciate all men forum posters. Even the grumpy ones! You make it lively and fun (for me). Thank you. x | |||
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. Oh wow great thread! The ones who let me know they have a fancy integrated dishwasher before I splash everywhere ffs When they pop upstairs and say "I will be down in a minute" actually come down in a minute and not an hour later. How rude is that. Shows they don't value my time. Therefore I don't feel appreciated especially when I have travelled far
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No time to carry on as I need to take a look at all your pics before getting back to work.
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It's a woman's perogative to keep a man waiting. We like to look out best Sir.
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"As a man, I'd like to be respected, I'm not just someone that's here until you need me to make you have an orgasm. As a lover/fwb or any other label. A message would be nice, i like the friend bit about swinging, I got to know you a little, that's what attracted me. Communication before, during and after, let me know what you like or liked. And yes, flattery goes a long way to keep someone's confidence up in here, of a guy doesn't feel confident, he might just go Unlos one day. Yes, respect the person you have been intimate with or shared time with at all times. I'm guilty of having friends that I don't chat to and the comments on here will make me show my appreciation of that friendship more. Communication is definitely key and it shouldn't always be down to the man to instigate the chat. " The man always had to instigate the chat? I thought a conversation is 50/50. Maybe that's what lets me down, I sometimes expect a little back. If a woman is expecting a message out of the blue, why can't a man? I'll take some of it on my shoulders, but this is about showing your appreciation, how is that when you expect me to do all the work to begin? | |||
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"A trophy wouldn't go amiss." A trophy? We wouldn't want to take away your motivation to improve and raise your self esteem. How about a high five | |||
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"Wot makes me fill wanted ???? Honestly....... fab in general....No. A lak of messages and meets don't help but Nuthing ses not wanted mor that a message just deleted without even beening red. And Haveing asparagus meens sending a message is far mor dornting for me than most others. I bild up my confardounce. Take a big berth. Rite a nice message out. Take a nother deep breath and a nother confardounce boost just to send it as my nurvrs always play up at that point. Just to have it deleted without reeding it. Hints y I've stopped sending opening messages. But The fab forums..... Yes as sum have sed thay want to meet me. And all ways fill like in part of the gang lol
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. A lady asking for a second play meet, that's always a nice boost." Oh god yes, wanting to do it all over again and receiving a message saying such a thing makes you feel great about yourself. As an insecure woman though, I'm terribly guilty of waiting to see if the guy says "when can I see you again". I think women should also show they are keen. I guess it's a confidence thing? | |||
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"Wot makes me fill wanted ??? And Haveing asparagus meens sending a message is far mor dornting for me than most others. " Seeside, you've been working in the kitchen to long, take some time off.
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"Wot makes me fill wanted ???? Honestly....... fab in general....No. A lak of messages and meets don't help but Nuthing ses not wanted mor that a message just deleted without even beening red. And Haveing asparagus meens sending a message is far mor dornting for me than most others. I bild up my confardounce. Take a big berth. Rite a nice message out. Take a nother deep breath and a nother confardounce boost just to send it as my nurvrs always play up at that point. Just to have it deleted without reeding it. Hints y I've stopped sending opening messages. But The fab forums..... Yes as sum have sed thay want to meet me. And all ways fill like in part of the gang lol
You are liked by many on the forums. You're a star. "Thanks | |||
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"As a man, I'd like to be respected, I'm not just someone that's here until you need me to make you have an orgasm. As a lover/fwb or any other label. A message would be nice, i like the friend bit about swinging, I got to know you a little, that's what attracted me. Communication before, during and after, let me know what you like or liked. And yes, flattery goes a long way to keep someone's confidence up in here, of a guy doesn't feel confident, he might just go Unlos one day. Yes, respect the person you have been intimate with or shared time with at all times. I'm guilty of having friends that I don't chat to and the comments on here will make me show my appreciation of that friendship more. Communication is definitely key and it shouldn't always be down to the man to instigate the chat. The man always had to instigate the chat? I thought a conversation is 50/50. Maybe that's what lets me down, I sometimes expect a little back. If a woman is expecting a message out of the blue, why can't a man? I'll take some of it on my shoulders, but this is about showing your appreciation, how is that when you expect me to do all the work to begin? " I totally agree, it should be 50/50 and shouldn't all be down to the man. You shouldn't feel that you are not appreciated by a special friend  | |||
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. A lady asking for a second play meet, that's always a nice boost. Oh god yes, wanting to do it all over again and receiving a message saying such a thing makes you feel great about yourself. As an insecure woman though, I'm terribly guilty of waiting to see if the guy says "when can I see you again". I think women should also show they are keen. I guess it's a confidence thing?" It is a confidence thing. Great sex is about confidence. If I've asked a woman to see me again and she says no, I'd feel used or even worse, not great at sex. So how do we let someone know they're appreciated? Tell them. Maybe. | |||
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"Wot makes me fill wanted ??? And Haveing asparagus meens sending a message is far mor dornting for me than most others. Seeside, you've been working in the kitchen to long, take some time off.
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"The silly happy messages from friends ,and one has to remember appreciation is a two way street "It is Taff and most folk on here really show appreciation to your kind, funny and thoughtful ways x | |||
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"Just tell me I'm pretty and stroke my hair. " *strokes hair* | |||
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"For me, what makes me feel really appreciated is when a woman takes an interest or asks about my interests or hobbies... " Have you been in to space as that's clearly not earth your talking about | |||
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"For me, what makes me feel really appreciated is when a woman takes an interest or asks about my interests or hobbies... Have you been in to space as that's clearly not earth your talking about "Some women do exactly that | |||
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"Just tell me I'm pretty and stroke my hair.
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. Though my verifications speak volumes about my character I would like to think. I know there are women who have said to me it's boring to hear you are reliable, good conversation and get involved. When you read the number of posts about time wasters you want to be clear to interested parties you are the real deal. It's appreciated when people back that up. Maybe the man of few words ticks more boxes for some people?Thoughts?" I personally prefer to meet a guy/couple who have been verified as reliable etc. I really don't know what the answer is as I've met guys who have very little to say on their profile and few veri's and also guys with lots of veri's. It's a tricky one. | |||
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"Stroke is the erotic key word here Don't ya think?" He does genuinely like having his hair stroked. | |||
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"Just tell me I'm pretty and stroke my hair. "I don't want to stroke your hair | |||
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"Stroke is the erotic key word here Don't ya think? He does genuinely like having his hair stroked. " He does. | |||
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"I admit.... I'm a sucker for a random message just to compliment me...makes me smile, and feel great about myself and others x Especially when they come from the more 'popular' ladies here... "I'll bet and you do have a hot bod | |||
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"Stroke is the erotic key word here Don't ya think? He does genuinely like having his hair stroked. He does. " You do? | |||
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"If a woman messages first with more than just a hey or hi then I feel appreciated. Totally agree, talk to us please ladies. We do not bite But if a woman mails a man to compliment him on his pics or profile or forum posts, won't he assume she wants to fuck him? I appreciate all men forum posters. Even the grumpy ones! You make it lively and fun (for me). Thank you. x" I don't know about fuck, but I would say she is keen to find out more about you. Thank you! Hope I am not too grumpy x | |||
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"Wot makes me fill wanted ???? Honestly....... fab in general....No. A lak of messages and meets don't help but Nuthing ses not wanted mor that a message just deleted without even beening red. And Haveing asparagus meens sending a message is far mor dornting for me than most others. I bild up my confardounce. Take a big berth. Rite a nice message out. Take a nother deep breath and a nother confardounce boost just to send it as my nurvrs always play up at that point. Just to have it deleted without reeding it. Hints y I've stopped sending opening messages. But The fab forums..... Yes as sum have sed thay want to meet me. And all ways fill like in part of the gang lol
"You should feel wanted and appreciated. I love your posts and humour as do most folk on here. I just wish you could hook up with someone and change your "No Meet Thread" Title soon x | |||
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"Stroke is the erotic key word here Don't ya think? He does genuinely like having his hair stroked. He does. You do? " I do. | |||
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" A fab'd photo always brings a smile to my face x" You don't have many, do some more, get more "love" | |||
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"A hug or kiss your not expecting. A nice compliment from a stranger on here, don't get many but they are nice. When having sex if the person I'm with is reciprocating with the same level of passion as me." It's a wonderful feeling when doing the deed to know they are enjoying it as much as you are  | |||
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"Stroke is the erotic key word here Don't ya think? He does genuinely like having his hair stroked. He does. You do? I do. " And having your wounds neatly sewn after someone's taken your kidneys out? | |||
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"A hug or kiss your not expecting. A nice compliment from a stranger on here, don't get many but they are nice. When having sex if the person I'm with is reciprocating with the same level of passion as me. It's a wonderful feeling when doing the deed to know they are enjoying it as much as you are "It's the best feeling. | |||
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"Stroke is the erotic key word here Don't ya think? He does genuinely like having his hair stroked. He does. You do? I do. And having your wounds neatly sewn after someone's taken your kidneys out? " That's always appreciated, and a bath of ice is helpful. | |||
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"For me, what makes me feel really appreciated is when a woman takes an interest or asks about my interests or hobbies... Have you been in to space as that's clearly not earth your talking about
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We'll thay are not in the south east that's for shor "Really? I always tend to find men with common interests to myself, like reading, creative writing, similar tastes in films/music which gives us plenty to talk about. | |||
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"Wot makes me fill wanted ???? Honestly....... fab in general....No. A lak of messages and meets don't help but Nuthing ses not wanted mor that a message just deleted without even beening red. And Haveing asparagus meens sending a message is far mor dornting for me than most others. I bild up my confardounce. Take a big berth. Rite a nice message out. Take a nother deep breath and a nother confardounce boost just to send it as my nurvrs always play up at that point. Just to have it deleted without reeding it. Hints y I've stopped sending opening messages. But The fab forums..... Yes as sum have sed thay want to meet me. And all ways fill like in part of the gang lol
You should feel wanted and appreciated. I love your posts and humour as do most folk on here. I just wish you could hook up with someone and change your "No Meet Thread" Title soon x"Thanks I keep wishing to but i think i got better chances of winning the lotto wear i am | |||
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"Stroke is the erotic key word here Don't ya think? He does genuinely like having his hair stroked. He does. You do? I do. And having your wounds neatly sewn after someone's taken your kidneys out? That's always appreciated, and a bath of ice is helpful. " I can't help being so good and thoughtful. | |||
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"Good question Dana and one I've never considered before. It's always nice to be nice, to share nice messages although being a guy of the single variety I expect absolutely zero from this site if I am being honest. "I learn to "accept" instead of "expect". Then you have fewer disappointments? | |||
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. " There are apparently 5 different languages of love; Physical contact Acts of kindness Gifts Words of affirmation Quality time Rank them in order of importance to you | |||
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"I feel appreciated in every walk of life. It's what makes it worthwhile getting out of bed in the morning. "That must be a great feeling | |||
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"For me, what makes me feel really appreciated is when a woman takes an interest or asks about my interests or hobbies... Have you been in to space as that's clearly not earth your talking about
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"I feel appreciated in every walk of life. It's what makes it worthwhile getting out of bed in the morning. "That must be a great feeling | |||
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That must be a great feeling "It is but i don't take it for granted, i still try to do my absolute best with everything i attempt. | |||
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"I've been reading all the posts and it's made me think that as a woman as much as I take some of the compliments I receive with a pinch of salt, they're also taken for granted. I do try and say nice things back but I find it hard to say something that doesn't mean I want to get horizontal with everyone I talk to. I think I shall have to learn to be more complimentary x " Absolutely. I give compliments out to be complimentary and nothing more. If i want to get jiggy with someone i make sure they know. | |||
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"It would be nice to feel that someone had made time to meet me. And doesn't want to kick me out afterward. " You have to leave at some point though? Or do you mean ask you to sling your hook straight after sex because they didn't like you? | |||
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"Great thread, lovely! I like to think I make my "friends" feel appreciated. Much of the time, I enjoy having someone to make breakfast for. It's weirdly comforting! " Continental or Full English? | |||
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" When even the unattractive bottom of the barrel females can be swarmed with attention from beta males and manginas it becomes apparent that somewhere down the line, something went horribly wrong. When it comes to online dating, the one thing that has drastically f~~~ed us over is preconceived notions of chivalry. More specifically! the idea men must chase and initiate the first move, this is the foundations of an unbalanced “game” that has been exploited to its fullest at our expense. The reason in which we first created these unwritten rules is now obsolete due to the shift in power that now favours the female as the dominant species. Now I know what your thinking…….but try and explain what power we actually have over women in this day and age? And Lettuce be cereal, if a man hits a woman in public he is demonised and punished, but if the tables are turned he is laughed at and ridiculed. Our power is meaningless and holds no true value beyond pure aesthetics and in most cases…not even once. We now find ourselves submissive to the decisions of a female and the outcome of our actions will rest entirely in her decision, whether it be casual sex or a cup of coffee. To further complicate matters and create even more unbalance is the sheer amount of competition you are up against. The layers upon layers of makeup that these females wear has significantly affected the playing field and made the game almost unplayable for the less attractive males who would otherwise stand a fair chance at meeting someone they could be happy with. This has led to men being willing to offer financial security for a piece of the action, which In turn has created a domino effect causing many of the more desirable females to pursue this as well. For many of us, We are playing a game we can’t win, Many will fall and some may even give up all together and join the other team. We need to take action and stop putting these girls on a pedestal because as much as they would hate to admit it, they need us. " That reads as 'boo hoo, those horrid women won't let us do anything we want to them'. Misogyny at its finest. | |||
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" When even the unattractive bottom of the barrel females can be swarmed with attention from beta males and manginas it becomes apparent that somewhere down the line, something went horribly wrong. When it comes to online dating, the one thing that has drastically f~~~ed us over is preconceived notions of chivalry. More specifically! the idea men must chase and initiate the first move, this is the foundations of an unbalanced “game” that has been exploited to its fullest at our expense. The reason in which we first created these unwritten rules is now obsolete due to the shift in power that now favours the female as the dominant species. Now I know what your thinking…….but try and explain what power we actually have over women in this day and age? And Lettuce be cereal, if a man hits a woman in public he is demonised and punished, but if the tables are turned he is laughed at and ridiculed. Our power is meaningless and holds no true value beyond pure aesthetics and in most cases…not even once. We now find ourselves submissive to the decisions of a female and the outcome of our actions will rest entirely in her decision, whether it be casual sex or a cup of coffee. To further complicate matters and create even more unbalance is the sheer amount of competition you are up against. The layers upon layers of makeup that these females wear has significantly affected the playing field and made the game almost unplayable for the less attractive males who would otherwise stand a fair chance at meeting someone they could be happy with. This has led to men being willing to offer financial security for a piece of the action, which In turn has created a domino effect causing many of the more desirable females to pursue this as well. For many of us, We are playing a game we can’t win, Many will fall and some may even give up all together and join the other team. We need to take action and stop putting these girls on a pedestal because as much as they would hate to admit it, they need us. That reads as 'boo hoo, those horrid women won't let us do anything we want to them'. Misogyny at its finest." I just thought it was a load of bollocks | |||
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"When even the unattractive bottom of the barrel females can be swarmed with attention from beta males and manginas it becomes apparent that somewhere down the line, something went horribly wrong. When it comes to online dating, the one thing that has drastically f~~~ed us over is preconceived notions of chivalry. More specifically! the idea men must chase and initiate the first move, this is the foundations of an unbalanced “game” that has been exploited to its fullest at our expense. The reason in which we first created these unwritten rules is now obsolete due to the shift in power that now favours the female as the dominant species. Now I know what your thinking…….but try and explain what power we actually have over women in this day and age? And Lettuce be cereal, if a man hits a woman in public he is demonised and punished, but if the tables are turned he is laughed at and ridiculed. Our power is meaningless and holds no true value beyond pure aesthetics and in most cases…not even once. We now find ourselves submissive to the decisions of a female and the outcome of our actions will rest entirely in her decision, whether it be casual sex or a cup of coffee. To further complicate matters and create even more unbalance is the sheer amount of competition you are up against. The layers upon layers of makeup that these females wear has significantly affected the playing field and made the game almost unplayable for the less attractive males who would otherwise stand a fair chance at meeting someone they could be happy with. This has led to men being willing to offer financial security for a piece of the action, which In turn has created a domino effect causing many of the more desirable females to pursue this as well. For many of us, We are playing a game we can’t win, Many will fall and some may even give up all together and join the other team. We need to take action and stop putting these girls on a pedestal because as much as they would hate to admit it, they need us. " You should be a motivational speaker. Or not. | |||
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"Great thread, lovely! I like to think I make my "friends" feel appreciated. Much of the time, I enjoy having someone to make breakfast for. It's weirdly comforting! Continental or Full English? I'd maybe go bacon sandwich, but a full English!? Naaaaah!" Blown your chances with me then! | |||
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"It would be nice to feel that someone had made time to meet me. And doesn't want to kick me out afterward. You have to leave at some point though? Or do you mean ask you to sling your hook straight after sex because they didn't like you?" More so because they've cum so the sex is over. That may feel natural at the time. But its nice to have options. "I've booked a room and I'll be there from 7 'till breakfast.." is an ideal. If the meet feels at an end by 11 with both parties sated then . But its nice to have options. Not "I'll meet you at 7 but i want you gone by 9". | |||
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"Great thread lovey. Guys, ok the decent ones on here, really do need to be appreciated. Chucked a few fabs on all your pics x " Thank you miss Phoenix | |||
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"Great thread, lovely! I like to think I make my "friends" feel appreciated. Much of the time, I enjoy having someone to make breakfast for. It's weirdly comforting! Continental or Full English? I'd maybe go bacon sandwich, but a full English!? Naaaaah! Blown your chances with me then!" I think I can just about live with that! | |||
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"Great thread lovey. Guys, ok the decent ones on here, really do need to be appreciated. Chucked a few fabs on all your pics x Thank you miss Phoenix "You're very welcome x | |||
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"Great thread lovey. Guys, ok the decent ones on here, really do need to be appreciated. Chucked a few fabs on all your pics x Thank you miss Phoenix
You're very welcome x"Aw ta | |||
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"Are we powerless in the dating world? Topic by Sword Home › Forums › Dating › Are we powerless in the dating world? Tagged: Dating This topic contains 59 replies, has 33 voices, and was last updated by hollowtips 1 year, 10 months ago. Viewing 20 posts - 1 through 20 (of 60 total) 123? Author Posts 2014-10-14 at 2:51 PM#4835 +18 Sword Participant 39 When even the unattractive bottom of the barrel females can be swarmed with attention from beta males and manginas it becomes apparent that somewhere down the line, something went horribly wrong. When it comes to online dating, the one thing that has drastically f~~~ed us over is preconceived notions of chivalry. More specifically! the idea men must chase and initiate the first move, this is the foundations of an unbalanced “game” that has been exploited to its fullest at our expense. The reason in which we first created these unwritten rules is now obsolete due to the shift in power that now favours the female as the dominant species. Now I know what your thinking…….but try and explain what power we actually have over women in this day and age? And Lettuce be cereal, if a man hits a woman in public he is demonised and punished, but if the tables are turned he is laughed at and ridiculed. Our power is meaningless and holds no true value beyond pure aesthetics and in most cases…not even once. We now find ourselves submissive to the decisions of a female and the outcome of our actions will rest entirely in her decision, whether it be casual sex or a cup of coffee. To further complicate matters and create even more unbalance is the sheer amount of competition you are up against. The layers upon layers of makeup that these females wear has significantly affected the playing field and made the game almost unplayable for the less attractive males who would otherwise stand a fair chance at meeting someone they could be happy with. This has led to men being willing to offer financial security for a piece of the action, which In turn has created a domino effect causing many of the more desirable females to pursue this as well. For many of us, We are playing a game we can’t win, Many will fall and some may even give up all together and join the other team. We need to take action and stop putting these girls on a pedestal because as much as they would hate to admit it, they need us. " Not all women think they call the shots and not all women behave like men are not good enough for them. I totally disagree that men are powerless in the dating world. Utter Bollocks | |||
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I don't know if I mentioned it or not but I do like cake. So if there's any hot bakers out there that want to bake me a cake I'd appreciate it | |||
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I don't know if I mentioned it or not but I do like cake. So if there's any hot bakers out there that want to bake me a cake I'd appreciate it "Brilliant idea | |||
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"Wanders out of man cave... Ohhh look a fun thread... Trogladytes have feelings too.
But it's the simple things that often mean the most... a thought a kind word a message that makes us smile even the fact that you remembet our name or the fact that guys like to be appreciated as much as girls...
And when it works on both directions it makes 2 people happy... and they both make more people happy simply because someone said it did something that changed the way we view ourselves or the people we interact with in whatever way do so..
Too many words... back to sit on my rock and rest my thumbs...."Do come back when your thumbs are well rested | |||
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"Great thread, lovely! I like to think I make my "friends" feel appreciated. Much of the time, I enjoy having someone to make breakfast for. It's weirdly comforting! " "friends" ... I feel excluded, but I do enjoy a double breakfast. Oh flippin heck that has just reminded me... *runs off to kitchen* | |||
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"Wanders out of man cave... Ohhh look a fun thread... Trogladytes have feelings too.
But it's the simple things that often mean the most... a thought a kind word a message that makes us smile even the fact that you remembet our name or the fact that guys like to be appreciated as much as girls...
And when it works on both directions it makes 2 people happy... and they both make more people happy simply because someone said it did something that changed the way we view ourselves or the people we interact with in whatever way do so..
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? We all have those particular things that make us feel wanted and appreciated. Do the women of Fab, your friends, lovers, fuck buddies make you feel worthy? Are we doing enough to show you that we appreciate you? Would you like to receive unsolicited compliments or thank you messages more often? Guys, let us know your thoughts. " To be brutally honest if we are talking swinging ,then nothing makes me feel appreciated in fact I feel pretty much invisible. When people are nice to me I know that it's only because they want to shag my Mrs. Even the women! But if I was to be pinned down to something then just a hint from a lady that I am not wasting my time completely. Sounds a bit poor old me. But you asked and it's the truth. | |||
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"A response, even if it's just to tell me to fuck off!!!" Absolutely! | |||
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"A response, even if it's just to tell me to fuck off!!!" A polite one would be nicer :o Send a first message wouldn't hurt either.... | |||
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"Eh? Do people really need others to make them feel worthy? I very much like the people I hang out with/have sex with, but I don't need them to boost my self esteem. " So are you saying that you wouldn't care if the people you are closest to never complimented you, said the sex was great, gave feedback or even messaged you? Some people have low self esteem and need a boost? | |||
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"Well I've had a good read at all your thoughts and it seems the women aren't making enough effort and communication most of the time seems to be one way traffic. "I don't think it's all women but I do think a lot of the women are on here for different reasons to a lot of the guys and they are the women who tend to just want to be chased without giving much back. They don't tend to be the type that post on the forum much. | |||
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"Eh? Do people really need others to make them feel worthy? I very much like the people I hang out with/have sex with, but I don't need them to boost my self esteem. So are you saying that you wouldn't care if the people you are closest to never complimented you, said the sex was great, gave feedback or even messaged you? Some people have low self esteem and need a boost?" Course I wouldn't. I find compliments mildly unsettling, and to be honest, if you paid me a ot of them, I would probably avoid spending time with you (and I have done this). If the sex isn't great, I'd expect to know, communication is good, but I don't need a "well done" for a mutually beneficial experience. If they didn't message me, I would assume they were no longer interested and not message them, I do message people every so often, but I wouldn't want to be spending time messaging people unesscessarily - once every few weeks is fine. I message my male friends a lot less than that. I see little need to bother people unless it's to arrange spending actual time with them. | |||
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"Eh? Do people really need others to make them feel worthy? I very much like the people I hang out with/have sex with, but I don't need them to boost my self esteem. So are you saying that you wouldn't care if the people you are closest to never complimented you, said the sex was great, gave feedback or even messaged you? Some people have low self esteem and need a boost? Course I wouldn't. I find compliments mildly unsettling, and to be honest, if you paid me a ot of them, I would probably avoid spending time with you (and I have done this). If the sex isn't great, I'd expect to know, communication is good, but I don't need a "well done" for a mutually beneficial experience. If they didn't message me, I would assume they were no longer interested and not message them, I do message people every so often, but I wouldn't want to be spending time messaging people unesscessarily - once every few weeks is fine. I message my male friends a lot less than that. I see little need to bother people unless it's to arrange spending actual time with them. " Blimey, your female block list must be huge as I've seen so many gushing compliments about you. (Mental note: never tell Jimi he's hot) | |||
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"Eh? Do people really need others to make them feel worthy? I very much like the people I hang out with/have sex with, but I don't need them to boost my self esteem. So are you saying that you wouldn't care if the people you are closest to never complimented you, said the sex was great, gave feedback or even messaged you? Some people have low self esteem and need a boost? Course I wouldn't. I find compliments mildly unsettling, and to be honest, if you paid me a ot of them, I would probably avoid spending time with you (and I have done this). If the sex isn't great, I'd expect to know, communication is good, but I don't need a "well done" for a mutually beneficial experience. If they didn't message me, I would assume they were no longer interested and not message them, I do message people every so often, but I wouldn't want to be spending time messaging people unesscessarily - once every few weeks is fine. I message my male friends a lot less than that. I see little need to bother people unless it's to arrange spending actual time with them. Blimey, your female block list must be huge as I've seen so many gushing compliments about you. (Mental note: never tell Jimi he's hot) "I don't generally block people - but out of those people, how many have I met? I've met a few forumites and none have paid me compliments on the forums (and one actively gives me shit).... | |||
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"Eh? Do people really need others to make them feel worthy? I very much like the people I hang out with/have sex with, but I don't need them to boost my self esteem. So are you saying that you wouldn't care if the people you are closest to never complimented you, said the sex was great, gave feedback or even messaged you? Some people have low self esteem and need a boost? Course I wouldn't. I find compliments mildly unsettling, and to be honest, if you paid me a ot of them, I would probably avoid spending time with you (and I have done this). If the sex isn't great, I'd expect to know, communication is good, but I don't need a "well done" for a mutually beneficial experience. If they didn't message me, I would assume they were no longer interested and not message them, I do message people every so often, but I wouldn't want to be spending time messaging people unesscessarily - once every few weeks is fine. I message my male friends a lot less than that. I see little need to bother people unless it's to arrange spending actual time with them. Blimey, your female block list must be huge as I've seen so many gushing compliments about you. (Mental note: never tell Jimi he's hot) "Ha ha
Well what a cracking thread this has been. Interesting points from all sides.
We can all agree to disagree on some things, but I am also sure we can all have a fabulous journey no matter how or where Fab takes us.
Just be yourself and let happiness thrive. It don't matter who makes the first move or how long it takes. Never forget what is important for you and the reasons "why" you joined Fab.
I once said:
If you're getting what you wanted from Fab then you have won the World Cup!
Oh yeah you know that!!
Had to mention footy in Dana's thread. That is standard
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"What makes you feel most appreciated? Guys, let us know your thoughts. " I forgot to mention: Everything has to be mutual for me. Nothing is ever one way. It takes two to tango and all that stuff | |||
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"Just don't rely on others opinions, a compliment is the cherry on the icing, know your own worth and others will recognise it. " You don't need to be patronised to or have false compliments or messages from women you don't know to validate your own self worth and esteem. The onus shouldn't be on the women of fab making you feel worthy - you are worthy. | |||
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