FabSwingers.com forum: Why cant people tell the truth

By *hatterbox 2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Been chatting to a guy for a while now whos been on a downer so said tonight to him if you wana meet for coffee n chat just let us know.He said he wasnt up to meeting anyone at moment so fair enough yet earlier tonight he has a new verification wtf why lie to us just say sorry but your not for me or is that me asking for too much

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Some people find it very difficult to say no on here, even if it would make life easier for all involved.

You just have to suck it up I'm afraid, and now you know he's not worth wasting sympathy on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are blatantly truthful al, the time but like they say truth often hurts lol ,but best way really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!! *Best Jack Nicholson voice*

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!! *Best Jack Nicholson voice* "

Oh come on, there must be a few good men?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Maybe they met a while back and she's only just left the verification?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!! *Best Jack Nicholson voice* "

Made me chuckle dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!! *Best Jack Nicholson voice*

Oh come on, there must be a few good men?

Touché

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say you're asking too much, yes.

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By *hatterbox 2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Why are we asking too much i would rather someone be honest

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Maybe they met a while back and she's only just left the verification? "

Good point. I once had a guy not turn up for a meet because of that.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!! *Best Jack Nicholson voice*

Oh come on, there must be a few good men?

Wow. I'm actually getting sexually aroused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!! *Best Jack Nicholson voice*

Made me chuckle dude.

Some things just need to be said

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"why lie to us just say sorry but your not for me or is that me asking for too much"

Complete dicks always choose the lie option. You've had a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!! *Best Jack Nicholson voice*

Oh come on, there must be a few good men?

Wow. I'm actually getting sexually aroused."

Mary?!

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

OP, you are a couple, good of you to offer coffee and chat! He was feeling down, maybe he met a single woman and hopefully they had a great time and he has perked up

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

I am also truthful to fault, my confidence is shit but I I'm truthful *chuckles*

I agree with the above, either they have just had the veri from a previous meet or they can't say it how it is. They're losing out at the end of the day.

A commendable approach though OP

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Fakes send veries to people they never met hoping to get a veri back.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!! *Best Jack Nicholson voice*

Oh come on, there must be a few good men?

Wow. I'm actually getting sexually aroused.

Mary?!

Should we or should we not follow follow the advice of the galactically stupid!

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By *hatterbox 2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and that's half the reason won't talk to people who do actually tell the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say you're asking too much, yes.

Because it's a sex site.

Fickle fucks etc.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Maybe he was trying to spare your feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not seen the verification but it could be someone he knows already and doesn't feel like meeting anyone new at the moment.

When I'm low or tired I can't deal with new people.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Maybe he was trying to spare your feelings. "

Yes men do do that. They lie and when you find out and are annoyed they say "See, I know it would piss you off."

And then you want to kill them because the truth didn't hurt, just the fact that he'd lied to you. Probably again

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I find saying sorry you're not for me or something along them lines is better then leading someone on when you know you are never going to meet them,

Some people like the attention and don't want to say it when they know they are never going to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask him, and see what he says. ... either he has a reasonable explanation....

Or he is just rude..... either way just get to the bottom of it and move on!

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By *hatterbox 2 OP Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Not going to ask like you say forget it and move on x his loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not going to ask like you say forget it and move on x his loss"

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"I find saying sorry you're not for me or something along them lines is better then leading someone on when you know you are never going to meet them,

Some people like the attention and don't want to say it when they know they are never going to meet them"

If he was a scientolobolcologist he would know how to beat a lie detector.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Been chatting to a guy for a while now whos been on a downer so said tonight to him if you wana meet for coffee n chat just let us know.He said he wasnt up to meeting anyone at moment so fair enough yet earlier tonight he has a new verification wtf why lie to us just say sorry but your not for me or is that me asking for too much"

All you know is that he has a verification. Doesn't mean he met anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a chap for a social, he left the site a while later, rejoined after a year, found me, and verified me, don't be too hasty, it may not have been recent.

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