FabSwingers.com forum: What mail filters do you use?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you ever check your mail filters? I only ever have the newbie one. But I updated my age range recently and it put a mail filter on to block anyone not in my range. I didn't know and didn't want the filter!!

What mail filters do you use?

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

I have age filters, and no for the following:

Newbies, no profile pic, not sure supporters, not verified.

And then anyone who obviously hasn't read my profile ... ????

Rabbit

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

"I have age filters, and no for the following:

Newbies, no profile pic, not sure supporters, not verified.

And then anyone who obviously hasn't read my profile ... ????

Rabbit "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No filters at all but then I'm a bloke so it doesn't really matter

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

All of 'em. I just can't be arsed at the moment so having my filters open would be futile for all concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbies/no photos/not verified/not a site supporter? You can't mail me. Harsh, but if a dude is expected to make an effort here, so should a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We allow all ages, females and M/F couples to message.

Every other option is a red cross, blocked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No filters at all but then I'm a bloke so it doesn't really matter

Having a cock is a disadvantage.

My main filter is my shite personality and crap profile. It puts everyone off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No filters at all but then I'm a bloke so it doesn't really matter

Having a cock is a disadvantage.

My main filter is my shite personality and crap profile. It puts everyone off.

I don't know, I find it useful now then

My cock, of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age, newbies, non verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ever check your mail filters? I only ever have the newbie one. But I updated my age range recently and it put a mail filter on to block anyone not in my range. I didn't know and didn't want the filter!!

What mail filters do you use? "

I don't use any ....

I'd consider using a straight male filter if one were available, but if the truth be told I'm miss relentlessly mocking them when they message me asking to suck my cock ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't use any, surprisingly don't even get messages from other men (well except once) so I must be off-putting to every persuasion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I have all my filters on

Set up to the hilt

May change that at some point

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Not verified

Newbies

No public pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm allowing new people to message me I usually have men only allowed and an age range, which changes occasionally.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Mine allow messages from ladies and MF couples only. I do allow newbies as this has led to some great meets in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age, newbies, non-verified, non-site supporter, no public pictures. Needless to say we hardly ever get messages!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have age filters, and no for the following:

Newbies, no profile pic, not sure supporters, not verified.

And then anyone who obviously hasn't read my profile ... ????

Rabbit "

Same for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need filters...

It's a trogladyte thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age, newbies, non-verified, non-site supporter, no public pictures. Needless to say we hardly ever get messages!

Mrs"

Same here.

When we first came to the site, we were swamped with fakes and pic hunters, not we just cut all that nonsense out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age, newbies, non-verified, non-site supporter, no public pictures. Needless to say we hardly ever get messages!

Mrs

Same here.

When we first came to the site, we were swamped with fakes and pic hunters, not we just cut all that nonsense out."

We did it more to cut down on admin, which can be quite boring and not why we joined Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block everyone!

Occasionally unblock the men to see what pops up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block newbies, non site supporters,non photo verified, no public photo's

I've got an age preference - but that can change depending on my mood

I wish there were other filters like height, distance and nob headishness ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked everything with a cock.

With 'wont meet smokers' being in Account Details, instead of Message Filters, I'm not sure if it is a functional filter, or just advisory for readers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I block newbies, non site supporters,non photo verified, no public photo's

I've got an age preference - but that can change depending on my mood

I wish there were other filters like height, distance and nob headishness ...

Block knobheads... tick!!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I wish there were other filters like height, distance and nob headishness ...

But until the nob headishness one comes in, I'm safe

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Why do people block none site supporters? The other blocks i get but I can't fathom that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people block none site supporters? The other blocks i get but I can't fathom that one."

Because I can't be arsed to talk to faceless shadows that resent paying a fiver to use the site.

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

"Why do people block none site supporters? The other blocks i get but I can't fathom that one."

Nobody likes a tight arse.

Wait a minute. Scrub that. What the fuck am I talking about???

I love a tight arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Newbie,

Not site supporter

Not photo verified

No profile pic

So why do I still get dozens of sillohettes messaging me everyday?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do people block none site supporters? The other blocks i get but I can't fathom that one."

Cos they are evil and lesser human beings that won't pay 10p a day for the privilege of using emoji's in mail. Freaky dat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people block none site supporters? The other blocks i get but I can't fathom that one."

Blocking non-site supporters is a good way of substantially reducing the amount of mail we get. Our experience of the swing scene is that the majority of people who play actively, and attend parties and are generally into the lifestyle etc, tend to be site supporters. There will of course be a few that aren't, but we'd rather make that sacrifice than receive excessive messages from men who we would regard as 'chancers'.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No men no newbies. That's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Newbies and people without public pictures but at the moment my age range is 99 so nobody under 99 can message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No men lol i have had some rather interesting messages so now they are blocked lol

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

Age range, no public pictures, newbies and mm couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people block none site supporters? The other blocks i get but I can't fathom that one."

Cos fakes who continually close and reopen accounts would have to keep paying a few notes each time. So a fake will more than likely be a none site supporter so we block them. If genuine people don't support the site, they lose out too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Newbies and people without public pictures but at the moment my age range is 99 so nobody under 99 can message. "

Did you set the mail filter for age yourself? I updated the age range but the age filter went on automatically. I didn't set it. A newbie (returning forum friend) was trying to mail me but couldn't because of the age filter. She can now I checked my filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must have set my filters to block everyone

Better go and double check

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Can't be newbie

Must have public photos on their profile

Must be verified

Must be aged 40 to 56

Need to lower the upper age limit and raise the lower... that'll reduce my audience by a few million

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Why do people block none site supporters? The other blocks i get but I can't fathom that one.

Cos they are evil and lesser human beings that won't pay 10p a day for the privilege of using emoji's in mail. Freaky dat.

You know i have to admit, not beung able to use emojis in mail does pee me off!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Why do people block none site supporters? The other blocks i get but I can't fathom that one.

Mrs"

Yup. Cant argue with that. I was a supporter previously. Not got round to it this time. Not sure I will either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do people block none site supporters? The other blocks i get but I can't fathom that one.

Cos they are evil and lesser human beings that won't pay 10p a day for the privilege of using emoji's in mail. Freaky dat.

You know i have to admit, not beung able to use emojis in mail does pee me off!"

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Why do people block none site supporters? The other blocks i get but I can't fathom that one.

I think a fiver wont stop fakes. But yup the odds are more likely.

Thanks for the replies all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What mail filters do you use? "

None, it's rare I get a message anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What mail filters do you use? "

We don't use any - but rare we gets messages tbh x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I just have 'married guy playing away' as my message filter. Works a treat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to not have any filters because I liked being able to talk to whoever wanted to message from the forums. But we got too many messages that way (mostly from men and couples out of our age range) and it got tiresome.

So now we have a ton of message filters on. Basically only the people we're looking for can message us (men/women/couples within our age range). We filter out newbies, people with no public pics, mm couples, and a few more that I can't remember.

It is a bit of a shame though because it was nice chatting to people from the forums more freely and not just on the rare occasions that I message first.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"We used to not have any filters because I liked being able to talk to whoever wanted to message from the forums. But we got too many messages that way (mostly from men and couples out of our age range) and it got tiresome.

It is a bit of a shame though because it was nice chatting to people from the forums more freely and not just on the rare occasions that I message first."

Sometimes it is nice to message someone privately about a forum post. Maybe just to have a giggle. But as someone said above the 90% of crap messages you recieve as a result of opening up your profile can make it a bore. I guess its another fab numbers thing. You weigh up the pros and cons.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

only people who can message me are women, and fake women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything on apart from site supporter

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