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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just had a chuckle to myself some guy messaged me saying I looked fit and don't look gay.

I was flattered but it got me wondering what does 'gay' look like.?

Play nice now. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember once I was chatting to a gay friend about celebrities. I said I thought someone was fit and he replied, "you do know he's gay?" I said, "You guys get all the fit ones," and he said, "Well we do try!"

It doesn't really answer your question, but it amused me.

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Aren't all gay men modelled after Dale Winton? I was pretty sure they got handed a pink jacket and bottle of lube when they join the club. I hear the membership is a little expensive though. Since becoming Bi, all I get is a free token for the all you can eat buffet down the road....im sure they were making a joke there...*sigh*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gay guys are the fit ones. The well manicured. The effeminate. The powerful. The intelligent. The wealthy. The poor. The deviant

The sexy. The geek.

Basically; often you can't tell...... unless you 'know'.

It's in their eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The gay guys are the fit ones. The well manicured. The effeminate. The powerful. The intelligent. The wealthy. The poor. The deviant

The sexy. The geek.

Basically; often you can't tell...... unless you 'know'.

It's in their eyes.

And then it's their bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The gay guys are the fit ones. The well manicured. The effeminate. The powerful. The intelligent. The wealthy. The poor. The deviant

The sexy. The geek.

Basically; often you can't tell...... unless you 'know'.

It's in their eyes.

And then it's their bum."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The gay guys are the fit ones. The well manicured. The effeminate. The powerful. The intelligent. The wealthy. The poor. The deviant

The sexy. The geek.

Basically; often you can't tell...... unless you 'know'.

It's in their eyes.

And then it's their bum.

Lol you bad puppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The gay guys are the fit ones. The well manicured. The effeminate. The powerful. The intelligent. The wealthy. The poor. The deviant

The sexy. The geek.

Basically; often you can't tell...... unless you 'know'.

It's in their eyes.

And then it's their bum."

That funny.

I look for tops tho

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Where I used to live a few years ago there was a local gay coulle I used to see. On day they walked past and the one could not have looked any more gay had he tried. He was wearing a tight pink ladies tshirt with Fame on it. Shortest denim shirts you can imagine and carrying a little Yorkshire Terrier with a pink box on its head. Plus too much fake tan. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Where I used to live a few years ago there was a local gay coulle I used to see. On day they walked past and the one could not have looked any more gay had he tried. He was wearing a tight pink ladies tshirt with Fame on it. Shortest denim shirts you can imagine and carrying a little Yorkshire Terrier with a pink box on its head. Plus too much fake tan. Lol

XX"

LMAO that for real.?

Maybe i lived a sheltered life in a small town here.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

LMAO that for real.?

Maybe i lived a sheltered life in a small town here. "

Yes very real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you find that the really good looking ones are gay ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The gay guys are the fit ones. The well manicured. The effeminate. The powerful. The intelligent. The wealthy. The poor. The deviant

The sexy. The geek.

Basically; often you can't tell...... unless you 'know'.

It's in their eyes.

And then it's their bum."

Jim

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Sometimes you find that the really good looking ones are gay ...."

Yes and really hunky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes you find that the really good looking ones are gay ....

Yes and really hunky!

That to

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Meet a lot of gay men in Gran Canaria and they are normally immaculate and well groomed, that's not to say the non gay men dont, before anyone complains

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I'm straight but this thread reminds me of a recent occurrence.

A verified local lady with photos etc popped up on my freed. She had stuck a meet request up for two local lads within my age for a threesome that night ....

I pinged her a brief message along the lines of:

"Hey I see you're looking for a couple of local lads tonight and I'm about if I'm your type of guy"

I also attached a face pic, like you do.

The reply I got was (in caps)

YOU LOOK GAY

And she blocked me for good measure so I never got a chance of reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Pink box on its head lol!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've got no idea what gay looks like. My great uncle and his partner were the first gay men I knew and they just looked like my uncles.

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Just had a chuckle to myself some guy messaged me saying I looked fit and don't look gay.

I was flattered but it got me wondering what does 'gay' look like.?

Play nice now. lol "

I would say what a shame you only meet men !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a chuckle to myself some guy messaged me saying I looked fit and don't look gay.

I was flattered but it got me wondering what does 'gay' look like.?

Play nice now. lol

I would say what a shame you only meet men !!

Hmmmm. Needs to broaden horizons to include tgirls at the very least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend who is gay walks down the shops like he's head liner to Paris catwalk.

I love him

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Erm some of you are confusing gay with camp. Not mutually exclusive

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Out of the millions of guys who are gay, you won't always know, as there is no 'look'.

It doesn't mean that many don't care what you think and don't try to fit in. That liberation can be a facet of what others detect - but any person could have this.

Tribes often have similarities and of you linger at a gay club on Saturdays, that sub-group of gay men will be easier to spot, in the mean.

Loads of otherwise (formerly) straight men of Fab dabble and most would argue that people wouldn't guess about them.

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