FabSwingers.com forum: When someone's out of age range

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You can't message them. Bit of a bummer sometimes haha

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"You can't message them. Bit of a bummer sometimes haha"

Not really.

Just accept their choice and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be a tad disappointing. I have spoken to men over my age range and been interested though; which is why I change it now and then.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

No point messaging if they aren't interested though is there fella

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire

"You can't message them. Bit of a bummer sometimes haha

Not really.

Just accept their choice and move on."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think people are going to rush to change their age settings or anything else...

Simply cos they don't suit your needs...

Homer say D'oh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met people who age range i am outwith.

However at 39 I feel like im out of almost everyones age range at the moment.

18-38 and 40+ are very common.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

That is why I don't have my age filters on, as you never know who you might inadvertently miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just saying, never said I was that bothered haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is why I don't have my age filters on, as you never know who you might inadvertently miss

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens buddy ans i am quite over a lot of age ranges . It's ok though its their choices and its good your happy with that too OP

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By *4gnumprMan
over a year ago

telford

"That is why I don't have my age filters on, as you never know who you might inadvertently miss

if only thee were more like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's true. You never know who you're missing out on with age filters. I met a guy who was outside mine and he's awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't message them. Bit of a bummer sometimes haha"

I wouldn't worry mate there probably fake or won't reply anyway and if they did reply I bet there rude and full of shit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, not really. Can't miss what you can't have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh but is the age range adjusted after each birthday ...before you know it your out of your own age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an age range but haven't blocked messages from those outside of that range just in case I quite like the look of them.

But I understand why women do, there's plenty of choice on offer, might as well be specific in what you want.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'm out of everyone s age range

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My age rage is 90-99, I'm just biding my time

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"My age rage is 90-99, I'm just biding my time

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curses ..too young xxx

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

No, just accept it's one of those things and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm out of a vast majority of people's age filters but it hasn't curbed the fun I've had. You have to respect people's preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What really grinds my gears the most is when young men outside my age range message me, I ignore them and then they tell me 'but I like older women' Like I should change my preferences just because they say that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All comes down to having the courtesy to read profiles first really. Enough said.

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By *4gnumprMan
over a year ago

telford

up to 45 is killing me @ the moment

cut some slack ladies please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other thing that always makes me laugh is men's profiles that state aged 18 - 40 and yet they're 50+. Deluded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Yes it is.

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I have an age range but haven't blocked messages from those outside of that range just in case I quite like the look of them.

But I understand why women do, there's plenty of choice on offer, might as well be specific in what you want."

we've done the same as you

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What really grinds my gears the most is when young men outside my age range message me, I ignore them and then they tell me 'but I like older women' Like I should change my preferences just because they say that. "

Yes I know exactly what you mean. For us we're not comfortable with people same age as our kids but they don't get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes members forget to change their filters when they get older.

Narrows it further still.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

A good chunk on here lie about their age,so who cares

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"You can't message them. Bit of a bummer sometimes haha"

Happens to most of us at some point Hun! Very few people have the 18-99 age range listed as a preference!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No point messaging if they aren't interested though is there fella

If I could hide my age and you see me you would probably think I'm younger but by the same token people say I act much older.

So I personally don't see what age has to do with attraction unlike a persons character.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just have to accept their preference and move on - saves wasting everybody's time.

Shame though, I know people are often genuinely surprised that I am as old as I am. Possibly my immaturity but I prefer to think it is my astonishing, good looks, haha!

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

We guess it is all about accepting that nothing is a shame,it simply is what it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's true. You never know who you're missing out on with age filters. I met a guy who was outside mine and he's awesome

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Yes I know exactly what you mean. For us we're not comfortable with people same age as our kids but they don't get it.

Had that this morning.

Nice message, so sent a polite reply, saying sorry no thanks, you are far too young for me.

Then the whole, but I like older women thing back.

Telling him I have kids older than him, and that's a line I won't cross didn't work either.

Blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though my age filter is set I still get messages from below the age

Still reply to them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even though my age filter is set I still get messages from below the age

Still reply to them though "

Just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just respect people's wishes. We're all here for some fun and good times in our own ways

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

"You can't message them. Bit of a bummer sometimes haha"

Not for them

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"It's true. You never know who you're missing out on with age filters. I met a guy who was outside mine and he's awesome

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