FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

What does a guy have to do to get a message?

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've messaged so many people on here and nobody seems interested... how can I get verifications if nobody messages us?? Can anyone help a brother out?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U have to accept that there are 100s of men to every woman on here. The majority of men will never have a meet here.

Don't whine on your status and profile and keep chatting here and in the chat rooms. Get known for being you x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Better profile ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

face pic in your first message and maybe more text and pictures on your profile as at least check out the profile before even having a look at the message itself...

good luck!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a waste ladies I would.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

better profile, and dont whine about men, just block them from messaging.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the organised social events near you far better chance there of getting chatting to people

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley


"U have to accept that there are 100s of men to every woman on here. The majority of men will never have a meet here.

Don't whine on your status and profile and keep chatting here and in the chat rooms. Get known for being you x"

^^This

Have a search around the forums as well as loads of advice around.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

Webcam someone !!

They can veri you then

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself... have an interesting headline as your message ... stand out...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bribery

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Better pics. Maybe a bum shot?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see! Thanks for the input ladies and gents.. I've took on all you have said and let's see if it helps

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What a waste ladies I would."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Without knowing the content of your opening messages to people i couldn't comment why you arent getting replies.

Getting your first verification can seem like Mission Impossible, try looking for group socials in your area and go to some of those, once you get talking to people there and become 'known' you may find people willing to verify you, it can be very frustrating for single males to get anywhere on here, even with verifications, due to us far outnumbering single females.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not verified by Monday, I'll video chat with you and drop you a veri.

Aren't I nice

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're not verified by Monday, I'll video chat with you and drop you a veri.

Aren't I nice "

No, he'll never learn

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're not verified by Monday, I'll video chat with you and drop you a veri.

Aren't I nice "

Extremely ahaa thanks for that!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be patient, i've been on here for a while and had offers of meets even though i don't often message. Using the forums is a good way to get yourself known but it will take time. Good luck.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"
ffs got there first...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your profile and who you want to meet probably cuts your chances down op. People typically want to meet socially - s's you say you're not built to chin wag, that could also be reducing your chances.

As others say, it's competitive here for men. Why is swinging for you?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look nice and smart and you're tall.

I'd say have more pictures public.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lolffs got there first... "
Yes. I did there lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate all the help of all posts! Taking everything into consideration and got a lot more interest already! Thanks guys and dolls!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Seeing as you haven't asked for profile advice no one can give you any, but start there .

Are there any organised socials in your area?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell, if even a handsome devil like you can't get a reply what chances do us mere mortals have?!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hell, if even a handsome devil like you can't get a reply what chances do us mere mortals have?!"

Hey, you've got at least an 8inch long penis with a circumference of 6 inches, your face is pleasant and you've got nice blue eyes. You'll be fine.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hell, if even a handsome devil like you can't get a reply what chances do us mere mortals have?!

Hey, you've got at least an 8inch long penis with a circumference of 6 inches, your face is pleasant and you've got nice blue eyes. You'll be fine. "

Lol, thanks for the pep talk! I wish, must be a good angle, I'll have to change that before any ladies end up disappointed.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hell, if even a handsome devil like you can't get a reply what chances do us mere mortals have?!

Hey, you've got at least an 8inch long penis with a circumference of 6 inches, your face is pleasant and you've got nice blue eyes. You'll be fine.

Lol, thanks for the pep talk! I wish, must be a good angle, I'll have to change that before any ladies end up disappointed."

What You're girthy though?

How much of the base are you holding with your hand? This is why I don't trust pictures where the guy is holding his willy.

You need to have a hands free willy picture that shows base to bell clearly.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look nice and smart and you're tall.

I'd say have more pictures public. "

I've put more public photos in ahaa thanks for the advice!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hell, if even a handsome devil like you can't get a reply what chances do us mere mortals have?!

Hey, you've got at least an 8inch long penis with a circumference of 6 inches, your face is pleasant and you've got nice blue eyes. You'll be fine.

Lol, thanks for the pep talk! I wish, must be a good angle, I'll have to change that before any ladies end up disappointed.

What You're girthy though?

How much of the base are you holding with your hand? This is why I don't trust pictures where the guy is holding his willy.

You need to have a hands free willy picture that shows base to bell clearly.

"

Pretty girthy but not 8 inches long. I'll have to use a sky remote as a scale for my next one.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've messaged so many people on here and nobody seems interested... how can I get verifications if nobody messages us?? Can anyone help a brother out?"

Better more detailed profile.

And lose photo 3.. Smile Goddamnit, no offense meant but you look like a serial killer

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always consider the 3 keys of getting laid on Fab: pics, profile, persistence

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look nice and smart and you're tall.

I'd say have more pictures public. "

Im trying to message you but I'm unable to as you've blocked everyone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a couple you feel comfortable with. Make your opening message an introduction and let people know who you are, what you like and send face photos. Exchange polite messages don't go like a bull in a tea shop. Gain their trust and meet socially. I found once I was verified more people opened up to chat. Take your time be patient and it will fall into place. Believe me, I'm nothing special and still see a lot of messages simply read and deleted.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top