FabSwingers.com forum: Guys are more visual

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This statement is often given to describe why guys watch more porn than women and who prefer an explicit pic.

Do guys always think about sex when they see an avatar. Do they always imagine a sexual act that they'd like to do to that woman/guy or do they ever think 'Mmmm I like the colour of her bra, or 'the lace on those knickers is equisite.

My OH loved my previous avatar of bending over a balcony. He said that its the exact pose and vision he gets as he's getting into position behind me. He imagines holding onto my ass and sliding inside. I asked whether he ever looked at the scenery surrounding the pic, his answer was no.

it seems to be the case that its mainly guys who have action pics in their profile collection. Do they remembere the sex and that's why they want the reminder, or are they interested in the roman orgyesque quality of the pictures.

So do you think like an artist, your eye taking in the beautiful creamy smooth skin of woman and the way their bodies curve or do you just imagine her on the end of your cock

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

thinks most won't get to end of your post to find their answer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look for the phwoar factor, some do it and some don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just look for the phwoar factor, some do it and some don't

But do you ever not think sex. I can look at pics and its not sex that attracts me to the pic, it can be looking at suerroundings and colour used. I don't always have a sexual thought when I'm looking at them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just look for the phwoar factor, some do it and some don't

I don't automaticaly think of sex but if they are attractive to me, more of a "cor she's nice" type of thing

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

"I just look for the phwoar factor, some do it and some don't

Interesting question, from my perspective not being able to appreciate photos; explicit or otherwise, personalities swing it for me. I like to discover a deeper glimpse inside someones mind from their personality, the explicit personalities don't do it for me as much as a mystery. a book that needs to be read from front to back, a parcel that needs careful unwrapping, or a culinary delight that needs to be tasted and savoured. There are some profiles that are full frontal legs wide and then there are those that concentrate on mystery and the sourroundings, leaving me thinking more avout what the personality behind that profile is like more than the basics of ..."streuth I'd like to fuck that!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eye is drawn to beauty, elegance and at times artistic impression, but if there's any remote attraction I will always immediately think of sex. Whether the picture is explicit or not.

I don't consciously know I'm doing it, it's just 'default' for me.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Imagination, sense of style and individuality for me...

the thought of open legs and click does nothing for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like looking at dirty pictures. Also like other types of pictures too. Like to see a clear face pic so i have an idea if someone is my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has to be a really good pic to make me think of sex ...... I go for the look and art and class factor . And your pics are out of this world i love the art and passion you put into them icconic xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has to be a really good pic to make me think of sex ...... I go for the look and art and class factor . And your pics are out of this world i love the art and passion you put into them icconic xx"

yeah i love your pics iconic, but strangely not in a sexual way, i like the colour/composition/clothes first, i think youre right about guys being more visual, when im horny my eyes close without me thinkin, though being as my eyes are really crap it doesnt make much difference! x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Great question!

I love looking at well shot pictures but they don't do anything for me sexually.

I will think she/he is attractive or has a nice body etc but that's it.

I tend to look more at the backgrounds, colours, poses, accessories used etc.

Not interested at all in looking at close up cock/pussy pics, I tend to skip those.

Where Mr prefers looking at action & fully naked shots but only if he finds the lady attractive/sexy.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Forgot to add that I always like looking at your photos iconic x

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I see you have gone down the blue skin route with your new avatar iconic. Excellent work!

More of this please ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, look over yonder out in the rain

Soakin' wet fever in my brain

Now, I ain't certain which way to go

But I got to move, sure

[Chorus:]

Feelin' blue, blue, blue, blue, blue

I'm feelin' blue. I'm feelin' blue

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=suLwV1NdkXo

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Hey, look over yonder out in the rain

Soakin' wet fever in my brain

Now, I ain't certain which way to go

But I got to move, sure

[Chorus:]

Feelin' blue, blue, blue, blue, blue

I'm feelin' blue. I'm feelin' blue

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=suLwV1NdkXo"

WTF! Not a blue chick anywhere

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like looking at good photos, cant bare explicit full open fanny shots and cock shots do nothing for me.

Iconic i often go and look at your photos cause they are visually stimulationg but its not a "oh god i want to fuck the arse off iconic" its wow how photogenic is she.

Same with _iew, although i do have alterior motives for looking at his profile lol.

But my very favourite avator of all time is _iews shower one. Nothing explicit about that at all.

Full in your face ones just makes me go yuk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see you have gone down the blue skin route with your new avatar iconic. Excellent work!

More of this please ladies."
She is one of them rear fish ladys the men would see years ago and kill themselfs to get to her on the rock xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to look at pics without a sexual thought. tend to look right into the photo and see everything in it.

cock pics dont normally do a thing for me, but there has been one picture i have seen lately. it was a cock picture with just a single drip of precum on the end of it, now that got my juices going

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

I appreciate a well thought out pic. The feel of it, the curves, the setting. When I see pics like that I think...I would like to meet that guy. Archangels avatar is the perfect one for me. Do I instantly think sex? No, but I do think...potential.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like an artist... well photographer actually... lol

My late Dad was the artist... I grew up round all the great painters books and he painted clothed and unclothed ladies... it's helped make me unashamed to walk round naked, appreciate a woman in her entirety and get lost in the moment in raptures

so there you go... lol

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must have a male brain!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you very much for the pic comments, I am really flattered.

There are some pics where I do think sexual thoughts but mainly for me my eye is drawn to colour, lighting and creativity when looking at pics.

I'd be excited about seeing a legs open pussy pic if the woman was lying on an alter surrounded by priests holding rosarys and preying, or a wide open pussy close up surrounded by pink roses, rather than a woman lying on her bed in a normal everyday bedroom. I don't mind how explicit but I want to see more I guess. Some very explicit and close up pussy shots can be very artistic, but they tend to be shot in black and white. The lack of colour seems to strip the pornography factor and turn it to art.

I also love Views shower pic because the camera has captured the droplets of water so its like a cascade of diamomds. I don't think its sexual but it certainly is sensual.

I was surprised to receive a message from a guy who said that he liked my pic as I had massive tits. I couldn't believe that his thoughts were sexual regarding that pic as it is not in any way a sexy pic. The fact that he didn't notice that it appeared I had a tail instead of legs surprising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to look at the pics, the scenery and the small details. thres usually something funny in most pics, and if there is i will spot it lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I must have a male brain!

And I've got a girly cock ! lol

But very seriously now, my missus had more porn on dvd than I did when I met her (4 yrs ago) we have loads of the stuff ! I am bi but would sooner have the real thing than watch someone else !

I have memories of pictures (Mayfair or Playboy) that turned me on when I was only about 15 and can still envisage those erotic memories now!

mmmm off for a w***

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i tend to look at the pics, the scenery and the small details. thres usually something funny in most pics, and if there is i will spot it lol"

its like there is a picture of me lying naked in my garden and no one ever sees that am wearing my knickers over my face, wonder why they dont notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i tend to look at the pics, the scenery and the small details. thres usually something funny in most pics, and if there is i will spot it lol

its like there is a picture of me lying naked in my garden and no one ever sees that am wearing my knickers over my face, wonder why they dont notice

lol, you know ive not been on your profile foe some time....will make a visit very soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience is:

guys NEVER mention anything but the pic and what it does for them.

It is the most unsexy photo in my eyes!

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