FabSwingers.com forum: Can you live without sex?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think whoever said that was d*unk at the time.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I doubt many people on here will say they can live without sex......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have done for the last 18 months.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I think whoever said that was d*unk at the time. "

You're rather cute.....

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By *rgasmExpertMan
over a year ago

Newmarket

"I doubt many people on here will say they can live without sex......"
I agree. This is most definitely the wrong type of forum and audience to be asking that question of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean I can but I wouldn't want to

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I did for a long time.

Then I divorced him!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i can live without crap sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *ndyuk7Man
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

whats sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live without for years and guess what? I didn't die from it!!!

I've been without for six weeks and I'm absolutely gagging now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could live without it.

I wouldn't be happy about it, but I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think whoever said that was d*unk at the time.

You're rather cute.....

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Thank you. Those eyes of yours

Tried to message but out of range lol

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?"

Yeah you can. I'm doing ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I have done for the last 18 months.

of course we can love without it - would be very frustrating though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I have done for the last 18 months.

of course we can love without it - would be very frustrating though"

*live

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I've had two 2 1/2 year sex droughts out of choice.

Like inflation rates, sexual desire goes up as well as down

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can live without it for a while...but it's a necessity ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It is possible to live without sex, many people do through choice or necessity e.g. illness. I think it is far more difficult to live without human physical contact e.g. a hug, a hand holding yours an arm round the shoulder than it is to live without sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is possible to live without sex, many people do through choice or necessity e.g. illness. I think it is far more difficult to live without human physical contact e.g. a hug, a hand holding yours an arm round the shoulder than it is to live without sex."

Great point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i wank? Lol

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

no, i cant live without

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Well so far this year, I seem to be doing a pretty good job at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well so far this year, I seem to be doing a pretty good job at it

That could soon be changed

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Would I die without food and water - YES

Would I die without sex - NO

Would I want to live without sex - HELL NO

Would I be unhappy without sex - HELL YES

Putting it differently, if my life depended on not having sex I suppose I'd live without it. But left to my own natural tendencies, sex several times a week and sex with multiple partners is my norm. If I find someone attractive, he/she usually ends up in my bed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I live without for years and guess what? I didn't die from it!!!

I've been without for six weeks and I'm absolutely gagging now

Another question would be:

The less you have the less you need?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?"

Yew my flesh light will get abused and hammered.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Yes...I think we all can! But HELL NO I wouldn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with this. I have quite a low sex drive so I don't particularly need sex very often, it's very low on my list of priorities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i had to i could. But i don't want to, so i won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?"

Depends who is offering!

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?"

Ask again in a year. We will all be in a much better position to answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. That was an easy question.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I seem to be managing so far. Its amazing what you can live with when its imposed on you.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Haven't had a choice for the past couple of year and now thanks to a shitty disfiguring illness that I can't imagine anyone would want to deal with it's unlikely to change anytime soon. Frustrating as hell but it won't kill me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance. My arms would be strong though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I could easily live without it, it is nothing I crave. I have a tug daily which is enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a case of having to - wife has, in her own words, "shut up shop"...

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By *igger101ukMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Spent lots of time away sans sex. Well apart from one notable occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i can live without crap sex...

I never thought you were into that sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can i wank? Lol"

Of course you can, enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spent lots of time away sans sex. Well apart from one notable occasion. "

Did it involve a tub of Swarfega?

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"Yes. I could easily live without it, it is nothing I crave. I have a tug daily which is enough

But if you didn't do the daily tug, you might not find it easy to live without it

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

For me of is the other way round. I can live without the " human physical contact" but can't do without sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I could easily live without it, it is nothing I crave. I have a tug daily which is enough

But if you didn't do the daily tug, you might not find it easy to live without it"
That is right. I could go without a tug 2 days lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"If i had to i could. But i don't want to, so i won't.

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldnt live without it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I could but not without love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely this!

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Cause of death: Not getting any sex..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most the men on here live without sex! Or so they tell us often on the forums!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I lived without sex for many years as my partner wasnt interested in it. Now im free im making up for lost time and need it frequently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I went 7 years lols and didnt really miss it at the time but then I was lucky enough to gain my freedom and join Fab and boom found out what I had beeen missing all those years.... now my appetite seems to be growing and I keep waiting for my desires to level out but not yet

being in touch with and feeling good about your body has so much to do with your sex drive I am sure

All that said a good snog and a big hug are priceless miss those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at the moment, but I did during my marriage. I like the physical feeling of a body touching mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went the first 17 years of my life without, didn't die. So yeah I guess it is...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lived without sex for many years as my partner wasnt interested in it. Now im free im making up for lost time and need it frequently"
Was he mad, when you have a body like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could live without penetrative sex. I couldn't live without the sex of it.

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Hmmm this is hard. Sex is pretty important when it comes to what makes up a Botu. I think though, if I still had Kink and it's various elements and physical contact and foreplay I could "get by" *chuckles*

Good question though OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lived without proper sex for years. So yes. It's intimacy I couldn't live without x

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By *igger101ukMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Spent lots of time away sans sex. Well apart from one notable occasion.

Did it involve a tub of Swarfega?

Haaaaaaaaaang on....do I know you?????

If not how on earth di you know about that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?"

Ofcourse I can live without sex but I'd rather not

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spent lots of time away sans sex. Well apart from one notable occasion.

Did it involve a tub of Swarfega?

Haaaaaaaaaang on....do I know you?????

If not how on earth di you know about that?"

another site from times gone by

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

For me of is the other way round. I can live without the " human physical contact" but can't do without sex. "

Can you have sex without human physical contact? Discounting masturbation and sex dolls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd imagine I could as it's already been a long time since I've had sex but I'd really rather not

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?"

"Can" and "want to" are different things.

You won't die from no sex so yes, you can live without it.

Do I want to? Personally? No way in hell haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spend about 99% of my day not having sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think I could but not without love "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It appears that I'm able to. I've managed all day.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

For me of is the other way round. I can live without the " human physical contact" but can't do without sex.

Can you have sex without human physical contact? Discounting masturbation and sex dolls."

Yes I can, based on what you've described above as physical contact:" ... a hug, a hand holding yours, an arm around the shoulder..." Sometimes I've had sex without any of the above.

Though I like such physical contact, not everyone I've met wanted the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done spells of over a year without sex. As I've been single a long time I do find that when I'm not having regular sex I let myself go. I don't shave my legs or my fanny, I eat shit and don't make much effort with how I look.

I did have sex two weeks ago though and it put a spring in my step.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?"

Yes.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I can, but would rather not.

I once went over 2 years without sex... Never again (I hope)

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can, but would rather not.

I once went over 2 years without sex... Never again (I hope)

Nita"
Thats far too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a year once, and that was in a relationship. Never again. Sex is far too important...

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I can, but would rather not.

I once went over 2 years without sex... Never again (I hope)

NitaThats far too long "

Too bloody right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can, but would rather not.

I once went over 2 years without sex... Never again (I hope)

NitaThats far too long

Too bloody right

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Well I hope you're making up for it

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Cal and I have been making up for it for the last 17 years or so.

With a little extra help recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah that's ok then hehe

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over a year ago

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

You can learn to when there appears to be no other option..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can learn to when there appears to be no other option.."

I dunno about learn to. That's when furious masturbation comes into play lol

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

yes of course .. i dont have much anyway .its seems less important as i get older .tho when i was younger i wd have found it hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?"

The less I have, the less I want.

But it also works the other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can...

But life is far more grey more empty less fun and far less fulfilling than if the sex is part of life..

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?"

I've lived with out it for 29 years and counting

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By *ohnjohn_111Man
over a year ago

kent

Yep, being a single father and working makes meets or anything else almost impossible. After about 6 months your sex drive just nose dives and not having it is no longer a problem.

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire

Could live without sexual intercourse or foreplay with someone else but not without actually cumming once a day. Nooooo way!

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By *esilMan
over a year ago

kent

i personally couldn't I love it to much

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?"

Each o his or her own.

But me? I can not.

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By *exy_cpl1990Couple
over a year ago

berkshire

I have been working away and seen Mrs for 2 and a half weeks in the last 11 and a half months, I haven't lived, I've existed... do I need sex.... bloody damn right I do !!

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By *.spot77Man
over a year ago

Basildon

I couldn't live if I didn't have any sex I have had a few meetings and I am looking for some more want some fun with me?

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

"I couldn't live if I didn't have any sex I have had a few meetings and I am looking for some more want some fun with me?

Avoid......oh wait wrong thread...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If I had a gun to my head, I would definitely be able to live without it - as I'm sure we all would under duress.

Which means I could do so from choice too. I don't.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Yes but I would be a total wanker.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not having sex brings my mood low and I lose all my sparkle. Its going that way at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Let me think .......NO

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Have to have it at lease once a day. I can probably go without for a day or so at a push. That's going solo or with a partner by the way ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could live without sex if I had to. I would prefer not to though. Had some long dry spells and I'm still alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I could live without sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?"

That's is like arguing with Mother Nature, I you don't want to piss her off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done in the past. Probably around 6 years celibate when I was in my 20's, but couldn't live without it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we can but I for one would be fucking miserable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have done must of the time up to now and don't see things changing anytime soon!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"You can learn to when there appears to be no other option..

I dunno about learn to. That's when furious masturbation comes into play lol"

Speak for yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would I die without food and water - YES

Would I die without sex - NO

Would I want to live without sex - HELL NO

Would I be unhappy without sex - HELL YES

So you always get what you want?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we can but I for one would be fucking miserable

I got one would be fucking anything I could get fit my cock into.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?"

I'd hate to live without sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?

I'd hate to live without sex. "

Not to get what you want... that's the thing

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By *lusive.UnicornWoman
over a year ago

Dungeonville

"I did for a long time.

Then I divorced him! "

Haha same here hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with other people? Not a problem. My last time was a good three years ago and I've gone longer than that. I've said it before: people let it take up too much of their time, money and effort when more often than not it's a disappointment, or average at best and there are so many other things which are better than sex.

If it was so great, men wouldn't want a sandwich ten seconds after it and women would be more up for it than they quite rightly are. As an urge, you can get rid of it quite easily without all the extra unnecessaries and at least a wank won't get upset with you when you say it wasn't great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you need is food and water

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have been working away and seen Mrs for 2 and a half weeks in the last 11 and a half months, I haven't lived, I've existed... do I need sex.... bloody damn right I do !! "

How's she coping?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I managed 4 years without it in my last marriage

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I managed 4 years without it in my last marriage "

You mean no sex and living with a man, right?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I managed 4 years without it in my last marriage

You mean no sex and living with a man, right?"

Yes that's what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I managed 4 years without it in my last marriage

You mean no sex and living with a man, right?

Yes that's what I mean "

Not good, right?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I managed 4 years without it in my last marriage

You mean no sex and living with a man, right?

Yes that's what I mean

Not good, right?"

Not really was miserable when finally announced he was leaving me for his other women I watched him leave them joined POF and was fucking a new guy working two hours, that guy introduced me to fab and I've never looked back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I managed 4 years without it in my last marriage

You mean no sex and living with a man, right?

Yes that's what I mean

Not good, right?

Good for you if you feel good

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Yes, some people believe sex is not a need, that we can happily live with no sex...

What you think?

I've lived with out it for 29 years and counting

Y do i all ways get skiped in these things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, if no suitable partners, and I have done, many times in my life

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over a year ago

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Well I have done for the last 18 months.

But that's not the question. Could you live without sex for your entire life?. I don't think i could. Is that excluding bj etc? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I live without for years and guess what? I didn't die from it!!!

I've been without for six weeks and I'm absolutely gagging now

That's what I'm like.

Was in a long term relationship without any sex for years. I didn't miss it or want it (quite bad sex). That was my first sexual partner and I didn't know what I was missing.

Now I know what's possible...I'm fairly rampant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife has not wanted sex for nearly 4 years now.

Hence I am on here in Crossdress form.

I need intimacy...need fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I live without for years and guess what? I didn't die from it!!!

I've been without for six weeks and I'm absolutely gagging now

That's what I'm like.

Was in a long term relationship without any sex for years. I didn't miss it or want it (quite bad sex). That was my first sexual partner and I didn't know what I was missing.

Now I know what's possible...I'm fairly rampant!

Sexual energy is very important in our life and we need to address it... One way or the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my answer to this question is I'm just about to go to toilet and bash the bishop so it's a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems your question is currently being put under the test with me.

All

I can say is, I'm just about managing.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Why would you want to???

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I've lived 29 years with out it.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I lasted 8 years without sex, then I found Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather not.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I could live without sex. For me living without intimacy would be impossible.

At times sex is just a vehicle to that desire to feel wanted, to be held close and to just not feel quite so lonely. Even if it is only briefly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lasted 8 years without sex, then I found Fab

lets see how you manage the next 8 years now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I could live without sex. For me living without intimacy would be impossible.

At times sex is just a vehicle to that desire to feel wanted, to be held close and to just not feel quite so lonely. Even if it is only briefly.

Thank you 'wyld' lady.

Very deep thought...

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, i would rather go without have a wank than having meaningless soulless sex.

It really is quality over quantity with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, quite easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Due to my living situation (living with my parents) it's a bit of a challenge. Also I spend most of my free time working on my MA, and there are lots of stressors associated with that, which often means sex is the last thing on my mind.

I do love a good cuddle though!!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I lasted 8 years without sex, then I found Fab

lets see how you manage the next 8 years now.

Fab changed my life it's true, but I don't rely on this site for all my fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haven't had a choice for the past couple of year and now thanks to a shitty disfiguring illness that I can't imagine anyone would want to deal with it's unlikely to change anytime soon. Frustrating as hell but it won't kill me

Thanks for your honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went for nearly 4 years without sex. It just wasn't part of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but I wouldn't want to. I have sex because I very much enjoy it, not because I need it.

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By *omwastonMan
over a year ago

Galway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex but in no way is it essential to a happy life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love sex but in no way is it essential to a happy life "

What is a 'happy life'?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

If I had too, yes I could.

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