FabSwingers.com forum: Change to the norm'

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After Seeside trying his experiment to try to change things around here, I thought the same.

The usual people always start the same threads here. Yes they do. I post a thread daily (probably) and we all could name others that always (and I mean ALWAYS) post the same threads or post something everyday.

So, on Monday if your all for it. If you always regularly post threads. Don't. Just for the one day.

And if you dont regularly post threads or have never posted one, do.

Let's talk about something else, let's talk about what you want to.

How about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool, all the blokes read at least theee feminist books by Monday and I'm in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, I'll let someone else post the tease the ladies Monday thread x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I've just started the Lounge Chat thread. Can that be my offering?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okey Dokey

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'll see if I can be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll see if I can be arsed. "

That's not a change!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll see if I can be arsed. "

Don't sound too enthusiastic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just started the Lounge Chat thread. Can that be my offering?

No. Monday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cool, all the blokes read at least theee feminist books by Monday and I'm in."

Any recommendations?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I'll see if I can be arsed.

That's not a change!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cool, all the blokes read at least theee feminist books by Monday and I'm in."

I'll just check out what Emma Watson has to say. She's cute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive only been posting for a few days! But I'll leave it alone on Monday. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cool, all the blokes read at least theee feminist books by Monday and I'm in.

I'll just check out what Emma Watson has to say. She's cute.

Yeah, don't go making an effort. One line will always do for blokes, just like Fab mail.

*eyeroll*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cool, all the blokes read at least theee feminist books by Monday and I'm in.

I'll just check out what Emma Watson has to say. She's cute.

Yeah, don't go making an effort. One line will always do for blokes, just like Fab mail.

*eyeroll*"

Why write anything, when I can say it with a cock pic?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sooooo. Not many takers then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know which of those I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely start a thread. ..normally because I don't want you all to tell me how great I am, you can fab my pics if you like but I won't fab yours unless I actually like them. I'm not looking to flirt with all and sundry and I certainly have no intention of meeting anyone, I don't want to know if you want to kiss fuck chuck off a bridge, I don't have anything that I want to publicly whinge about, I don't want the site to change and I really don't want your advice on my profile. Thanks all the same. I don't care if you prefer boobs or bums. I have both and I'm losing neither so tough. Oh and I'm not interested in anyone else's preferences. If there are any other reasons for starting a thread then I'll find it and I'll start one

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I can remember starting a thread that a forum regular does as well as a few other regulars as no one had done it that day, It didn't go down well

With the reaction it got you'd think id just took a dump in someone shoes,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rarely start a thread. ..normally because I don't want you all to tell me how great I am, you can fab my pics if you like but I won't fab yours unless I actually like them. I'm not looking to flirt with all and sundry and I certainly have no intention of meeting anyone, I don't want to know if you want to kiss fuck chuck off a bridge, I don't have anything that I want to publicly whinge about, I don't want the site to change and I really don't want your advice on my profile. Thanks all the same. I don't care if you prefer boobs or bums. I have both and I'm losing neither so tough. Oh and I'm not interested in anyone else's preferences. If there are any other reasons for starting a thread then I'll find it and I'll start one

Do one about married men.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Imagine how quiet it will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started one yesterday........

Don't think I'll bother again

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

Do one about married men.

has one been done about unmarried men, and why they are not?

what about, how to name your pets?

100 things you could do with a macaroon?

do you believe flies have consciousness?

or who paints the ceilings in your house?

all valid forum threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do one about married men.

has one been done about unmarried men, and why they are not?

what about, how to name your pets?

100 things you could do with a macaroon?

do you believe flies have consciousness?

or who paints the ceilings in your house?

all valid forum threads

Save these for Monday.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

Do one about married men.

has one been done about unmarried men, and why they are not?

what about, how to name your pets?

100 things you could do with a macaroon?

do you believe flies have consciousness?

or who paints the ceilings in your house?

all valid forum threads

Save these for Monday.

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there would be more for monday im constantly generating , however i haven't got one as good yet' as a particular nocturnal thread the posse did a couple of years ago,17 threads long in one night, the 'tesco' thread if anyone remembers that or, the 'one man garden shed gangbang'..i miss those times of crying with laughter ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think ive covered all bases over time

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Great idea MisterBee,

I have started a few threads in the past but they usually die within a dozen comments, maybe I'll try again on Monday.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"i think ive covered all bases over time

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gorgeous avatar sweet xx

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I've already done this thread on your behalf while you were away

. It turned into a right fiasco and caused a few unforeseen holidays

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't start threads. I am not a proactive forum fabber; I'd rather dip in and out and be reactive when I feel spurred to do so. I have to be mentally active in real life; the forums are an occasional form of escapism so starting threads seems incompatible with that. Plus no one reads my posts anyway so starting a tumble thread would be an exercise in futility even if I did start one just for the sake of doing so.

But it's a nice concept in theory, OP. Maybe there's a stimulating thread starter out there lurking in the forum wings, just waiting for the impetus to start one.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I'm always lurking and posting on other's threads, I might just give it a go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think ive covered all bases over time

gorgeous avatar sweet xx"

ta - rather twee for me but love those flowers and picking that many every other day still

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"i think ive covered all bases over time

gorgeous avatar sweet xx

ta - rather twee for me but love those flowers and picking that many every other day still "
i think its beautiful. like you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think ive covered all bases over time

gorgeous avatar sweet xx

ta - rather twee for me but love those flowers and picking that many every other day still i think its beautiful. like you x"

shhhhhhhhhh - my boobs have goosebumbs on them - was stood by the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do one about married men.

has one been done about unmarried men, and why they are not?

what about, how to name your pets?

100 things you could do with a macaroon?

do you believe flies have consciousness?

or who paints the ceilings in your house?

all valid forum threads

I'm in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i think ive covered all bases over time

gorgeous avatar sweet xx"

What she said. Nice flowers.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"i think ive covered all bases over time

gorgeous avatar sweet xx

ta - rather twee for me but love those flowers and picking that many every other day still i think its beautiful. like you x

shhhhhhhhhh - my boobs have goosebumbs on them - was stood by the door

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cmon in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Imagine how quiet it will be "

John Lennon is inspired.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Imagine how quiet it will be

John Lennon is inspired. "
and bjork (walking taff bait

)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think ive covered all bases over time

gorgeous avatar sweet xx

ta - rather twee for me but love those flowers and picking that many every other day still i think its beautiful. like you x

shhhhhhhhhh - my boobs have goosebumbs on them - was stood by the door

cmon in

you going to warm me up -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've already done this thread on your behalf while you were away

. It turned into a right fiasco and caused a few unforeseen holidays

You were an inspiration.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Imagine how quiet it will be

John Lennon is inspired. and bjork (walking taff bait

)

Oh god, Lennon/Bjork a mega mix.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm always lurking and posting on other's threads, I might just give it a go!

I might just reply.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"i think ive covered all bases over time

gorgeous avatar sweet xx

ta - rather twee for me but love those flowers and picking that many every other day still i think its beautiful. like you x

shhhhhhhhhh - my boobs have goosebumbs on them - was stood by the door

cmon in

you going to warm me up - "
your just hot anyway, dont need my help xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're leaving

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We're leaving

Where to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're leaving

Where to? "

The forum , detoxing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We're leaving

Where to?

The forum , detoxing

You'll be back, they all float down h...sorry wrong quote.

They all come back.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We rarely start threads... In fact I'm not sure I ever have.

I'll try to remember to start one on Monday... Then watch it crash and burn

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're leaving

Where to?

The forum , detoxing

You'll be back, they all float down h...sorry wrong quote.

They all come back.

Yep we're back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im in.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Im in.

In love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody will respond to a randomer posting a thread.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Nobody will respond to a randomer posting a thread. "

Only if they post a whinge thread. I don't care who starts it if I like it I post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been thinking about this idea but noticed something today. Sister Lisa didn't do the confession thread this morning and folk moaned that someone else dare do it. People don't like change on here, I don't think this will work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will respond to a randomer posting a thread. "

I post on things I find interesting. Who the OP is doesn't affect me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted to do a regular post giving out handy life advice/hacks. I would call it peaches life hacks. But then I lost interest

plus I'm rubbish at giving advice but I liked the irony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been thinking about this idea but noticed something today. Sister Lisa didn't do the confession thread this morning and folk moaned that someone else dare do it. People don't like change on here, I don't think this will work. "

Yeah. I've noticed this. I find it most odd... yet people claim that it's nice and friendly. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted to do a regular post giving out handy life advice/hacks. I would call it peaches life hacks. But then I lost interest

plus I'm rubbish at giving advice but I liked the irony. "

Do it. I love life hacks.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Nobody will respond to a randomer posting a thread. "

Why call someone a randomer.

The forums are for everyone who chooses to use them.

That doesn't make them anymore random than you or I.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

That's a completely different thing. When someone is attached to a particular thread another person's approach doesn't feel right. Either find your own niche or start random threads that's better in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will respond to a randomer posting a thread.

Why call someone a randomer.

The forums are for everyone who chooses to use them.

That doesn't make them anymore random than you or I.

But apparently we can only use them if we're going to be original in our use of them. Heaven forbid we should start a thread that xyz normally starts. And there's a reason why people are intimidated

I couldn't be bothered with the backlash of stepping on precious toes and upsetting the regulars.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yeah. I've noticed this. I find it most odd... yet people claim that it's nice and friendly. .."

I've just read the thread and I really can't see people moaning in it. I think a few of them were tongue in cheek complaints - the posters then went on to interact with the OP so evidently weren't that hurt by the change! Language is open to interpretation I guess. Meh.

Anyways OP, am trying to think of a thread. I might stop soon and just wait for random inspiration to strike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will respond to a randomer posting a thread.

Why call someone a randomer.

The forums are for everyone who chooses to use them.

That doesn't make them anymore random than you or I.

But apparently we can only use them if we're going to be original in our use of them. Heaven forbid we should start a thread that xyz normally starts. And there's a reason why people are intimidated

I couldn't be bothered with the backlash of stepping on precious toes and upsetting the regulars. "

Exactly. You can't force yourself to fit in where you don't belong!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Might start one about Golf.....Yawn

Sorry private joke

Plus no one would respond anyways as they rarely do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. I've noticed this. I find it most odd... yet people claim that it's nice and friendly. ..

Anyways OP, am trying to think of a thread. I might stop soon and just wait for random inspiration to strike. "

I haven't read that particular thread. I've noticed it on a few others over time. It's not a unique occurrence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will respond to a randomer posting a thread.

Why call someone a randomer.

The forums are for everyone who chooses to use them.

That doesn't make them anymore random than you or I.

But apparently we can only use them if we're going to be original in our use of them. Heaven forbid we should start a thread that xyz normally starts. And there's a reason why people are intimidated

I couldn't be bothered with the backlash of stepping on precious toes and upsetting the regulars.

Exactly. You can't force yourself to fit in where you don't belong! "

Thanks. I won't bother then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will respond to a randomer posting a thread.

Why call someone a randomer.

The forums are for everyone who chooses to use them.

That doesn't make them anymore random than you or I.

But apparently we can only use them if we're going to be original in our use of them. Heaven forbid we should start a thread that xyz normally starts. And there's a reason why people are intimidated

I couldn't be bothered with the backlash of stepping on precious toes and upsetting the regulars.

Exactly. You can't force yourself to fit in where you don't belong!

Thanks. I won't bother then

I wasn't referring to you, what I meant was that "we" wouldn't be accepted doing somebodies regular thread, there would be uproar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m starting the squabbling thread, everyone welcome. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I might start a 'group hug' or 'kiss and make up' thread...

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Think I might start a 'group hug' or 'kiss and make up' thread..."

That'll fill up quickly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah. I've noticed this. I find it most odd... yet people claim that it's nice and friendly. ..

Anyways OP, am trying to think of a thread. I might stop soon and just wait for random inspiration to strike. "

Inspiration is the best way, but that's only my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nobody will respond to a randomer posting a thread.

I post on things I find interesting. Who the OP is doesn't affect me.

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Might start one about Golf.....Yawn

Sorry private joke

Plus no one would respond anyways as they rarely do!

I'll talk about my wood and my ball bag.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Might start one about Golf.....Yawn

Sorry private joke

Plus no one would respond anyways as they rarely do!

I'll talk about my wood and my ball bag. "

Time for us to Tee off then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Might start one about Golf.....Yawn

Sorry private joke

Plus no one would respond anyways as they rarely do!

I'll talk about my wood and my ball bag.

Time for us to Tee off then

When your ready to swing, let me know.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Messin' wiv ma rights maaaan!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I start threads, I post regularly, though not everyday, and I don't care if that's not an acceptable way to carry on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I start threads, I post regularly, though not everyday, and I don't care if that's not an acceptable way to carry on here

I never said it's not acceptable. It was just an idea to change things up a bit.

I might be the only one who thinks things get a little stale in here, but rather than moan about it. I thought asking for help - newbies/lurkers/shy peeps to post. It was just an idea. I'm trying it. I'll reply to who's I can and spark interest.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I might be the only one who thinks things get a little stale in here"

You're not, it gets very stale at times and it's a good idea but I wanted to be arsey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will try ...... if I'm about

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I start threads, I post regularly, though not everyday, and I don't care if that's not an acceptable way to carry on here

You're a matchmaker

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I start threads, I post regularly, though not everyday, and I don't care if that's not an acceptable way to carry on here

You're a matchmaker

Oh yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girl called red unicorn did the thread.

She used to do a similar thread in the Ireland room but then had crap to deal with on the Ireland threads.

It shows that often the forums can be a little unwelcoming to change or something different but instead of complaining about who can run what thread because they always did...

Perhaps we should be more welcoming and open to change....and give those who at least start the threads....well some of the threads...a break.

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