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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So when writing messages to their fabbers...... I always try to be pleasant and respectful, and I'm not one for pestering women if they don't reply or not interested..........this doesn't seem to do very well.

Thinking I should be a bit more aggressive with my messages..... thoughts ppl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *reman6976Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"So when writing messages to their fabbers...... I always try to be pleasant and respectful, and I'm not one for pestering women if they don't reply or not interested..........this doesn't seem to do very well.

Thinking I should be a bit more aggressive with my messages..... thoughts ppl? "

No way! That's just silly. Continue being respectful and you might have more chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell em how you really feel

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"So when writing messages to their fabbers...... I always try to be pleasant and respectful, and I'm not one for pestering women if they don't reply or not interested..........this doesn't seem to do very well.

Thinking I should be a bit more aggressive with my messages..... thoughts ppl? "

Just keep sending em cock pics till they respond

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

No you daft sausage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should just be you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might find yourself moving swiftly from hotlist to block list.

Although some ladies like a bad boy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice guys finish last as they say!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You might find yourself moving swiftly from hotlist to block list.

Although some ladies like a bad boy..."

Haha, well that's what I was thinking.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Try this

Right you fucking bitch, what time are we meeting and don't say no, cos i aint having none of it.....and you better send me a face picture as well x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Nice guys finish last as they say! "

Who's 'they'? I've never heard anyone say that.

But go and have a go. Send out some nasty messages and let us know how it goes.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Nice guys finish last as they say! "

So do arseholes, conduct yourself as you wish, just please don't start a whinging thread afterwards! Remember the green arrow

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By *rightonCheekyMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"Try this

Right you fucking bitch, what time are we meeting and don't say no, cos i aint having none of it.....and you better send me a face picture as well x

"

Nailed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever reply to aggressive messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try this

Right you fucking bitch, what time are we meeting and don't say no, cos i aint having none of it.....and you better send me a face picture as well x

"

I actually like this, I think I would actually respond to this out of fear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Nice guys finish last as they say! "

a lot of women on here sit back and observe forum threads and posts..nice guys who show themselves as nice guys, get the best of others, if they are patient..other than that, if thats too slow, get out to socials and clubs and get to be seen as a nice man in person, speeds up the process

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

Who's 'they'? I've never heard anyone say that.

But go and have a go. Send out some nasty messages and let us know how it goes."

You ever seen the film MASK

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

Who's 'they'? I've never heard anyone say that.

But go and have a go. Send out some nasty messages and let us know how it goes.

You ever seen the film MASK "

Which one?

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By *reman6976Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

a lot of women on here sit back and observe forum threads and posts..nice guys who show themselves as nice guys, get the best of others, if they are patient..other than that, if thats too slow, get out to socials and clubs and get to be seen as a nice man in person, speeds up the process "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

a lot of women on here sit back and observe forum threads and posts..nice guys who show themselves as nice guys, get the best of others, if they are patient..other than that, if thats too slow, get out to socials and clubs and get to be seen as a nice man in person, speeds up the process "

Thought about going to a few cubs, but don't want to stick out like a sore thumb.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

Who's 'they'? I've never heard anyone say that.

But go and have a go. Send out some nasty messages and let us know how it goes.

You ever seen the film MASK

Which one?"

The first one with Jim Carey, it's a quote of that. Don't actually know why i remembered it though

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

Who's 'they'? I've never heard anyone say that.

But go and have a go. Send out some nasty messages and let us know how it goes.

You ever seen the film MASK

Which one?

The first one with Jim Carey, it's a quote of that. Don't actually know why i remembered it though"

The one with Jim Carey in is called The Mask. Mask is a much better film.

And if you're taking tips from a Jim Carey film then you're doomed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice guys finish last as they say! "

Nope, they end up in my bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

Nope, they end up in my bed "

on my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

Who's 'they'? I've never heard anyone say that.

But go and have a go. Send out some nasty messages and let us know how it goes.

You ever seen the film MASK

Which one?"

Have you seen the one with Cher? I love that film and never come across anyone else that has seen it!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

Who's 'they'? I've never heard anyone say that.

But go and have a go. Send out some nasty messages and let us know how it goes.

You ever seen the film MASK

Which one?

Have you seen the one with Cher? I love that film and never come across anyone else that has seen it!"

Yeah, its a great film.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

Who's 'they'? I've never heard anyone say that.

But go and have a go. Send out some nasty messages and let us know how it goes.

You ever seen the film MASK

Which one?

Have you seen the one with Cher? I love that film and never come across anyone else that has seen it!

Yeah, its a great film."

I've seen it too. Very touching and based on a real life I think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

Nope, they end up in my bed "

I wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice guys finish last as they say! "

And agressive guys get blockef. You chose. Finish last or ...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You be nasty .. and I'll be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

a lot of women on here sit back and observe forum threads and posts..nice guys who show themselves as nice guys, get the best of others, if they are patient..other than that, if thats too slow, get out to socials and clubs and get to be seen as a nice man in person, speeds up the process

Thought about going to a few cubs, but don't want to stick out like a sore thumb. "

I went to a club by myself and I certainly did stick out...loved it! Just do it and stop over analysing x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Oi bitch, isn't a likely successful opener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aggressive in which way? You may just end up being upgraded to a block, rather than a no reply

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Never quite know where to take these posts seriously. The best part of them though, the responses

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling


"Try this

Right you fucking bitch, what time are we meeting and don't say no, cos i aint having none of it.....and you better send me a face picture as well x

"

Lose the kiss at the end, perfect!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

a lot of women on here sit back and observe forum threads and posts..nice guys who show themselves as nice guys, get the best of others, if they are patient..other than that, if thats too slow, get out to socials and clubs and get to be seen as a nice man in person, speeds up the process

Thought about going to a few cubs, but don't want to stick out like a sore thumb. "

there are enough dicks to look at, your thumb will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

And agressive guys get blockef. You chose. Finish last or ..."

Nice guys finish last. someone mentioned how being patient is the key ( ) rubbish. Ive never been pushy, rarely do I get a 'come on' from a lady. I considered my self to be a nice guy.

I understand what the op says. Should we be more 'aggressive'? Which could mean more forward. Straight to the point? FAF?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Its a fine line to walk between confidence and cockyness.

An aggressive message to us would result in only one reaction........BLOCKED!

Be careful how you work your messages OP, confident and respectful will be the best solution.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Nice guys finish last as they say!

And agressive guys get blockef. You chose. Finish last or ...

Nice guys finish last. someone mentioned how being patient is the key ( ) rubbish. Ive never been pushy, rarely do I get a 'come on' from a lady. I considered my self to be a nice guy.

I understand what the op says. Should we be more 'aggressive'? Which could mean more forward. Straight to the point? FAF? "

I never understand why men who get plenty of interest complain they don't get any interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when writing messages to their fabbers...... I always try to be pleasant and respectful, and I'm not one for pestering women if they don't reply or not interested..........this doesn't seem to do very well.

Thinking I should be a bit more aggressive with my messages..... thoughts ppl?

No way! That's just silly. Continue being respectful and you might have more chance."

Seen a woman's status ' joined an hour ago and over 100 messages' inundated with mail they can't reply to all

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