FabSwingers.com forum: Fuck on a first meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If i like the girl i normally would fuck on a first meet but now enjoy chatting which leads to a better experience over a few weeks. Would you agree especially if looking for friends with benefits.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I only meet people I've been talking to for a while so if it feels right and we both want to take it further I do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Totally agree with you on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first always

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Depends on the situation. We have played with couples and single ladies on first meeting at clubs.

Other times (mainly with single ladies) we've chatted on here longer first, although I think some of that is them gauging if we are genuine and not liable to flip out at the meet

, which is understandable given the issues they can face.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Social first always

Ooh yes I meant I meet them for a social and then take it further if we want to etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refuse to spend weeks messaging back and forth giving out loads of personal information to complete strangers.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I refuse to spend weeks messaging back and forth giving out loads of personal information to complete strangers. "

I don't think they need personal info, they are just trying to gauge personality and if it matches there's.

Obviously you can refuse to do it.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Social meeting first then see how we get on after that. It takes longer to get to like someone than to fuck them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But they are not strangers if you chat and see whats what. Ive put the time in and get rewards.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person, because of my kinks, I tend to have been chatting to someone for a while before meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. But normally I already know I want to tear her knickers off before we meet.

Getting to know someone is awesome when it finally happens.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

see face to face, either social meet or club meeting

then try before you buy meeting

then we will see

but unless im with a partner playing as a couple, i dont do fuck and go meets, the conversation will be a frank and honest one about what i want, i dont sleep with people who i wouldnt want to see again, in general, why would i fancy them in the first place, if i only wanted to go there once...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I chat and other times I throw caution to the wind and just meet XXX

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Social for me first to as I'm looking for friends with benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Social first always

Ooh yes I meant I meet them for a social and then take it further if we want to etc "

Hi, care to chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need a social first. I see a pic I like, talk on here, then on my phone, then meet. If they need a social first it's fine, as I like a chat in a bar or pub before sex.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I never have sex with anyone before meeting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but only if there's a strong connection

Ideally I want a FWB / FB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but only if there's a strong connection

Ideally I want a FWB / FB "

I have found all my fb from sex on the first meeting.

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By *reman6976Man
over a year ago

Deeping St James

"I only meet people I've been talking to for a while so if it feels right and we both want to take it further I do"

Perfect. This is how I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet for sex. I don't rush into my meets though so I already know that I want sex when I agree to meet. I do all my socialising whilst naked. Much more fun

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I only meet for sex. I don't rush into my meets though so I already know that I want sex when I agree to meet. I do all my socialising whilst naked. Much more fun

In the pub?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually meet for a drink on the first meet but if all comfortable with a little fun why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet for sex. I don't rush into my meets though so I already know that I want sex when I agree to meet. I do all my socialising whilst naked. Much more fun

In the pub?"

Social first , brad Pitt wouldn't get into my kickers that fast

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

meet for a drink and if it works then take it further right away. I don't think I have ever had a social where I fancied him but would arrange another meet to then have fun...

all of that after a bit of a chat here obviously.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Never

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I only meet for sex. I don't rush into my meets though so I already know that I want sex when I agree to meet. I do all my socialising whilst naked. Much more fun

In the pub?

Social first , brad Pitt wouldn't get into my kickers that fast

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I'd sod the social for Tom Hardy myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never gone to a first meet with the intention of having sex, I do genuinely only expect a drink and a natter. There has been a couple of occasions where it got a bit rude though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of the 10 people I've had sex with, 6 were on first meeting. So a 60/40 chance I will!

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

I don't mind socials and have met playmates for socials ok many occasions.

However, many period on here are willing to meet and play in the first date if the connection is there.

If everyone is happy to okay on the first meet then in more than happy to participate.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

London sometimes

I like to fuck on a first meet if there is some chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only meet for sex. I don't rush into my meets though so I already know that I want sex when I agree to meet. I do all my socialising whilst naked. Much more fun

In the pub?

Social first , brad Pitt wouldn't get into my kickers that fast

I'd sod the social for Tom Hardy myself

Haha me too , Tom if you are here hit us up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I chat and other times I throw caution to the wind and just meet XXX"

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have the luxury of time. So when meeting for a social, all the things that are important to me would have been rolling. If conversation and chemistry is there at the social, that's it I'm ready to play!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but only if there's a strong connection

Ideally I want a FWB / FB

I have found all my fb from sex on the first meeting. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When sparks are flying it ain't no denying.

The chemistry was there and we had an amazing encounter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When sparks are flying it ain't no denying.

The chemistry was there and we had an amazing encounter.

When I,was on here previously out of the 6 first meets I had, I had sex with 5 of them....two were on the same day

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