FabSwingers.com forum: i want to do a experiment but need help.....

By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Ladies for 1 month......

Can you Put your filters to max and do the hunting for your self.

Guys for 1 month......

Can you not send a singall message unles you are messaged 1st

If this works it may change how fab works.

And may even improve it

The ladies carnt complain about all the messages and all the bad messages and the guys carnt complain about thar messages getting deleted or red with no arnsar.

Everyone will be happy

If it don't work then everyone goes back to normall

If your in say in then in 1 month give feedback on if it made finding/getting meets better or worce.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

What about couples?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

A lot of Women enjoy being chased and can use a Mans first message as a way to filter Men out,

But it does sound like a good experiment

I vary rarely send messages anyway so I will say am in

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"What about couples? "

Oooo

Good question.

Not shor on couples ???

Stay neutral as couples at times look for both sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm already filtered up to the ovaries

Even when I wasn't, I only met those who I messaged first. The only difference is I don't have to put up with messages from people who I've not talked to before and aren't interested in meeting, so my fab life is so much more peaceful when my filters are up.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

I will add the text back to my profile and report back in 1 months time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I barely message anyway so won't make a difference

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I only msg formites already and that's rarely for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effectively already do this, Seeside, but happy to oblige.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Come on ladies and gentlemen

Let's try this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno Seaside, a whole month?!?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"Come on ladies and gentlemen

Let's try this

Maybe just for a week or two as a month does seem a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'M way ahead of you, i started this months ago op.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I'M way ahead of you, i started this months ago op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not going to change what I do much anyway...

But watching the forums tonight..

I think you will need all the help you can get seaside...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experiment, huh? I like a good experiment, OP. Most of what I do on fab/the forums is one big experiment anyway.

Good luck!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've had all my filters on for over a month now. If I ever get the urge to meet again I shall do the messaging first (I am enjoying the tranquility of a relatively empty inbox and am intrigued to see how long it takes the few unread messages from pre-filtering days to drop out of my inbox) and report back with any research findings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been doing my bit for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men cant message me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been doing my bit for years."

is your bit happy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea go on then ....i will do it

Setting all my filters and I will message instead of them messaging me

Sounds like fun ......when do we start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My filters already stop anyone under the age of 99 from messaging me, I can't do anymore than that.

Less than 10% of the site use the forums I reckon so it's pretty pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I'm reckoning the ones that have messaged already can still send messages am I right

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Yea go on then ....i will do it

Setting all my filters and I will message instead of them messaging me

Sounds like fun ......when do we start "

Now if you like

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"But I'm reckoning the ones that have messaged already can still send messages am I right "

Yep. As long as you've messaged them back at some point.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"But I'm reckoning the ones that have messaged already can still send messages am I right "

If your harf way throw a chat then yes keep them.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Ladies for 1 month......

Can you Put your filters to max and do the hunting for your self.

Guys for 1 month......

Can you not send a singall message unles you are messaged 1st

If this works it may change how fab works.

And may even improve it

The ladies carnt complain about all the messages and all the bad messages and the guys carnt complain about thar messages getting deleted or red with no arnsar.

Everyone will be happy

If it don't work then everyone goes back to normall

If your in say in then in 1 month give feedback on if it made finding/getting meets better or worce.

Thought you'd chuck a Bunsen Burner in there somewhere OP. Every good experiment needs a good ole Bunsen Burner.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Nar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanders back to the man cave smiling....

And waiting for my inbox to overflow with foof pics and cut and paste txts

Or maybe I'll just sit quietly on my rock for a month...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

You'll still get the grumpy old sods moaning and not having any luck and the young uns whining 'cause it's not instashag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately, this will never work

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Need Mor volunteers plees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need Mor volunteers plees

You need the whole of Fab to

Make an impact. Just a few is pissing against the wind.

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Need Mor volunteers plees

You need the whole of Fab to

Make an impact. Just a few is pissing against the wind. "

It may be small now but if it works....

People tell Thar friends

Thay tell thar friends

And so on and so......

Befor you no its all of fab

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

this is what i do all the time..and being honest, people like something to whinge about

maybe i should do the exact opposite and open up all my filters and then i could be like everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only message people that contact me anyway! Saves my ego from an early death!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would, but I don't understand your language!

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I would, but I don't understand your language!"

Thar is always 1........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I already blocked single guys. Got bored with searching after a week. It's slim pickings here! Now they are unblocked again, so I can see more potentials. Yep, I'm a brazen hussy.

It is a good idea though _eeside

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I would, but I don't understand your language!

Thar is always 1........

I hear ya bro. I really don't get how you keep so cool

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I would, but I don't understand your language!

Thar is always 1........

I hear ya bro. I really don't get how you keep so cool

We'll to start I'm kind of use to it......

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I would, but I don't understand your language!

Thar is always 1........

I hear ya bro. I really don't get how you keep so cool

We'll to start I'm kind of use to it......

Me to but still throw a good right hand

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I would, but I don't understand your language!

Thar is always 1........

I hear ya bro. I really don't get how you keep so cool

We'll to start I'm kind of use to it......

Me to but still throw a good right hand

I'm.in too good a mood......

And thanks to a Frend i probably will be for the forseeaball futcher (fingers crossed)

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I would, but I don't understand your language!

Thar is always 1........

I hear ya bro. I really don't get how you keep so cool

We'll to start I'm kind of use to it......

Me to but still throw a good right hand

I'm.in too good a mood......

And thanks to a Frend i probably will be for the forseeaball futcher (fingers crossed)

Owwerrrr nice to hear it. Long may it last

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I would, but I don't understand your language!

Thar is always 1........

I hear ya bro. I really don't get how you keep so cool

We'll to start I'm kind of use to it......

Me to but still throw a good right hand

I'm.in too good a mood......

And thanks to a Frend i probably will be for the forseeaball futcher (fingers crossed)

Owwerrrr nice to hear it. Long may it last

Lol its probably not wot your thinking. But i now have a new houge brite ray of hope.

So brite that delivev it or not my depression i had has disappeared

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I would, but I don't understand your language!

Thar is always 1........

I hear ya bro. I really don't get how you keep so cool

We'll to start I'm kind of use to it......

Me to but still throw a good right hand

I'm.in too good a mood......

And thanks to a Frend i probably will be for the forseeaball futcher (fingers crossed)

Owwerrrr nice to hear it. Long may it last

Lol its probably not wot your thinking. But i now have a new houge brite ray of hope.

So brite that delivev it or not my depression i had has disappeared

What no bj boo haha we all get our happy where we can mate in what ever form it takes so what ever it is that's changed I wish you well and hope it continues for a long time to come..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped messaging a long time ago. I mostly just chat with formiters lol

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By *eeside OP Man
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"I would, but I don't understand your language!

Thar is always 1........

I hear ya bro. I really don't get how you keep so cool

We'll to start I'm kind of use to it......

Me to but still throw a good right hand

I'm.in too good a mood......

And thanks to a Frend i probably will be for the forseeaball futcher (fingers crossed)

Owwerrrr nice to hear it. Long may it last

Lol its probably not wot your thinking. But i now have a new houge brite ray of hope.

So brite that delivev it or not my depression i had has disappeared

What no bj boo haha we all get our happy where we can mate in what ever form it takes so what ever it is that's changed I wish you well and hope it continues for a long time to come.."

Thanks

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