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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The FMNQA (not the best I know!)

Here is a club for those to spill out the frustration of being taken for a ride, wether it be from a time waster or fake.

You've been swapping texts and they disappear, you've knocked on a door to find the house empty.

Tell us your stories and maybe you'll feel better knowing your not alone, there are some funny people around that think taking the p--s out off someone is a cool thing to do. It's not.

You may feel foolish now, or you did back then, but believe me when I say, they truly are the ones who are in the bad light when this type of thing happens.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I got a ban last time I told my tale

I have been stood up though, after being strung along good n proper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've had timeouts for talking about stuff. You're not allowed to air your dirty laundry so this thread will get people into trouble.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I've had plans cancelled. I was really really looking forward to an overnight but well plans change and life gets in the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a ban last time I told my tale

I have been stood up though, after being strung along good n proper."

stupid mug! Them not you.

Their loss.

We've been lucky so far. The only fools we've met are on the forums. But they're our kind of fools.

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a couple message us were really keen, set up a meet got the address so went there as arranged knocked on the door and they didn't answer. Tried messaging them and no answer. Got a message later to say she'd changed her mind. But he wanted to meet us again with his wife. Blocked x

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By *r on the EdgeMan
over a year ago

accrington

Had 2 ladies this week chat with me, both instigated the "want to meet up?" Line and after me replying yes how about a coffee etc they have both gone silent, what does a man have to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a guy message us include his face picture, had a chat swapped numbers agreed a time and a place, he never turned up blocked on here and blocked our number, and he was verified as well

Not strange as folk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got a ban last time I told my tale

I have been stood up though, after being strung along good n proper."

I understand you just can name names.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive been there.

They just forgot to meet me. I liked that one, that made me feel special.

And one just changed her mind. Shortly after we chose a hotel to meet for a few days.

Both made me feel like an idiot. One took much more convincing to stay on Fab than the other did.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Had 2 ladies this week chat with me, both instigated the "want to meet up?" Line and after me replying yes how about a coffee etc they have both gone silent, what does a man have to do?

"
they mabye didint like the idea of a social coffee and where more meet to fuck and go type.you would of been better to reply along the lines of "so what do you have in mind".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a ban last time I told my tale

I have been stood up though, after being strung along good n proper."

Same here

I've had one or two dodgy meets. Been lucky to have met some decent and very naughty people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I well and truly feel like a mug at the moment!

But i think i have made a genuine friendship out the shit so that's a positive!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Someone, who I also happen to know in real life & have met with once.

Asked to take me out, then cancelled, I understood the situation it was OK. That's now happened several more times.

More offers to see me on such a day, then silence for a few days, leaving me to ask if it's still on & another apology.

Decided I'd had enough & would say so if/when he next contacts me.

His loss, not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few no shows. Some dodgy excuses too. The joys of fab eh?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"A few no shows. Some dodgy excuses too. The joys of fab eh? "

One guy was picking up furniture, but then he had a veri

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I got a ban last time I told my tale

I have been stood up though, after being strung along good n proper.

Same here

I've had one or two dodgy meets. Been lucky to have met some decent and very naughty people "

Oh yeah, I've met some ace peeps who are now good mates. Some I still do sexy times with, some I don't. I wrote that sexy times bit in a Borat accent.

The one that stood me up was "5 mins away"

We'd been speaking for ages, seemed perfectly honest. He approached me, chose the day, all that jazz.

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By *otchillicoupleCouple
over a year ago

all over

We've had a myriad of no shows from I forgot, I fell asleep, I had to do some DIY that took longer than I thought and recently we agreed time date and town but not venue, when he didn't ask and didn't read our message the day of the meet,we assumed he wouldn't show but we were there anyway, next day message asking why we weren't interested, when we asked why he didn't confirm venue he said he wasn't one to pester.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a ban last time I told my tale

I have been stood up though, after being strung along good n proper.

I understand you just can name names."

Yeah but isn't it just like snide posting...we're you don't actually name them but it they are off the forums it opens the doors to having a go at them undercover.

But still stirring the pot?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I got a ban last time I told my tale

I have been stood up though, after being strung along good n proper.

I understand you just can name names.

Yeah but isn't it just like snide posting...we're you don't actually name them but it they are off the forums it opens the doors to having a go at them undercover.

But still stirring the pot?"

Perhaps a little

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged a meet, got a message the day before "Sorry, forgot I'd already arranged to meet this other guy"

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Arranged a meet, got a message the day before "Sorry, forgot I'd already arranged to meet this other guy" "

You got messaged tho, that says something.

I have to admit I have a dreadful memory when it comes to days etc. I regularly forget about appointments and stuff so if I didn't get the reminder the day before I'd never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The internet isnt big enough to tell my stories

I have had experiences that have rendered me speechless

Some people are just self obsessed cunts

Revenge is a dish best served ice cold

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Had 2 ladies this week chat with me, both instigated the "want to meet up?" Line and after me replying yes how about a coffee etc they have both gone silent, what does a man have to do?

"

They were blokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really did think it was just me, My only day off today , a social organised weeks ago cancelled on Saturday, organised another just blown me out WTF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm glad I don't get all these problems. .....oh, wait.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be nice to gain the attention of a time waster

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got a ban last time I told my tale

I have been stood up though, after being strung along good n proper.

I understand you just can name names.

Yeah but isn't it just like snide posting...we're you don't actually name them but it they are off the forums it opens the doors to having a go at them undercover.

But still stirring the pot?"

Yes. But like all things educational. If you talk about it, people are aware it goes on, or woils you prefer we don't mention the bad?

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By *ertsguy2000Man
over a year ago

hertford

Been led up the garden and path good and proper a few times, should always trust my instincts!!

All the ones where they come on too strong too quick, they tick all the boxes and wanna fuck me, result right ?? Not....

If it's too good to be true, it probably is....

Still live in hope

HG

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been quite lucky so far. A few plans have had to be adjusted, but nothing in the way of outright timewasting has happened... (yet!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few no shows. Some dodgy excuses too. The joys of fab eh?

One guy was picking up furniture, but then he had a veri "

Silly git! Haha. How did he think he'd get away with that, when he put a veri up??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been quite lucky so far. A few plans have had to be adjusted, but nothing in the way of outright timewasting has happened... (yet!) "

There's still time

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We've been caught out a few times in the past. It hasn't ruined our overall enjoyment though.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I've been quite lucky so far. A few plans have had to be adjusted, but nothing in the way of outright timewasting has happened... (yet!) "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been quite lucky so far. A few plans have had to be adjusted, but nothing in the way of outright timewasting has happened... (yet!)

There's still time "

That's a proper fate tempter I did just there isn't it

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"A few no shows. Some dodgy excuses too. The joys of fab eh?

One guy was picking up furniture, but then he had a veri

Silly git! Haha. How did he think he'd get away with that, when he put a veri up?? "

Clearly a bit dim.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've been quite lucky so far. A few plans have had to be adjusted, but nothing in the way of outright timewasting has happened... (yet!)

There's still time

That's a proper fate tempter I did just there isn't it "

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a no show

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've never had a no show "

Show off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a ban last time I told my tale

I have been stood up though, after being strung along good n proper.

I understand you just can name names.

Yeah but isn't it just like snide posting...we're you don't actually name them but it they are off the forums it opens the doors to having a go at them undercover.

But still stirring the pot?

Yes. But like all things educational. If you talk about it, people are aware it goes on, or woils you prefer we don't mention the bad?"

We all know what happens on here by now I think.

But I think threads that start like this never reach the full length as they developed into bickering. Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'vev once been a no show for a meet ( 30 minutes before i was due to leave recieved a text that my son had been taken into hospital ), once the emergency was over i simply messaged, explained and apoligised. Manners cost nothing, don't understand why people waste other peoples time for no reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a no show

Show off "

Ha yeah thats me... but i have been the pesky "timewaster"... had to cancel meet recently due to my stupid back playing up... so am sure karma will slap me round the chops soon enough

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I've never had a no show

Show off

Ha yeah thats me... but i have been the pesky "timewaster"... had to cancel meet recently due to my stupid back playing up... so am sure karma will slap me round the chops soon enough "

I don't think we are time wasters if real life gets in the way.

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By *r on the EdgeMan
over a year ago

accrington


"Had 2 ladies this week chat with me, both instigated the "want to meet up?" Line and after me replying yes how about a coffee etc they have both gone silent, what does a man have to do?

They were blokes."

Both have veris that look legit so I'm at a loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen an idea that gives a chance for people to help others, simply put on your status who your going to meet I know if I saw a person known to myself as a bad one I could drop a pm to let them know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a no show

Show off

Ha yeah thats me... but i have been the pesky "timewaster"... had to cancel meet recently due to my stupid back playing up... so am sure karma will slap me round the chops soon enough "

We had to cancel a meet at chams due to J getting a viral upper respiratory infection reckon karma will be knocking on our door.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been quite lucky so far. A few plans have had to be adjusted, but nothing in the way of outright timewasting has happened... (yet!)

There's still time

That's a proper fate tempter I did just there isn't it "

Yes. We'll see you back here soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got messed about a fair bit when we used Craig's List to find men. But we were also naiive though. We've managed to avoid the timewasters and dreamers since using Fab. So all good so far. Touch wood

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got a ban last time I told my tale

I have been stood up though, after being strung along good n proper.

I understand you just can name names.

Yeah but isn't it just like snide posting...we're you don't actually name them but it they are off the forums it opens the doors to having a go at them undercover.

But still stirring the pot?

Yes. But like all things educational. If you talk about it, people are aware it goes on, or woils you prefer we don't mention the bad?

We all know what happens on here by now I think.

But I think threads that start like this never reach the full length as they developed into bickering. Just my opinion "

I don't allow bickering. That's one thing we can all agree on, it sucks when a thread goes off camber and into arguing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We got messed about a fair bit when we used Craig's List to find men. But we were also naiive though. We've managed to avoid the timewasters and dreamers since using Fab. So all good so far. Touch wood "

Being naive is to blame for a lot. After a while here I now know what to avoid.....which sadly is arranging meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite a no show but I got asked recently by a girl if I would be her stand in case her meet got cancelled

I was just a little underwhelmed to find myself on a reserves list...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We got messed about a fair bit when we used Craig's List to find men. But we were also naiive though. We've managed to avoid the timewasters and dreamers since using Fab. So all good so far. Touch wood

Being naive is to blame for a lot. After a while here I now know what to avoid.....which sadly is arranging meets. "

I think it is easier on Fab though. People know each other and talk. If we started messing people about, others would soon find out. The swinging community in the South East is small. Craig's List is more anonymous.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"It would be nice to gain the attention of a time waster "

Rap battle. That'll sort ya right out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be nice to gain the attention of a time waster

Rap battle. That'll sort ya right out"

It has been a while

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not quite a no show but I got asked recently by a girl if I would be her stand in case her meet got cancelled

I was just a little underwhelmed to find myself on a reserves list... "

It's a dream for a few....

*please add a little violin for me.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Not quite a no show but I got asked recently by a girl if I would be her stand in case her meet got cancelled

I was just a little underwhelmed to find myself on a reserves list...

It's a dream for a few....

*please add a little violin for me. "

You can have a big trombone that trumps every time you take a step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had 2 ladies this week chat with me, both instigated the "want to meet up?" Line and after me replying yes how about a coffee etc they have both gone silent, what does a man have to do?

"

Yep, I got bombed out on a meet, felt a right plum...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The internet isnt big enough to tell my stories

I have had experiences that have rendered me speechless

Some people are just self obsessed cunts

Revenge is a dish best served ice cold"
We live a learn I did I hope you did too from all that . Only thing is I can never trust again easy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The internet isnt big enough to tell my stories

I have had experiences that have rendered me speechless

Some people are just self obsessed cunts

Revenge is a dish best served ice cold We live a learn I did I hope you did too from all that . Only thing is I can never trust again easy."

That's what I thought, but some can restore that feeling of trust again. It's the person that wronged you that doesn't deserve your trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The internet isnt big enough to tell my stories

I have had experiences that have rendered me speechless

Some people are just self obsessed cunts

Revenge is a dish best served ice cold We live a learn I did I hope you did too from all that . Only thing is I can never trust again easy.

That's what I thought, but some can restore that feeling of trust again. It's the person that wronged you that doesn't deserve your trust. "
Thing was he lied and I was trusting this person .. I was thinking I could read people and he was like no person I had ever meet before .. He was really good at it . I felt a right mug as let him become a friend to us.

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over a year ago

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