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Being straight = not open minded

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it?

I've been 'curious'. I was open minded enough to have a conversation with myself (yes, you should have heard me) I thought I might be open minded enough to be attracted to the same sex, but it appears I'm not.

I can't rewire my brain. I just don't see the attraction of a dude.

But does this mean I'm not not open minded when it comes down to playing and sexual experiences?

*but ladies, you have a strap on? Call me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sexually open minded but not attracted to women at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sexually open minded but not attracted to women at all. "

So do you believe you don't have to be into everything to be open minded?

If you've never tried something (anal for example?). Are you sure your open minded?

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I don't think being open minded means you have to try EVERYTHING. I think it's more about being open to to suggestion and willing to explore without compromising yourself.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"I don't think being open minded means you have to try EVERYTHING. I think it's more about being open to to suggestion and willing to explore without compromising yourself."

Oh and not judging other people's choices

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

I think open minded means you're open to the idea of something wether you try it or not, you can discuss something and see from others point of view but don't actually have to have or enjoy it yourself

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm not Bi, I never been inclined to try Bi, I have tried and acted upon many other sexual activities doesn't make me closed minded in the slightest, I just know what I like and don't like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think being open minded means you have to try EVERYTHING. I think it's more about being open to to suggestion and willing to explore without compromising yourself.

Oh and not judging other people's choices "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open minded is a subjective word as well don't forget.

You can be open minded to anything. Whether you choose to act is your decision.

You've debated it and considered the options but it didn't suit you. That's still being open minded. You don't have to physically try something. The clue is in the wording - Minded

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By *haverMan
over a year ago

bracknell

Nice lolly _s_mac75

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Being open minded isn't just about your own willingness to experiment. It's also about the way you react to other people's proclivities.

Closed minded is:

You're bi? That's disgusting and wrong!

You like watersports? That's disgusting and wrong!

You want anal? That's disgusting and wrong!

You get the picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being open minded isn't just about your own willingness to experiment. It's also about the way you react to other people's proclivities.

Closed minded is:

You're bi? That's disgusting and wrong!

You like watersports? That's disgusting and wrong!

You want anal? That's disgusting and wrong!

You get the picture "

Do I have to accept your answer to prove how open minded I am?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight = Straight...nothing more..

Open minded... simply accepting that others have differing interests desires and share different experiences...

And not judging others for their own decisions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight = Straight...nothing more..

Open minded... simply accepting that others have differing interests desires and share different experiences...

And not judging others for their own decisions...

"

I like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think open minded means you're open to the idea of something wether you try it or not, you can discuss something and see from others point of view but don't actually have to have or enjoy it yourself "

I agree with this. I don't think open minded and sexuality are comparable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Open minded is a subjective word as well don't forget.

You can be open minded to anything. Whether you choose to act is your decision.

You've debated it and considered the options but it didn't suit you. That's still being open minded. You don't have to physically try something. The clue is in the wording - Minded

"

I'd agree with this. The fact you've considered something abs weighed it up is enough, it's the thought process that matters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Straight = Straight...nothing more..

Open minded... simply accepting that others have differing interests desires and share different experiences...

And not judging others for their own decisions...

I like that "

I like that as well. Thanks hine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being truly open minded risks an empty head....

I'm not remotely attracted to men, I simply enjoy the intensity of same sex activity .....

But by any definition that makes me bisexual

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

i've played with women twice in my whole life, i just don't like women sexually and they do nothing for me.

loads of men do nothing for me either. it's really rare i find a guy who i'm really into.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i've played with women twice in my whole life, i just don't like women sexually and they do nothing for me.

loads of men do nothing for me either. it's really rare i find a guy who i'm really into."

Being bisexual or gay stiill gives you the right to be fussy when it comes to sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being open minded isn't just about your own willingness to experiment. It's also about the way you react to other people's proclivities.

Closed minded is:

You're bi? That's disgusting and wrong!

You like watersports? That's disgusting and wrong!

You want anal? That's disgusting and wrong!

You get the picture "

I completely agree. I'm straight and not fab straight eiher but that does not mean i judge other people's activities in a negative light. Therefore i consider myself to be open minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being open minded isn't just about your own willingness to experiment. It's also about the way you react to other people's proclivities.

Closed minded is:

You're bi? That's disgusting and wrong!

You like watersports? That's disgusting and wrong!

You want anal? That's disgusting and wrong!

You get the picture "

Surly that's not right I think sex with animals is wrong and disgusting does that make me narrow minded?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Is it?

I've been 'curious'. I was open minded enough to have a conversation with myself (yes, you should have heard me) I thought I might be open minded enough to be attracted to the same sex, but it appears I'm not.

I can't rewire my brain. I just don't see the attraction of a dude.

But does this mean I'm not not open minded when it comes down to playing and sexual experiences?

*but ladies, you have a strap on? Call me. "

I have a strap on! What shall I call you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If sexual preference was a state of mind, then anyone could in theory be turned from gay to straight or vice versa.

I don't think anyone can be conditioned to fancy anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being open minded isn't just about your own willingness to experiment. It's also about the way you react to other people's proclivities.

Closed minded is:

You're bi? That's disgusting and wrong!

You like watersports? That's disgusting and wrong!

You want anal? That's disgusting and wrong!

You get the picture

Surly that's not right I think sex with animals is wrong and disgusting does that make me narrow minded? "

No, it means you've changed my initial question. It's about sex between humans.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Being open minded isn't just about your own willingness to experiment. It's also about the way you react to other people's proclivities.

Closed minded is:

You're bi? That's disgusting and wrong!

You like watersports? That's disgusting and wrong!

You want anal? That's disgusting and wrong!

You get the picture

Surly that's not right I think sex with animals is wrong and disgusting does that make me narrow minded? "

I think 'between consenting adults' is pretty much a given that most people understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being open minded isn't just about your own willingness to experiment. It's also about the way you react to other people's proclivities.

Closed minded is:

You're bi? That's disgusting and wrong!

You like watersports? That's disgusting and wrong!

You want anal? That's disgusting and wrong!

You get the picture

Surly that's not right I think sex with animals is wrong and disgusting does that make me narrow minded?

I think 'between consenting adults' is pretty much a given that most people understand "

What I am trying to get over that there is sexual practices that some people find disgusting but that doesn't make you narrow minded

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not at all,you can still be open minded and straight.Its all about exploring ,but only doing what you are comfortable to do.

Miss

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