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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge

Is it worth it when bullies take over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember there are much worse places in the world you could have been born into. Don't let bullies pull you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it worth it when bullies take over "

No-one can make you feel inferior without your consent....

Don't give the negative behaviour of others primacy over your own expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easier said then done but don't let them get you down. Bullies hate it when you smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is always worth it....

The alternative isn't that great..

It's not you that has the problem ...its the bullies

Most are insecure have their own demons and are only going to bully you to make themselves ferl better about their own inadequacies..

Do not let them win..

Stand tall you are unique and the world needs unique people...

The bullies onky have any power if you let them.

Be happy OP your life is no doubt so much better than theirs... that's why they try to spread misery in their wake..

You are a child of the universe...

Live that way and no one will be able to hurt you...

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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge


"It's easier said then done but don't let them get you down. Bullies hate it when you smile "
but when it gets to the point when you want to take your own life coz of 3 bullies that's all they are started off as friends but now make my life a living hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easier said then done but don't let them get you down. Bullies hate it when you smile but when it gets to the point when you want to take your own life coz of 3 bullies that's all they are started off as friends but now make my life a living hell "

That is the time to seek professional help .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easier said then done but don't let them get you down. Bullies hate it when you smile but when it gets to the point when you want to take your own life coz of 3 bullies that's all they are started off as friends but now make my life a living hell

That is the time to seek professional help .....

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agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you are going through sounds horrible. Would I be right in saying it sounds more like you want this bullying to stop than to actually end your life? Maybe you can't see a way through right now but there are people out there that can support and help you through this rough time. Take Samaritains for example. You don't have to deal with this alone

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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge


"What you are going through sounds horrible. Would I be right in saying it sounds more like you want this bullying to stop than to actually end your life? Maybe you can't see a way through right now but there are people out there that can support and help you through this rough time. Take Samaritains for example. You don't have to deal with this alone

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there is no way out no one listens no one actually cares posting here was my final straw

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I've just seen your status...your bullies are on here...block them....report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easier said then done but don't let them get you down. Bullies hate it when you smile but when it gets to the point when you want to take your own life coz of 3 bullies that's all they are started off as friends but now make my life a living hell "

May I ask if they are on fab, online or are they a part of offline life?

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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge


"I've just seen your status...your bullies are on here...block them....report them."
blocked and reported 10 mins later new account block and report and guess what new account opened

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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge


"It's easier said then done but don't let them get you down. Bullies hate it when you smile but when it gets to the point when you want to take your own life coz of 3 bullies that's all they are started off as friends but now make my life a living hell

May I ask if they are on fab, online or are they a part of offline life? "
fab on line offline and real life

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"It's easier said then done but don't let them get you down. Bullies hate it when you smile but when it gets to the point when you want to take your own life coz of 3 bullies that's all they are started off as friends but now make my life a living hell

May I ask if they are on fab, online or are they a part of offline life? fab on line offline and real life "

Talk to the police if it's that bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just seen your status...your bullies are on here...block them....report them."

I saw this too. Report them, block them. Maybe take a couple of days to sort your thoughts, then get straight back into it. Get into the forums and chat to some decent people. I hope you get this sorted soon.

L

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By *izzy-rascal. OP   Man
over a year ago

souff side of bridge


"It's easier said then done but don't let them get you down. Bullies hate it when you smile but when it gets to the point when you want to take your own life coz of 3 bullies that's all they are started off as friends but now make my life a living hell

May I ask if they are on fab, online or are they a part of offline life? fab on line offline and real life

Talk to the police if it's that bad."
been there done that to busy to even look in to it well that's what the letter said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just seen your status...your bullies are on here...block them....report them. blocked and reported 10 mins later new account block and report and guess what new account opened "

Look at your filters and block new members from contacting you....it will give you some breathing space and piss them off if they have to wait 5 days to contact you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's easier said then done but don't let them get you down. Bullies hate it when you smile but when it gets to the point when you want to take your own life coz of 3 bullies that's all they are started off as friends but now make my life a living hell

May I ask if they are on fab, online or are they a part of offline life? fab on line offline and real life "

Do not make contact with them at all! They are looking for a reaction from you. Do not give them what they want.

Maybe set up a new account. Keep this one open so they can waste their time messaging an empty account. Just to remember to log in every two days or so.

Don't read their messages at all but don't delete them. Every message they send is evidence.

Keep reporting them to anyone who will listen.

Is there anyone in your offline life you trust who you can talk to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just seen your status...your bullies are on here...block them....report them. blocked and reported 10 mins later new account block and report and guess what new account opened "

You can block new accounts. I did that. Plus report immediately

Hope it gets better. You shouldn't have to put up with anything like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it worth it when bullies take over "

It is possible to meet with bullied at every point of life. I met with bullying too, my family moved another country when I was a year old... So origin was a constant problem in my youth, but now I don't care what people say about my origin, came here 2 years ago and I still meets with this problem. It's hurt but we learn it how we survive front problems, We beings mature with experiences and time. Just don't give up, there are very good people in this world. And a lot of things wait you that you can still experience, just try! We all know it's not easy, especially when you feel sad about it, but you need fight and that would be a good start.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Take back your power - it's not theirs. Change something and move ahead.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Take back your power - it's not theirs. Change something and move ahead. "

And consider a break, should your health deteriorate - that's too high of a price to pay. Do all of the rich things to regain your wellbeing at any cost, even if that cost is a short break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are they bullying you, what are they doing exactly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a pathetic thing to say! You do not realise how lucky you are. You have a direct enemy. Sort them out, and your problem will go away. "Getting bullied" hahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a pathetic thing to say! You do not realise how lucky you are. You have a direct enemy. Sort them out, and your problem will go away. "Getting bullied" hahaha! "

Your not a teacher in a school are you?

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

I dislike bullies with a passion.. I was bullied myself back in childhood, whoever is doing this is getting a kick but don't ever give in OP.

Don't bow to the sad pathetic folk who get a rise from it.

You are much better than them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it worth it when bullies take over "

They NEVER take over.

Ive never met you, or the scum cauding you trouble. But i know your much better than that scum.!!

They feed on making others feel bad, they are at fault not you.

They are base scum!

Dont listen to any of the shit they say cos its their shitty way to get what they want.

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