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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So why is It, that a female can be bi and open about It, and people accept them... and yet if it's the male people act differently?

Just asking as many profiles have females that are bi, and they get lots of attractions, but on the other hand the males get blocked!

Double standards from some of the females on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's double standards mate

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

We find that.... couples with straight male and bi females tend to not bother with couples that are both bi etc

Maybe they are scared of catching biism

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Don't bother me one bit.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If people are honest about their preferences I don't have a problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes I like to eat a sausage... other times I like to lick icecream

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Each to their own

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Are you sure you don't mean double adaptors??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not into birds and I'm not into guys that want to fuck or suck other guys so no double standards from me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im not into birds and I'm not into guys that want to fuck or suck other guys so no double standards from me. "

But how would you know you haven't played with a bi male on here... most are 'fab straight' wanting to get into the wife's knickers.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Why is this even an issue? Each to their own, nobody is "forced" to look at/talk too anyone else on here!

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

Either that or people simply have personal preferences.........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is this even an issue? Each to their own, nobody is "forced" to look at/talk too anyone else on here! "

The point i should have made earlier... bi women that wont meet bi men in particular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And then somebody goes and says anybody who voted for Brexit is just like Nigel Farage but when you point out that Jeremy Clarkson campaigned for Remain they get all uppity that they're not like him, which is exactly what he'd do, the fuckpermed hypocrite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

In fact my ultimate box tick, would be a threesome with 2 bi lads. Full bi though, not just a blow job receiving bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

In fact my ultimate box tick, would be a threesome with 2 bi lads. Full bi though, not just a blow job receiving bi. "

It's is a very sexy thing to experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

In fact my ultimate box tick, would be a threesome with 2 bi lads. Full bi though, not just a blow job receiving bi.

It's is a very sexy thing to experience. "

I've got patience. I know it'll be worth waiting for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

In fact my ultimate box tick, would be a threesome with 2 bi lads. Full bi though, not just a blow job receiving bi. "

Mines the other way round....two women heaven. I know it's a strange one to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not into birds and I'm not into guys that want to fuck or suck other guys so no double standards from me.

But how would you know you haven't played with a bi male on here... most are 'fab straight' wanting to get into the wife's knickers."

I wouldn't know for sure would I. I think any sort of deception to get meets is shitty but I can only take their word that they're honest.

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best and most rememberable meet was with a bi man

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

Do you know what double standards mean?

It is as if u say, some couples have double standards,couse some are interested to meet man, some woman, and only few are into man and woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is this even an issue? Each to their own, nobody is "forced" to look at/talk too anyone else on here!

The point i should have made earlier... bi women that wont meet bi men in particular.

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It's a bit like gay porn, two females may turn a woman on whereas two men don't. It's not double standards, it's simply what they find erotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why is It, that a female can be bi and open about It, and people accept them... and yet if it's the male people act differently?

Just asking as many profiles have females that are bi, and they get lots of attractions, but on the other hand the males get blocked!

Double standards from some of the females on here...."

Not really, it simply highlights that more people are attracted to bi women as opposed to bi men.

Also, when we search or click Who's Near, we reduce the profiles coming up by hitting block. Generally for us, the TV's and couple's where the guy is bi and/or wears lingerie just doesn't do anything for us and so we would never chat to or meet them, so why should their profiles keep reappearing? Are we not allowed to block them for that reason?

The only trouble is, those who get blocked take it the wrong way, go down the negative route and the drama kicks off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why is It, that a female can be bi and open about It, and people accept them... and yet if it's the male people act differently?

Just asking as many profiles have females that are bi, and they get lots of attractions, but on the other hand the males get blocked!

Double standards from some of the females on here....

Not really, it simply highlights that more people are attracted to bi women as opposed to bi men.

Also, when we search or click Who's Near, we reduce the profiles coming up by hitting block. Generally for us, the TV's and couple's where the guy is bi and/or wears lingerie just doesn't do anything for us and so we would never chat to or meet them, so why should their profiles keep reappearing? Are we not allowed to block them for that reason?

The only trouble is, those who get blocked take it the wrong way, go down the negative route and the drama kicks off.

"

Now you've got all that off your chest...yet again.

I've saved you the trouble of blocking me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My best and most rememberable meet was with a bin man "

Did you not meet him again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No drama here littlesox... was just a question I posted into the forum.

Some females on here i wouldn't want to contact just the same as they wouldn't want to contact me... i think some people are missing the question I originally asked though.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

At the moment it's probably got some influence still from societal anti male gay activities, leading to people not wanting that characteristic in their partners. As much as we think we are individuals, with unique, isolated freedom of thought and expression, society has a massive influence upon our tastes.

In future, people will probably fuck anything and there will be much less pickiness.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

To be honest it doesnt bother us.

As long as its all discussed before the meet and boundaries are agreed then its no harm really

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Nothing really changes..

I think its to do with buggery,maleness & masculinity..

Look at history, lesbianism has never posed any threat but gay lads fucking each other's bottoms certainly frightens the horses.

Alarm bells regarding high risk behaviour etc.

Homophobia is alive and kicking esp the male version.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My best and most rememberable meet was with a bin man

Did you not meet him again? "

No I didn't but only because I stopped meeting altogether. When the time comes he is top of my list

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I've a vague theory on this. Society accepts women's sexual fluidity. Bi women are ok, it's cool, it's fetishised. Yet men are expected to choose sometime around puberty their sexuality and lifestyle, gay or straight. One or the other.

I believe there are as many bi men as bi women but they are vilified by small minds and mainstream attitudes which are magnified here. I know plenty of bi chaps who live a 'straight' lifestyle and like the odd bit of cock but would never be able to come out because it's not seen as socially acceptable. And if they have a suggestion of bi behaviour on their profile, are judged and blocked. Which is unfair. Though seen as acceptable due to the code of 'preference'.

I dream of a day when nobody cares who does what with who, regardless of gender or sexuality. Guess I'll have to keep on dreaming eh?

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"My best and most rememberable meet was with a bin man

Did you not meet him again? "

That's rubbish lol

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I've a vague theory on this. Society accepts women's sexual fluidity. Bi women are ok, it's cool, it's fetishised. Yet men are expected to choose sometime around puberty their sexuality and lifestyle, gay or straight. One or the other.

I believe there are as many bi men as bi women but they are vilified by small minds and mainstream attitudes which are magnified here. I know plenty of bi chaps who live a 'straight' lifestyle and like the odd bit of cock but would never be able to come out because it's not seen as socially acceptable. And if they have a suggestion of bi behaviour on their profile, are judged and blocked. Which is unfair. Though seen as acceptable due to the code of 'preference'.

I dream of a day when nobody cares who does what with who, regardless of gender or sexuality. Guess I'll have to keep on dreaming eh? "

Right on Sister.

You and me alike

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've a vague theory on this. Society accepts women's sexual fluidity. Bi women are ok, it's cool, it's fetishised. Yet men are expected to choose sometime around puberty their sexuality and lifestyle, gay or straight. One or the other.

I believe there are as many bi men as bi women but they are vilified by small minds and mainstream attitudes which are magnified here. I know plenty of bi chaps who live a 'straight' lifestyle and like the odd bit of cock but would never be able to come out because it's not seen as socially acceptable. And if they have a suggestion of bi behaviour on their profile, are judged and blocked. Which is unfair. Though seen as acceptable due to the code of 'preference'.

I dream of a day when nobody cares who does what with who, regardless of gender or sexuality. Guess I'll have to keep on dreaming eh? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My best and most rememberable meet was with a bin man

Did you not meet him again? "

YOU! I've just noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My best and most rememberable meet was with a bin man

Did you not meet him again? "

Probably did weekly but now only fortnightly!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

They wouldnt bother us ,we would play with a couple with a bi female or male,as long as they are happy playing straight.As we are both straight.

Miss

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