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Wife swap for 6 months?

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By *ighflyers1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester

He we have been approached by another very sexy couple with a very naughty idea of us wife and husband swapping for sex for 6 months

Rules of engagement are:

1 we only have sex with the wife or husband of the other couple during the time period

2 no sexual contact with your own partner

3 separate room sex only

4 we live with our own partners as usual.

Sounds kinky

Any thoughts guys??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good fun to me! Shame you're looking for couples.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Sounds good fun to me! Shame you're looking for couples."

How can they do a couple sex swap with a single man? lol.

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By *andlerMan
over a year ago

shipley


"Sounds good fun to me! Shame you're looking for couples."

Sounds great go for it!

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Think you could be treading on dangerous ground if you value your marriage..

Not saying she will, but people can find new company refreshing..you may even find emotions for your new part time partner.. Unexpected or not

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By *ighflyers1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester

It's sex only

We would live as we do now but no sex with our own partners for six months

It's like couples cuckold foursome

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Who has made the rules? Both couples or them?

Are you happy to not have sex with your own partner?

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"It's sex only

We would live as we do now but no sex with our own partners for six months

It's like couples cuckold foursome "

Doesn't matter... Comfort and new alternative perspectives can hold a funny way with human nature..

Not saying she, you, he will.. But can happen.. Prevention is better than cure where I come from

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By *ighflyers1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester

It was the other couple who came up with the idea

It's very kinky

We're very tempted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why put a time limit on it? Why not take it week to week?

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By *ighflyers1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Then it's not as exciting

We really like the thought of no sex with our own partners

Imagine lying in bed knowing you can't have sex with your hubby

We've thought about Phone sex between both couples ???

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How will you know each is not having sex with their partners?

How will you cope if either falls for the other?

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By *ighflyers1000 OP   Couple
over a year ago

manchester

It's a trust arrangement and not having sex with you're an partner will hopefully create lust over the period

Xx

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"It's sex only

We would live as we do now but no sex with our own partners for six months

It's like couples cuckold foursome "

Sex only ...what about the cuddles and kisses and knowing what that builds to with your own partner ..not for me ..but each to their own x Storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a recipe for disaster to me but then I dont like the idea of Seperate rooms anyway. And the whole idea is to enhance your sex life not refuse each other and the biggest thrill after sex with someone else is the reclaim sex after.. or at least imho x

But its not for anyone else on here to decide.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I can't imagine only wanting to have sex with one person who isn't my partner for six months

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a week swapped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each guy could wear a chastity device with the key held by the other wife, no cheating possible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months? That's seems a really long time to not have sex with your own partner. It wouldn't appeal to me at all, but we all like different things, I suppose.

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I don't see the point personally. The swinger lifestyle as liberating and a way to enjoy fun with more people.

But this is limiting yourself to one person again... and not even the person you love!

Don't you think you'll get frustrated by not being able to have sex with your partner?

It just seems really counter productive

It doesn't seem as though it would enhance anything between you and your partner. If anything you may find yourself feeling more distant from her if you're not able to be physical with her.

An emotional connection could form with the other woman if she is your only sexual partner for half a year.

It definitely could all go pear shaped. I couldn't do it myself.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do what you want to do, the idea obviously appeals.

For me its taking the intimacy of sex away from your marriage deliberately. I think that's unwise.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

If it's what you want to do, then weigh it up carefully and do it or not. Personally, I think it's got so many issues you need to be very careful. For most people this all works because it is NSA. You're proposing a huge string lasting 6 months.

I can't see the up side, and the negatives are huge.

Think carefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Week by week may be not long enough...but six months is a long time.

You asked what people think..... I'd go for a compromise period...like maybe a month?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He we have been approached by another very sexy couple with a very naughty idea of us wife and husband swapping for sex for 6 months

Rules of engagement are:

1 we only have sex with the wife or husband of the other couple during the time period

2 no sexual contact with your own partner

3 separate room sex only

4 we live with our own partners as usual.

Sounds kinky

Any thoughts guys?? "

If you are all on the same page then go for it. You can chat with your partner's on a monthly basis and even the four of you and if at some point any of you aren't feeling of you can just go back to how it was originally. It might be the start of a beautiful friendship between the four of you. Imagine how good the sex will be with your hubby after 6 months oooft

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