FabSwingers.com forum: How long do you wait?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you've got a social meet planned, they're aren't here... and you're giving them a chance haha......

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By *weeSeekoeieCouple
over a year ago

Richmond

15 mins to half hour, depending on how much I really want to meet them, if they aren't keeping in touch en route and are late.

If they are and a plausible problem has come up, I'll wait longer.

No second chances if they don't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"15 mins to half hour, depending on how much I really want to meet them, if they aren't keeping in touch en route and are late.

If they are and a plausible problem has come up, I'll wait longer.

No second chances if they don't."

Thanks ---- I'm in "benefit of doubt" mode right now... traffic etc and not being naughty texting while driving.... I'll give it a while longer, plus the beer is cold so is helping!

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By *weeSeekoeieCouple
over a year ago

Richmond

"15 mins to half hour, depending on how much I really want to meet them, if they aren't keeping in touch en route and are late.

If they are and a plausible problem has come up, I'll wait longer.

No second chances if they don't.

Thanks ---- I'm in "benefit of doubt" mode right now... traffic etc and not being naughty texting while driving.... I'll give it a while longer, plus the beer is cold so is helping!

Hey, if alcohol is involved I might wait all day.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy

and they sat not far away watching me

she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her

I did apologise but not sure what for

i often think about her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy

and they sat not far away watching me

she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her

I did apologise but not sure what for

i often think about her "

That's awful.... and has actually made me look around... although we've already met once lol

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

If they haven't let me know they're running late I'm gone, I hate waiting around no matter who it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 mins or the time it takes to slowly drink a pint...

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

"If they haven't let me know they're running late I'm gone, I hate waiting around no matter who it is."

no man should ever keep a woman waiting kinmi

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy

and they sat not far away watching me

she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her

I did apologise but not sure what for

i often think about her "
Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy

and they sat not far away watching me

she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her

I did apologise but not sure what for

i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!

More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!!

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By *weeSeekoeieCouple
over a year ago

Richmond

"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy

and they sat not far away watching me

she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her

I did apologise but not sure what for

i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!

More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!! "

Hope the beer's still going down well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy

and they sat not far away watching me

she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her

I did apologise but not sure what for

i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!

More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!! "

Bloody egotistical slapper lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy

and they sat not far away watching me

she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her

I did apologise but not sure what for

i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!

More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!!

Bloody egotistical slapper lol

Exactly

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"If they haven't let me know they're running late I'm gone, I hate waiting around no matter who it is.

no man should ever keep a woman waiting kinmi"

No one should ever keep anyone waiting without excuses/notification..

It's arrogant,rude & I am certain deliberate on occasions..

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

If there is no prior "I'm running late", about 10-15mins or until I've finished my drink.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy

and they sat not far away watching me

she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her

I did apologise but not sure what for

i often think about her "

That was a brass neckand a half she had. CHeeky mare.

Reminds me of when a guy didn't show and when I emailed to ask why, he took two weeks to reply. I don't give out my house number - because of all the no-shows - so he said I was weird for expecting him to call me from the street to get my number. Obviously calling somebody on a mobile phone in the street screams, "Hey everybody, I'm a filthy tranny chaser going for bum sex with one right now!" Who knew? I should've apologised but I was in shock for days.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy

and they sat not far away watching me

she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her

I did apologise but not sure what for

i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!

More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!!

Hope the beer's still going down well?"

Yep it's not too bad - still not here, but it's a lovely place and the sun is out. Only problem it was a 40 minute drive, so I can't have another. Heading off in a sec!

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy

and they sat not far away watching me

she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her

I did apologise but not sure what for

i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!

More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!!

Hope the beer's still going down well?"

I didn't have a beer I had a water as she told me to drive because if she liked me I could drop her off at her sisters

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Never really thought about how long I would wait, it would depend on the location and the lady I was waiting for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will wait 15 mins max then I'm gone

But if they are running late and keep me informed then I will wait

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By *weeSeekoeieCouple
over a year ago

Richmond

"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy

and they sat not far away watching me

she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her

I did apologise but not sure what for

i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!

More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!!

Hope the beer's still going down well?

Yep it's not too bad - still not here, but it's a lovely place and the sun is out. Only problem it was a 40 minute drive, so I can't have another. Heading off in a sec!

Sorry it ended that way...on the plus side, you've started a good thread. Can't have too many of those.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

***Update***

Twas a no show.... however.... I've got my big boy pants on and it's her loss.... and on the plus side, I think I'll head to my local for a cold beverage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just no need for that, you can always text if running late. Of course, the person could have been involved in an accident, here's hoping not but If it's a deliberate no show its uncalled for.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Wots a meet

Serous thow......

I wood probarley give them 30 mins then if no message then call it quits.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy

and they sat not far away watching me

she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her

I did apologise but not sure what for

i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!

More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!!

Hope the beer's still going down well?

I didn't have a beer I had a water as she told me to drive because if she liked me I could drop her off at her sisters "
it gets worse,free taxi as well

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"***Update***

Twas a no show.... however.... I've got my big boy pants on and it's her loss.... and on the plus side, I think I'll head to my local for a cold beverage

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report as a no show and block OP, sorry to hear this has happened, we aren't all like it x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We'll usually wait for 30 mins or so.

If they've kept us updated and we feel they're being genuine, we might wait longer.

You can generally get a feel for someone stringing you along and those who are genuinely running late and who will show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I waited an hour once and later found out she arranged 2 meets at the same time with me and another guy

and they sat not far away watching me

she later told me she definitely made the right choice but wanted an apology from me for not meeting her

I did apologise but not sure what for

i often think about her Sorry? You apologised to her?! What the hell for, how bloody rude of her!!

More than rude isn't it..... if have been furious, how bloody humiliating!!

Hope the beer's still going down well?

I didn't have a beer I had a water as she told me to drive because if she liked me I could drop her off at her sisters "

Bloody hell, she saw you coming, man up! Just teasing, she sounds delightful, not. Just no need to treat people like that, I'd say you had a luck escape.

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By *ex mad ladMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Being a single male it's your fault anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you've got a social meet planned, they're aren't here... and you're giving them a chance haha...... "
if it's a Wetherspoons with cheap beer . up too 5 hours

if it's a hotel . as long as it takes to drink my pint . Then I'm off to the nearest Wetherspoons

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

The only person entitled to be late is your drug dealer...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never really thought about how long I would wait, it would depend on the location and the lady I was waiting for. "

Probably the same, but I'm a mug.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We traveled to a meet got to the restarant and the couple cancelled half though our drink saying she was ill then we decided to stay for a meal anyway then we saw them leave there hotel hand in hand didn't look ill to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being a single male it's your fault anyway"

Hahaha how does that work? Sometimes I wonder what goes through people a heads....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"***Update***

Twas a no show.... however.... I've got my big boy pants on and it's her loss.... and on the plus side, I think I'll head to my local for a cold beverage

report as a no show and block OP, sorry to hear this has happened, we aren't all like it x

Hey it's no sweat Mrs W.... all good and I'm not going to cry like some people seen to do around here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just no need for that, you can always text if running late. Of course, the person could have been involved in an accident, here's hoping not but If it's a deliberate no show its uncalled for."

Yeah I aleays think there might be some serious reason - on this occasion apparently Not!! Thanks for posting though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"***Update***

Twas a no show.... however.... I've got my big boy pants on and it's her loss.... and on the plus side, I think I'll head to my local for a cold beverage

report as a no show and block OP, sorry to hear this has happened, we aren't all like it x

Ya woody is punctual whenever I ask her to meet me , she will be well in advance and will be waiting for me in the forest with a pack of condoms in hand..

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

It's very rare for us to go on a social anyway so would incorporate a night out so that time wouldn't be wasted.

If we get cancelled, then that's chance gone

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Its up to everyone how long they would wait but i think its time for home once you go into the 2nd day waiting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long would depend on where we were waiting and how far we'd travelled. If it's a pub or cafe as long as it takes to have the first drink and unless we've heard from them with an ETA we would then make tracks.

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

20 mins, the time it takes for a drink. If no running late message by then, I'm off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the feedback guys and girls... much appreciated!

As it happens, had a good afternoon with friends so all good!

Guess the genuine tag is a tough one to wear sometimes, however all is good in the good!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....

What should i do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....

What should i do?"

Ooo? Ready for round 2 eh?

I've never been that stupid a second time. That's when I wait for them to jump through my hoops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....

What should i do?"

Tell her to do one! She's on a power trip and using you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said you had met her before?

Seems stranger to me if it's somebody you already know. I think I'd give a second chance x

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....

What should i do?"

Tell her to F**k off. Even better ignore her. That will hurt her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what her excuse is for not turning up and why she didn't let you know sooner. If you do give her a second chance don't put yourself out in case she's a repeat offender.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....

What should i do?"

I can't believe you've actually asked that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....

What should i do?"

Drum roll for the excuse .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or you could say yes, only if she agrees meets you locally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how long it takes me to drink both our drinks. If I'm standing outside in crap weather, not long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....

What should i do?"

Tell her to fuck off then block her

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't leave home unless I know they are on their way. Then if they aren't there, with no explanation, it's 15 mins tops

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....

What should i do?

I can't believe you've actually asked that."

Makes for a good thread

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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Not as long as i waited for my first social meet that's for bloody sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....

What should i do?"
Why you asking complete strangers what you should do ? yer a big boy now

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"When you've got a social meet planned, they're aren't here... and you're giving them a chance haha...... "

I don't wait unless they contact me en route to say they're running late.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....

What should i do? Why you asking complete strangers what you should do ? yer a big boy now

Indeed I am... thank you for noticing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....

What should i do? Why you asking complete strangers what you should do ? yer a big boy now

Indeed I am... thank you for noticing

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yer welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't give her a second chance, she coulda let you know some how... 40min drive... Surely she had min 2 hrs to prewarn you she was gona chicken out?!...

How hot is she anyways??? Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're never late to a meet

We arrive precisely when we mean to

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....

What should i do?

Tell her to do one! She's on a power trip and using you."

Or you were a back up plan. It takes 30 secs to send a text. Unless she's broken both arms there's no excuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat up someone else at the meeting point, if she is late she can watch me leave with someone else

Second chance would depend on excuse and credibility. But I would probably delete and block without comment.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I once arranged to meet a man, not from Fab. I arrived early, waited and waited. Then I rang him, no answer, I rang again and eventually a man answered asking if I was his daughter, seems my date was involved in a serious traffic accident and was being airlifted to hospital and I had spoken to the paramedic. Six months later I met my date who was a complete disappointment.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"I once arranged to meet a man, not from Fab. I arrived early, waited and waited. Then I rang him, no answer, I rang again and eventually a man answered asking if I was his daughter, seems my date was involved in a serious traffic accident and was being airlifted to hospital and I had spoken to the paramedic. Six months later I met my date who was a complete disappointment."

Christ alive. So much roller coaster of emotion in so few words.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Christ alive. So much roller coaster of emotion in so few words."

Oh I was in bits for weeks, more so that he blamed me cos he was on his way to meet me, he said I was an expensive date. He was a twunt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Till I'm old and grey and carrying my boobs around in shopping bags. I'm still waiting now.....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Hmmm she's just apologised and said she will meet again.....

What should i do?"

I'd be inclined towards not meeting unless there were credible circumstances that prevailed. If there's any loss of respect for you, it should be a complete end to the relationship imo.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

No excuse these days to stand someone up,report and block.

Some get off on the build up and never intend to meet op.

Miss

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