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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me that is struggling to find a regular female fb? Geez I'm starting to feel like I'm an alien lol...

Any advice on profile etc welcome

Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beginning to think nothing exists on this site!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not just you. "

Good to know... Very disappointing though lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Beginning to think nothing exists on this site!"

Very true thinking it's a great site for voyeurs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the twilight zone...

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

There's a ladies night once a month at Cupids, with the downstairs purely for the girls. That could be a good starting point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just you.

Good to know... Very disappointing though lol "

Welcome to Fab. Lol. A lot is to be said for wanting a FWB, it's what I want most, and I thought would be easier to attract.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"It's not just you.

Good to know... Very disappointing though lol

Welcome to Fab. Lol. A lot is to be said for wanting a FWB, it's what I want most, and I thought would be easier to attract. "

Oh go on then...I'll take one for the team

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not just you.

Good to know... Very disappointing though lol

Welcome to Fab. Lol. A lot is to be said for wanting a FWB, it's what I want most, and I thought would be easier to attract.

Lol thanks xx

Oh go on then...I'll take one for the team

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not just you.

Good to know... Very disappointing though lol

Welcome to Fab. Lol. A lot is to be said for wanting a FWB, it's what I want most, and I thought would be easier to attract. "

I'll get my telescope out for us to share lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It says FWB in the subject but your post just says FB. Not that there's really a difference. FWB suggests there's a friendship involved, whereas FB says it'll just be the fucking. And any woman worth her salt knows that a FWB is really only going to be a FB as soon as she requests a friend-like contribution which doesn't involve the fucking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It says FWB in the subject but your post just says FB. Not that there's really a difference. FWB suggests there's a friendship involved, whereas FB says it'll just be the fucking. And any woman worth her salt knows that a FWB is really only going to be a FB as soon as she requests a friend-like contribution which doesn't involve the fucking."

Tbh I'd like to think I'd be friends with a fb as much as with a fwb arrangement. I like being laughed into bed...

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By *atie ShayTV/TS
over a year ago

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I have two female FWBs, both of them were already long term friends before the thought of adding benefits came along.

I doubt this site will provide me with any more friends anyway, I've never even had a successful meet yet except when I've met members in a club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have two female FWBs, both of them were already long term friends before the thought of adding benefits came along.

I doubt this site will provide me with any more friends anyway, I've never even had a successful meet yet except when I've met members in a club "

Aww in that case I'm not hopeful. Your gorgeous xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you find one will you let me know how you did it please. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you find one will you let me know how you did it please. Thanks "

If... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you find one will you let me know how you did it please. Thanks

If... lol "

Obviously I can only judge from a male perspective, but in places your bio is very aggressive in places. It would definitely put me off.

And also, why should the other female pay for the hotel room if you can't accommodate ether? Wouldn't going halves be fairer?

Not having a go, just giving my honest opinion

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By *atie ShayTV/TS
over a year ago

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"I have two female FWBs, both of them were already long term friends before the thought of adding benefits came along.

I doubt this site will provide me with any more friends anyway, I've never even had a successful meet yet except when I've met members in a club

Aww in that case I'm not hopeful. Your gorgeous xx "

Haha thanks, if have fabbed your pics too but the fab option was missing

It's much easier for ladies to get to know folk on here than for Tv's, most of the messages I get are from folk wanting a quick pre-bed time fantasy lol x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Unicorn here...not many of us around...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unicorn here...not many of us around... "

Tell me about it haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is very negative that would put me off and possibly other females to. Also expecting someone to pay all of the hotel cost isn't nice and as you are a professional with a job I'm sure you could meet half way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile is very negative that would put me off and possibly other females to. Also expecting someone to pay all of the hotel cost isn't nice and as you are a professional with a job I'm sure you could meet half way. "

I'm actually updating my profile today... out of interest negative how?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Your profile is very negative that would put me off and possibly other females to. Also expecting someone to pay all of the hotel cost isn't nice and as you are a professional with a job I'm sure you could meet half way.

I'm actually updating my profile today... out of interest negative how? "

I think he means that you are looking to meet other women, but if they can't accommodate, they have to pay for a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is very negative that would put me off and possibly other females to. Also expecting someone to pay all of the hotel cost isn't nice and as you are a professional with a job I'm sure you could meet half way.

I'm actually updating my profile today... out of interest negative how? "

You mention a lot about what you don't want and very little about what you can offer a lady. I find a calmer approach works better for us ladies.

Yes there are some nicer calmer bits in there but mixed with everything else it doesn't sell yourself well.

I know fab for a lady can make you want to write a shouty negative profile. But we must remember that our profile is our stage to attract the type of people we are looking for.

Having a more positive approach attracts positive people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile is very negative that would put me off and possibly other females to. Also expecting someone to pay all of the hotel cost isn't nice and as you are a professional with a job I'm sure you could meet half way.

I'm actually updating my profile today... out of interest negative how?

I think he means that you are looking to meet other women, but if they can't accommodate, they have to pay for a hotel."

That tbh was an attempt to limit some if the more idiotic guys on fab, alas I hadn't remembered they don't read profiles lol

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Your profile is very negative that would put me off and possibly other females to. Also expecting someone to pay all of the hotel cost isn't nice and as you are a professional with a job I'm sure you could meet half way.

I'm actually updating my profile today... out of interest negative how?

I think he means that you are looking to meet other women, but if they can't accommodate, they have to pay for a hotel.

That tbh was an attempt to limit some if the more idiotic guys on fab, alas I hadn't remembered they don't read profiles lol "

It might limit the less idiotic target audience too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have given up on the idea to find one lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile is very negative that would put me off and possibly other females to. Also expecting someone to pay all of the hotel cost isn't nice and as you are a professional with a job I'm sure you could meet half way.

I'm actually updating my profile today... out of interest negative how?

I think he means that you are looking to meet other women, but if they can't accommodate, they have to pay for a hotel.

That tbh was an attempt to limit some if the more idiotic guys on fab, alas I hadn't remembered they don't read profiles lol

It might limit the less idiotic target audience too..."

Hence I've been fiddling with it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have given up on the idea to find one lol."

You fancy going fab straight? Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have given up on the idea to find one lol.

You fancy going fab straight? Asking for a friend "
No, it is ok there pal lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have given up on the idea to find one lol.

You fancy going fab straight? Asking for a friend No, it is ok there pal lol."

He said he'll wait its ok, said something about patience and keys? I don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe work on your cheesy chat up lines ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really quiet for me at the moment!

Always looking for a regular fwb, regular as in at least once a week lol

Just really hard to find someone who likes fat birds and is happy to have a good session with someone who knows what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have given up on the idea to find one lol.

You fancy going fab straight? Asking for a friend No, it is ok there pal lol.

He said he'll wait its ok, said something about patience and keys? I don't know "
That is right and yes, it is the key too lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are out there if you persevere, it took me a while but it's been more than worth the wait.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's really quiet for me at the moment!

Always looking for a regular fwb, regular as in at least once a week lol

Just really hard to find someone who likes fat birds and is happy to have a good session with someone who knows what they want "

Aww I am exactly the same x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Unfortunately finding a good fab friend can take years, especially if you do want more of a friendship with sex as opposed to just the sex with the odd text thrown in every three days they are out there you just can't rush a good thing

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