FabSwingers.com forum: Negativity

By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Why do people feel the need to be negative all the time. Everyone has different preferences and like doing there own thing. Why cant people just be ok with that lol

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Because I am a grumpy git

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

We are cool with that. Live and let live with each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm positive...but they told me it's not good in this case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the forum was full of people who agreed with everything and everyone else, it'd be an insanely boring place. Long may disagreement and negative stuff continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the forum was full of people who agreed with everything and everyone else, it'd be an insanely boring place. Long may disagreement and negative stuff continue.

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you've got a problem with people being negative?? Let them be what they want then.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Why do people feel the need to be negative all the time. Everyone has different preferences and like doing there own thing. Why cant people just be ok with that lol"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Without both we are fuck...well the car won't start will it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people feel the need to be negative all the time. Everyone has different preferences and like doing there own thing. Why cant people just be ok with that lol"

Pretty sure some forum negativity is put on to create dissent and discussion..

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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Didnt mean it ina non banter or or people cant disagree. Just dont know why some need to make others feel bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading some posts, there are some forum users who post nothing but negative remarks.

I feel sorry for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not I'm a positive person! I see the good in most things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didnt mean it ina non banter or or people cant disagree. Just dont know why some need to make others feel bad"

I don't think anyone on here goes into a debate just to make someone feel bad.

But just as in the pub....you will always get heated debates

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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I'm not I'm a positive person! I see the good in most things

Buts thats nice not boring as some say. Nice to be nice lol

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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Didnt mean it ina non banter or or people cant disagree. Just dont know why some need to make others feel bad

I don't think anyone on here goes into a debate just to make someone feel bad.

But just as in the pub....you will always get heated debates

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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Didnt mean it ina non banter or or people cant disagree. Just dont know why some need to make others feel bad

I don't think anyone on here goes into a debate just to make someone feel bad.

But just as in the pub....you will always get heated debates

nothing wrong with a good debate just when others put people down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worked in hotels and we always found that the guests who complained most tended to be the most unhappy people. The same on here. There are many whingers on fab forums who are nothing but critical, snidey, bitter and negative. I keep well clear of them for chat and meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading some posts, there are some forum users who post nothing but negative remarks.

I feel sorry for them."

As long as these mood hoovers stay away from me I don't care

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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"I worked in hotels and we always found that the guests who complained most tended to be the most unhappy people. The same on here. There are many whingers on fab forums who are nothing but critical, snidey, bitter and negative. I keep well clear of them for chat and meets "

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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Reading some posts, there are some forum users who post nothing but negative remarks.

I feel sorry for them.

As long as these mood hoovers stay away from me I don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didnt mean it ina non banter or or people cant disagree. Just dont know why some need to make others feel bad

I don't think anyone on here goes into a debate just to make someone feel bad.

But just as in the pub....you will always get heated debates

nothing wrong with a good debate just when others put people down "

You will always get a bit of sarcasm I'm afraid on any forums.

Then there's banter which I enjoy but the poor nasty posters don't get away with it for long

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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Didnt mean it ina non banter or or people cant disagree. Just dont know why some need to make others feel bad

I don't think anyone on here goes into a debate just to make someone feel bad.

But just as in the pub....you will always get heated debates

nothing wrong with a good debate just when others put people down

You will always get a bit of sarcasm I'm afraid on any forums.

Then there's banter which I enjoy but the poor nasty posters don't get away with it for long

You have a point. Just not nive to see sometimes. Especially when we all want some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didnt mean it ina non banter or or people cant disagree. Just dont know why some need to make others feel bad

I don't think anyone on here goes into a debate just to make someone feel bad.

But just as in the pub....you will always get heated debates

nothing wrong with a good debate just when others put people down

You will always get a bit of sarcasm I'm afraid on any forums.

Then there's banter which I enjoy but the poor nasty posters don't get away with it for long

* pure not poor

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

"Why do people feel the need to be negative all the time. Everyone has different preferences and like doing there own thing. Why cant people just be ok with that lol"

Negative attitude?

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

All this electricity chat is shocking.

I had a lightbulb moment when i realised that + size woman can also be negative.

How does that work??

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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Why do people feel the need to be negative all the time. Everyone has different preferences and like doing there own thing. Why cant people just be ok with that lol

Negative attitude?

How?

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

"Why do people feel the need to be negative all the time. Everyone has different preferences and like doing there own thing. Why cant people just be ok with that lol

Negative attitude?

How?"

You're having a moan, as a result of a negative attitude.

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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Why do people feel the need to be negative all the time. Everyone has different preferences and like doing there own thing. Why cant people just be ok with that lol

Negative attitude?

Thats your opinion and your thought process. Its like me saying I dont like bullies and then saying I'm negative. We all see things different

How?

You're having a moan, as a result of a negative attitude."

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

You get them in every walk of life op,like others have said ,some posters get off on arguing and making snide comments.

Just ignore and contribute to the things you like

Miss

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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"You get them in every walk of life op,like others have said ,some posters get off on arguing and making snide comments.

Just ignore and contribute to the things you like

Miss"

Wise words x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Didnt mean it ina non banter or or people cant disagree. Just dont know why some need to make others feel bad

I don't think anyone on here goes into a debate just to make someone feel bad.

But just as in the pub....you will always get heated debates

nothing wrong with a good debate just when others put people down "

Ah, there you stray away from your forum topic....might be an idea to tell us in which context you mean people are negative XXX

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By *rCurious1 OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Didnt mean it ina non banter or or people cant disagree. Just dont know why some need to make others feel bad

I don't think anyone on here goes into a debate just to make someone feel bad.

But just as in the pub....you will always get heated debates

nothing wrong with a good debate just when others put people down

Ah, there you stray away from your forum topic....might be an idea to tell us in which context you mean people are negative XXX"

Everyone has different opinions that not negative nor wrong in my eyes. But when people like something or have a different opinion, some not all can be mean and put others down. Thats how I feel anyway x

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Why do people feel the need to be negative all the time. Everyone has different preferences and like doing there own thing. Why cant people just be ok with that lol"

You'd rather be HIV+?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It does help many to improve their filtering

. There's been a recent avalanche of meet failures frustration, though the ball doesn't seem to rest in the posters' court enough.

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

i hate humanity but want to love them anyway. i must come across as confusing as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i hate humanity but want to love them anyway. i must come across as confusing as fuck."

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