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By *oping for fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Newport - Shropshire

When looking at profiles, does anyone read previous verifications?

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are on display, then I have a lil nosey. Sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

When looking at profiles, does anyone read previous verifications? "

Why the sad face?

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)"

Me too, it's quite enlightening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)

Me too, it's quite enlightening "

Me three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)

Me too, it's quite enlightening "

Oh it is! I find it fascinating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're there I'll have a little look. If someone haves hundreds of them I'm instantly put off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always. And veritrail too.

I'm planning to let someone have access to my home, my body and my partner, you be damn sure I'm checking them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)

Me too, it's quite enlightening

Oh it is! I find it fascinating! "

I like doing this too. Sometimes I go other times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)

Me too, it's quite enlightening

Oh it is! I find it fascinating!

I like doing this too. Sometimes I go other times "

I like doing this, following the trail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine just say I have a nice cock. nothing to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they're there I'll have a little look. If someone haves hundreds of them I'm instantly put off. "

Put off because they show them all? They might have 3 on show but 2,000 hidden.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yep, and veritrail.

I get unreasonably annoyed if I see they have more verifications than they have published...even though I only show one of mine, and it could be because some of theirs have keft the site.

Why do you ask OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, because I'm nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they're there I'll have a little look. If someone haves hundreds of them I'm instantly put off.

Put off because they show them all? They might have 3 on show but 2,000 hidden. "

Lol, true but at least I can't see them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they're there I'll have a little look. If someone haves hundreds of them I'm instantly put off.

Put off because they show them all? They might have 3 on show but 2,000 hidden.

Lol, true but at least I can't see them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. And veritrail too.

I'm planning to let someone have access to my home, my body and my partner, you be damn sure I'm checking them out.

"

Point well made!

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By *lg1000Couple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)"

This!! Always do it!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a bunch of nosy feckers

I'm glad I don't display mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)

Me too, it's quite enlightening

Me three"

Me four

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they're there I'll have a little look. If someone haves hundreds of them I'm instantly put off.

Put off because they show them all? They might have 3 on show but 2,000 hidden. "

Precisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and like PPs may have a look at their veri trail. I think you can get a feel for the sort of meets they are into, sometimes very different to what we are looking for, which will come into our decision making.

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

I've found potential meets through veri trailing so I always check them out.

Also to see what type of people they like to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)

Me too, it's quite enlightening

Me three

Me four "

We are a bunch if nosey fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)

Me too, it's quite enlightening

Me three

Me four

We are a bunch if nosey fuckers "

Of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, funny things verifications OP as you will learn from this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

When looking at profiles, does anyone read previous verifications? "

Only the ones I left.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes but take them with a pinch of salt and only to give us an indication that the profile is genuine.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)"

I also do this

XX

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Always. Then I look at those left by the lady I am interested in.

It's how she relates her experience that tells me about her perceptions, needs and wants.

I may go a few steps further to check this was normal for both...and always looking for bareback pics

So gents...if I have looked at your profile, I had an ulterior motive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just notice if theres one there; i think theyre completely worthless as a guide to what someone is actually like or whether i'd like them as theyre all pretty much identical

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Yes, veri trail too. The more info to consider the better overall picture in our book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we like a look of the profile then yes, most definitely

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

No they normally say the same thing anyway.

Sucks like a Dyson, fucks for hours, wow what a great night, treat them with respect blah blah blah.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I do. what kind of people are they meeting, if I see one with turnedup on times its a bit of a give away that the meet was shit and look for humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)

This!! Always do it!! X"

I do this too.. im so nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No they normally say the same thing anyway.

Sucks like a Dyson, fucks for hours, wow what a great night, treat them with respect blah blah blah."

This is true.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"No they normally say the same thing anyway.

Sucks like a Dyson, fucks for hours, wow what a great night, treat them with respect blah blah blah."

None of mine say anything like this. They all just say I am a nice bloke.

Not one comment about my cock being suckable...

Which I suppose means my selection method for meets must work.

They are all very very polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

When looking at profiles, does anyone read previous verifications? "

Yes always now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)"

Yeah this lol

Then I realise I've been on fab for two hours! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do read them, yes. I like mine, they are a reminder of fun times

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Yes, then follow the veri trail, then hotlist any fit men I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes definitely!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)

Me too, it's quite enlightening "

You can nosey in my veris anytime lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do people cope with meeting people in real life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No they normally say the same thing anyway.

Sucks like a Dyson, fucks for hours, wow what a great night, treat them with respect blah blah blah.

This is true. "

Nobody has told me i suck like a dyson... im offended

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Always. Then i do a little veri trail. (Im very nosey)

Me too, it's quite enlightening

Oh it is! I find it fascinating!

I like doing this too. Sometimes I go other times

I like doing this, following the trail "

Then block

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"How do people cope with meeting people in real life? "

I wear a full body condom and communicate using semaphore

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"No they normally say the same thing anyway.

Sucks like a Dyson, fucks for hours, wow what a great night, treat them with respect blah blah blah.

This is true.

Nobody has told me i suck like a dyson... im offended "

lol in my dream you sucked like a dyson

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By *oping for fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Newport - Shropshire


"Yep, and veritrail.

I get unreasonably annoyed if I see they have more verifications than they have published...even though I only show one of mine, and it could be because some of theirs have keft the site.

Why do you ask OP?"

Interested as I feel that 100's suggest a player and a few is acceptable .. just my 2p worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind reading them quickly, I'm not that overly concerned about things outwith my control(not that I'd wish to control them anyway). If its someone new and I'm unsure, yes I will dig a little.

my verifies would really be almost double what they are if I was still using the same profile for my years of 'service'- so if someones put off now by the amount....oh well, of course the contents vary depending on the types of meets I've had.

I no longer lose sleep on people who dont want to meet me based on my past,present and future meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I long to see a verification that say

It was ok but had better

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yep, and veritrail.

I get unreasonably annoyed if I see they have more verifications than they have published...even though I only show one of mine, and it could be because some of theirs have keft the site.

Why do you ask OP?

Interested as I feel that 100's suggest a player and a few is acceptable .. just my 2p worth"

Oh. But...what's wrong with a player? And that one with a few on could be hiding the 200 in their back pocket. Or, as is often the case with meets, met far more than have verified them. They could also have been on here for 13 months or eight years. Isn't it all a bit judgey to worry about the number of veris on display?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I read them. And I check out the person who wrote it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only verifies I'm not too keen on is people that give a round 1,2,3,4,5 that are all essentially the same in a short space of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always, and veri trail. It's just due diligence. I don't have a tame male standing by to protect me if it goes horribly wrong.

Similar to the precautions I take in other parts of my life.

I've read a few of these threads recently with some claiming they never read veris and it's starting to wind me up. Seriously, would you be able to look the police in the eye and tell them you hadn't done everything in your power to ensure you were going to be safe?

That killed the mood..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I read them. And I check out the person who wrote it too."
but you never ever read a bad verification on this site so they system is somewhat floored!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always, and veri trail. It's just due diligence. I don't have a tame male standing by to protect me if it goes horribly wrong.

Similar to the precautions I take in other parts of my life.

I've read a few of these threads recently with some claiming they never read veris and it's starting to wind me up. Seriously, would you be able to look the police in the eye and tell them you hadn't done everything in your power to ensure you were going to be safe?

That killed the mood.."

There are people on here who give strangers their home address... on a first meet!!!!

Seriously... not reading a veri seems tame by comparison. Each to his/her own.

I'm with you though, I'll take all the pre-cautions thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I read them. And I check out the person who wrote it too. but you never ever read a bad verification on this site so they system is somewhat floored!"

I understand what you're saying...

But consider this..

1) someone who has no verifications after several months on site is 'likely' to be a fantasist- just here to window shop and wind-up and doesn't really meet.

OR has met people for a social/sex who have nothing good to say/refuse to verify them. I've met a couple guys who I've absolutely not verified, because they were dicks. Not in the good way...

2) I try to read between the lines. And look for trends in what people who've met them had to say. E.g. Is 'polite' 'reliable' or whatever key traits you're looking for listed in there. Yes, people are kind with veri's- they wouldn't be published otherwise... but sometimes it gives a wee clue as to personality.

Especially the guys whose veri's have met them on more than one occasion. Surely not going to meet someone again if he/she is awful...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I read them. And I check out the person who wrote it too. but you never ever read a bad verification on this site so they system is somewhat floored!

I understand what you're saying...

But consider this..

1) someone who has no verifications after several months on site is 'likely' to be a fantasist- just here to window shop and wind-up and doesn't really meet.

OR has met people for a social/sex who have nothing good to say/refuse to verify them. I've met a couple guys who I've absolutely not verified, because they were dicks. Not in the good way...

2) I try to read between the lines. And look for trends in what people who've met them had to say. E.g. Is 'polite' 'reliable' or whatever key traits you're looking for listed in there. Yes, people are kind with veri's- they wouldn't be published otherwise... but sometimes it gives a wee clue as to personality.

Especially the guys whose veri's have met them on more than one occasion. Surely not going to meet someone again if he/she is awful..."

I understand what you are saying but consider this too my verifications are from my shrink and probation officer but I don't show them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always. And veritrail too.

I'm planning to let someone have access to my home, my body and my partner, you be damn sure I'm checking them out.

"

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, and veritrail.

I get unreasonably annoyed if I see they have more verifications than they have published...even though I only show one of mine, and it could be because some of theirs have keft the site.

Why do you ask OP?

Interested as I feel that 100's suggest a player and a few is acceptable .. just my 2p worth

Oh. But...what's wrong with a player? And that one with a few on could be hiding the 200 in their back pocket. Or, as is often the case with meets, met far more than have verified them. They could also have been on here for 13 months or eight years. Isn't it all a bit judgey to worry about the number of veris on display?"

People can use veri's however they like. If they'd prefer to meet people with only 2 showing then good for them.

I don't see why this is seen as an issue. People wanting to see a minimum of 4 veri's are never bitched at in threads the same way. So why can't they want to meet people with less than 3?

People are always judging on veri content. Taking the word of a total stranger is apparently a safe thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My verifications show very little about me. I might read other peoples' verifications but don't take much notice, unless they speak of bareback gang bangs or other practices I try to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I understand what you are saying but consider this too my verifications are from my shrink and probation officer but I don't show them!"

I verify people I've met for coffee. They were lovely. Maybe they are a psychopath at sex.

8 glowing verifications on show. 56 hidden veri's that say the person wrecked their house and shit on their sofa.

No veri'a showing so 'they clearly have something to hide'. In reality they had 6 lovely verifications but the women left the site due to other horrible men and now the nice guy can't show any.

Straight man with 4 woman, 1 tv and 2 man veri's on his summary. All from a social but people won't meet him because they think he's a secret gay.

People can have as many profiles on as many sites as they want. You meet them on the 'nice' Fab profile. Other people meet them on their secret gay/ married/ bareback/ escort/ gangbang/ sock fetish profile.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Yes , we read veris , and do the trail .

Why wouldn't we ? It's a way to learn a little bit more about a potential meet . I get the bit about all being the same , and no bad ones etc.... but it isn't difficult to get an idea about someone if they showing a few rather than none .

It's not always the case that all veris are the same either . Some of the more detailed will give an idea of the type of kink that may enjoy too . It's one thing putting it on your profile , quite another to actually do it . If we are looking for a specific , we are far more likely to meet someone who has a veri that says they are into it by actually engaging in it , than one that doesn't .

Despite the fact that there are a few forum users who hate the veri system , I think it's a great tool and it's served us well over the years

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

Always without exception x

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

When looking at profiles, does anyone read previous verifications? "

Always!

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Yes, always.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but some still end in a no show lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I do but I would say most just look at the summary and jump to conclusions that's why I keep mine hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

YES of course why wouldn't one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're the best reason to be on this site, no offence intended, forumistas, but really. Those other sites don't have verifications and it's harder to spot timewasters there. Coincidence? Pth.

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