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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is been polite in your 1st message a sure way of gettin blocked and no reply after you fulfill all the listed standards of other user

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

depends, some like being polite some like fancy a fuck, some just choose to block willy nilly

it really is a no win situation at times on here lol but stick at it and i am sure it will come right

a few pics might help but that only cos i am a perv

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Polite is always the right thing to do, however... if you are out of their age range, sexuality, body shape, safe sex requirements... then that is maybe why you are blocked.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"is been polite in your 1st message a sure way of gettin blocked and no reply after you fulfill all the listed standards of other user "

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is mate, is that you don't know how they are feeling when they read your message.

If someone else has pissed them off, you could have had the shitty end of the stick, so to speak.

Also, your idea of polite, might not be there's

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Depends how I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"depends, some like being polite some like fancy a fuck, some just choose to block willy nilly

it really is a no win situation at times on here lol but stick at it and i am sure it will come right

a few pics might help but that only cos i am a perv "

I agree.

I love it when profiles ask you to "use your imagination" when messaging.

Lol. Asking for trouble!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Im always polite it works for me sexy chat later

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Some people block because they are not interested and to save you the hassle of contacting them again....look at it as a way of them doing you a favour

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if users not interested just say so blocking is to get rid of annoyin users not as a way of communcating

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"if users not interested just say so blocking is to get rid of annoyin users not as a way of communcating "

any function of this site is to be used as the user sees fit lol

yo may only use the block function to get rid of annoying users, someone else might use it to eep them from contacting people they are not interested in or vice versa

you will find this site much more enjoyable if you just wory about how you use it and not how everyone else does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am polite but sometimes i have to spell it out that im not interested

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"i am polite but sometimes i have to spell it out that im not interested

"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes someone you know for sure isnt your type, or has messed you about before gets blocked to save time having to read their profiles again. Though sometimes you can change your mind about some people.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"if users not interested just say so blocking is to get rid of annoyin users not as a way of communcating "

And yet, when I tell people I am not interested I get responses ranging from asking me why to calling me a pig. Blocking is easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is been polite in your 1st message a sure way of gettin blocked and no reply after you fulfill all the listed standards of other user "

A quality first message with pictures is the only way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people arranging meets and then going quiet will get a block now

people who are all talk

and people who seem to think i am available 24*/7for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone on here was realy pushy, when i changed my mind about meeting him he called me a weirdo. I didnt want to meet him cos he was so pushy. I have blocked him six times now cos he deletes his profile, then puts new one on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought you blocked people you are just not interested in. I never take it personally as it saves me wasting a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ask me, got blocked by a friend this morining, and who knows why???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i block when i have to

part from that im pretty easy going

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks guys helps when get other ppl opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, your profile is a couple of lines long with no pics, honestly come on you know that's not gonna have women jumping on your cock, its says absolutely nothing about you.

And it doesn't matter if you feel you meet their criteria, that does not guarantee a reply or a meet.

Liken it to this. I saw a great job recently and I had all the qualifications they quoted and I could prove experience in relation to the job and person spec. So I sent my CV to them with hope in heart and thought about my inter_iew dress.

I didn't get a reply from them.

Now I had everything they asked but there was something they didn't like about my CV and how I portrayed myself on it.

So that's it, I move on, nothing gained from that particular job but there will be others. I'm a big girl, I can take rejection and I'm not bitter.

(Timewasting bastards, I really wanted that job, ah well their loss)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if users not interested just say so blocking is to get rid of annoyin users not as a way of communcating

any function of this site is to be used as the user sees fit lol

yo may only use the block function to get rid of annoying users, someone else might use it toY eep them from contacting people they are not interested in or vice versa

you will find this site much more enjoyable if you just wory about how you use it and not how everyone else does "

Couldn't have put it better myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The recipient of your unsolicited message was not interested, and to prevent further contact they blocked you. Simples.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"depends, some like being polite some like fancy a fuck, some just choose to block willy nilly

"

Meanie, what has willy nilly done to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do, easy come easy go style attitude to it all, its downtime dwelling on the hows and the whys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is been polite in your 1st message a sure way of gettin blocked and no reply after you fulfill all the listed standards of other user "

A polite first message is the correct approach. However, you have a 2-line profile and no pictures, so you are not 'standing out from the crowd'.

Perhaps you send pictures so that they can see whether or not they find you attractive. And perhaps you send very long messages to demonstrate that you 'fulfill all the listed standards'. But for goodness sake, why not put these on your profile!

Some men seem to hide behind 'generic' profiles, so that they can pretend to be someone they're not, just to get a meet. Don't risk rejection by being seen as one of them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is been polite in your 1st message a sure way of gettin blocked and no reply after you fulfill all the listed standards of other user

A polite first message is the correct approach. However, you have a 2-line profile and no pictures, so you are not 'standing out from the crowd'.

Perhaps you send pictures so that they can see whether or not they find you attractive. And perhaps you send very long messages to demonstrate that you 'fulfill all the listed standards'. But for goodness sake, why not put these on your profile!

Some men seem to hide behind 'generic' profiles, so that they can pretend to be someone they're not, just to get a meet. Don't risk rejection by being seen as one of them! "

*Nods in agreement*

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