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By *ady Lick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

......which of your preferences would you forget about?

I don't mean if you're desperate because you haven't met anyone for a while.

You may of been chatting with someone, getting on well but say for example, he's a short arse or he's 'ample' or can't accommodate so you'd have to get a hotel...

I'd drop my height range or my age range I think.

What about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age range is kinda negotiable. I actually already upped it a bit in a hope a certain person would mail me.

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By *weeSeekoeieCouple
over a year ago

Richmond


"......which of your preferences would you forget about?

I don't mean if you're desperate because you haven't met anyone for a while.

You may of been chatting with someone, getting on well but say for example, he's a short arse or he's 'ample' or can't accommodate so you'd have to get a hotel...

I'd drop my height range or my age range I think.

What about you? "

I don't really have preferences to begin with---I chat with each person based on his/her own merits and go from there.

Things I would not compromise on are ability to hold an adult conversation (without reference to sex every two sentences like a teenager) and a sense of humor. But those aren't preferences, they are essentials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"......which of your preferences would you forget about?

I don't mean if you're desperate because you haven't met anyone for a while.

You may of been chatting with someone, getting on well but say for example, he's a short arse or he's 'ample' or can't accommodate so you'd have to get a hotel...

I'd drop my height range or my age range I think.

What about you? "

Height I'd drop the height I love tall and dark haired but honestly I still chat & play with shorter guys x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's hard to say because if he didn't match my preferences but I was enjoying chatting to him and he 'had' that something then I probably would overlook it. Hard to say unless I get a message.

Hope you understand my explanation.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Height!

I don't like short men, but I'd make an inch or 2 allowance, if the person was really nice... And wear flat shoes lol

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Age range is defo negotiable, not a lot else though to be honest.....not that am that picky anyways! Wait, that sounds not like its meant to!

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By *ady Lick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"My age range is kinda negotiable. I actually already upped it a bit in a hope a certain person would mail me. "

I lowered mine for a while but my FAF type messages increased so I upped it again!!!

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By *ady Lick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Height!

I don't like short men, but I'd make an inch or 2 allowance, if the person was really nice... And wear flat shoes lol"

And take a box?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably drop my height range. My age range is low anyway but wouldn't put it higher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assuming I wasnt accomodating then the smokers bit is negotiable

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By *ady Lick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"It's hard to say because if he didn't match my preferences but I was enjoying chatting to him and he 'had' that something then I probably would overlook it. Hard to say unless I get a message.

Hope you understand my explanation. "

Yes I know what you mean. I've met guys who've had 'it' but then told me they can't accommodate so it went no further

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Age...slightly lower than my preference.

Height non negotiable: I'm not sexually attracted to short men.

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By *ady Lick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"......which of your preferences would you forget about?

I don't mean if you're desperate because you haven't met anyone for a while.

You may of been chatting with someone, getting on well but say for example, he's a short arse or he's 'ample' or can't accommodate so you'd have to get a hotel...

I'd drop my height range or my age range I think.

What about you?

I don't really have preferences to begin with---I chat with each person based on his/her own merits and go from there.

Things I would not compromise on are ability to hold an adult conversation (without reference to sex every two sentences like a teenager) and a sense of humor. But those aren't preferences, they are essentials."

Makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was forced to I'd probably change the age range slightly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smokers would be the first ones given a golden ticket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good question. I'm not sure but I think body size would be the most flexible. I love a good sense of humour in a woman, she could have the perfect body/face but if she couldn't have a laugh I wouldn't be interested at all. So yea I'll go with size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was chatting to someone and getting on extremely well with them, every filter would be fluid. I love getting to know diamonds, they are are rare, so no preference would stand in the way of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met with guys over my age range and would go lower for the right person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age range can be tempted a little each way! Height is one thing i can't compromise in though. Im a tall broad girl and i find being with a tall man makes me feel sexier x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

That's easy

I would drop guys

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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My age range is wide as it is but I probably would be tempted to go beyond it, I have a preference for small Women but I have met a Woman who was taller, Its all about attraction, If I am attracted to her there is a good chance something will happen regardless about her age or height,

I would even go as far as saying that about if she was in a relationship, Its not something I look for but I will never say never

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By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

i've dropped everything aesthetic now, and did a while back. i want guys i get on with more than anything else.

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By *ady Lick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"i've dropped everything aesthetic now, and did a while back. i want guys i get on with more than anything else."

That's really important to me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was chatting to someone and getting on extremely well with them, every filter would be fluid. I love getting to know diamonds, they are are rare, so no preference would stand in the way of that "

Hello you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably wouldnt be chatting in the first place if main likes werent in place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have any, if I like you I like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d try a women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd drop the fact they need to be born on a Tuesday.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't have that many physical preferences. I need to find a man attractive or I won't meet and that isn't up for negotiation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd definitely drop age range, I've already done it a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only criteria is a pre play social and it's non negotiable

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Ive got a favourite type but i would consider anyone on an individual basis. Ill chat to anyone whose nice and you never know how its going to develop until you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age range is fluid so I'd make allowances either side of my range if I liked someone.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Age, but you've still got to be good looking for your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"......which of your preferences would you forget about?

I don't mean if you're desperate because you haven't met anyone for a while.

You may of been chatting with someone, getting on well but say for example, he's a short arse or he's 'ample' or can't accommodate so you'd have to get a hotel...

I'd drop my height range or my age range I think.

What about you? "

That's good news about the height range.

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