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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs

Hi fabbers. .. any tips on getting people's attention on here I try to avoid dick pics as profile pics and I see alot of men do use them as profile pics do you women really want to see dick after dick or what is it any tips to open some more doors on this fab world would be much appreciated

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs

Or even a quick look at my profile and give me some pointers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh get rid of the pic with you giving the finger... I'd block on that alone

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Or even a quick look at my profile and give me some pointers "

What profile's that then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you verifi on request?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you give a woman the eye on a night out then give her a 'fuck off' gesture? does that usually go well?

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs

By a photo request .. me and an ex partner used to say to people to hold a random object or a bit of paper with our names on .. that verify's as far as we thought...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By a photo request .. me and an ex partner used to say to people to hold a random object or a bit of paper with our names on .. that verify's as far as we thought... "

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs

Profile pic changed now appreciate the tips x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile to speak of and totally unfriendly looking photo's.

Guaranteed to get attention..........of the block button.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Gangster picture: off putting.

Thread longer than profile: off putting.

Absolutely no effort: off putting...do I need to go on?

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs


"By a photo request .. me and an ex partner used to say to people to hold a random object or a bit of paper with our names on .. that verify's as far as we thought...

"

Best I can do until a meet and verification is done .. catch 22 ha

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No profile to speak of and totally unfriendly looking photo's.

Guaranteed to get attention..........of the block button."

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs


"Gangster picture: off putting.

Thread longer than profile: off putting.

Absolutely no effort: off putting...do I need to go on?"

Dick pic not of putting ?

You've give me the donts but not the do's

Again all tips appreciated and no offence taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's said a lot on here (I actually feel a bit sick typing it), but the truth is different people like different things so improving your profile from one person's perspective isn't from someone else's. I guess it all comes down to the type of person you are after so it's best to stay true to yourself.

But yeah, ditch the picture of you throwing signs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gangster picture: off putting.

Thread longer than profile: off putting.

Absolutely no effort: off putting...do I need to go on?

Dick pic not of putting ?

You've give me the donts but not the do's

Again all tips appreciated and no offence taken "

You don't need to be told the 'do's' if you take notice of the 'don'ts'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dick pic not of putting ?"

Many women like to see the goods. I think it's just a good idea to just have one, not to use it as a profile picture and not to send it in a first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gangster picture: off putting.

Thread longer than profile: off putting.

Absolutely no effort: off putting...do I need to go on?

Dick pic not of putting ?

You've give me the donts but not the do's

Again all tips appreciated and no offence taken "

Do write your profile how you want it. It should be a reflection of yourself so no one can tell you what to put it there.

Let people know who you are and what you want.

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs

Thanks for comments and tips guys and dolls again I really do appreciate it ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a vaj pic, OP? That seems to work.

Just kidding, obviously. Work on the text of your profile. And write messages to people whose criteria you seem to meet. Be engaging and try to get your personality across.

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs

Hi all I've re wrote my profile bit have a read and see if that's beeter for me please xxx again appreciate the feedback

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Much better OP

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs


"do you give a woman the eye on a night out then give her a 'fuck off' gesture? does that usually go well?"

No ha is it better now ??

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs


"Much better OP "

OP ??? What's that mean ??

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs


"Got a vaj pic, OP? That seems to work.

Just kidding, obviously. Work on the text of your profile. And write messages to people whose criteria you seem to meet. Be engaging and try to get your personality across. "

I've re wrote it now bit better ?

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs


"Gangster picture: off putting.

Thread longer than profile: off putting.

Absolutely no effort: off putting...do I need to go on?

Dick pic not of putting ?

You've give me the donts but not the do's

Again all tips appreciated and no offence taken

Do write your profile how you want it. It should be a reflection of yourself so no one can tell you what to put it there.

Let people know who you are and what you want. "

I've had a bit of a change on my profile now hopefully it opens a few more doors thanks x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Much better OP

OP ??? What's that mean ??"

In this case it's you, Opening Poster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Restating your age again in the write up really annoys me in a profile. It already says your age just above it so why would you need to say it again.

It wouldn't stop me messaging that person but it's a little bugbear of mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Restating your age again in the write up really annoys me in a profile. It already says your age just above it so why would you need to say it again.

It wouldn't stop me messaging that person but it's a little bugbear of mine. "

Thank goodness it's not just me - I had written it off as my inner Victor Meldrew.

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs

Right again thanks I've took the bit of stating my age AGAIN ..... didn't realise something like that could of just cost me so highly ... anything else to help me out lovely people xx

Photo tips that I haven't already corrected ?? X

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs


"Restating your age again in the write up really annoys me in a profile. It already says your age just above it so why would you need to say it again.

It wouldn't stop me messaging that person but it's a little bugbear of mine. "

Sorted that bit out x

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By *heekychappy22400 OP   Man
over a year ago

North east lincs


"Restating your age again in the write up really annoys me in a profile. It already says your age just above it so why would you need to say it again.

It wouldn't stop me messaging that person but it's a little bugbear of mine.

Thank goodness it's not just me - I had written it off as my inner Victor Meldrew. "

One foot in the grave ha it's corrected now x

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