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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm 18 years old, single straight.. hard to believe etc whatever idc ngl but I see some people are skeptical and rather play it safe and I respect that a simple rejection.. however 3 times I've had my time wasted by women who say they wanna meet and pick a place and then I turn up and nothing.. not even a sorry not my type or a sorry but can't.. just now topped it off ahaha someone 'local' we chatted and then asked if I have some security ID and said I needed one to prove security and stuff when chatting online.. was being polite and decided to go along with it and she gave me instructions on how to apply for one whatever right.. and then it redirects me to a different site and asks me to out my details in.. naturallni thought nope this is a scam and replied to them saying I'm not doing it and straight away I get called Isis and accused of bombing and horrible names and I've ignored the person and still get hate! Hahah this doesn't got for everyone.. I'd say 90% of people I've spoke to are genuine and nice but there's always one party pooper #boooooooio

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not offended by the individual words said.. just this isn't the platform for hatred etc.. and think more people should be open and less people should be rude.. also the person being racist I doubt they're real and are actually a woman and just some low life but whatever really it's all gucci

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think that profile should be reported to admin -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"think that profile should be reported to admin - "
I very much agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As you suggest reporting to admin ahaha I go back to emails to find the name and user no longer exists :/ well then.. was nice chatting! Till next time xxx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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The stood up for appointments is very wrong - report them.

The abuse is horrendous - again report the user.

You may need to have some patience, taking a look to see if there's some common element to your selection process.

There's no requirement to go to any site other than fab - ever! Report users who do this.

Consider some social events that could improve your experience of fab users.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The women you think you are arranging to meet could well be men! Be careful x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The women you think you are arranging to meet could well be men! Be careful x "
that's true, it seems people with verifications and what not just idek..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not really bothered about the false meets etc.. everyone has preferences and what not idm people not wanting to meet because I'm too young or not bi or no verifications etc but I agree it is wrong and someone who isn't as laid back as me might have their ego hurt or be deterred from the site which isn't ever fair because even tho I don't have great experience with fab with loads of meets etc.. there's people who do and whose to say you/I can't be one of them one day or just have a good time! Idk really but yh :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry, dude. You seem to be having it rough. Things aren't always as they seem on here, and on the internet in general. You have to remember that.

Don't go out of your way for a meet becaue it might not happen. I wouldn't even have clicked on that "security link" you mentioned was sent to you. Open your eyes and stay skeptical. You seem like a nice guy, but also a bit naive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am a bit naive haha, I'm new to this but shouldn't be an excuse always be careful right

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