FabSwingers.com forum: Do you shoot high?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I'm Misterbee.... Long time forum poster...lonely in Manchester. Call me?

I deleted my profile text recently as I needed to. And I choose not to show my face from day one. I think my text and my choice of pics are detrimental to getting anyone to message me.

What I'm saying is, i know I need to change things on my page if I want to 'stand the best shot' of finding a sexy local lass on here, or simply put - standing out from the rest of the thousands of men near me.

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm Misterbee.... Long time forum poster...lonely in Manchester. Call me?

I deleted my profile text recently as I needed to. And I choose not to show my face from day one. I think my text and my choice of pics are detrimental to getting anyone to message me.

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

I work on the assumption that boys are more pic motivated. The profile says enough for someone to know if they want to know more

Would rather talk face to face x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can only do our best it is what it is , Fab is a massive pond with various fish in it . We all have a preference / standard what we like & who we like i.e. To play with, it's a matter of patience civing through the " we don't like" then up pop a couple / single that all parties click , then let the fun begin

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We can only do our best it is what it is , Fab is a massive pond with various fish in it . We all have a preference / standard what we like & who we like i.e. To play with, it's a matter of patience civing through the " we don't like" then up pop a couple / single that all parties click , then let the fun begin "

I should have said I'm

'Patient and lonely in Manchester.'

Patience is discovered on Fab, and I think it's especially important if your a male. But that doesn't make you stand out does it?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

I work on the assumption that boys are more pic motivated. The profile says enough for someone to know if they want to know more

Would rather talk face to face x"

And your probably right with your assumption, to a point. nice ass.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

I work on the assumption that boys are more pic motivated. The profile says enough for someone to know if they want to know more

Would rather talk face to face x

And your probably right with your assumption, to a point. nice ass.

Have I got it to the right point tho? Too short?

Thank you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *r on the EdgeMan
over a year ago

accrington

Standing out on here is hard for single guys, I tweet my profile text most days, I'll usually work on the assumption that the person/s that I've messaged looked at my profile and didn't like it so I then try to rectify it, without really knowing that it was my profile that was the problem, I do know my pics need to be tweaked a lot

My current thought process is- if it's going to happen it will happen!

Good luck pal

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd be better off going to clubs if wanting action .People are much more picky on Fab than in a club because they have less time to analyse in a club . Just what we have observed when about

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Standing out on here is hard for single guys, I tweet my profile text most days, I'll usually work on the assumption that the person/s that I've messaged looked at my profile and didn't like it so I then try to rectify it, without really knowing that it was my profile that was the problem, I do know my pics need to be tweaked a lot

My current thought process is- if it's going to happen it will happen!

Good luck pal

Your left with lots of assumptions on here, I agree with that.

I'm also tweeting my profile, I've had nobody absolutely nobody message me this year unless I know them already. (Apart from guys).

Your right. It might happen, like a bus, hopefully I'll get two at once.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You'd be better off going to clubs if wanting action .People are much more picky on Fab than in a club because they have less time to analyse in a club . Just what we have observed when about "

I've tried clubs. I'm not a 'hi, fancy a fuck' kind of guy. I need to get to know them a little I suppose.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have

. My pictures are aimed at the type I hope to attract. The ones who are looking for more regular. A fwb scenario. I'm happy with my picture choices. I keep changing the text though as I get bored.

Your pics are lovely OP. Nothing wrong with them at all, in my opinion

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't aim high as its a long fall if it goes wrong so I keep it simple like me : p

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think I have

. My pictures are aimed at the type I hope to attract. The ones who are looking for more regular. A fwb scenario. I'm happy with my picture choices. I keep changing the text though as I get bored.

Your pics are lovely OP. Nothing wrong with them at all, in my opinion

How do you get bored of your own text?

Thank you for the compliment.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I have

. My pictures are aimed at the type I hope to attract. The ones who are looking for more regular. A fwb scenario. I'm happy with my picture choices. I keep changing the text though as I get bored.

Your pics are lovely OP. Nothing wrong with them at all, in my opinion

How do you get bored of your own text?

Thank you for the compliment.

Easily. I just like to change it up. I used to keep changing my username as I got bored with that too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't aim high as its a long fall if it goes wrong so I keep it simple like me : p"

I've always aimed high as long as I can remember. Its embarrassing when you aim low and miss.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never aim for the face

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think I have

. My pictures are aimed at the type I hope to attract. The ones who are looking for more regular. A fwb scenario. I'm happy with my picture choices. I keep changing the text though as I get bored.

Your pics are lovely OP. Nothing wrong with them at all, in my opinion

How do you get bored of your own text?

Thank you for the compliment.

Easily. I just like to change it up. I used to keep changing my username as I got bored with that too.

How often do you change it? Is it like a blog?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We completely revamped ours a couple of weeks back, changed age limits, mentioned about msgs having a facepic if you want a reply.....and it's not made any difference lol! In fact we noticed more views and faf msgs from very young lads than before! But we are getting more face pics with first msgs so that's a plus!

Your pics are

Bee and as for your profile text, well you're a witty, intelligent and a very attractive sexy man, I'm sure you'll come up with something to draw in the ladies!

Peach x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like my profile . I took time to thinking about what i was looking for , yes its a tad jolly woordy. You have to remember your profile is a shop window advert for yourself so as a chap , especially of my age i wanted to make it the best i could .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Lovely to see you back MB.

My profile text has been pretty much the same since I joined. I've only tweaked the odd word at some point. I'm happy with it. My pics are the style I like and the style hasn't changed too much either. I don't have revealing pics because I'm not comfortable with that.

I'm happy with my profile and it's there to give a sense of me, not to sell myself to folk. People either like or not, either way, I'm happy with it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lovely to see you back MB.

I'm happy with my profile and it's there to give a sense of me, not to sell myself to folk. People either like or not, either way, I'm happy with it

"
a jolly splendid eye catching profile it is too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like our profile to speak for who we are and what we (hopefully) are. Our preference is classy, rather than graphic photos and well-written, thoughtful descriptions that tell anyone who may be interested what type of people we are as individuals and as a couple. If we don't (all) 'sell' ourselves properly it's unlikely we'll be successful, or attract the kind of folks we'd like to - and let's face it, we probably all look to mirror those we'd like to meet based on what we're like ourselves. For us we're professional type people who hopefully come across as fun, interesting to know, sensual and at the same time somewhat dignified. There's someone out there for everyone as they say and think it's more likely we'll be successful if we are open, honest and reflect who we really are on our profile. Based on our friends we manage that nicely, so proves honesty works. Happy hunting folks!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lovely to see you back MB.

I'm happy with my profile and it's there to give a sense of me, not to sell myself to folk. People either like or not, either way, I'm happy with it

I like profiles that show personality instead of lists of do/dont's. And your right, if it's not broke, why fix it?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I've recently changed my text and had fewer public pics.

My text is totally the real me at this moment in time.

I now keep messages titled twat which is fun

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

As a female I don't really need to have anything on my profile

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't compete with people on here so I don't. I change my profile quite often because it gets different reactions. The reaction is predictable and makes me see the site in a different light.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a female I don't really need to have anything on my profile

Show off.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a female I don't really need to have anything on my profile

Not entirely sure if you're serious but it's true. If I have just one 'sexy' pic the mail goes right up, no matter what the text says. That's why I don't bother. Most just want a wet hole. No idea why that gives so many an ego trip. (I don't mean you.)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come to the conclusion (for me ) it really doesn't matter what I write in the profile text ~ I've had the 'war & peace' epic and now I'm on the scaled down 'i'm not bothered' style ~ the kind of person I'm attracted to will find something to message me about.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just looked at your profile and the way you're presenting it is along the lines of what would appeal to me, minus the 1st paragraph.

I like short, snappy & witty text with a mix of photos...which you have

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just looked at your profile and the way you're presenting it is along the lines of what would appeal to me, minus the 1st paragraph.

I like short, snappy & witty text with a mix of photos...which you have

My first paragraph is 90% of my profile.

I do understand what you said about The can't be bothered profile. I think that's what my profile ended up looking like. But I need to tighten my shoe laces and comb my hair, I am bothered.

I put a lot of text on my profile first, but it did nothing, you lose enthusiasm.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just looked at your profile and the way you're presenting it is along the lines of what would appeal to me, minus the 1st paragraph.

I like short, snappy & witty text with a mix of photos...which you have

My first paragraph is 90% of my profile.

I do understand what you said about The can't be bothered profile. I think that's what my profile ended up looking like. But I need to tighten my shoe laces and comb my hair, I am bothered.

I put a lot of text on my profile first, but it did nothing, you lose enthusiasm.

I put a lot of text on my 1st profile, carefully worded with what I was looking for, likes / dislikes and the majority of people who messaged me hadn't bothered to read it. The day I changed to pretty much sweet FA it didnt bother me anymore.

Different side of the spectrum but I guess what I'm trying to say is, the end result is the same ~ lack of enthusiasm caused by people not reading what we think is a good profile.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I'm assuming this is aimed more at males than females, even when I did want to meet the wording was limited, not a single pic

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've just looked at your profile and the way you're presenting it is along the lines of what would appeal to me, minus the 1st paragraph.

I like short, snappy & witty text with a mix of photos...which you have

My first paragraph is 90% of my profile.

I do understand what you said about The can't be bothered profile. I think that's what my profile ended up looking like. But I need to tighten my shoe laces and comb my hair, I am bothered.

I put a lot of text on my profile first, but it did nothing, you lose enthusiasm.

Different side of the spectrum but I guess what I'm trying to say is, the end result is the same ~ lack of enthusiasm caused by people not reading what we think is a good profile"

So by changing your profile, it changed your attitude to how you reacted to your messages? That's interesting.

Maybe the site needs to change the wink to an 'I like' button. That way you'd have a clue what's going on if someone is interested in getting to talk to you or not.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm assuming this is aimed more at males than females, even when I did want to meet the wording was limited, not a single pic

I expect males/females experience is the same. After all, someone pointed out, women don't need anything in their profile.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"As a female I don't really need to have anything on my profile

It was a mix of seriousness and jest.

You are right though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my pics are abit different & help me standout abit silly as they might be lol

as for profile txt, am sure can improve. Just need to take a course in English literature 1st

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that my pictures attract the attention I want. I try to show myself in a way which shows the bits I hate so that I know if someone messages me they've seen it and like it.

I think my text could be more specific as to what I like but at the same time I think that what I want depends on who Im talking to and the vibe I get from them. Im open to persuasion.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I am a great believer on having the best profile text and pics that reflect you as a person, however it doesn't guarantee to only entice the type of person you want to meet.

I like to think mine is reasonably good but I still haven't met anyone in months that I want to get naked with, but I suppose that is just life and I have to suck it up.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im happy enough with my profile content - people seem to like it - i could be flirty and wordy but like to leave that kind of stuff for messaging -

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I think I have in that I'm not likely to post a picture of myself I hate.

I'm not really actively looking for meets so it isn't something I think about.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No. I don't think, we're 'selling' ourselves as best as we could. We're in a, can't be arsed, stage at the moment.

It seems to be a chore rather than fun to arrange new meets, so we're not trying.

When actively looking, we keep our pictures fresh, have a few verifications on show and actually send messages out.

We've never done very well, by just sitting back waiting for others to message us. Being Pro active is what has worked for us in the past.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I should have said I'm

'Patient and lonely in Manchester.'

Patience is discovered on Fab, and I think it's especially important if your a male. But that doesn't make you stand out does it? "

Patience is a solid quality, and it's true you need to be patient for 'success' in here. However, being patient, or not 'pushy', can be thought of as 'not interested' by some, and the inevitable veri from more of a 'go getter' type guy appearing on that profile you're being patient with.......

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i did actually think this was a thread about how far you could shoot your load mr

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've tinkered with my profile text over the years, atm I'm happy with it. I upload pics regularly to get my profile on local updates. I don't think guys do searches I think they just scroll the updates and maybe use 'who's near'.

I'm not really looking for new guys at the moment. If I am I go on a winkathon and be a bit more pro active but unfortunately my local pool of talent seems to be rather small

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought from the title this was about if you still orgasmed whilst on drug's

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

My photos are pretty terrible and I've used the same Aliens joke twice in my profile text.

All in all I'd score myself a 0.5 out of 10

Oh, I'm also crap at messages.

Yay!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I should have said I'm

'Patient and lonely in Manchester.'

Patience is discovered on Fab, and I think it's especially important if your a male. But that doesn't make you stand out does it?

Yep. That's the dilemma.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i did actually think this was a thread about how far you could shoot your load mr "

I graduated from the school of misdirection with a fantastic grade.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"You'd be better off going to clubs if wanting action .People are much more picky on Fab than in a club because they have less time to analyse in a club . Just what we have observed when about "

Not necessarily true; if you're a single guy in a club, you won't be the only single guy, so you still have to 'rise above the rest'

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I should have said I'm

'Patient and lonely in Manchester.'

Patience is discovered on Fab, and I think it's especially important if your a male. But that doesn't make you stand out does it?

Yep. That's the dilemma. "

I've been there Buzz, and have blocked many profiles off my friends list because of it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I'm assuming this is aimed more at males than females, even when I did want to meet the wording was limited, not a single pic

I expect males/females experience is the same. After all, someone pointed out, women don't need anything in their profile. "

The same??? Really

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Not right now. I'm only interested in meeting a couple of people and I'm hoping they've forgiven the dull text.

Before? I was good at meeting those I wanted to so I was doing something right.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm assuming this is aimed more at males than females, even when I did want to meet the wording was limited, not a single pic

I expect males/females experience is the same. After all, someone pointed out, women don't need anything in their profile.

The same??? Really

Yes. If male or female change a profile, it's like a butterfly flapping its wings.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Not right now. I'm only interested in meeting a couple of people and I'm hoping they've forgiven the dull text.

Before? I was good at meeting those I wanted to so I was doing something right. "

So you know who you want to meet? Do you have an idea you want to meet just by profile and pics, then message to confirm?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not right now. I'm only interested in meeting a couple of people and I'm hoping they've forgiven the dull text.

Before? I was good at meeting those I wanted to so I was doing something right.

So you know who you want to meet? Do you have an idea you want to meet just by profile and pics, then message to confirm?"

hello - where you been and what you been up to ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

Hmmmm... more thought provoking stuff OP... *assumes The Thinker pose*...

I'd say that I believe I have always represented myself okay, and my profile and pics say and show all that I wish them to. I can't say if either could do better at attaining what I want any other way though, unless I start a "what can I do better..." feedback thread. And I don't fancy the forthright honesty from the luvverly fab folk today thanks

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I've tinkered with my profile text over the years, atm I'm happy with it. I upload pics regularly to get my profile on local updates. I don't think guys do searches I think they just scroll the updates and maybe use 'who's near'.

I'm not really looking for new guys at the moment. If I am I go on a winkathon and be a bit more pro active but unfortunately my local pool of talent seems to be rather small

I just use the monthly 'New members locally' email, or watch the local updates when I'm online rather than doing searches now. I used to be more proactive (and successful) before I turned 46, tweaking my profile, sending messages, etc. These days I'm out of the bulk of age ranges in here, and the majority of people rate you by your age first, regardless of anything else you have to offer. Convenience is the next factor

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is a lot more effective than I anticipated...

I rarely send the first message as I am a little shy

however I have been pleasantly surprised to get messages or winks from ladies and couples when I least expect it.

I always check a profile before replying and always point out any aspect of their criteria I do not meet. You would think I was trying to talk my way out of it!

Feedback on my profile is always appreciated, however I am content with the amount of attention I get. I also think my profile is an accurate reflection of me...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

Hmmmm... more thought provoking stuff OP... *assumes The Thinker pose*...

I thought about the 'rate my profile' thread. Actually this is one....but I don't think anyone had noticed.

(i think they have, just no-one has said it yet!).

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Hi, I'm Misterbee.... Long time forum poster...lonely in Manchester. Call me?

I deleted my profile text recently as I needed to. And I choose not to show my face from day one. I think my text and my choice of pics are detrimental to getting anyone to message me.

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

Ive seen your posts a lot. I said something similar to shagtonight. Completely shocked youve not managed to get at least a social.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

Hmmmm... more thought provoking stuff OP... *assumes The Thinker pose*...

I thought about the 'rate my profile' thread. Actually this is one....but I don't think anyone had noticed.

(i think they have, just no-one has said it yet!). "

Stealthily worked around there

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I'm assuming this is aimed more at males than females, even when I did want to meet the wording was limited, not a single pic

I expect males/females experience is the same. After all, someone pointed out, women don't need anything in their profile.

The same??? Really

Yes. If male or female change a profile, it's like a butterfly flapping its wings.

Makes no difference in my opinion unless I decided to upload my pics. I think the only thing that attracts more attention is uploading new pics. I've changed my text to stop messages and they're still messaging

. So text is clearly hardly ever read when a man is looking for a hole.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Ive now read your profile. Ignore me haha.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm Misterbee.... Long time forum poster...lonely in Manchester. Call me?

I deleted my profile text recently as I needed to. And I choose not to show my face from day one. I think my text and my choice of pics are detrimental to getting anyone to message me.

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

Ive seen your posts a lot. I said something similar to shagtonight. Completely shocked youve not managed to get at least a social."

mister bee is quite verified -

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP...

A suggestion if I may...

Your in Manchester ...its Gods own party city... and Pride weekend too... that brings out all the girls..go explore enjoy live in the real world and don't stress what happens in here or the content of your profile.

You will never win what you desire here based on a few words and pics...eventually profiles just morph into each other...it's the nature of online... and often get skimmed over...well apart from the pics...

People know you and like you on the forums...and if they respond well to you there then they will in the real world...

But patience...its for saints not for fab...

Everyone here will suggest something different for your profile but you can only write one. Trust your own judgement change it when you want to... but that profile it's just a way to open a door to what you seek...

Maybe more time seeking less time stressing the small stuff?...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm assuming this is aimed more at males than females, even when I did want to meet the wording was limited, not a single pic

I expect males/females experience is the same. After all, someone pointed out, women don't need anything in their profile.

The same??? Really

Yes. If male or female change a profile, it's like a butterfly flapping its wings.

. So text is clearly hardly ever read when a man is looking for a hole. "

Men change their text, I still get no messages. So that's proven the other way.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Hi, I'm Misterbee.... Long time forum poster...lonely in Manchester. Call me?

I deleted my profile text recently as I needed to. And I choose not to show my face from day one. I think my text and my choice of pics are detrimental to getting anyone to message me.

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

Ive seen your posts a lot. I said something similar to shagtonight. Completely shocked youve not managed to get at least a social.

mister bee is quite verified -

No kidding he'll have a social with anyone just to feed his coffee addiction

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Not right now. I'm only interested in meeting a couple of people and I'm hoping they've forgiven the dull text.

Before? I was good at meeting those I wanted to so I was doing something right.

So you know who you want to meet? Do you have an idea you want to meet just by profile and pics, then message to confirm?"

Yes, I've been speaking to them already. As for the latter? Not just by profile and pics. I'm interested by those things but I've met people who have limited text (like three words) and (no or a couple of) pics before.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I'm assuming this is aimed more at males than females, even when I did want to meet the wording was limited, not a single pic

I expect males/females experience is the same. After all, someone pointed out, women don't need anything in their profile.

The same??? Really

Yes. If male or female change a profile, it's like a butterfly flapping its wings.

. So text is clearly hardly ever read when a man is looking for a hole.

Men change their text, I still get no messages. So that's proven the other way.

I only message men from the forum and it's to discuss a comment on a thread not to procure a meet and I strongly suspect I'm not alone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm Misterbee.... Long time forum poster...lonely in Manchester. Call me?

I deleted my profile text recently as I needed to. And I choose not to show my face from day one. I think my text and my choice of pics are detrimental to getting anyone to message me.

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

Ive seen your posts a lot. I said something similar to shagtonight. Completely shocked youve not managed to get at least a social.

mister bee is quite verified -

No kidding he'll have a social with anyone just to feed his coffee addiction

"
. That's right, I'm a slut for coffee and a pretty face.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it."

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I'm assuming this is aimed more at males than females, even when I did want to meet the wording was limited, not a single pic

I expect males/females experience is the same. After all, someone pointed out, women don't need anything in their profile.

The same??? Really

Yes. If male or female change a profile, it's like a butterfly flapping its wings.

. So text is clearly hardly ever read when a man is looking for a hole. "

The 'absurdities of Fab' - a woman with a faceless, picture less profile, and text stating nothing more than 'I'm not meeting', gets way more mail than a guy with public pics, and a well-written text amounting to 'I'm actively looking for action'.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

Hmmmm... more thought provoking stuff OP... *assumes The Thinker pose*...

Damn.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"Not right now. I'm only interested in meeting a couple of people and I'm hoping they've forgiven the dull text.

Before? I was good at meeting those I wanted to so I was doing something right.

So you know who you want to meet? Do you have an idea you want to meet just by profile and pics, then message to confirm?

Are you talking about me again?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's only so high you can aim on fab.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it."

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"There's only so high you can aim on fab. "

Please tell me this is a tongue in cheek comment.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone the comedy route with my profile as I find it gets much more interest than the standard text. It makes a good ice breaker.

As for "shooting high", I'm not sure exactly what that means, but I don't settle for less than I think I'm worth. To be clear, I'm not a male prostitute!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"There's only so high you can aim on fab.

Please tell me this is a tongue in cheek comment."

Depends on your height I guess

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Not right now. I'm only interested in meeting a couple of people and I'm hoping they've forgiven the dull text.

Before? I was good at meeting those I wanted to so I was doing something right.

So you know who you want to meet? Do you have an idea you want to meet just by profile and pics, then message to confirm?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's only so high you can aim on fab. "

I like to aim waste height.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I'm assuming this is aimed more at males than females, even when I did want to meet the wording was limited, not a single pic

I expect males/females experience is the same. After all, someone pointed out, women don't need anything in their profile.

The same??? Really

Yes. If male or female change a profile, it's like a butterfly flapping its wings.

. So text is clearly hardly ever read when a man is looking for a hole.

It's down to numbers if I was male I wouldn't get messages at all. Since being in the forum I've only ever responded to messages from the forum, the rest got a polite no. Prior to being on the forum I would respond to the very occasional message. I've only met one guy who wasn't a forumite socially or otherwise

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As for "shooting high", I'm not sure exactly what that means, but I don't settle for less than I think I'm worth. To be clear, I'm not a male prostitute!"

Shooting high was a phrase to ask, do you give it your all? Or do you just stick a Pic on and hope for the best type thing.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I decided to spend less time trying to arrange meets, as I got fed up with being stood up and/or messed around. So I hid my profile and filtered all messages. It's worked a treat.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it."

It's the only way I'd meet someone now because I like to see who they are and how they interact with others. Knobs and bat shit crazy are easy to spot on the forum

. Incidentally you aren't either

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

It's the only way I'd meet someone now because I like to see who they are and how they interact with others. Knobs and bat shit crazy are easy to spot on the forum

. Incidentally you aren't either

Thankyou kindly lovely, might change your mind if you meet me though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester

To be truthfully honest MB, our profile is really just a tiny window of us, we don't sell ourselves as such using our profile, our reason for this is that we don't really use fab in that way, we only club meet, and with that we only ever attend with a kind of see who we meet and what happens( or doesn't happen) attitude, it works for us, never any pressure, always a social first, don't have to worry about hours of messaging and if they are who they say they are, kind of thing

It's nice not to worry about permantly updating pics and text, if we do it's because we felt like it and not because we needed too, if that makes sense

Mrs blue eyes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I'm Misterbee.... Long time forum poster...lonely in Manchester. Call me?

I deleted my profile text recently as I needed to. And I choose not to show my face from day one. I think my text and my choice of pics are detrimental to getting anyone to message me.

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

It used to feel like almost a full time job being on here. Now having a regular fwb takes the pressure off finding new playmate's so I can take a much more leisurely approach and consequently fab is much more enjoyable for it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for "shooting high", I'm not sure exactly what that means, but I don't settle for less than I think I'm worth. To be clear, I'm not a male prostitute!

Shooting high was a phrase to ask, do you give it your all? Or do you just stick a Pic on and hope for the best type thing. "

Ah I see. Well this time around I'm admittedly not making as much effort with sending messages out, more just focusing on having a laugh in the forums and chatting to a couple of old Fab friends. I don't put many pics up in general, and when I do they only get fabbed by guys, so my expectations are never high!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Hi, I'm Misterbee.... Long time forum poster...lonely in Manchester. Call me?

I deleted my profile text recently as I needed to. And I choose not to show my face from day one. I think my text and my choice of pics are detrimental to getting anyone to message me.

But, For you personally, do you think you've presented yourself to Fab the best way you can? Or do you think you could do better and get more enjoyment from being on here.

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

Aha you are having a Fab female experience, good for you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's about 10% profile, 5% message, 5% forum activity and 30% timing, and 50% being known.

So to get the best be active, get to socials, get known, and make sure your messages hit the inbox at the very instant the object of your lust thinks, "I fancy a fuck"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I think it's about 10% profile, 5% message, 5% forum activity and 30% timing, and 50% being known.

So to get the best be active, get to socials, get known, and make sure your messages hit the inbox at the very instant the object of your lust thinks, "I fancy a fuck"

I think this may be true in 'Fab Forum Land', but outside, in 'Ordinary Fab Land', I would argue 10% profile, 20% age, 70% convenience

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite."

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here."

I arse about here. I think that's what's stoping me meeting. Everyone in here are miles away, I'd like sex more regular than bi-annual . So your right, everyone is different. That was my question. What do we all do differently.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here."

The majority of my meets have been via the forums

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

The majority of my meets have been via the forums

My, but aren't we a close little community

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

The majority of my meets have been via the forums

My, but aren't we a close little community

A little too close at times

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

The majority of my meets have been via the forums

My, but aren't we a close little community

A little too close at times

For some reason I have that Duelling Banjos music from Deliverance playing in my head...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

The majority of my meets have been via the forums

My, but aren't we a close little community

A little too close at times

Careful, someone will be along soon to call you all a clique.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

not everyone is miles away - and i think if you really put effort in and less arsing about you would get meets - nag nag nag old mother hen so i am

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

The majority of my meets have been via the forums

My, but aren't we a close little community

A little too close at times

Careful, someone will be along soon to call you all a clique.

Hmmmmmm.... Hang on! Haven't I seen you post regularly and converse with other forum folk in a familiar manner?.... that smacks of clique-like behaviour to me!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

It's my messages that let me down, in that I never reply to people

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

The majority of my meets have been via the forums

My, but aren't we a close little community

A little too close at times

Careful, someone will be along soon to call you all a clique.

Hmmmmmm.... Hang on! Haven't I seen you post regularly and converse with other forum folk in a familiar manner?.... that smacks of clique-like behaviour to me!

Wasn't me!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

The majority of my meets have been via the forums

My, but aren't we a close little community

A little too close at times

Careful, someone will be along soon to call you all a clique.

Hmmmmmm.... Hang on! Haven't I seen you post regularly and converse with other forum folk in a familiar manner?.... that smacks of clique-like behaviour to me!

Wasn't me!

I can hear the pitch forks being gathered and distant cries of "Burn the clique" already!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

The majority of my meets have been via the forums

My, but aren't we a close little community

A little too close at times

Careful, someone will be along soon to call you all a clique.

Hmmmmmm.... Hang on! Haven't I seen you post regularly and converse with other forum folk in a familiar manner?.... that smacks of clique-like behaviour to me!

Wasn't me!

I can hear the pitch forks being gathered and distant cries of "Burn the clique" already!

No please no.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here."

You're in the middle of the country though, in a better populated area, hence more convenient for potential meets

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"It's my messages that let me down, in that I never reply to people

There's a lot of that goes on in here, so don't feel alone lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

not everyone is miles away - and i think if you really put effort in and less arsing about you would get meets - nag nag nag old mother hen so i am "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

You're in the middle of the country though, in a better populated area, hence more convenient for potential meets

I've only met 4 local women. 1 is my FWB, 2 socials one of which I'm meeting again in a few weeks, the other came to nothing. Another I met for sex once, so far.

Others I want to meet and am planning to are upto 150 miles away. If you want it you'll make it happen.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

You're in the middle of the country though, in a better populated area, hence more convenient for potential meets

I've only met 4 local women. 1 is my FWB, 2 socials one of which I'm meeting again in a few weeks, the other came to nothing. Another I met for sex once, so far.

Others I want to meet and am planning to are upto 150 miles away. If you want it you'll make it happen."

Exactly, "if you want it, you'll make it happen"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There's slim chance that any of us have promoted ourselves at close to 100% effectiveness. I'm way down, as I'm generally too busy for meets and out of the country for months.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

not everyone is miles away - and i think if you really put effort in and less arsing about you would get meets - nag nag nag old mother hen so i am

he wont take any notice

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

not everyone is miles away - and i think if you really put effort in and less arsing about you would get meets - nag nag nag old mother hen so i am

he wont take any notice

He's a man

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I think my pics are good, my text could probably be better.

However, all of my meets and potential meets have come through forum interaction. Seems to be working for me, if it ain't broke don't fix it.

Fair play to you mate

My experiences in here are quite the opposite.

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

You're in the middle of the country though, in a better populated area, hence more convenient for potential meets

I've only met 4 local women. 1 is my FWB, 2 socials one of which I'm meeting again in a few weeks, the other came to nothing. Another I met for sex once, so far.

Others I want to meet and am planning to are upto 150 miles away. If you want it you'll make it happen."

I've only met 1 local woman, the rest of my meets have been at least 20 miles from me, and I've even had halfway meets with people from Liverpool and Manchester. The furthest I have travelled is to Southport, 80 miles from me, and I am currently working out how to meet a woman from Worcester. This last person will be the only one I have met as a direct result of forum interaction, in the 5 years I've been a member of Fab. I have no problem with travelling

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

not everyone is miles away - and i think if you really put effort in and less arsing about you would get meets - nag nag nag old mother hen so i am

he wont take any notice

He's a man

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

not everyone is miles away - and i think if you really put effort in and less arsing about you would get meets - nag nag nag old mother hen so i am

he wont take any notice

He's a man

now waiting for the ''oi oi oi i am here yanno '

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

not everyone is miles away - and i think if you really put effort in and less arsing about you would get meets - nag nag nag old mother hen so i am "

Your mother henning is spot on though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

not everyone is miles away - and i think if you really put effort in and less arsing about you would get meets - nag nag nag old mother hen so i am

he wont take any notice

He's a man

now waiting for the ''oi oi oi i am here yanno '

He's not so I'm safe and one of my hugs and I'll be forgiven, oh it might cost me a coffee too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *DontExistWoman
over a year ago

•+• Silicon valley. •+•

i think i've written a good profile that explains me without me making myself vulnerable.

my pics could be better if i felt sexy, which i don't on here. i started off trying to put good pics up but now my pics are troll ones, i got slenderman in my latest pic.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

Do my pictures let me down, am unsure as I haven't asked.

Does my profile let me down, I don't believe so.

My messages, well I don't really send so it might be that.

Good luck with the profile change OP

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Is it your pics that let you down? Your messages?

What have you tried to change and has it worked?

Do my pictures let me down, am unsure as I haven't asked.

Does my profile let me down, I don't believe so.

My messages, well I don't really send so it might be that.

Good luck with the profile change OP "

There's nothing wrong with your messaging we've chatted when I was wanting a chat late one night. I'm probably the wrong person to ask about pics but they wouldn't put me off. Your profile text must be ok otherwise I wouldn't have messaged to chat

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Light hearted lament:

There's no where to aim for me now. I've looked at the profiles of all the regular lady FAB users within a 20 mile radius of my location and there isn't a single woman who likes the outdoor life (not a euphemism for dogging). I love paddle boarding and swimming off the coast of Eastbourne, apparently no-one else does.

sobs: Woe is me!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

not everyone is miles away - and i think if you really put effort in and less arsing about you would get meets - nag nag nag old mother hen so i am

Don't encourage her.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

not everyone is miles away - and i think if you really put effort in and less arsing about you would get meets - nag nag nag old mother hen so i am

Don't encourage her. "

I would never do such a thing I'm an

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

my pics could be better if i felt sexy, which i don't on here. i started off trying to put good pics up but now my pics are troll ones, i got slenderman in my latest pic.

Maybe our moods reflect how we present ourselves then.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

not everyone is miles away - and i think if you really put effort in and less arsing about you would get meets - nag nag nag old mother hen so i am

he wont take any notice

He's a man

now waiting for the ''oi oi oi i am here yanno '

Oí oí oí...where's your white jeans?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

not everyone is miles away - and i think if you really put effort in and less arsing about you would get meets - nag nag nag old mother hen so i am

he wont take any notice

He's a man

now waiting for the ''oi oi oi i am here yanno '

Oí oí oí...where's your white jeans?

theyre there - got 3 denim pics - but i will swap it for you - diva x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone is different in how they approach it, what work's for one won't work for another.

I spend a lot of time arsing about in the forums, I personally think it's the best way to get meets on here.

not everyone is miles away - and i think if you really put effort in and less arsing about you would get meets - nag nag nag old mother hen so i am

he wont take any notice

He's a man

now waiting for the ''oi oi oi i am here yanno '

Oí oí oí...where's your white jeans?

theyre there - got 3 denim pics - but i will swap it for you - diva x"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined I was as full of enthusiasm as I was spunk, I was a predator on here.

These days I think I'm just lazy, a girl has to pretty much fall on my cock or I can't be arsed.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"When I first joined I was as full of enthusiasm as I was spunk, I was a predator on here.

These days I think I'm just lazy, a girl has to pretty much fall on my cock or I can't be arsed."

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know about shooting high...

Sometimes I just look around and think every one is out of my league...

But like them being champions league and me Burnley working men's clubs Monday afternoon league...third division...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined I was as full of enthusiasm as I was spunk, I was a predator on here.

These days I think I'm just lazy, a girl has to pretty much fall on my cock or I can't be arsed.

And who's fault is that?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"When I first joined I was as full of enthusiasm as I was spunk, I was a predator on here.

These days I think I'm just lazy, a girl has to pretty much fall on my cock or I can't be arsed.

And who's fault is that?"

Oh it must have been fun perfecting that manoeuvre

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined I was as full of enthusiasm as I was spunk, I was a predator on here.

These days I think I'm just lazy, a girl has to pretty much fall on my cock or I can't be arsed.

And who's fault is that?

Oh it must have been fun perfecting that manoeuvre

Took a lot of practice

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only chat to people with admin verified face photos for security. I think my profile sums me up pretty well

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"When I first joined I was as full of enthusiasm as I was spunk, I was a predator on here.

These days I think I'm just lazy, a girl has to pretty much fall on my cock or I can't be arsed.

And who's fault is that?

Oh it must have been fun perfecting that manoeuvre

Took a lot of practice"

Practicing is the best but

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"When I first joined I was as full of enthusiasm as I was spunk, I was a predator on here.

These days I think I'm just lazy, a girl has to pretty much fall on my cock or I can't be arsed.

And who's fault is that?

Oh it must have been fun perfecting that manoeuvre

Took a lot of practice

Practicing is the best bit

FTFM

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"When I first joined I was as full of enthusiasm as I was spunk, I was a predator on here.

These days I think I'm just lazy, a girl has to pretty much fall on my cock or I can't be arsed.

And who's fault is that?

Oh it must have been fun perfecting that manoeuvre

Took a lot of practice"

A running jump seemed to do the trick

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"When I first joined I was as full of enthusiasm as I was spunk, I was a predator on here.

These days I think I'm just lazy, a girl has to pretty much fall on my cock or I can't be arsed.

And who's fault is that?

Oh it must have been fun perfecting that manoeuvre

Took a lot of practice

A running jump seemed to do the trick

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined I was as full of enthusiasm as I was spunk, I was a predator on here.

These days I think I'm just lazy, a girl has to pretty much fall on my cock or I can't be arsed.

And who's fault is that?

Oh it must have been fun perfecting that manoeuvre

Took a lot of practice

A running jump seemed to do the trick

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"When I first joined I was as full of enthusiasm as I was spunk, I was a predator on here.

These days I think I'm just lazy, a girl has to pretty much fall on my cock or I can't be arsed.

And who's fault is that?

Oh it must have been fun perfecting that manoeuvre

Took a lot of practice

A running jump seemed to do the trick

Sorry, I missed out the triple somersault with pike prior to landing

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first joined I was as full of enthusiasm as I was spunk, I was a predator on here.

These days I think I'm just lazy, a girl has to pretty much fall on my cock or I can't be arsed.

And who's fault is that?

Oh it must have been fun perfecting that manoeuvre

Took a lot of practice

A running jump seemed to do the trick

Sorry, I missed out the triple somersault with pike prior to landing

I'm just waiting for it to be recognised as an Olympic sport

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we present ourselves okay in our profile text and well in our photos, although we do need more photos of Mark I believe.

It's difficult to describe yourself in your profile text so pointers are always welcome

Amber x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"When I first joined I was as full of enthusiasm as I was spunk, I was a predator on here.

These days I think I'm just lazy, a girl has to pretty much fall on my cock or I can't be arsed.

And who's fault is that?

Oh it must have been fun perfecting that manoeuvre

Took a lot of practice

A running jump seemed to do the trick

Sorry, I missed out the triple somersault with pike prior to landing

I'm just waiting for it to be recognised as an Olympic sport"

Oh oh we need a Fab Olympics

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread