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Do any of you luvverly fab folk find yourself putting off 'til tomorrow? (And then again the next day?) Or are you consistently getting shit done and dusted so that you have a clear run ahead of you? | |||
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"I'm useless and getting things done. I have immensely good intentions but lack the motivation to do it due to the constant thoughts that go through my head that I'll fail at it anyway or it won't be as good/satisfying as I want it to be. " Like a mental paralysis. Horrible innit? Bloody third and fourth thoughts can be such a hindrance  | |||
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"I,m very prone to procrastination XXX" Do you try to overcome it? Or do you work around it? | |||
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(You're a long time dead to have regrets on what you might have done) | |||
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"I'm useless and getting things done. I have immensely good intentions but lack the motivation to do it due to the constant thoughts that go through my head that I'll fail at it anyway or it won't be as good/satisfying as I want it to be. Like a mental paralysis. Horrible innit? Bloody third and fourth thoughts can be such a hindrance "I get to the point I'm gonna do it, build myself up and then deflate a lot of the time. As confident and cocky as I am I'm a self critical twat. Nobody could judge me more than I do. | |||
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"Nope, no procrastination here. Jump in, commit, make mistakes now and again but have a giggle getting there
(You're a long time dead to have regrets on what you might have done)"Is that the same for work or serious stuff? Fun and recreational activities are not a problem for me for going head on and getting sorted straight away (funny that innit?)   | |||
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"I'm useless and getting things done. I have immensely good intentions but lack the motivation to do it due to the constant thoughts that go through my head that I'll fail at it anyway or it won't be as good/satisfying as I want it to be. Like a mental paralysis. Horrible innit? Bloody third and fourth thoughts can be such a hindrance
I get to the point I'm gonna do it, build myself up and then deflate a lot of the time. As confident and cocky as I am I'm a self critical twat. Nobody could judge me more than I do."Yep, excessive introspection is a beeyatch  | |||
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"Nope, no procrastination here. Jump in, commit, make mistakes now and again but have a giggle getting there
(You're a long time dead to have regrets on what you might have done)
Is that the same for work or serious stuff?
Fun and recreational activities are not a problem for me for going head on and getting sorted straight away (funny that innit?) "Pretty decisive at work and serious stuff too tbh. Don't often come unstuck, not got a bad educated gut instinct for things however it does make me particularly bad at office wrangling and politics. What you see is what you get with little in the way of veneer. | |||
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" Pretty decisive at work and serious stuff too tbh. Don't often come unstuck, not got a bad educated gut instinct for things however it does make me particularly bad at office wrangling and politics. What you see is what you get with little in the way of veneer." Eurgh!... I cannot imagine anything worse than office politics... But otherwise, it sounds like you are altogher pretty sorted on getting what needs to be done, done!  | |||
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"Whenever the wife is out for a long period of time I'll fire up the laptop and go to one of my favourite sites and spend about 10-15 minutes mas.... Oh wait you said procrastinate. Sorry. My bad. " Doing something else instead of what you are supposed to be doing... Nope! I reckon that's included in there too | |||
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"how can it ruin your life? it provides the bedrock to mine, id be lost without it! i find the older i've got, the better i am at it..i see it as one of my personal strengths!" Y'see, I also find that I can be incredibly creative in finding something to busy myself with (other than the urgent task that requires my undivided attention) | |||
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"Nope, no procrastination here. Jump in, commit, make mistakes now and again but have a giggle getting there
(You're a long time dead to have regrets on what you might have done)"Amen to this. Life is too short | |||
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"[Reply procrastinated by poster at 25/08/17 15:06:58]" | |||
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"I've found that if you avoid some things for long enough they find a way of sorting themselves out and you no longer need to do them "Ah, blessed oblivion! | |||
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"Nope, no procrastination here. Jump in, commit, make mistakes now and again but have a giggle getting there
(You're a long time dead to have regrets on what you might have done)
Amen to this. I'm too short " | |||
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"Flirty. Have you made a thread about procrastination just so you can avoid doing some work? "Yay! I was waiting for someone to make that link | |||
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"Nope, no procrastination here. Jump in, commit, make mistakes now and again but have a giggle getting there
(You're a long time dead to have regrets on what you might have done)
Amen to this. I'm too short
"This may be true but I'm perfect to lifting up and pinning against walls and such. Every cloud darling  | |||
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"Flirty. Have you made a thread about procrastination just so you can avoid doing some work?
Yay! I was waiting for someone to make that link "It's like I know you
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"Nope, no procrastination here. Jump in, commit, make mistakes now and again but have a giggle getting there
(You're a long time dead to have regrets on what you might have done)
Amen to this. I'm too short
This may be true but I'm perfect to lifting up and pinning against walls and such. Every cloud darling "Touché | |||
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"...is apparently ruining my life! (Some learned person on a google search about the subject said it so it must be true!) And I thought I was just really good at making myself do any stuff other than what I should've been doing
Do any of you luvverly fab folk find yourself putting off 'til tomorrow? (And then again the next day?) Or are you consistently getting shit done and dusted so that you have a clear run ahead of you? "I'll answer this another day. I have many other things that need doing sometime. | |||
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"I'll comment on this tomorrow.
[Reply procrastinated by poster at 25/08/17 15:06:58] "Haha. | |||
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"Nope, no procrastination here. Jump in, commit, make mistakes now and again but have a giggle getting there
(You're a long time dead to have regrets on what you might have done)
Amen to this. I'm too short
This may be true but I'm perfect for lifting up and pinning against walls and such. Every cloud darling
Touché "It would have been perfect if not for my error. Stop replying and do some work | |||
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"At work I'm fine but at home it's a whole other scenario. I will find anything and everything to distract myself from what needs to be done. It's a pain ... or I'm a pain ? "We are our own worst enemies | |||
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"Queen of procrastinators but... I work extremely well under pressure! " Strangely, this actually is also the case with me... the minute it becomes shit or bust I can attack it and focus. I think I'm just bloody awkward really  | |||
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"I've found that if you avoid some things for long enough they find a way of sorting themselves out and you no longer need to do them "Quentin Crisp said that after five years the dust just stops building up. It's not long to wait and think of the hoover bags you'd save. | |||
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"Let me have a think about this one please?" No, no, no!... That's not proper procrastinating! You have to be avoiding thinking of it too. Anything other than the intended task | |||
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"I had a bunch of work to do today. But then I read an article about a cuneiform tablet that has recently been deciphered and it got me inordinately interested. I've spent the day researching Babylonian numerics and trigonometry. Fucking fascinating, really. At least I'm learning while I procrastinate." Absolutely top class procrastination of the highest order! | |||
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"I used to be very productive and if things needed doing then I'd get it done. But this year I've not been able to find the motivation for lots of things. I've become very good at procrastinating and keep putting things off. I just need a kick up the backside to get moving again x " Come along! Chop chop! Get to it!! Is it working yet? | |||
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"Queen of procrastinators but... I work extremely well under pressure! Strangely, this actually is also the case with me... the minute it becomes shit or bust I can attack it and focus. I think I'm just bloody awkward really "that's just the way some people work best - I was always the one that did their homework at the 11th hour as well | |||
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"Queen of procrastinators but... I work extremely well under pressure! Strangely, this actually is also the case with me... the minute it becomes shit or bust I can attack it and focus. I think I'm just bloody awkward really that's just the way some people work best - I was always the one that did their homework at the 11th hour as well"I never revised for exams. Actually...I think I did homework on the school bus a few times | |||
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"Queen of procrastinators but... I work extremely well under pressure! Strangely, this actually is also the case with me... the minute it becomes shit or bust I can attack it and focus. I think I'm just bloody awkward really that's just the way some people work best - I was always the one that did their homework at the 11th hour as well"Oooer... yep. Me too... so I am historically guilty of perpetrating this heinous putting off of things! | |||
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"Queen of procrastinators but... I work extremely well under pressure! Strangely, this actually is also the case with me... the minute it becomes shit or bust I can attack it and focus. I think I'm just bloody awkward really that's just the way some people work best - I was always the one that did their homework at the 11th hour as well
Oooer... yep. Me too... so I am historically guilty of perpetrating this heinous putting off of things! "I am the same. I think that's why I chose a stressful job- I need the pressure. I am incredibly lazy in private life ... the only thing that helps me at home is lists that I do at work when still in the swing of things of things that I have to do at home... but even that doesn't always work... | |||
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" Oooer... yep. Me too... so I am historically guilty of perpetrating this heinous putting off of things!
I am the same. I think that's why I chose a stressful job- I need the pressure. I am incredibly lazy in private life ... the only thing that helps me at home is lists that I do at work when still in the swing of things of things that I have to do at home... but even that doesn't always work..."Well my job is not lacking in the stress department. And I am not lazy at home. It's just that I go out of my way to NOT do the thing that requires my attention. Even if the new activity is more strenuous or taxing!... | |||
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"I put things off till the very last possible second it can be done. And then I can become super productive. I obviously work better under tight deadlines" Some folk do perform better this way. Pressure does not adversely affect me in those circumstances either. It's just a shame that I cannot seem to pressure myself to get it all done sooner  | |||
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"I find if I turn my phone off and stay off of fab I get loads done. "It's a relief when my battery dies sometimes | |||
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"I put things off till the very last possible second it can be done. And then I can become super productive. I obviously work better under tight deadlines Some folk do perform better this way. Pressure does not adversely affect me in those circumstances either. It's just a shame that I cannot seem to pressure myself to get it all done sooner "We need a false deadline, but that we don't know about | |||
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"I find if I turn my phone off and stay off of fab I get loads done.
It's a relief when my battery dies sometimes "Thing is, I often get really cross when I don't get things done. | |||
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"I find if I turn my phone off and stay off of fab I get loads done.
It's a relief when my battery dies sometimes "I'm at 18% 
I wonder if I can get it to last until 6pm! Oooh... phone battery roulette is on! | |||
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"I put things off till the very last possible second it can be done. And then I can become super productive. I obviously work better under tight deadlines Some folk do perform better this way. Pressure does not adversely affect me in those circumstances either. It's just a shame that I cannot seem to pressure myself to get it all done sooner
We need a false deadline, but that we don't know about "Ah, my customers always do that to me and bullshit about finish dates anyway | |||
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"I find if I turn my phone off and stay off of fab I get loads done.
It's a relief when my battery dies sometimes
I'm at 18%
I wonder if I can get it to last until 6pm! Oooh... phone battery roulette is on! "Don't be silly. These new phones have no staying power. A Nokia 3210 would have gone days on 18% Probably to do with the lack of apps, lack of anything actually. Unless you played snake relentlessly then your battery would need charging every couple of days | |||
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"I find if I turn my phone off and stay off of fab I get loads done.
It's a relief when my battery dies sometimes
I'm at 18%
I wonder if I can get it to last until 6pm! Oooh... phone battery roulette is on!
Don't be silly. These new phones have no staying power. A Nokia 3210 would have gone days on 18%
Probably to do with the lack of apps, lack of anything actually.
Unless you played snake relentlessly then your battery would need charging every couple of days "When it gets to 5% and all goes dark...bad times | |||
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"I find if I turn my phone off and stay off of fab I get loads done.
It's a relief when my battery dies sometimes
I'm at 18%
I wonder if I can get it to last until 6pm! Oooh... phone battery roulette is on!
Don't be silly. These new phones have no staying power. A Nokia 3210 would have gone days on 18%
Probably to do with the lack of apps, lack of anything actually.
Unless you played snake relentlessly then your battery would need charging every couple of days
When it gets to 5% and all goes dark...bad times "Battery level critically low. Shit | |||
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"I find if I turn my phone off and stay off of fab I get loads done.
It's a relief when my battery dies sometimes
I'm at 18%
I wonder if I can get it to last until 6pm! Oooh... phone battery roulette is on!
Don't be silly. These new phones have no staying power. A Nokia 3210 would have gone days on 18%
Probably to do with the lack of apps, lack of anything actually.
Unless you played snake relentlessly then your battery would need charging every couple of days
When it gets to 5% and all goes dark...bad times
Battery level critically low.
Shit "I just had that pop up!!! | |||
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"I find if I turn my phone off and stay off of fab I get loads done.
It's a relief when my battery dies sometimes
I'm at 18%
I wonder if I can get it to last until 6pm! Oooh... phone battery roulette is on!
Don't be silly. These new phones have no staying power. A Nokia 3210 would have gone days on 18%
Probably to do with the lack of apps, lack of anything actually.
Unless you played snake relentlessly then your battery would need charging every couple of days
When it gets to 5% and all goes dark...bad times
Battery level critically low.
Shit
I just had that pop up!!! "You went from 18 to 5 in 15 minutes? That's terrible | |||
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"I find if I turn my phone off and stay off of fab I get loads done.
It's a relief when my battery dies sometimes
I'm at 18%
I wonder if I can get it to last until 6pm! Oooh... phone battery roulette is on!
Don't be silly. These new phones have no staying power. A Nokia 3210 would have gone days on 18%
Probably to do with the lack of apps, lack of anything actually.
Unless you played snake relentlessly then your battery would need charging every couple of days
When it gets to 5% and all goes dark...bad times
Battery level critically low.
Shit
I just had that pop up!!! "And your battery level ? | |||
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"I find if I turn my phone off and stay off of fab I get loads done.
It's a relief when my battery dies sometimes
I'm at 18%
I wonder if I can get it to last until 6pm! Oooh... phone battery roulette is on!
Don't be silly. These new phones have no staying power. A Nokia 3210 would have gone days on 18%
Probably to do with the lack of apps, lack of anything actually.
Unless you played snake relentlessly then your battery would need charging every couple of days
When it gets to 5% and all goes dark...bad times
Battery level critically low.
Shit
I just had that pop up!!!
And your battery level ? "I was slow off the mark there | |||
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"I find if I turn my phone off and stay off of fab I get loads done.
It's a relief when my battery dies sometimes
I'm at 18%
I wonder if I can get it to last until 6pm! Oooh... phone battery roulette is on!
Don't be silly. These new phones have no staying power. A Nokia 3210 would have gone days on 18%
Probably to do with the lack of apps, lack of anything actually.
Unless you played snake relentlessly then your battery would need charging every couple of days
When it gets to 5% and all goes dark...bad times
Battery level critically low.
Shit
I just had that pop up!!!
And your battery level ?
I was slow off the mark there " | |||
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"I find if I turn my phone off and stay off of fab I get loads done.
It's a relief when my battery dies sometimes
I'm at 18%
I wonder if I can get it to last until 6pm! Oooh... phone battery roulette is on!
Don't be silly. These new phones have no staying power. A Nokia 3210 would have gone days on 18%
Probably to do with the lack of apps, lack of anything actually.
Unless you played snake relentlessly then your battery would need charging every couple of days
When it gets to 5% and all goes dark...bad times
Battery level critically low.
Shit
I just had that pop up!!!
And your battery level ?
I was slow off the mark there
"Hehe! Oh the chuckles | |||
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"Queen of procrastinators but... I work extremely well under pressure! Strangely, this actually is also the case with me... the minute it becomes shit or bust I can attack it and focus. I think I'm just bloody awkward really that's just the way some people work best - I was always the one that did their homework at the 11th hour as well
I never revised for exams. Actually...I think I did homework on the school bus a few times "me either but I have a kind of photographic memory for facts so that helped! Loved the subjects that were 100% exam!! | |||
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